#yeah idk how to tag this

[jes12321]

Love it when media portrays humanity as unbeatable simply because of how goddamn stubborn we are. Not because of our brains or technology or hardiness. No, we’re just thick headed bastards that don’t know when to give in.

[r3nrit]

Yeah yeah arctic fox etho yeah alright but what if his hair changed colors based on the seasons like actual arctic foxes DO YOU SEE MY VISION-

[ariannabananasstuff]

sometimes i look at them and think we are like january and december

both so close and so far

a year apart and days away all at the same time

[cherrysmokesaconha]

Some 2004 Tords I made for a school thingy :3c

[lover-of-skellies]

Bitty Sanses would be great and all, but y'know what'd be even greater?

Thumbelina sized Sanses

They're smaller than bitties, and less likely to try stabbing you with a fork or some crap

[ravioliet]

@scramblecat drew this as fast as i possibly could. you have excellent taste in sona design

this is us right now

[cringelordofchaos]

I had recently been informed that there are apparently posts on tiktok about people posting about how much they loveeee the 'slavic aesthetic' and as a fellow slav that is the funniest shit ever to me bc i imagine it's a bunch of shit like this

(i tried searching up "Slavic bad economic empty streets" but there aren't many accurate results and I'm too lazy to go out and take a picture of them myself)

[trulyunholy]

I just want him to bend me over his desk and fuck me until I cry, is that really too much to ask?

[feral-ass-raccoon]

here are some character traits inspired by shit i do bc its silly and i am Bored:

-- constantly shaking slightly, refuses to drink more than two cups of water a day tops

-- needs glasses, has glasses, does not wear the glasses

-- gets the middle finger and peace sign mixed up, resulting in accidentally flipping ppl off [whoops]

-- chugs any drink in their hands [except for hot drinks] in like 5 minutes. this occasionally ends in Brain Freeze

-- uhhh yeah thats it. enjoy i guess. might do nore lol

[cat-doggy]

Am I okay or is it abnormal to find the way others describe or talk about the act of sex really boring and/or gross? (or scary in a "this will definitely cause me sensory issues" kinda way)

[moved56]

Hes like the actual silly

[ariannabananasstuff]

told my brother i have tumblr.

he said (quote)

“wow i knew you were autistic but i didn’t know you were THAT autistic”

(unquote)

what the freak man.

[cherrysmokesaconha]

2004 Tord Ball in a whiteboard! :D

The silliest lil guy....../pos

[cutestlildoggo]

Honestly I’m really tired of seeing those posts that say “if you ignore then you support [really bad thing]”

Yes, I think it is important that we talk about these subjects, but guilt-tripping me into interacting with your post isn’t the way to do that. I do not need you feeding my intrusive thoughts, they’re bad enough as it is and sometimes I just do not have the willpower to fight them.

You aren’t a bad person if you make these posts or if you reblog them, I am just asking you to stop and informing you why they could be harmful. So please, stop.

[antirepurp]

same and different and less and more

[multiplicity-positivity]

been feeling a bit lost on this for awhile so id like to ask for advice. i've been a soulbonder for quite awhile but as of recent (the last couple months) my ability to percieve and communicate with them has gone completely dead and its left me confused because previously i was able to do that just fine and i'm wondering if there's something i can do about it? it's been tough without them and i've felt incredibly lonely. anyone who's experienced something like this is free to dm me with their input btw!

Hey, so we are not a soulbond system, and we don’t have advice specifically for a soulbond system dealing with this. There may be soulbond-specific issues at play here which we can’t really confirm or advise on, sorry!

But we do believe that dry spells and times of relative silence are pretty common in lots of systems. Our own system also experiences this from time to time, periods where I (the system’s host) can’t really feel or interact with my headmates. It can be scary and isolating at times, especially when parts who usually front at certain times don’t show up…

For us, this usually happens due to us being stressed, overwhelmed, or having some internal turmoil jamming up the works inside and making it difficult for us to communicate as effectively. Also when we’re triggered, barriers between us might strengthen as a coping mechanism which in turn can make it harder to connect.

What tends to help us the most is for me to do calming exercises like grounding, trying to focus on slowing down, self soothing, and actively trying to avoid thinking about my system for a while.

I ground by starting off with a sharp sensation (sour candy, cold water, a pinch), then I’ll focus on breathing and trying to take note of my physical surroundings. Here’s a post we wrote in the past with a few grounding techniques, all of which we utilize regularly and have worked for us:

Once my head is a bit clearer I can start to take note of stressors in our life. I’ll ask myself: what’s changed or is different since I last had contact with my headmates? Is there something that’s been bothering the system or me as a part lately? Do I have a lot on my plate? How have I been feeling? And like, once I have a pretty good read on what’s going on in our life, I try to shift my focus outwards to doing my best to deal with these stressors on my own. Meeting your needs is one great way to assess and eliminate stressors, so I’ll include our little check up post also in case it could be helpful:

I’ve definitely had times where I’ve been concerned about my parts not showing up again… but they’ve always returned at some point, or our barriers lowered enough for us to have access to each other once again. It’s a lot easier for us to communicate when we’re doing okay in our life and don’t have too much stress or triggers or negative experiences piling up. So learning to how to manage life’s difficult events has in turn helped me to learn how to cope with life on my own when my parts aren’t as accessible.

That’s how I’ve dealt with this sort of thing, anyway. We really think it’s awesome and strengthens our community when other systems share their own experiences, so if anyone else has advice or wants to share what it’s like for their system when things go quiet or they lose contact, please feel free to share.

I hope I didn’t just ramble a bunch at you with stuff that your collective won’t find useful… again, we’re not a soulbond system! But I do think that grounding, slowing down, and managing stressors/meeting your needs could really help any system who’s dealing with a period of stagnation or silence.