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[muffinsandmittens]

I love you butch and stud transfems, masc transfems, gnc transfems, and androgynous transfems. I love you transfems with big noses. I love you transfems with facial hair. I love you transfems who are tall. I love you transfems with broad shoulders. I love you transfems with small chests. I love you transfems with short hair.

You’re expression of womanhood in whatever way you choose to express it is so beautiful.

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Sometimes, you might be so fed up as a binary trans person that you might think, "it would be so much easier if I was nonbinary!". Sometimes, you might be so fed up as a nonbinary person that you might think, "it would be so much easier if I were binary!".

It's understandable to think that if you don't know about the experience of other groups of trans people - you might think that some groups of trans people are entirely exempt from certain experiences. However, this isn't the case - even if two groups of trans people typically have different experiences, there are still hardships that they might experience. And to a transphobe? It doesn't matter who you are, it matters that you are. This is why solidarity between all groups of trans people is so important. We survive together.

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how is an autistic queer trans man supposed to make friends as an adult?

homophobic, transphobic and racist country towns are not a place for such a guy. and now im stuck as a 22 year old loner who's best friend is his trans girlfriend.

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If you're holding back on being masc because you think you need to be a skinny white man to pass, give that the fuck up. Be big if you're big, be brown if you're brown, be assertive, take up space, be whatever the fuck kind of man/masc you are and stop waiting. Stop trying to diminish your power out of fear.