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boynextdoorcoverpoison · 11 months ago

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I’m just so… I don’t want jaehyun to eventually alter the way he acts or presents himself due to backlash from fans (in and out of the bonedo fandom) regarding his “loudness” and energy. it doesn’t cause harm to him or his band members. he’s relatively good at reading the room and adjusting his seriousness (like sometimes I think people think they chose the bonedo leader willy nilly lmao) and he’s not oblivious or unaware of his bandmates and others. like anyone else, I’m sure there’s moments when he might need help refocusing or w/e, but I have yet to see anyone who is warranted to have an opinion (ie: knows him irl) react negatively to his personality? like he’s not the first idol to be talkative. he’s not the first idol that might run around a bit. he’s not the first idol to make a lot of jokes or flirt with half his bandmates. it’s not a new personality. it’s a little different than what we see in other leaders but again, it’s not “new”. loud people were not invented in 2003. and over time, maybe he’ll mellow out a bit. it happens. or maybe he’ll remain as he is, that’s cool too. and as a leader, I kind of hope for the latter bc the industry will work them and burn them out and I hope they’re able to maintain their youth and softness towards the world. that not everything is a battle or a fight, that the job while a job, can be one they continue to enjoy to do.

#to delete probably #from behind the door #like i don’t know to explain how i feel protective of jaehyun’s personality and those with similar ones #example is j@ckson w@ng (sorry i don’t want this in his tags) and how he outward personality has sort of #shifted in more recent years to be less known as the more loud and goofy kind of guy #to this cool guy or whatever #and that’s a bit… generalizing LOL but it’s an example #mark and bb discussed it i believe #contrasting.. you have mj #who is still the same mj imo #and like personally have whatever opinion you do yknow?#like it gets annoying? that’s fine it happens #hell I do not think I’d survive a day with jaehyun #love him to bits but that would be a lot #and guess what? I don’t have to lmao #i’m not in bonedo LOL #AND NETIRHR ARE YALL ON THE INTERNET #like just step away #take a break #turn off the volume #like… it’s one thing to be like he’s loud and it’s another thing to use it as something inherently negative #like ‘your personality is cringe’ like noooo don’t tell people that #idk how to explain it…. i guess it’s really on my own upbringing of #if you don’t got something nice to say don’t say it #y’all can comment on your group being quieter than other groups and how you love that #without dragging in some other name to say they’re annoying and the opposite #actually i take back what i said in a previous tag #you can probably address a person being loud or talkative or just… a different energy level #without calling them annoying i think #WHY DID THIS BLOG TURN INTO ME RANTING

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mistyycowoa · 4 months ago

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Confessing my sins to the internet because my irl friends don't know my tumblr

I'm actually a horrible friend and I don't plan to change :)

I'll be a good friend to anyone I actually like and I usually don't associate with people who I don't like, but sometimes there will be an occasional lonely (usually annoying) kid that follows me around. (They're lonely for a reason.) I kinda hate people who are loud literally all the time but I can hold my tongue and this kinda person just doesn't leave because they're not being told directly to leave.

What do I do? I talk to them only when I need them, I make unnecessarily mean comments as a joke, I point out their obvious flaws that I know they have a hard time changing, and all while they still follow me around like I'm not kinda bullying them.

Sometimes I'll treat them like an actual friend when I'm in a good mood, but if I'm not, then the unfortunate victim becomes my emotional punching bag. (I have ways to quickly fix my mood and this is completely unnecessary and I could distance myself until I feel better like how I do with actual friends.) I think this is like. Breadcrumbing? Anyways yeah, toxic shit.

If any of your "friends" treat you like this, they don't see you as a friend. If they leave you doubting if they like you or not, leave you doubting if you're actually friends, they probably don't see you as a friend. (because that's the case for me :3 )

I'm a horrible human being and I don't feel nearly as bad as I should about it :)

#i had a friend in primary school who was treated like this by me and my then best friend for the whole 6 years #she was very much bullied i think #we literally had a “class x girls group” and “class x girls group without (victim)” and we sometimes shit talked her in there #my best friend was a bit more obvious about not liking her #she would like be my shield anytime things got confrontational while i never stood up for myself #pretty sure she shared snacks with me a lot too and i just never returned the favour.#and now theres this boy that has nearly no friends who follow me around during breaks #just today i literally gave him the silent treatment because i was having an inner monologue and i didn't bother telling him #i even found it kinda funny that i walked around silently while he muttered to himself and questioned if he did anything wrong #like dude no you didn't do anything wrong but also i found it too funny to correct you #i have actual friends that i treat decently btw #like. without all this weird shit #i just take advantage of the loney and probably neurodivergent kids :)#moral of the story. please have more than 1 friend. especially irl. dont let them treat you like how i treat these poor “friends” of mine #ive literally never told the 2 people i mentioned here anything along the lines of “im grateful i have you”#feel free to stop being my friend because of a post like this :3 #i wouldnt say i *like* being a horrible friend but also im like. not doing anything about it and not bothering to change for the sake of #these people who are already kind of outcasted and probably need someone to rely on #“im not doing charity” proceeds to refuse basic respect to these people because theyre “annoying”#you could call this a vent post #im kind of telling myself that im a horrible person to begin with so i feel less bad about “breaking character” on top of being guilty #honestly i hope this kind of person finds someone who genuinely accepts them because they deserve better than this #and also because theyre a headache for me and im sick of them

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notonlymice · 4 months ago

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I can't believe I have to spell it out but if you really really want to repost something you saw on tumblr to some other platform please credit the original creator??? And no, "credit to the owner" does NOT count 🙄🙃

#asking to not repost at all or even not miscaption things would be probably too much lol but at least credit people???#I thought it was obvious but apparently not???#I'm blocking everyone I saw doing it with my stuff but they still find a way somehow???#I know I should probably sign everything but I can't be bothered + have too many unsigned things to start doing it out of nowhere +#+ don't think most of them are That Good lol #but I still spend my own time on things even if they are silly and simple and unoriginal??? they don't materialise out of thin air???#like I don't want to sound like an arrogant bitch; fandom is just a hobby that distracts me from The Horrors -#- but stumbling upon something I made without a link to my tumblr or my username mentioned is upsetting #especially if it's done by a fandom old or whatever it's called🙄#sorry I don't want to be an anonymous content provider for your 1300 stupid twitter followers 🙃🙃🙃#I whine a lot lately don't I #but like why can't they even steal a gifset properly and have to make an ugly screenshot of it instead😭#oh and while I'm at it - attaching fics as files to download without a link to ao3 (or even the author's name) is not ok either imo ://#this most likely won't reach the intended audience BUT STILL #maybe I'm overreacting but it has been annoying me for a while now -#- and seeing A SCREENSHOT of my gifset in the wild without my name posted by someone who I was SURE I blocked was the last straw I guess 🙃

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lightblueminecraftorchid · 6 months ago

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My roommate and I had a conversation last night and I keep rotating it in my brain and I Don’t Like It

#blue chatter #they called me a resilient person. and no the fuck I am not. I break down so easily over everything and my body is falling apart on me.#I scream in terror when someone knocks on the door too hard the fuck you mean I’m good at handling adversity #I pointed out that I freak out whenever my grade gets low even a little bit #and they were just sitting there like ‘yeah. and then you pick yourself up again and you do the work.’#and no? not always? oftentimes I give up and don’t try hard enough to fix it and let points go that I could have earned #I barely ever go for extra credit opportunities and I’ve never gone to office hours of my own free will #I can’t even think about talking to a professor about a bad grade without wanting to cry? hello?#but they were insistent that even with those things I am still managing Incredibly Well in class given the circumstances. which made me #uncomfortable. like. I don’t think of myself as resilient At All and I feel a bit like I’m lying or tricking them.#I start shaking like a chihuahua when people are upset and I’m In The Vicinity. even when they’re clearly not upset with me.#I really struggle to advocate for myself ever and even when I do I usually feel guilty and walk it back partway so I don’t cause a fight #and I always get way too emotional for the situation when someone has anything they’re upset with me for. which isn’t fair to them bc I need #to be able to take constructive criticism without taking it as a personal attack on me.#like what the fuck do you mean *resilient*. I can’t even handle seeing a bug flying near my face or getting a B in a class. or being told #that I did something wrong. I’m actually significantly worse at handling adversity than I used to be. high school me was a resilientish kid.#and it’s not like I was ever *good* at handling my emotions. even when it was essential for my safety. I’ve always cried way too easily #even when it actively made the situation I was in Much Worse. even when I knew better.#I would get angry and scared and sad and start shaking and crying and even screaming at my parents when they were mad at me even though #I knew that it would always make my life much worse. and extend an already beleaguered argument.#I brought this up with my therapist and she was like ‘well. anybody would have done that if they were treated like you were’.#which. okay. maybe so. I still feel like I should have been able to handle it and just shut up and move on and not make it worse.#but I am aware that this is probably a cognitive distortion. even so. that definitely doesn’t make me resilient.#I just. I feel gross being called resilient. I’m not. I’m weak and easily scared and unable to handle even small amounts of adversity.#the fuck is my roommate even *seeing*.#the annoying part is that they’re generally an insightful person about other people and I know logically that they’re probably right #which is why I’m not going to complain any more about this to their face bc I should just drop it and not make it a Thing #I talk too much about myself and my problems anyway. not every conversation has to be about my brain worms.#but the discomfort is Distinct and Unpleasant. and now I’m just having to sit with it. and Feel Uncomfortable. and try to accept what was #definitely intended as a compliment. I know it’s draining to talk to someone who doesn’t accept any of the kind things you say about them.

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tetedurfarm · 7 months ago

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having a snack on their shiny new floor ✨

#putting them on a new feed protocol to see if it helps my whole.....situation #high high high fiber and just enough pellet to keep them at an ok weight #annoyed their wean date is....the day before i leave but what can you do #and if anyone is sick when i get home it'll be calling waddl time. and hopefully i learn some answers #i'm kinda worried the answers are gonna be 'yep that's enterotoxaemia and there's nothing you can do' which will be a net zero information #but that's why i'm also trying this new diet at the same time #high fiber and low carb diets are supposed to help kits with weaning stress and prevent enteric diseases according to every college ever #so may as well try!! hay and oats is cheap. ish #also happy that the feed i'd like to switch to is also higher in fiber than any of the local options i have #so maybe it'll also help. but probably the biggest help will be finally getting in the new barn and off these damn dirt floors #glad that it's the slow breeding season anyway so i can take a little break to figure this out without impacting my food supply #i really did think i had this figured out last year but i can never have anything easy #rabbits #blanc de hotot #kits

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cherrychapati · 25 days ago

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i think I'm actually learning that i genuinely have way more fun alone. especially if I'm going somewhere because then I can spend half an hour trying on clothes and inordinate amounts of time in front of paintings without worrying about the other person being bored. and without the added pressure of making conversation! i love my own company so much

#I think the only exception are my parents? bc I've been blessed w parents who will adequately entertain my topics of convo #who will also understand if I don't really want to yap too much #and who know what kind of food i like and how long I can spend in bookstores #like sometimes they'll be like okay call us when you're done and leave me at kinokuniya while they explore elsewhere #so other than them. I don't really like having to feel like I have to be perceived when I just want to like see a painting or go shopping #and idk I like my solitude #the only issue is security bc god forbid we let a woman walk around alone without harassing her #so that's really annoying esp when men think they can come up and start a conversation #c.txt

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rolandkaros · 9 months ago

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reason #3299874 why i hate tennis twitter: i hate how idealistic it feels to say “omg we’re ALL sort of right.” like there should be a substantial middle ground here somewhere and instead it always feels like im being weirdly diplomatic. people are spreading misinformation about how drugs and drug tests work. people are ignoring the very real and EXPERT opinions that were used in the process of ruling. people are pretending to be oblivious to why players might find the whole scenario upsetting anyway. people are projecting their paranoia about doping onto a case where it isn’t applicable. people are using completely impermissible evidence to prove why he obviously did or didn’t dope. nick kyrgios is an idiot. and we’re going in circles and have gotten no where and at the end of the day whatever YOU say will not change the fact that he did in fact get two positive doping tests AND the experts supported a conclusion of no fault no negligence. so where does that leave us.

#tw doping #idk if this is a trigger warning but ill tag it anyway #i guess im just annoyed at all the stupid takes ive seen #and it’s so frustrating to feel like i cant call those takes stupid or argue against them without aligning myself with a ‘side’#like there is no sides lol. the experts came to a factual conclusion that j have no reason or desire to question #im satisfied with that!#but there are still so many people trying to support him. WHO ARE SAYING THE MOST UNREAL IDIOTIC SHIT #like i cant sit here and watch you say this it’s embarrassing 😭#but if i say ‘hey this is like not true or accurate at all’ now it seems like i’m agreeing it’s a conspiracy or something!!!!#i deleted my original post talking about this because I think i was a bit too annoyed in that one #and did not really think through my opinions on it #so i am sorry for being pretty reactive #i still believe in the gist of what i was saying but I didn’t articulate it well #and it sounded like i was ragging on jannik which i was NOT #anyways. sorry #here we are again

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puppygirlpencil · 8 months ago

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wanted to practice wisps! then i got mad about their names for a little while and then decided to try making a few custom ones for fun :3

#i get that theyre from SONIC COLORS and that the colors are important #but calling a fiery orange one Red Wisp and then introducing an even redder one called Crimson is dumb #and Violet and Purple are like... annoying because the colors are so similar #why not just name them after their power. everyone knows the Lightning Wisp.. but who knows what its color name is without googling it??#anyways i think the reason there arent more customized and individual wisps is just for like... gameplay #and then in comics its probably just to help them stay Recognizable #art art #sth #sonic fanart #sonic #sonic wisps

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all-this-panic-still-no-disco · 2 years ago

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why does everyone on tumblr hate gbbo… i get paul is a dick but that’s what makes it so funny…

#gbbo #great british bake off #bake off #like i get it if you don’t like the show #mexican week and the s’mores thing were fucked but if you don’t like the show you don’t have to watch it…#i get constructive criticism but it?? just feels weird??? to log on here and everyone is calling them horrible??#like yes paul is a goblin but prue is trying her best :(#also i don’t see the problem with slightly incomplete recipes #i could do without them but it lets the judges assess the baker’s instincts #ahhh ok rant over #i’m really not trying to be rude i just get annoyed when everything i see is negative #the show is really quite good #there’s some sections we all shock-laugh at (rip 2022 mexican week) and i do think they should stop doing country weeks #please i just want one show that isn’t bad by somebody’s standards #I JUST WANT TO BE SAFE WITH MY ONE COMFORT SHOW PLEASE

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maxadieu · 6 months ago

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hi! this may be a weird ass question but I saw your tags on the “I hate virus” post and got very curious! Why do you like virus? Do you have interesting facts about them to share? (idk how to explain but I enjoy learning new things on tumblr when passionate people explain them lol)

HII HII THANK YOU FOR ASKING!!!

i think viruses are very lovely things and i like them a lot!! of course i'm not an expert on them, but i'll list some resources if you want to learn more!!

first of all, the post is right about the fact that viruses aren't alive. but also, can we appreciate that first? even if they were only bad (which they aren't), they aren't alive and have no cognizance of doing any bad. isn't it cool that these things can even exist, and not only exist, but affect all living organisms?

which can actually be a very good thing! while the post says that their only purpose is to fuck with us, that's not true at all! not only are they incapable of ill-intent, but also in a lot of ways they are extremely beneficial to us! (and there are sooo many viruses that are in our body that don't do anything at all to us!)

because they affect every organism, and viruses are everywhere, it affects things that are harmful to us. we have a gut biome filled with viruses in a similar way it's filled with bacteria.

which means, while there are viruses that negatively affect us, there are many that aid us by killing bad bacteria! if we didn't have viruses there might be an overabundance of well, everything. i dont think we'd be here without them

they don't always kill mindlessly either, otherwise they wouldn't have something to keep them replicating. this Kurzgesagt video goes more in depth about it, and they link their sources! i'll also link a lecture about it if you're interested!

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#THANKS FOR ASKING ABOUT THIS. ITS MY BIRTHDAY TODAY SO THIS IS A GOOD GIFT. I GOT THE ZOOMIES #in truth i could write a lot more. i simplified as much as i could to keep things short but there's a lot to discuss with viruses #they arent alive and therefore ascribing 'good' and 'evil' to them isn't really accurate #i feel bad even calling mosquitos evil but thats just me.#i get annoyed by mosquitos too but thats just what they do to survive. VIRUSES ARE DIFFERENT THOUGH!!!#because viruses can be really good!! or at the very least the LARGE majority of them dont affect us at all!#i think there are scientists currently looking into using them to fight internal fungal infections!#also if anything i said had inaccurate information please let me know!#ISNT IT SO COOL THEY EXIST!!! they arent alive and yet they still replicate!!!! theres lots of fun facts in the second video #THERES SO MUCH MORE I CAN SAY #[red dot appears on my forehead and i get shot by a sniper trained to stop me from talking too much]#ALSO i think im just. taking that original poster too seriously #for all i know they were just talking about like. covid or something. like generalizing bad viruses without specifying #which is my bad for not picking up on if thats the case #me post

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domino-on-the-marathon · 1 month ago

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We talk a lot about how annoying the shippers of the popular ships can be, but not enough of the haters of popular ship or lovers of rarepairs that shit all over the popular ship tags.

You guys are not getting others to ship your shit by doing that, you guys are just the other side of the "omfg the fandom's insufferable" coin.

#fallen ramblings #fallen venting #fallen vents #fandom etiquette #fandom ships #small fandoms #fandom drama #small fandom #fandom #fandom culture #sometimes one wants to go through the popular ship tags without seeing negativity/hate #haven't you guys thought of that?#no. of course not #self centeredness is one of the things that end up killing fandoms #learn fandom etiquette for fucks sake #like no joke I'm thinking of writing a spite fic in which the rarepairs end up cucking their partners and the popular ship it's where its a #just to see if I can drive them away at least from my writing and maybe they'll block me #not having to see their annoying asses in my tl is gonna be bliss #oh isn't it beautiful that you join a fandom wanting to go full on multishipper bc you don't gaf about monogamy romance and sex #and then that goes down the gutter when not only the rarepairers see you as competition for some reason #but also act like condescending dickheads and bypass your barriers to piss on your parade?#I'm gonna go full on hermit over that fandom and come back posting the most filthy ntr fic out there and shit all over their ships #like to call it payback #I'm so pissed right now #march was bad and april looks to be the same #fuck the fire emblem remakes can't come anytime soon istg

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free-luigi-mangione · 1 month ago

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Your empathy is such a stark contrast to twitter lol, all people that I seen do over there is make jokes about this situation and his reactions. Idk I never found any of his circumstances in PA especially remotely humourous, because half of them are blatant violation of constitutional rights and police brutality, the other other half is legal way of instilling fear in people.

i didn't and still haven't found anything of his behaviour in PA to be funny, at all. like i could point out exactly what, where, how he'd reacted and why and all of those answers are perfectly reasonable and understandable responses from anybody in that situation. i still haven't found anything about his situation to be funny, except for the only times he jokes in his letters and since he's coping with humour there, and he's just funny too, i also find it funny. otherwise nah.

#i should maybe do a breakdown of what i've seen of him in PA and tell my reactions but then it'd be like the aunties on reddit so no #i felt so sad seeing him being a sad wet cat loser of a man in the motel footage and everybody was like it's so over when it came out #and the hashbrown joke that made half of reddit lose their minds he was just trying to eat it's not that deep #then people calling him yapper he literally didn't shake his head no after getting mirandaized for them to say he talks a lot #his apology about the snitch was unwarranted but he's a good natured person so of course #and saying clearly i shouldn't have or something yeah sassy king xD i love him xD it's such a non answer that it's an awesome answer #trying to talk to media and getting pushed around and yelling and getting bruised he was annoyed and angry for not having legal counsel #and it is a completely valid reaction i would react similarly too you can not drag me to court without a lawyer i know that is my right #then when he was running his tongue in his cheeks he was too annoyed at the media and their useless fangirling which is fair tbh #also i also do that when i'm too annoyed and i understand #i don't think there's anything more so yeah that's it #i won't be analysing everything he does like certain people looking to armchair diagnose him out of nowhere #but everything that he'd said/done was completely reasonable and understandable #one shouldn't need to understand rocket science to understand that #asks

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doggirlbuck · 3 months ago

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people write maddie in fics to have the personality a wet blanket

#you know in like. the ember island players or whatever #and kataras character just cried all the time #and did nothing else but cry. thats how some people write maddie #maddie is actually really like. sarcastic. and she gets annoyed by things easily #and is really impatient #she likes things to go her way and she gets upset when they dont!#she blames herself when something goes wrong #but still tries her damnedest to fix it even if there is no way she can #she takes things upon herself without asking it the person shes trying to help needs or wants help #she has opinions and convictions and she doesnt like strangers not because shes shy but because she finds them annoying #but all of those things often go out the window in fics #same with chim being just comic relief #instead of a person. who uses comedy and jokes to try to cheer people up around him #because he has witnessed so much pain and suffering but knows that it isnt so bad if you have someone to laugh with #and dont even get me started on the way people characterize chris..#also i think people really overestimate how often she calls buck evan #she calls him buck MOST of the time #and she also doesnt actually call chim howie that often either!#i mean she says howie more often than she says evan #but most of the time she says buck and chim/chimney

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fiona-fififi · 6 months ago

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#i don't know y'all #i actually think people should be allowed to be annoyed and angry over a bad episode or a bad season on their own blogs #without people vague posting about them and condescendingly insisting they should stop watching #people can be unhappy with the direction of the show and want to stick it out and/or struggle with letting it go #as long as they're keeping it to their own blog it's nobody else's damn business #if you don't like it then unfollow or block their tags #or if they're not tagging properly maybe ask politely for them to add a tag to negative post #but it would be great if we could stop acting like it's some terrible crime to call out shitty storylines #and pretending like it's just super easy to ditch a show and fandom you're invested in just because a couple of episodes pissed you off #let people be pissy on their own blogs and mind your business goddamn #911 discourse #i guess #and maybe #911 negativity

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lala-blahblah · 9 months ago

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So maybe I'm the problem after all

#you were WARNED annoying time starts now #but real talk i was so fed up bc all ace attorney content was trying SOO hard to be sexy #NEWSFLASH: lawyers are UNSEXY DORKS. that's what makes them FUN #and i was moodily staring into space being like nobody can think of anything else to do with these characters but have them make out?!#and i was like what's the most unsexy thing i could make them do. and then bam. it came to me. colonoscopy.#in order to get a colonoscopy you need someone to stay in the waiting room the whole time they can't just come pick you up #as an adult without a family and without a partner... what do u do in that situation. Who can u call.#having someone who cares enough about you to drive you #wait for two hours #and kindly not mention the tubes that will be stuck into u in unfortunate places #that is an intimacy that transcends human speech #but mostly i think its funny #ace attorney #laurelblahblah comic #comics

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starpros-sunshine · 7 months ago

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You know. I'm part of the fraction "to each their own and let people handle their lives however they see best fit". But I do feel the need to say that I have seldom seen such an idiotic assumption as that breaking up with someone four days before someone's birthday when you also want that someone to do something for their birthday even though you know you and your soon-to-be-ex will both have to be there won't end with that person just not doing anything with anyone for their birthday. Partially because nobody wants that kind of awkwardness after a fresh breakup and also because the soon-to-be-ex has the lovely habit of wallowing in self pity and making everything about how they have it so bad. You know I just think in such cases you should've waited a week with the breakup. I don't care how much you want to fuck that other guy but I really think you should've waited a week.

#delete later #sigh why always me...#can't somdone else get the complicated people for once #annoying #the soon-to-be-ex complained today in the group chat that nobody wouod ever go to a pub with him #when that is literally not the case #we would all go? he just never asked? and anytime someone else wants to go party or jusz out 90% of the time the answer is no?#I've known that guy for 13 years now and somehow it just does not get easier #like? anytime someone else asks him it's always “no i don't want to” but then you complain about how nobody would want to do anything #the call coming from inside the house is all I'm saying #'' oh but I couldn't go anyways I wouldn't fit“ ''why? nobody cares about random strangers thats usually not how people work''#'' thats not true'' ''they literally don't care though.'' ''not when that person looks 13'' ''yeah no they still literally wouldn't care''#''they would'' ''they wouldn't. people never do. why would they make an exception for you?'' and then no answer to that #because you can't argue against that anymore without having to confront the fact you're wrong #but then I'm getting told im not empathetic enough #i know i lack empathy I'm aware but I do make an attempt for serious situations. i just don't think stuff like that is serious.#especially when i once mentioend i think my father thinks I'll end up living off of state wellfare and become a disappointment #and the only reply to that was ''how did he arrive at that really likely assumption?'' my brother in christ do not complain to me about lack #of empathy I'm not the one telling people their fears of becoming the family disappointment are well founded and realistic #I'm not even going to excuse that through some ''oh autism'' stuff like no thats just tactless and mean #or all the condescending comments whenever i go out to ''party''#it's just drinking with some people i know it's not really partying #but I'm not the one looking down on people for experiencing stuff #contrary to popular assumption I'm actually really cool and i know that. that's why people ask me to do stuff with them.#because i don't say no 99% of the time and then complain that nobody would ever want to do something with me when that's just plain wrong #i also totally get why she wants to break up #how do you actively refuse to meet your partners friends for half a year and expect that to not become an issue.#how do you actively say you're not interested in doing anything for your partner and expect that to last #how do you whine about being a bad partner but never attempt to do better #i wish i could defend him here but i can't that dude is a horrible boyfriend

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