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You're not actually a better friend for not articulating and respecting your own needs, limits and boundaries. Your lack of communication and boundaries is not some impressive sacrifice. You're not doing anyone any favors by acting like you're okay with things you aren't okay with. You're just building burnout and resentment that will eventually damage the relationship in question. And when you eventually snap and walk away because you silently overburdened yourself to be a "good friend", it won't be the other persons fault

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I had an annoying interaction so this is your friendly reminder that the A in LGBTQIA+ does not stand for ally, it stands for aspec people.

Editing because people have mentioned in the tags, thank you for reminding my dumb ass:

Also agender people! The A is for aspec (not just aro and ace, the WHOLE spectrum!) and agender people.

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The crux of the anti trans movement is a war on bodily autonomy. They don't want you to have any agency over what you look like, how you dress, who you date, whether to have kids, etc.

They want total control over you. Not just trans people. Not just queer people. You. Everyone.

Trans people are just a scapegoat. They want total control over everyone's self expression. They want the right to mold you into their perfect little cog in their dehumanizing machine.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility. Our rights are your rights. Our destruction is your destruction.

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This pride I'm apparently doing self reflection...again. (Warning vent/rant kinda thing ahead, also pretty long and purely personal. So only read if ya have a while to waste.)

But not in the gender or sexuality kinda way. Given the US and the ICE attacks, I'm kinda looking back to my ethnicity/ancestry/whatever. I can track my direct 100% blood level family members to grandparents or great grandparents. I probably wrote that weird... I have known all my life I was Mexican due to at least my grandpa (Papa), but found out a couple years ago he was only half Mexican, and his dad (my great grandpa) is 100% Mexican. Now sure that means I'm only 1/8th Mexican, but it's always been a huge thing in my life. I'm also German and Irish (I get the Irish from great grandma from the same side), but outside of knowing about them I was never all that aware/invested in those two. This info was all from my birth father's family, we'd known these forever essentially.

My mother's family info was.. not as aware/documented due to her dad not being around and her mom being...an issue. We grew up aware she was at least partly native american. A couple years ago we found out she's 100% native. So that means my sister and I are half native... which was a bit of a shock... kind of. Mom and my sis are definitely native, they tan soo easily (just to name one thing cause I'm not naming every little thing). But I on the other hand don't... I'm pasty white, I burn every time I'm in the sun for too long, the only thing that does happen is I get more freckles across my exposed skin.

So like we'd always known about being multiracial (again the native part being a toss up of how much but still being known), but like.. We never really had any special traditions from the different family members and their cultures (outside of papa having a special tortilla recipe) so that and my own complexion being incredibly white we pretty much just lived the white person/midwestern "culture" life.

We never lived close to any of the relatives either, and with my parents divorcing when I was 5 it really caused us to not contact much. I genuinely only know anything about my Mexican heritage/culture from TV shows like "Wizards of Waverly Place" and the like. I remember going to one pow wow in my life cause it was like hosted in my school or something in elementary (I was like 6-7 and am probably remembering wrong)... It's just odd... I want to look up what I can about the cultures I come from, but do I have a right to? And also given the state of the country right now should I even attempt? My dead name (that hasn't legally been changed yet) already has me in some danger due to being undeniably Mexican.

It's just such a large thing, I've kinda lived my life saying "Yeah I'm white, but also Mexican" but outside of saying that I've never really...stopped and recognized what that meant for myself. I know directly what I am. I don't know the tribe my mom's birth mom is from or what her dad's.. well anything.. was. But even with the questions I still have on the subject I know enough to be confident in the info. I just... How do you really accept info like this when outside of things like hair you're as white as it gets? I'm not joking I have jet black, straight as it gets hair that (due to Papa's genes) get's greasy. I don't tan, I burn, but my hair will go from jet black to having natural brown highlights. Maybe if I really knew more on the subject (it'll take some research) I could point out the different traits better and appreciate them... I don't see that happening though since I can barely stand to look at my freckles I got last year from being outside more often (my one arm is nearly covered in freckles while the other one got like none and I just.. it irritated me that only the one side had them cause of how I had the one arm kinda covered to hold my bag comfortably and wouldn't be able to change that to equal them out).

But yeah to simplify this post, I know I'm multiracial, wasn't purposefully raised to ignore it or anything, mom and I just never really...got the chance to look into that stuff better. And that's kinda caused me to be lost as an adult when looking into the subject.

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making a post to say, hey don't fucking send hate anons to anti endos. i don't care how pissed off you are, don't be that asshole.

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Pride Month is just hours away. Remember to not forget Aromantic and Asexual people this June. The 'A' does not stand for Ally.

Happy Pride ‹𝟹

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Are any of you individually still genderfluid/namefluid etc post sys realization

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Why?

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☆ — Amasui

[ Pt. Amasui ]

Regular Flag / Simplified

ama - from the latin word amatio , meaning love, caressing

sui - from the latin word for "self"

Amasui, a term that can be used to mean loving other versions of oneself. Created to replace the term "Selfcest." This is not the same as Autosexual, as it is not a sexuality.

The flag is mostly for fun; as this is not actually an Identity. The blues are for nonromantic or sexual love and the reds are for romantic and sexual love.

Do not tag this as Sexuality, Gender, Xenogender, Etc. This is not an identity label, but a term by itself.

[ Pt. Do not tag this as Sexuality, Gender, Xenogender, Etc. This is not an identity label, but a term by itself. ]

Made In Collaboration with @decayedgender.

cant believe i have to say this but r**dqueers do not interact.

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This pride month I'm celebrating by

Staying home with partner a, chatting with my other partner, partner b, over text, playing games with partner a's partner, and spending time with my family alive.

Am I not planning to do anything else? No. I plan to survive.

I am disabled, a system with headmates who would prefer to live in sys long enough to fly their flags together, I can't go to parades or riots nor can I give money since I literally get paid by the government who wants me dead.

So happy pride to everyone, especially those like us who can't do anything to help except survive!!

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Pride 2025

These Colors Don't Run!

this Pride remember your roots, fight the fuck back, remember your allies and friends and don't get distracted.