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"Im sorry but i cant feel bad if your out here invalidating others REAL experience by saying your an “endo system”/a system with no trauma," was literally your first sentence. You're not out here fooling anyone. You called me an endo, someone you say isn't a real system and accused me of invalidating the lived experiences of "real" systems and having no trauma.

Get a grip and take some fucking responsibility, dear god.

Also jokes fucking over other people aren't jokes, it just makes you an asshole.

“Im an endo system” “pro endo”

Im employed what does this mean?

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I'm not a fucking endo system. I'm a polyfrag DID system. Do you fakeclaim anyone who doesn't agree with you? That makes YOU the problem. Get your own facts straight before you try to play in syscourse, this will not go well for you.

“Im an endo system” “pro endo”

Im employed what does this mean?

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You inherently compared syscourse ideology to the success of people in their real lives. Regardless of what you MEANT, that is what you suggested. Endogenics and those who support them have successful jobs too and real, fulfilling lives. The two have nothing to do with each other and the fact you're suggesting that people with "more dumb" ideologies don't have a job is equating joblessness with inability/incompetence is insanely ableist. You need to consider the impact your words have before you spout them to the internet. Jokes do not excuse you from the impact of your words. Pretending you can't be ableist just because you're disabled will never get you to where you want. Internalized ableism is still ableism.

“Im an endo system” “pro endo”

Im employed what does this mean?

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I'm an adult system who's employed in a salary vocation of my choosing while voluntarily pursuing a second of my choosing. I have the science validating non-CDD systems. What's your point?

Weird, weird nonsensical point. Having a successful life does not tell you someone's NICHE syscourse ID. Wtf.

“Im an endo system” “pro endo”

Im employed what does this mean?

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some days you cannot help but pity some people

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Wow, this sure sounds familiar

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Ffs breaking this account out again. You are not better than the endos for your bitch-fits in the CDD tags. Endos don't belong the CDD tags SHUT UP. I don't care if it's an actual endo or you're hating on endos, keep it to the fucking relevant tags.

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There is but ok. I don't know why that bothers you guys so much. If you don't want to face that why do you guys keep shoving your opinions down all our throats? Stfu.

sucks seeing blogs i follow go down the "there is scientific proof for endogenic systems" pipeline makes me so sad.

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As the coiner of pluralpunk:

It’s a foil term meant to counter what was supposed to be a joke to specifically only be an anti-endo term.

The coiner is seriously excluding not only endos, but anyone who supports or believes or doesn’t care about their existence. It’s an exclusionary term.

We regret about it and starting this discourse. Whole thing was supposed to be a joke 🙄

can someone help me understand what syspunk means?/gen

I thought it was like pro-endo and stuff so I looked it up but I got mostly anti-endo blogs, and while I don’t have a problem with people not supporting endogenic systems I’m not trying to support or scroll their blogs. Not only do I not wanna be there lots of them would look me in the eyes and tell me how much of an ableist piece of shit they think I am. Sorry about the little ramble I’m just so confused-

(anti-endos confuse me? I feel like they’re 100% just misguided or undereducated on the topic)

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Well you were spreading misinformation. I saw that convo. It's not harassment if you're posting this in the identity tags. You wouldn't get responses you don't want if you keep it to the relevant tags :) You're posting in the DID tags, you're making it everyone's business. Expect anyone to respond. That's how this site works.

ok jfc for future reference if you want to ask me about disorder experiences just send me a message i fucking hate syscourse freaks interacting with my posts claiming im "spreading misinformation" when clearly the post has nothing to do w them n its not their business. I HATE THE INTERNEEEEEEEEEETTTTTTTTTT i cant say shit w/o being harrassed

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Hi. Yeah. I coined pluralpunk. It's not for the antis spreading hate about endos. It's for every single origin to use if they want to. I vastly regret starting all this bullshit but you don't get to make things up, either. This isn't reclamation, it's harassment. Knock it off.

Plural was never a CDD exclusive term. Ever. There's no "reclaiming" it because it never belonged to us. It belongs to anyone who feels it applies to them.

Your DNI is useless if you're posting in places spreading hatred about others. You don't get to come into these spaces to bitch and expect people aren't going to push back. That's not a "boundary". That's not how this works.

I'd send you sources (scientific and peer reviewed) about non-traumagenic plurals but I highly doubt you'll read them.

tl;dr Careful what you say when you're making shit up because the people involved will find you and correct the shit out of you.

I don't really post about this kinda stuff anymore but

coming from a system who was harassed off their old account by endos due to us using plural tags.

YOU HAVE FULL RIGHT TO USE ANY TAGS TO DESCRIBE YOUR DISORDER.

yes plural, yes plurality, yes collective, yes multiple. Anything at all

If you get hate from endos who are breaking your boundaries and dni, block them

I tried to educate and inform, even simply telling them to not contact me, but they are harmful.

please just block them.

We can take the term plurality back from ableists

WE ARE SYSPUNK AND WE WILL RECLAIM OUR TERMS

I will very likely get harassed by their "safe" and "welcoming" community again. This time I will simply block them and ignore their hateful behavior. I advise you to do the same.

reassurance and advice under the cut:

Somthing a lot of endos claimed I was doing was being "hateful" for venting on my account about the ableism and misinformation from endos

You are not hateful for being upset about people faking, watering down, and spreading harmful misinformation about your DISORDER.

You didn't ask for this, none of us did

If an ableist (endo) calls you ableist, remember:

they "identify" as a non disordered system

you proving facts proved by psychology and the science of the development of a child's brain is NOT ableism, in fact, it can't be. They don't "identity" as having OSDDDID, they just identify with being a system. You proving them wrong is not and will never be ableist.

You are not in the wrong here. Your disorder is being appropriated and being treated horribly.

Endos support the idea of telling singlets to "become systems", even creating posts like "build an alter". Theres "syshopping" and "selling alters" which they've created. Making people take our disorder so much less seriously. Its horrible and extremely dangerous towards the young and impressionable minds on the internet.

FOR THE RECORD:

I do not support the idea of misusing tags that are genuinely for endos to stir up an argument (such as #endogenic #endos #pro endo)

It can be incredibly dangerous for your mental health and is being hateful, I know they're ableist, and it isn't fair, but we have to be the bigger person. We cannot stoop down to their level.

Yes, they will break your and my DNI's, they are harmful, this is a fact. But we must not break theirs,

we will be better than them.

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haha hi guys *pokes wasp nest*

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I feel like this needs to be shouted from the rooftops

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Hey now. I have friends on both side of the tracks. Don’t let my anti-misinformation stance fool you. If you steal this for either side (there is no reclamation here. I am a CDD System, again with friends on every side of syscourse). This is the exact same tactic as the antis you despise.

My point was ever only a joke. Not an excuse to drive a further wedge between everyone. Don’t use me as an an excuse or you’re not better than the other side.

yall correct me if I'm wrong but isn't syspunk/punk in general like accept ppl if they aren't hurting anyone?

SO WHAT IS THIS:

(I'm not gonna do a image ID for all of the tags, but some notable ones are #syspunk and #anti endo are like right next to eachother...? and the last one is "#endos are ableist" like WHAT)

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Basically.

I made a joke about someone claiming to be punk but hating on endos and accidentally started a war on sysblr. "Syspunk" is something technically I unfortunately coined and it was not supposed to go this way lol. Antis stole it and yes, it is generally accepted, unfortunately, that it's an anti term.

The actual accepting term that someone else created was "pluralpunk"

I'm sorry.

yall correct me if I'm wrong but isn't syspunk/punk in general like accept ppl if they aren't hurting anyone?

SO WHAT IS THIS:

(I'm not gonna do a image ID for all of the tags, but some notable ones are #syspunk and #anti endo are like right next to eachother...? and the last one is "#endos are ableist" like WHAT)

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Resurrecting this account since I've see so much of this shit lately. You don't get to hold one-sided hate-rants in the tags about the opposite side. We don't do that here.