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Diagnosed system here. Figured I’d let that be clear for context.

Fuck people who choose to not do research.

Fuck people who’d rather mock people’s experiences than learn from them.

Fuck people who would rather stay in their echo chamber, than grow as a person.

In essence, Fuck anti-endos.

fuck you too fagtard

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Coming BACK to his blog to say ; as a transneumasc intersex sys, ITS FINE TO CALL YOURSELVES TRANS. FULL STOP. IF THE BODY IS TRASNMASC OR A TRANS MAN AND YOU ARE A TRANS WOMAN, IT IS PERFECTLY FINE TO CALL YOURSELF A TRANS WOMAN. ANYONE THAT SAYS "well you shouldn't call yourself that cause you'll never know the REAL hardships of trans woman!!!" ARE BAD PEOPLE WITH BAD ARGUMENTS. THOSE KINDS OF ARGUMENTS ARE USED AGAINST INTERSEX PEOPLE ALL THE GOD DAMN TIME TO SCARE THEM OUT OF IDENTIFYING WITH TERMS THEY IDENTIFY WITH. ITS FUCKING FINE !!!!!!!

EXPLODES ALL INTERSEXIST PEOPLE EVERYWHERE

- 🌀 sys [🪜]

yea let people use what genders they want people it isnt so hard

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Hai yeah autistic intersex sys who cares a shit ton about this topic, gender is a made up concept based on sex. Which is also a concept that is taken wayyyy to factually when all sex is is just a bunch of common characteristics found together. Sex is fucking fluid. More fluid than we think as a society. And the term afab & amab are not fucking identities, they are forms of oppression for intersex people. So yeah. You can be transfem in an afab body, you can be transmasc in an amab body, you can have transfem alters in a transmasc body, etc etc etc.

I literally cannot express enough, this shit is all fake as hell. Do not fucking listen to dumb asses who want to enforce dumb societal rules upon you. Break free from that shit and be yourself.

- 🌀 sys [blurry]

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the whole "you cant have transfem alters in a transmasc body" is so,, stupid to me?? nobody who says this ever gives much of an explanation either. im so confused, what do you consider a transmasc body?? we don't have collective identities honestly. yes the current host is transmasc, yes im planning on transitioning our body, that doesn't change the fact that we have transfem alters.

the transfem alters also *formed* male and their identity changed overtime to be female. why is it that alters cannot do this while separate human beings can? why is it being implied that an alters identity and self expression is significantly less real just because they were formed in a shared body.

not to mention, what about alters who are transfem because it's important to healing or preventing triggers in some way?

at the very least give us other terms to use for alters who's formed gender is different from their current gender. im so sick of not being able to understand this argument,,,

yeah idk man i feel like alters should identify as whatever gender feels best for them :/

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hey uh...you should send me some stuff ^-^

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Using AI art for your faceclaim is fucking stupid, you can draw it, use picrew, find someones actual hard work instead of using AI for your faceclaim, fuck AI

yeah i agree using AI art for faceclaims is stupid and i think those people should be reported to death

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People don't understand that words and semantics aren't the issue. It is the encouragement of dissociative barriers. No one cares what you call your parts. Just know you aren't whole separate people and we're good.

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i very much agree. thinking any system above 18 is a predator that is gonna do smth bad to a minor system is actually weird as fuck! even if they are in their 20s or smth it still doesn't mean its weird for them to be friends with a minor, not at all...?

genuinely tell me if im wrong here chat

attention all minor systems

do not be friends with adult systems

OH MY GOD YES THIS PLEASE GUYS. DO NOT BEFRIEND ADULTS WITHIN THE COMMUNITY. NOT ONLY IS IT JUST ODD, IT CAN BE DANGEROUS. 😭 but also, it is an adults place to say no to interactions like that. if they don't, RUN THE OTHER WAY!!

[ID: STOP! this blog is a strictly anti-endo space! pro-endos and endo neutrals, shoo! shoo shoo!]

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If an alter is causing problems, you shouldn't put them on blast for it. The only person you should reveal the identity of them to is someone who can help you.

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[blazinghot-systemtakes]

My hottake is that no system is obligated to listen to other systems based on what someone thinks is problematic.

It's stupid when some entitled systems expect other people to agree with them, just because they're triggered or upset. We all get triggered here, especially over stupid things. But I think it's entitled to ask anyone to change themselves or delete their blog just because you don't like what they say. I wish more people just learned to use the block and filter buttons.

This isn't about endos, but about systems who coerce other people into taking their viewpoint as the most important one. This happens too much in our community, and I wish more people learned how to mind their own business or just how to grow up.

You don't need everyone to agree with you to think what you think, and I think more systems need to learn that. Learn to cope with the fact that people will disagree, and it doesn't make them inherently evil or problematic to do so.

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hot take:

there's too much emphasis put around words in this community.

like alter, headmate, internal whatever the fuck they mean the same thing why are we having arguments of which one you use cmon...

i guarantee using a different word is not going to negatively impact someone's healing

i actually havent heard about people doing that, welp..

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Hot take

Final fusion should not be pushed as the only option for healing. That is impossible for some people and simply learning to live with did is possible. Loving your system should be normalised and instead of 'preventing healing' it should be seen instead as a way of healing.

-g

yes!!

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oh cool hi

not a hot take but i wanted to make you aware, theres a blog thats seems to be copying you guys but they are pro endo? i just wanted to make you aware of it @ /blasinghotpluralrakes is the name of them

yeah another anon told me this but didn't tell me the blog name.

Tysm for telling me, uhh I'm glad that I now know this :/ I fucking hate pro endos man..

To that person that made the blog, your hatred for anti endos will never be valid, and I will celebrate the day we all can accept the fact that you all are pure filth.

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u get it

Hot take:

Banning littles from talking in servers, even if there's a "little's channel" where they will be treated like children, is anti-recovery behavior. Littles are NOT literal children and it is anti-recovery to treat them like they are.

yeah I totally agree. Littles are not actual literal fucking children and can sometimes(keyword:SOMETIMES) consent to romance, vulgar language, and sexual activities but for SOME REASON some of yall aren't ready for that yet

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Hot take:

Banning littles from talking in servers, even if there's a "little's channel" where they will be treated like children, is anti-recovery behavior. Littles are NOT literal children and it is anti-recovery to treat them like they are.

yeah I totally agree. Littles are not actual literal fucking children and can sometimes(keyword:SOMETIMES) consent to romance, vulgar language, and sexual activities but for SOME REASON some of yall aren't ready for that yet

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not a hot take but i wanted to make you aware, theres a blog thats seems to be copying you guys but they are pro endo? i just wanted to make you aware of it @ /blasinghotpluralrakes is the name of them

yeah another anon told me this but didn't tell me the blog name.

Tysm for telling me, uhh I'm glad that I now know this :/ I fucking hate pro endos man..

To that person that made the blog, your hatred for anti endos will never be valid, and I will celebrate the day we all can accept the fact that you all are pure filth.

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Shouldn't be a hot take but ALL fakeclaiming is bad. Period. Fakeclaiming is ALWAYS ABLEIST. STOP BEIN LITTLE BITCHES

totally!!!!