melamemea

[melamemea]

with the year coming to an end, send me a "🎆" and a ...

❤️ to hear one thing i am thankful for this year

🫣 to hear one thing i wish i hadn't done this year

😅 to hear one thing i didn't expect to go through with

🥶 to hear one thing that still gives me the creeps !

🤡 to hear one thing i'm still embarrassed of having done

💫 to hear one thing i realized this year

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So came the evening where see you later became goodbye, how was work became is this yours as we, one piece after another, began picking apart a puzzle that had grown mismatched incomplete beyond mending; as all good puzzles teach us, starting over might be fine.

b.b

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Every so often another mun who followed me first will, bafflingly, write my VERY CLEARLY NONHUMAN MUSE a starter or meme response in which they respond as though they are human. I have my about page in the pinned post, I have a post begging people to read the basic muse information, and still, potential rp partners somehow get the idea, by not reading literally anything on my blog for the slightest iota of a moment, that my muse is human. How do I get this to stop happening??? 😭

Communicate.

There might be an uncertainty as to whether one can/should assume that your character's supernatural/paranormal traits are to be acknowledged/noticed by those around them. A lot of authors may consider assuming that such traits/nature being perceived as meta-gaming from the person who responds.

Approach the role play partner in question, talk to them and communicate your concerns/thoughts about the replies you actively receive. As productive as writing posts might be, always considering one to one communication on top of it. Never skip out on a simple message.

Mela

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general reminders to make you role play days easier .

allow yourself to set boundaries !

clear your thoughts and concerns with your partners !

ask when you are uncertain !

allow yourself to say no !

let go of any unnecessary guilt !

it's better to have messaged one time too many than one too few !

ask for help !

allow yourself to clean out your inbox and threads !

take breathing breaks !

the amount of likes do not define you or your content !

role play is mean to to be fun, and the second it starts affecting you or your health negatively it's a sign that you need to realign your priorities. ❤️

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Why aggressiveness in the RPC is not the way to attraction positive interactions, a small public service announcement.

There are several things in the RPC that tends to get to us as role players, whether it's an event in the series/movie/game/etc. or the way people portray characters differently, and while everyone is entitled to their opinion aggressiveness is not the way to go.

"Fuck fanon"

"Fuck them for fucking writing them like this"

"Fuck the authors for fucking doing this to my fucking character"

"Fuck you, fuck everyone, fuck this, fuck that"

"I don't care what people think, fuck them"

"Fuck them for not answering me"

"Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck"

To be surrounded with such negative language, day in and day out, does something to people's mentality and it will potentially make people more reluctant to interact with you. Everyone are free to express their opinions, naturally, but pay a thought to how you come off to people around you. If you actively display an aggressive behavior, people are less likely to approach you and it might also start affecting you, how you feel and how you think. There's nothing wrong in disagreeing with a take, a comment, a portrayal etc. because differences are important, but think about the energy you're putting into the RPC.

There is no need to be aggressive, you are in charge of your own dashboard. If something makes you aggressive, part with it. If someone makes you aggressive, step away from them. Tend to your dashboard and cater it as you need.

[melamemea]

general reminders to make you role play days easier .

allow yourself to set boundaries !

clear your thoughts and concerns with your partners !

ask when you are uncertain !

allow yourself to say no !

let go of any unnecessary guilt !

it's better to have messaged one time too many than one too few !

ask for help !

allow yourself to clean out your inbox and threads !

take breathing breaks !

the amount of likes do not define you or your content !

role play is mean to to be fun, and the second it starts affecting you or your health negatively it's a sign that you need to realign your priorities. ❤️

[melamemea]

Why aggressiveness in the RPC is not the way to attraction positive interactions, a small public service announcement.

There are several things in the RPC that tends to get to us as role players, whether it's an event in the series/movie/game/etc. or the way people portray characters differently, and while everyone is entitled to their opinion aggressiveness is not the way to go.

"Fuck fanon"

"Fuck them for fucking writing them like this"

"Fuck the authors for fucking doing this to my fucking character"

"Fuck you, fuck everyone, fuck this, fuck that"

"I don't care what people think, fuck them"

"Fuck them for not answering me"

"Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck"

To be surrounded with such negative language, day in and day out, does something to people's mentality and it will potentially make people more reluctant to interact with you. Everyone are free to express their opinions, naturally, but pay a thought to how you come off to people around you. If you actively display an aggressive behavior, people are less likely to approach you and it might also start affecting you, how you feel and how you think. There's nothing wrong in disagreeing with a take, a comment, a portrayal etc. because differences are important, but think about the energy you're putting into the RPC.

There is no need to be aggressive, you are in charge of your own dashboard. If something makes you aggressive, part with it. If someone makes you aggressive, step away from them. Tend to your dashboard and cater it as you need.

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if you're taking meme requests could i ask for some cowboy/western prompts please?

we'll see what we can do , partner

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Don't take it out on others

A PSA addressing behavior that's often excused due to mental health.

We all have our issues, our bad days and bad periods, we have our problems and our frustrations, but despite all these thorns in our sides, it's never, ever okay to take it out on someone through passive aggressive behavior, name calling or any other rude approaches.

In these situations one has to address themselves, step back and breathe, find something to stimulate that part of yourself that's not doing well. Get some fresh air by opening a window to breathe, get a glass of water, lie on the floor for a hot minute and just relax. take a break, and ask someone if they can help you.

If you don't have someone you want to rely on or you're someone that doesn't want to bother anyone, write it down. Get it out somehow. but don't ever, ever think that it's okay to take it out on someone else, because it's not.

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it is not your followers' obligation or responsibility to make sure that you feel acknowledged on tumblr, for while we all feel down, insecure and in need of reassurance from time to time it is not under any circumstances on your followers to make sure that you feel loved. they are people, individuals who have their own lives, so to place your need for reassurance in the hands of someone else is selfish. it is not other people's job to make you feel good about yourself in a hobby.

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send me "I don't want to be alone tonight." for my muse's reaction to yours saying that to mine.

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honkai star rail song lyrics meme .

white night .

"I want you to show me your fantasy"

"No past and no future, that's what I need"

"I thought that dream could light our way"

"Be my savior."

"Take me away"

"There's nothin' else left for me to do"

"I don't wanna be alone tonight"

"Just be my savior"

"You don't need to know the truth"

"Let me rave forever in your life"

if i can stop one heart from breaking

"Birds are born with no shackles"

"Then what fetters my fate?"

"Leave me trapped in the cage"

"The endless isolation can wear down my illusion"

"Someday, I'll make a dream unchained"

"Let my heart bravely spread the wings"

"Let the clouds heal me of the stings"

"Gently wipe the sorrow off my life"

"What is meant by "miraclе" ?"

"But how could I escape?"

"No further hesitation on those unanswered questions"

"I dream."

[melamemea]

send me "I don't want to be alone tonight." for my muse's reaction to yours saying that to mine.

[melamemea]

Don't take it out on others

A PSA addressing behavior that's often excused due to mental health.

We all have our issues, our bad days and bad periods, we have our problems and our frustrations, but despite all these thorns in our sides, it's never, ever okay to take it out on someone through passive aggressive behavior, name calling or any other rude approaches.

In these situations one has to address themselves, step back and breathe, find something to stimulate that part of yourself that's not doing well. Get some fresh air by opening a window to breathe, get a glass of water, lie on the floor for a hot minute and just relax. take a break, and ask someone if they can help you.

If you don't have someone you want to rely on or you're someone that doesn't want to bother anyone, write it down. Get it out somehow. but don't ever, ever think that it's okay to take it out on someone else, because it's not.

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it is not your followers' obligation or responsibility to make sure that you feel acknowledged on tumblr, for while we all feel down, insecure and in need of reassurance from time to time it is not under any circumstances on your followers to make sure that you feel loved. they are people, individuals who have their own lives, so to place your need for reassurance in the hands of someone else is selfish. it is not other people's job to make you feel good about yourself in a hobby.

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canon questionare.

questions best asked for those who portray canon characters, and for those who’d like to get to know the author behind said canons better.

What made you pick up this character?

How did you get into this franchise/fandom?

What’s the best thing about the show/series/books/comics/etc.?

What’s the worst thing about the show/series/books/comics/etc.?

What’s the best thing about the fandom?

What’s the worst thing about the fandom?

What’s the best thing about the canon you are writing?

What’s the worst thing about the canon you are writing?

Have you tweaked the character from canon? If so, what did you tweak?

Would you say that your portrayal is canon divergent or not? 

Are there some things you dislike about how the show/series/etc. portray the character you have picked up? If so, what?

What would you say is the most unique trait about your character?

Are there any other characters from the franchise you’d like to play?

Are there some characters from the franchise you can’t stand? 

What are your thoughts on the canon ships for the character, if any?

What is your personal ship bias for your canon character?

Are there any ships you can’t stand, why?

How long have you been writing the character?

Should people get into the franchise your writing from, yes or no?

If you could sum up your character with one sentence, what would it be?

Which song do you feel describes your character the most and why?

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the art of approaching someone with their back turned.

below is a list of prompts suitable for when you're approaching, or being approached, with your back turned to someone. some might be dark, triggers apply to this. if you wish for it to be reversed add + reverse (or flexible if you want to leave it up to the author.

(DRAG) for sender to drag a finger up or down receiver's back.

(GRAZE) for sender to graze their knuckles up or down receiver's back.

(HIDE) for sender to hide their face against receiver's back.

(KISS) for sender to leave a kiss against receiver's back.

(KNIFE) for sender to press the tip of a knife against someone's back.

(LIFT) for sender to lift away receiver's hair from their neck / back and leave a kiss.

(MASSAGE) for sender to massage receiver's back.

(NUZZLE) for sender to nuzzle their nose against receiver's back.

(NAILS) for sender to drag their nails down receiver's back.

(NEAR) for receiver to lay near to sender's back but not quite touching them.

(REST) for sender to lay on top of receiver's back for a rest.

(SLEEP) for sender to fall asleep on receiver's back.

(TICKLE) for sender to capture receiver and tickle them.

(WRAP) for sender to wrap around receiver from behind and pull them closely.

(WRITE) for receiver to write something against receiver's back.

(WHISPER) for receiver to whisper something against sender's back.