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So you ladies really think you can find an affluent man in the same place you found your dusty ex?  Would you find a Hermès Birkin bag at a Walmart???

You ladies ask me this question so often, you’d think the same person is just making different accounts to ask me the same question over and over again.

A lot of women wonder how to encounter a generous, rich, high-value man, but aren’t asking themselves the real question: How will a generous, rich, high-value man encounter YOU. The problem is you! You don’t put value on yourself! You think these men are the prize, which is why you’re trying to find them. You are the prize! They are trying to find you! But sadly, so many of you ladies can’t see that. The reality is many of you don’t know your worth. Work on this. Do better.

You are not putting yourself in the right places to be discovered, yet, somehow expect a wealthy man to just fall out of the sky (Surprise b****! He won’t.).

Read this thoroughly, ladies. Master this art. You can spend all day long perfecting your body, appearance, and social circle, but none of that will matter if you aren’t putting yourself in the right places to be seen.

🔥 Get out of the ghetto. An affluent man will not be living in Section 8, and neither will a hypergamous woman like you. So go where the wealthy go. Search the wealthiest neighborhoods within a 40 mile radius of where you live, and either move there (if you are in the position to do so), or start spending all your free time there. Go grab lunch at the restaurant where wealthy men work nearby, go shop at the luxury mall, join the upscale gym– place yourself where the wealthy are always.

🔥 Level-up your hobbies! Ladies, I knew nothing about golf, but I still paid for cheap golf lessons, then once I knew the basics, got membership at a luxury country club, and my minimal knowledge intrigued so many men. It really doesn’t take much, they were just impressed to see a young, beautiful woman take an interest in golf, and were eager to teach me more.

Find a luxury hobby that you are interested in, and invest in it! 

🔥 Feed your intellectual mind. Conferences (tech, engineering, science, business) are great for positioning yourself. Right now, most conferences are virtual (and free), so hop onto Eventbrite and find one today. Not only does attending a conference make you seem very intelligent and refined, but you appear more innocent at a conference. After all, what woman would purposely attend a boring conference with an ulterior motive? 😈

🔥 Get on your knees and pray, b****.  A majority of wealthy men are religious. Whether it’s Christianity, Judaism, Islam, sis, I want you to start learning. I’m not telling you to fake a religion, but go broaden your horizons and learn a bit more about them. Go to places of worship in wealthy areas only, and be sure to do your background research on the religion before attending. These men tend have more traditional values instilled in them too, so keep that in mind. *Also a good place to meet married girl friends from wealthy backgrounds*.

🔥 Dating Apps– meh. I’m not the biggest fan of dating apps, because Tinder is full of dusties, Bumble is for Pickmes, Seeking/Seeking Arrangements has too many scammers (plus, I do not recommend SA for hypergamous women), Raya is difficult to get on, Luxy is hit or miss, etc. I find the best way to encounter affluent men is in person. Some people have had great success on dating apps, my only warning would be to vet these men THOROUGHLY, and be ready to block quickly.

🔥 You are the hunter, he is your prey– but don’t let him know:  When you find your target, be sure that you are getting the necessary information from him quickly. You want to confirm his income, job, living arrangement, background, and personality as soon as possible. You must do this inconspicuously, make it seem like he is hunting you, when really, he is your prey.

Treat the hypergamous journey like a job, ladies.  But never forget that you are the prize.

Hypergamous Homework for the week: - Spend at least 2 days this week positioning yourself in the right places. - Speak to 3 different men this week that you do not know (Asking them for favors is a great method, “Excuse me, could you please reach the ____ for me?”) - Start planning out your weekend. Friday-Sunday is all about self care, fun, and enjoyment for you. 

[Money is not an excuse. If you are concerned about money, here are things you can do for free: gym free trial (also look into yoga, pilates, and dance classes, as they tend to give one class for free), home spa day to relax (bubble bath, face masks), dress up and go window shopping at the luxury mall, level up your social media, etc.]

Stop making excuses, ladies. Value yourself. 

🔥  Follow me on IG for more tips: @mademoisellehypergamy  🔥  Blog: https://mademoisellehypergamy.tumblr.com/

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✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨

Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies. 

DATING

- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan

- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles 

FEMININITY

- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SEDUCTION

- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin

- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green

- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SOCIAL CLIMBING

- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles

- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully

- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier

- The Social Climbers Bible,  Dirk Wittenborn

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