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Sometimes being a system is like wow! That Character is so cool! And then five years later That Character is in your head and it’s like yeah they’re a lot less cool. Oh they’re a fucking loser actually

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full ass read 'endos dni' and thought it meant like. the things from. five night at freddys. i had to google it. i mean i still don't know what it means BUT i guess implicitly i had to google it. anyway endoskeletons dni you are verie scarie

LMAO yes endoskeletons dni /silly

In the system community endo is short for endogenic, which is the belief you can be a system without trauma. It’s ableist, and they’re appropriating a very real and scary disorder that I and many other people suffer from — which is why I don’t want them interacting with me.

I understand that not all endos claim to have did or invade system spaces (a lot do) but by using our terminology (system, alters, host, etc) they’re still watering down the severity of this disorder.

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Mr forgettable by David Kushner is such a system coded song tbh

The part in the music video where he walks through the doorway and all of a sudden hes old and he’s looking around like “what happened” is very relatable bc it’s like. What if I black out and wake up and it’s years later and I’m old and my life is gone. Cause that could happen.

“The old me hides while the new me fights look in my eyes hes still in there right” has me thinking about host changes

And when it’s pitch black and you can only see his face and hands illuminated by the flashlight it’s like amnesia and dissociation

Idk watch the video and tell me your thoughts ig

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Send us asks pls we’re bored

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🍎 F2U - like and/or reblog if used - (pro)endos these are not for you, make your own ☘️

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Oooh a thing!!

Last song: choke by I don’t know how but they found me

Favorite Color: blue and yellow

Currently watching: a lot, but I’m gonna go with Heaven Officials Blessing. I read the books and I liked them a lot

Last Movie: uhhh I forgot, I think it was the Minecraft Movie

Currently reading: nothing, I should read more

Sweet spicy or savory: sweet

Current obsession: hmmm idk. Nothing new, really. Fungi has been our special interest for a while.

Last googled: places to get food, I was out with my dad

Currently working on: not much, I should pick up a project

Tags: @rottingsys @atlass-random-stuff @the-io-collective @thirdplaceofeden

(Main blog is @thestardustcollective321 so if you don’t recognize this blog that’s us)

nine people I would like to get to know better

Thank you @sentowritesstuff for tagging me!! I actually really like doing little games like this even if it’s something small it makes me happy lol

last song I listened to: I Hate It Here by Taylor Swift

favorite color: probably a really dark blue

currently watching: daredevil, andor s2, agent Carter, cloak and dagger, and a couple more

last movie: Avengers Infinity War

currently reading: Family of Liars by E. Lockhart

sweet, spicy, or savory: all of them!! I cant choose a favorite!!

relationship: single☹️ My crush doesn’t like me back and I refuse to talk to him

current obsessions: agent Carter, captain america and stucky in general (as usual), Star Wars, the naturals series, six of crows again, baking carrot cakes, and writing poetry about my shitty family

last googled: where to watch into the spiderverse?

currently working on: a speech for school, a poem series, and a fanfic about stucky

I’m going to tag: @spidersinsalem @olicitylighthome @aurore-boreal1s @scarfacemarston @bufferingsummers @onyx-di-angelo @crazysandwich @bloodorange17 & @mentalmeles

no pressure though if you’ve already done it or don’t want to

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Well I don’t, screw you *floats away*

/silly

I feel gravity

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babygirl I'm avoiding things that I don't even know about

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Nobody has sent us asks ao we’re just gonna answer them all

❤️ - our system name is The Stardust Collective. I honestly forget how we chose it. We’ve gone through quite a few however

🧡 - different alters definitely like different games. I couldn’t tell you who likes what though

💛 - “Felix would be front loops because he’s gay” <- that was shouted from in headspace so theirs your answer ig

💚 - white and gold. Probably because of the stardust theme.

🩵 - keeping me alive

💙 - idk. Someone in headspace yelled ‘drugs’ (we don’t do drugs????)

💜 - randomly getting ‘stuck’ in accents out of nowhere

🩷 - we occasionally do horseback riding and I’d say we’re decent. Im not sure if any alters are better or worse. Well that’s not true I think like one of us is scared of horses :/

🌈 - YES!! We have a poodle puppy his name is kenji. He currently lives with mother

🌈🌈🌈NON-INVASIVE SYSTEM ASK GAME YIPPEEEEE 🌈🌈🌈

❤️ - What is your system name? How did you choose it?

🧡 - Do different alters have different favorite games? What would you say is the most popular game among your system?

💛- Pick one (or more) alter(s). If they were a cereal, which one would they be and why?

💚 - Do you associate your system with any colors? Why those colors?

🩵 - What’s one thing your grateful to your system for?

💙 - If you had a million dollars, how would each alter spend it?

💜 - what’s something you thought was normal pre-syscovery that you have since realized does not happen to most people? (Can be as silly or deep as you want)

🩷 - Does your system play any sports? Are any alters better at that sport than others?

🌈 Bonus, non system related: Do you have any pets? What’s their name? Show a picture!!

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”I want to know your headcount” “I want to know who’s fronting” so do I, get in line

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Name rankings cause I saw someone do this and want to do it too

System Name:

The Stardust Collective - 9/10 most of us like this one, we all tolerate it at least

Singular Names:

Quinn - about 6/10 we have differing opinions on this one though, also don’t use it unless you know us well

Stardust - 8/10 this is our official online name, default to this one

Name of whoever is fronting - ?/10 some of us prefer this some of us don’t. Don’t ask us who’s fronting if the alter wants to be known they’ll announce themselves

“Hey You” - 4/10 this is effective I suppose /silly

Pronouns:

He/Him - ?/10 depends who’s fronting, but this also works unless stated otherwise

They/Them - 9/10 is probably your best option

She/Her - 0/10 don’t use this unless stated otherwise

It/Its - 7/10 also depends who’s fronting but this works unless stated otherwise

Neopronouns - ?/10 depends on the pronoun and who’s fronting, though some alters prefer neos so just ask

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Major controversial opinion, and a new branch of syscourse, but if you use ai to visualize your headmates/headspace I’m blowing you up with my mind. Go use a fucking piccrew

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Having a severe flashback and coming back to find out an alter haphazardly cut our hair off was not on my 2025 bingo card but here we are

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The moment youre DID gives you amnesia that makes you forget you have DID in the first place for a couple weeks and then just hits you in the face with it randomly/neg

IM BACK IN THE FUCKING BUILDING AGIAN/ref

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Oh Wow!! My symptom (amnesia) of my disorder (DID) is getting worse!! But because it’s getting worse (I’m forgetting things more) I obviously must be faking (I’m just forgetting my symptoms)!!

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WHAT IS POLYFRAGMENTATION

a common misconception i see in the community is that polyfragmentation refers to having a high alter count, and id like to talk about what it actually means polyfragmentation is characterized by a complex system structure, complex splitting patterns, a large number of fragments, a lack of non-dissociative coping mechanisms, and often trauma that began at an early age and impacted all areas of life COMPLEX SYSTEM STRUCTURE - often involving layers, subsystems, or other divisions within the system that keep alters separate in groups COMPLEX SPLITTING PATTERNS - this involves splitting in groups, splitting multiple alters to hold different parts of the same trauma, etc LARGE FRAGMENT COUNT - polyfragmented systems will have a high fragment count, fragments are alters who lack a full sense of identity LACK OF NON-DISSOCIATIVE COPING MECHANISMS - where splitting would typically be a last resort for most systems, polyfragmented systems can be pushed to the point of splitting much easier, even from daily life stressors EARLY LIFE TRAUMA - according to richard p kluft, polyfragmented DID is often caused by longstanding severe abuse beginning early in life - grey