that-nonbinary-gnome

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

✨question for the trans/nb crowd✨

I’m an author, and in my WIP I have a nonbinary character. They discovered their identity later in life (they’re 31, they came out at 21/22), but they’re talked about in past-tense a few times, and I’m wondering something. Do you (people who don’t identify with their AGAB) use your preferred pronouns even when talking about yourself pre-transition/before you came out? For example: When I talk about myself before I came out, I stick with she/her, because it makes sense to my brain for some reason (And I do the same for this character). But do some people still use their preferred pronouns when talking about their younger selves? I literally have no idea and I don’t have enough trans/nb friends to ask lmao

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

I wanna do it now lmao thanks for the @

Gender? That feeling when you leave a movie theater as a kid and pretend to be in the movie for upwards of several weeks

Sexuality? My gf :D @legitanawkwardmess

Romantic attraction? Tags on fanfiction that makes my gf wonder if I’m okay

(This was fun) (I don’t have any friends to tag except the ones that have already done it)(yall have fun ig)

Gender, Sexuality, Romantic Attraction Tagging Game

How do: You put your gender, sexuality, and romantic attraction down with a line break between them—but, here's the catch, don't use any labels! So, for example, this, "Gender? Agender Sexuality? Lesbian Romantic Attraction? Demiromantic" would be this: "Gender? I hardly know 'er! Sexuality? Girl-kisser Romantic Attraction? My friends, I think"

So, here's mine!

Gender? Yours, fool Sexuality? Yes Romantic Attraction? Only if I know you well enough

TAGS (under the cut, and don't feel obligated to do it!) (and obviously those who I have not tagged can participate too)

@bassguitarinablackt-shirt @gloriousvermin @midnight-thedyke @littlebookworm69 @runwiththerain @cybercerealkiller @ishouldsleepbut @ssavinggrace @i-love-your-father @us-costco-official @scifikode @i-am-an-arson-enthusiast

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

this is how I feel when I zone back in at like midnight and realize I’ve been sitting on my bed talking to myself since 8.

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

I love being an aspiring author because then any family members who want to know about my book get quite the infodump. Like shoutouts to my great aunt who lives in california coming across the country to see one of my musicals with my maternal grandma and then saying she wanted to read my book after I mentioned it

But anyway fast forward to a few weeks later and I get a text from her that says she feels bad for a character that I don’t treat very well (for plot purposes) so I ask what chapter she’s on so I don’t spoil anything. And I look to see what’s coming up in the story and ohhhhohoho boy is she in for some shit

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

not even joking I think I’m gonna start working on my book again. The first draft has been done since april but dammit the urges to revise and finalize are hitting hard

what happens if I lose my mind and post about my book for an unknown amount of time? /hj

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

that moment when you finally update your one fic you have posted to ao3 (it’s been 4 months) and the plot is finally picking up a little (it’s chapter 7) and your friends are excited for you (my gf sent me a meme)

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

yall seriously should I watch gravity falls??

I started watching it a few years ago but idk how to feel about it cuz like- I’ve seen the billford art, I’m attracted to the stans, I know all the plot twists in the show, that kinda stuff, so it wouldn’t really make sense for me to dedicate however long to binge it? But it still sounds really good and I feel like I should finish it at some point yk

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

actively losing my mind rn because we’re coming up on a year since I played Edna in hairspray and I’m still getting hit with waves of Post Show Depression. HOW. I cannot exist normally and haven’t been able to since last october because I love her so much

[that-nonbinary-gnome]

intro thingy or whatever cuz I should probably make one if I want people to know about my stuff

Sup fellas‼️ (said with so much swag you can’t handle it)

I’m nonbinary_gnome! (My real name is aly and the only reason I’m putting on here is because it’s also on my tiktok) but unless you know me irl (or I give you permission) pls don’t use it cuz it makes me feel weird. But if you want to use any variation of my user that’s okay :)

THINGS I DO:

🎀Cosplay🎀 (clock app account user in bio) ⭐️Art⭐️ (mostly painting/watercolor cuz I’ve proved to not be great at drawing but idk) 🔥Fanfics🔥 (AO3 account) 🖋️Write🖋️ (I’ve finished the first draft of my debut novel and I’m so excited to keep working on it)

FANDOMS IM IN:

Sanders Sides/ TSSides Hazbin Hotel Helluva Boss DHMIS FNAF Carry On (Simon Snow) Any kind of Musical Theater (atm I’m really into RTC, Hairspray, and Six) My book (idk if that counts but idc)

EXTRA STUFF ABOUT ME:

Nonbinary (they/them pronouns)

Lesbian (taken by my bbg @legitanawkwardmess 😘)

Funky Brain Syndrome™️ (anxiety, ADHD, autism)

(probably an age regressor of some kind but I have not done actual research on that yet so don’t quote me on that)

Disney girlie (Princess & the Frog 🔛🔝)

I wish cars were real 😔

DNI:

Homophobes

Transphobes

Racists

Pr0shipper$

Standard dni

just don’t be an asshole yk

ASKS:

Asks will always be open! If you have questions about me, my writing, my thoughts on fandoms, my cosplays, etc, feel free to drop them in the box!

OTHER STANDARD BOUNDARIES:

Don’t ask me personal things or try to find personal information

Dont be creepy/sexu@l/etc because you will be blocked (‼️I’m still a minor‼️)

Hate towards me and others will not be tolerated

If you know me irl make sure I know it’s you but otherwise you’re good

Tone tags aren’t required in things like asks but if you use them that’s helpful (and I’m not forcing you to use them if you don’t)

Ik this is long but thanks for reading if you did💜💜