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Trans men always end up making the absolute hottest bears I'm so lucky to share a community with trans bears. Doing the world a favor just by existing

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Happy trans day of visibility!! No matter where you fall on the trans umbrella - transmasc, transfem, nonbinary, genderfluid, genderqueer, multigender, etc - your identity is beautiful and you are cherished. Transness is beautiful and so are you!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ 💙💖🤍💖💙

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Inspired by that other post with the lesbian flag. Reblog to support trans gays of color and piss off bigoted transphobes :3

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Been seeing weird redundant conflicts in the queer community again lately. I get times are stressful but why must we pit two bad bitches against each other

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This is probably gonna piss off a lot of exclusionists and separatists, but with my own feelings of being a trans man, I'm trans first and a man second. You can't treat me like a cis man or lump me in with them because I'm not a cis man and I don't share their common experiences. I'm not comfortable with that. I grew up a girl, now I'm a man and that affects how I am and how I view the world. I'm trans first and I'm proud of that

This obviously isn't to invalidate other trans men who feel differently, by the way. It isn't about you

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Sorry (not really) but if you genuinely think trans men and transmascs discussing transphobia and other the oppression they face is the same as privileged cis men complaining about feminism "ruining manhood" or whatever they talk about you're not making any valid points. You're just plain transphobic

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Lesbian men? You mean the coolest fuckers on this planet??

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Always funny when people like or reblog my super positive queer inclusive posts and then realize I support multigender people and mspec gays/lesbians and immediately block me. Like what did you think "I love men who are also women" or "I love lesbians who are men" in my posts meant? A twink anime boy that teenagers call babygirl sometimes??

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People need to get rid of the weird idea that queer men being attracted to queer women is somehow predatory and "fetishizing" like when cishetallo men chase after queer women

Like as a queer man I genuinely find myself more attracted to queer women over cishetallo women because guess what? I'm queer and I find that shared experience comforting. I would have more in common with a queer person than a cishet woman. Acting like queer men and cishetallo men are exactly the same is odd and has tons of queerphobic vibes to it that people need to unpack at some point

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Being both lesbian and a gay man at the same time is metal as fuck honestly. Love that for other queer people, you're a staple of the community o7

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Hey just in case it wasn't obvious by my posts that say stuff about loving bigender people or multigender people or gender fuckery. We support lesbian men and achillean women here. And mspec lesbians and mspec gays. If you don't then just don't interact with my positivity posts because they always include them whether you like that or not ✌

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Not a positivity post, but I'm thinking right now about how fucked up it is that non-transfems mangled valid points transfems made about how other trans people can be transmisogynistic and instead of being supportive, they used their issues to shield their use of transphobia against every other trans person

Like, you have a trans woman make a post discussing how she'd feel alienated in largely non-transfem spaces and how a lot of those people seemed to hold transmisogynistic ideals. And then some people under the guise of being "supportive" would take that point, turn around and say "yes, this means all other trans people are actually super awful and shouldn't exist. Especially trans men. And we should hate them and be horrible to them because its justified now"

And the worst thing is these people, as said, were largely NOT transfem. They were cis, transneutral, or even self-hating transmascs who pushed these weird terfy narratives in supposedly "progressive" spaces. And because they all decided to pull that shit to be awful to trans people as a whole, using the minced words of transfems as a shield means that transfems themselves get more hatred from the people in these largely generalized groups of "other" trans people who actually are transphobic, with the double whammy of just ruining trans people's mental health with thinly veiled "justified" transphobia on top of it

I don't really trust non-transfems in a lot of these discussions because of how often this happens. It's weird people can't let transfems exist without using them in some way for either a vessel of their hatred or their own bigoted ideals because they think supporting one type of trans person is good enough to excuse the rest of their bigotry

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By the way this blog supports Palestine 🇵🇸

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Straight trans people are fucking rad by the way

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Like it really should go without saying that my body shouldn't be a fetish just to get appreciated. Fat bodies shouldn't be fetishes, trans bodies shouldn't be fetishes. If you can't appreciate those bodies without associating it with kink then I don't want you following me

Hey, as a fat man, can feederism and other fat kink blogs kindly fuck off? That shit makes me uncomfortable

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Hey, as a fat man, can feederism and other fat kink blogs kindly fuck off? That shit makes me uncomfortable

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men are sexy and hot actually. you’re not wrong for being a man or liking men. you’re actually incredibly attractive for doing that. btw