meekdeer2020

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“I’m not anti-social; I’m pro-solitude.”

— Beth Buelow

[meekdeer2020]

well I think I speak for everyone when I say. wholeheartedly.

who the fuck is mrs flood

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HAPPY PRIDE PEOPLE!!!!!

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

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i'm too young to be forgetting what happened 5 minutes ago

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Ace, Sapphic, and Panromantic moodboard~ ^^ For @meekdeer2020 c: Hope you like the look~

Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay

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June 1st: ✅

Flags out: ✅

ITS…

PRIDE MONTH!!!!!

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH MAJORITY OF TUMBLR USERS!!!!!!!!

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happy ace week!!!!

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It's that time of year again babes,

✨🖤🤍💜HAPPY ACE WEEK!🖤🤍💜✨

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I dream of a day when more influencers and famous people have DNIs for aphobes, where it's commonplace to see people in the spotlight supporting and raising awareness and funds for ace and aro causes and support. Where aspec idenities are included in pride editions of merchandise. I await the tipping point in society when the words asexual and aromantic even if not agreed on, most people have at least heard of so I don't have to make a ted talk whenever I bring up my orientation. A day when not only sexual orientation but also romantic orientation is explicitly included in the non discrimination policies of employers and the like.

It won't be an easy path of course, and even when we get there it will be painful and unfortunately spark a lot of hate well. Maybe there will be times I will wish we could go back into the shadows we are in right now. Yet at the same time I desperately want that tipping point in society to just rip off the bandaid and start the process despite me being someone who likes to keep my orientation to myself with 99% of people I interact with in real life. Progress is slow, but the ball has started rolling. I await the day when aspec orientations step into the spotlight, even if I'm not one of them.

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happy ace week little acespec people on my phone 💜😚

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hi hi hi happy asexual awareness week! especially to those who don't feel they fit quite right

as in. the demisexuals, the greysexuals, those who are questioning asexuality or those who identify as it but still feel unsure anyways. those who are sex positive or sex neutral. those who are sex-repulsed, or those who worry that they think they're not really ace, maybe just allo and sex-repulsed. those who think they'll grow out of it, and those who worry if they'll still identify as asexual later. those who experience intrusive thoughts, those who have other factors play into their identity, those who end up worrying about it because of these factors.

it's okay not to feel confident. it's okay to worry. just think of right now, this week. you're valid. this week is for you, too.

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we are not born to die!! what are you talking about!! do you think a book begins just to finish? do you think a song opens with a beautiful chord just for it to end? you don’t read the book to finish it, you read the book to eat up the excitement and the emotions it evokes!! to learn and to digest and to fall in love and be heartbroken!! you listen to the song to dance and dance and sing your throat raw!!! to cry and smile and swell with the harmonies!! yes, we are born with the inevitable fate of death, we are mortal after all, but that is merely the finale of the play!! the final act, the closing of the curtains - we are not born to take a bow and exit stage left!! we are born to love and be joyous and yell and move and learn and cry and feelfeelfeel!!!  we are not born to die, silly, we’re born to live!!!

[meekdeer2020]

Finding micro labels for me is like:

I’ll have you

And you

Ooh I like you

Then I end up with a list.

Whoop whoop!!

❤️💛🧡💚💙💜

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During this pride month, I wanted to say that all asexuals are valid! No matter your romantic orientation, your sex favorability, or your specific identity under the asexual umbrella! You are loved and you are LGBTQ+!

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free reaction image for the aces ♡

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Happy Pride Month