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Not to mention detransitioners, cis GNC people who wanted surgery or HRT typically made for trans people, or even just people that mistakenly got assigned a gender at birth for whatever reason

"amab genitalia" doesn't mean anything. There are intersex amabs with genitalia different from most perisex cis men's. there are transfeminine amabs who've gotten surgery which makes their genitalia different from most cis men's. if you mean "having a dick", or perisex cis male genitalia, then say that

Edit: and even "perisex cis male" doesn't narrow it down! It's rare, but they can also have genitalia that doesn't conform to your expectations. Penis, scrotum, vagina, vulva and etc. are not bad words!

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i’m wondering if i am gender nonconforming, and i have a question that i haven’t been able to find the answer to from individual research so i want to ask gender nonconforming ppl themselves

so i am under the nonbinary umbrella and afab, but i always present very feminine (like, more than most cis girls)

the definition i’m finding for gnc is essentially someone’s who’s gender expression is different from the societal expectation

in this case i think that would fall under gnc, because the expectation for nonbinary people is to be androgynous, and specifically for afab nonbinary ppl to present more masculine as they transition, however i dress very femininely, in fact more so after i realized i was trans than before

however all of the examples i see for gnc ppl r afabs who dress more masculine or amabs who dress more feminine

i ask bcs while i feel undeniably more myself when dressed very femininely (like, i cannot stand to be otherwise without it taking a decline on my mental health), i do get lots of dysphoria knowing that ppl don’t see me as my gender bcs i don’t act “trans enough”, but being able to take pride in being gnc instead would make that so so much less horrible (like, even just the thought of that potentially being the case feels like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders). but i absolutely do not want to intrude on a space that is not mine, so genuinely asking, would you considering me gender nonconforming ??

The thing is, I will say though, that my blog might've further pushed the belief that you are only GNC if you are either cisgender or binary transgender, and explicitly express yourself in a way that doesnt align with traditional/conservative ideals of your gender identity, but being GNC doesn't have to be that. Another thing is that ok this blog, I usually just post other people's direct poll suggestions, and some submissions may have been exclusive of many (for example, one of the polls submitted here asked "GNC people: are you trans?" and didn't include a binary transgender option.)

GNC is being gender non conforming, aka not conforming to set preconceived notions of gender. A feminine/androgynous AMAB man may use the term GNC. A masculine/androgynous AMAB woman may use the term GNC. but I know some masculine people AMAB may consider themselves GNC, and some feminine people AFAB may consider themselves GNC. They could be binary transgender, or non binary, or something else. But they're still GNC.

In fact, a lot of people might feel like they fit the term GNC, and they don't have to be strictly binary female or male. Some GNC people express gender non conformity I'm the sense that their own concepts and ideas of gender don't fit the binary male or female. I know some non binary people/people with a more complex gender identity that would call themselves GNC on the basis of the fact that they're non binary, and not now they choose to externally express themselves. For example, someone that identifies as xenogender may consider themselves to be GNC, not because of how they express their gender, but just what their gender is itself - though I'm getting a bit off topic // Some people may not call any non binary people GNC due to the fact that being non binary is not as common, so there may not be specific overly popular or traditional norms of what a non binary person "should be". But gender and gender expression are both pretty complex, so I wouldn't gatekeep the term in GNC.

If you feel like the term GNC fits you, and feels right to you, use it to your will. Due to it being a social construct almost entirely, there are not strict rules. For me, personally, I never had to do research on whether I was GNC or not. I just saw the word and the looser definition of it, and accepted it for me, due to personally thinking it fits me. There might be people in this world who might not view me as GNC or "GNC enough", but I wouldn't care too much about them.

A non binary person might be expected to act as androgynously as possible by some people, and so if a nonbinary person expresses themselves in a way that does not align with gender norms or stereotypes set for non binary people, then, ifi were in that position, I would not mind the term GNC for me. This may wary from individual to individual, however.

In short, I don't think there are strict rules to being GNC, because I feel that kinda contradicts what being GNC represents in the first place - not conforming to expectations set by society.

Actually, I'd go as far to say that there are not RULES for being GNC, especially no strict ones. Some people would dare and say that you cannot be a GNC woman/butch if you have long hair, due to the fact that in many cultures, long hair is viewed as feminine - however, what those people fail to realize, is that they may be exclusive of cultures in which long hair is not viewed as feminine. which is important

Another thing - GNC to some people may be a meaningful label, and may bring a huge sense of community and acceptance and confidence, and for some other people it may be just another word that seems to fit them. To me, personally, many words are just that - names for things we experience. For many it can be comforting to know you are GNC. To some, they don't need a name for it. You might. Or you might not.

If you feel like it fits you, then go for it, call yourself GNC - you are not invading or violating anyone, lol. // But those are just my thoughts. Other people might have opinions that differ from mine. // There are many other things I could say, but this is all I have for now. Feel free to ask anything else if you'd like to hear my or anyone else's thoughts!

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(Nsfw poll) Gnc people, are you into crossdressing as a kink/fetish?

1. Yes, when I crossdress

2. Yes, when others crossdress

3. Yes, either or both parties

4. No

5. Not sure

6. Not gnc/I dont experience sexual attraction/see results

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have you gotten harassed in some way (physically or verbally) because you are visibly gnc

yes often

it has happened once or twice

no i havent

not sure

not gnc/see results

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Are polls that have nsfw content but still relate to gender nonconformity allowed?

Sure! For people who'd like to avoid those polls, make sure to filter things such as #nsfw, #tw nsfw and such tags

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I NEED TO MAKE AT LEAST 500 DOLLARS IN 2 MONTHS OR I DONT KNOW HOW ILL SURVIVE MOVING OUT.

im delilah and im an openly queer plural tgirl living in a shitty homophobic place in texas, and im going to be kicked out on june 1, 2024.

that means if you see this post before june 1, 2024, there is still time to help me. please.

hey yall. this is probably gonna be one of the last posts about this, since im running out of time. because of @punkitt-is-here's super awesome kind reblog, i managed to make about 500 dollars, bringing me up to 1500, but after that things have slowed down to nearly nothing again. thank you to everyone that has donated, i appreciate it more than you could know, and thank you to the handful of famous people who reblogged and gave me a shitload of exposure.

im not sure if making 500 dollars in the next 2 months is going to be like.. possible. and after all the research ive been doing, im honestly not completely confident that 2000 dollars is going to be enough. im hoping that ill be able to pay for a few months of rent at once, so that im more likely to be able to get a place without already having a job in abq. so right now, my goal is basically "crowdfund as much as i possibly can so i dont have to live on the streets"

im hoping for a miracle right now. maybe, under the right circumstances, that could be you. maybe you just got paid and you dont have anything to use the paycheck on, maybe you have a bunch of savings that you could spare a portion of, i dont know, but god, i could really use as much kindness as i can find right now.

thank you to all the people who have helped already, i appreciate it more than you could know, and im hoping it helps me survive.

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I NEED TO MAKE AT LEAST 500 DOLLARS IN 2 MONTHS OR I DONT KNOW HOW ILL SURVIVE MOVING OUT.

im delilah and im an openly queer plural tgirl living in a shitty homophobic place in texas, and im going to be kicked out on june 1, 2024.

that means if you see this post before june 1, 2024, there is still time to help me. please.

hey yall. this is probably gonna be one of the last posts about this, since im running out of time. because of @punkitt-is-here's super awesome kind reblog, i managed to make about 500 dollars, bringing me up to 1500, but after that things have slowed down to nearly nothing again. thank you to everyone that has donated, i appreciate it more than you could know, and thank you to the handful of famous people who reblogged and gave me a shitload of exposure.

im not sure if making 500 dollars in the next 2 months is going to be like.. possible. and after all the research ive been doing, im honestly not completely confident that 2000 dollars is going to be enough. im hoping that ill be able to pay for a few months of rent at once, so that im more likely to be able to get a place without already having a job in abq. so right now, my goal is basically "crowdfund as much as i possibly can so i dont have to live on the streets"

im hoping for a miracle right now. maybe, under the right circumstances, that could be you. maybe you just got paid and you dont have anything to use the paycheck on, maybe you have a bunch of savings that you could spare a portion of, i dont know, but god, i could really use as much kindness as i can find right now.

thank you to all the people who have helped already, i appreciate it more than you could know, and im hoping it helps me survive.

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trans gnc people, do people ever assume you're trans in the opposite direction when they hear you're trans? (like someone assuming a gnc trans man is a trans woman, or vice-versa)

1. yes, almost always

2. yes, sometimes

3. it's happened once or twice

4. no, never happened

5. not trans and gnc/see results

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For gnc people, which describes your gender the most accurately?

I am 100% cis male, I just like feminine things (ie: wearing female clothes, doing traditionally female activities)

I am 100% cis female, I just like masculine things (ie: wearing male clothes, doing traditionally male activities)

I am a mix of genders, but I'm more male than female

I am a mix of genders, but I'm more female than male

My gender changes all the time/genderfluid

I'm not really male or female, I'm a third gender

I'm no gender/agender/gender does not apply to me

None of these really describe me, but I still consider myself to be gnc

See results

Sorry I shortened the answers a bit I was lazy :p

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How about a poll for if you've gotten more gnc or less gnc with age?

Do let me know if you'd like me to change this poll or redo it.

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Aghhh i forgot option 5, sorry !!

(Poll idea) gnc people are you attracted to other gnc people

1. Yes exclusively

2. Yes more often than not

3. I have no preference one way or the other/it's half and half

4. Not really

5. Not at all

6. Depends on some other factor (like their gender or how they present their gnc-ness)

7. I don't know/haven't thought about this

8. I don't experience attraction/see results

Feel free to add poll options that I forgot to put here im tired

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(Poll idea) gnc people are you attracted to other gnc people

1. Yes exclusively

2. Yes more often than not

3. I have no preference one way or the other/it's half and half

4. Not really

5. Not at all

6. Depends on some other factor (like their gender or how they present their gnc-ness)

7. I don't know/haven't thought about this

8. I don't experience attraction/see results

Feel free to add poll options that I forgot to put here im tired

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Sorry for lack of activity on this blog, it simply has zero submitted polls at the moment, and we don't have any ideas on what to make polls for.

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may i ask for a promo of my new polls blog ? /nf

@mogai-polls

Sure! Sounds cool

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Hi! I love the idea of this blog and wanted to ask if you make poll runtime longer? I don’t have time to check tumblr every single day and so far I have only ever seen polls after voting closed

I always try to make it a week long (maximum time length), but many times I forget - (sorry about that, I have some not-too serious memory issues :p). Thanks or reminding me I should be more conscious about it!

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Hey I really appreciate that this account exists <3

Being GNC (at least for me) often means ending up falling through the cracks of how people discuss and understand gender & sexuality- LGBTQ community included :( [To be clear- I AM a member of the community]

So it's nice to hear about other GNC people's experiences!

(Also, IDK if you want to run the account this way, but if you're considering allowing anons to give themselves an emoji you tag their submissions with: I'd like to request 🦣, the mammoth emoji!)

Thank you and I hope you have a great day :-)

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Here is a poll idea!

""' GNC people: at what life stage did you first understand yourself to be GNC *and* that it 100% was NOT something you'd 'grow out of' ?

(Exact years are flexible and are offered as guidelines; the submitter is mostly interested in life stages) ""

Options for answers:

* Age 10 and under (young/middle childhood, primary school or younger)

* 11-14 (late childhood/early adolescence, middle school or equivalent)

* 15-18 (secondary school, mid/late teens)

* 18 - 22 (university age/young adulthood)

* mid 20's - early 30's (early-career adulthood)

* later 30's - early 40's (established adulthood)

* mid 40's on up (middle-aged and onward)

* It's complicated ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

* Not GNC button/See results

Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm glad it brings some people joy :) I'll try doing something more with it in the future, maybe even besides just polls. Having so many people similiar to me here brings me such a sense of community, because I don't know that many GNC people in real life (I live in a rather conservative country, so maybe that's why :/). I'm glad other people get to experience the same feeling of community and belonging

I can 100% do the emoji anon thingy if that's what anyone would like!

Ok now for the poll

I hope you don't mind me not typing EVERYTHING in, I'm a little tired and lazy as of now