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This is just Postal 2 IRL

mutuals do this with me

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they are holding hands on the way to therapy :)

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I hate when institutions ask for your preferred name just to not use it.

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There’s no laughing or loving, we’re not mentally ok

live laugh love duster

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Random image/meme dump

Don’t ask

“capybara in the Style of Steven Gammell”

classic gif time

 utter shock

literally me (not really)

If only...

them cats

ancient cat gif

homer

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they have the gender ever

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You can have children in any number of ways and still be just as nonbinary.

Your partner(s), reproductive ability, preferences about terminology, and family situation are all well within the relm of normal for nonbinary people.

Parents come in all varieties, and nonbinary people are among them.

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Gender Envy

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Gender nonconformity and transgender identity are complimentary. They can enhance one another, and the existance of gender nonconforming people doesn't contradict trans identity, and transgender identity doesn't take away from gender nonconformity.

No matter what, being gender nonconforming and being trans are, in some ways, treated similarly in some ways. These states of being are treated with disgust in part due to the fact they render cisnormativity as fragile. We have much to gain if we recognize that we ought to join forces, so to speak.

Being GNC is beautiful. Being transgender is beautiful. We are not a threat nor we are not bad. Our ways of existing have histories spanning a millenia and more in every culture. Where there are humans, there we are as well. We have existed and will continue to exist until the last human takes their final breath. We have lived and loved and sang and danced. We will continue to do so, no matter what. We simply must.

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About me

My name is Red. I’m nonbinary (they/them it/itself will always be fine). I consider myself somewhat fluid, so I may sometimes refer to myself in male terms (and very rarely am I ok with female terms).

For the most part, I’m androgyne.

My name comes from the fact that

1) my preferred name is red

2) many people view trans people (especially non-binary trans people) as an assault on “western values”, and it reminds me of the Red scare (the scary trans/commies are coming to indoctrinate your children!!!!!!)

I started this blog to highlight my experience and connect with others. 

Remember to stay strong, trans siblings

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Some people are absolutely terrified of the idea that other people have rights.