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Forever 💗

[multi-fandom-imagines]

MURTASIM: I'm the main character of the show.

MURTASIM'S WHITE SHAWL: Uhhh, so i spoke to production....

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arziyaan...

[Image ID: seven gifs of Wahaj Ali as Murtasim and Yumna Zaidi as Meerub from Tere Bin episode 6. They are at the shrine, and Murtasim is standing outside while Meerub prays:

GIF 1: Murtasim watching Meerub pray from outside the shrine.

GIF 2: Meerub's gaze lifting from the end of her prayer to look up at Murtasim from the veranda window.

GIF 3: Murtasim turning away from the window, looking lost in thought.

GIF 4: Meerub lifting her hands to pray, crouched on her prayer mat.

GIF 5: Murtasim's gaze turning upwards, as if seeking an answer from God.

GIF 6: Meerub, lost in thought, looking up at where Murtasim is waiting for her.

GIF 7: Murtasim, still looking worried and confused, turned partially as if to keep Meerub in his sights.

/end ID]

[lutf]

There are Pakistani dramas like Kuch Unkahi and Yunhi, which have soft, humanly, positive male protagonists played by Bilal Abbas and Bilal Ashraf, Even the character of Wahaj Ali in Mujhe Pyar Hua Tha. Yet we have the audience of two nations going bonkers over a character that is romanticising marital rape.

It is so problematic that,

People are not even considering it Marital Rape because they are married so something as much as "Rape" cannot exist as consent goes down the shit hole if you're married.

The whole idea that we live in such a mind numbingly ignorant society that the director, producer, storywriter and even all the actors involved couldn't care less about the fact that something as problematic and severe as this should not be shown in a prime time drama serial.

THERE SEEMS TO BE NO SIGN OF A TRIGGER WARNING?????

or any message saying that they don't fucking support or condemn something as disgusting as marital rape

Shame on literally everyone involved and everyone justifying it.

If it was to be a serious story which would have a social message or it was supposed to send out a message that dont fucking rape your wives, it would have been acceptable. they are legit ROMANTICISING it in literally such a weird manner.

so many people, women, children suffer from domestic violence. and for these people, violence is only a mere act of gaining views, trp and having a climax in the show.

[mirambles]

I’m convinced that Tere Bin is absolute dope - I know the show is crap but I still watch it , not entire episodes but at least the scenes which star Wahaj and Yumna together. E36 had such lovely scenes of these two together - long after the last time I enjoyed their scenes between E6-E20. It helped that they both looked smashing throughout the episode. Just look at these two gorgeous beings gracing my TV screen every week.

[dardedil]

yumhaj is OVERRATED!!!

their fans especially are making me hate them individually and be a hater for life

[freckles-dimples26-12-95-94]

I have never seen a more child like pair than Abdullah and Mahjabeen

[smahak]

[musingsfromthenight]

Thoughts on Tere Bin

Its a Thursday night as I sit down to write this piece about the immensely popular Tere Bin - a drama which I probably would have passed up if it wasn't for the lead pair. I am not a fan of Siraj ul Haq's style of direction and had never heard of the writer before. However, the cast drew me in - and what has kept me coming back. I have to say though, the script also has quite a bit of jaan. On the surface its an enemies to lovers story - but do they both really hate each other? I think Meerab does but as we wait for Murtasim's backstory to unfold, I am actually of the opinion that Murtasim has admired Meerab for some time. To me he doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would be attracted to flakey girls so it makes sense that he admires her for who she is but is caught in this web of familial rights and wrongs. My theory ,then, is that the only reason he so vehemently refuses to marry her is because of this conversation in episode 2 and the knowledge that Meerab would never want to marry him and stay in this house she calls Qaid numa.

He uses very similar language when he tells Maa Begum that he will not marry her - meri qaid se bacha lein - and his refusal moving forward is very driven by Meerab's. He's got too much ego to accept a girl who doesn't want him

Now, lets talk about Meerab. If you've read enough romance novels, like me, you know what's going on here. She's bothered by Murtasim. He's everything she doesn't want to like and yet she's drawn to him - this both confuses and angers her when she is in his presence. Which brings us to THE scene - I speak of the slap followed by the fainting.

When this initially played out, I was enraged - rightfully so - even though I wanted to trust Yumna & Wahaj and their good sense. However, after this week's episode I'm going to forgive the slap and actually believe it may have served a purpose.

First, going back to the romance novels (I profess to reading too many), this is the point in the story where the heroine would have bothered the male protagonist so much that he would have kissed her "roughly" , without consent, and she would have given into it. Then, both would gone their separate ways but unable to forget what had transpired. Do you see the symbolism - he slaps her, she faints pliant in his arms.

Enter the revenge angle in Tere Bin. Seems now that the slap was deliberately out of character - the guilt of it is what is driving Murtasim's softer behaviour and driving him to acquiesce to Meerab's requests. It is also what legitimizes Meerab's vengeance towards Murtasim - else she really wouldn't have a leg to stand on when it came down to why she was making his life difficult along with the lives of everyone else in the house. He's clearly smitten.

Just like the kiss in the romance novel, nobody can forget about the slap. Question is, when do the two finally give in and what finally breaks the camel's back? As the OST suggests, something really traumatic and heartwrenching will happen tab woh samjhein ge. Here for ALL THE DRAMA and the shadeed filmy handling of the story.

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Meerasim💜

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Merab and Haya's first encounter was hilarious! 'Toh fir roti raho'.

I can't even! 😂😂😂😂

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Yumna Zaidi on Her Chemistry with Wahaj and Her Serial "Tere Bin"

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seasons.