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nicogotscared · 16 hours
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oh hey! i remember that around 2020 i used to be best friends with a girl who came from another region of the country (northeast, more specifically, i'm from the south of Brazil) and i can really say that spending time with people with an accent can influence you
In my case this happened without me wanting to, I actually picked up the accent from the OTHER SIDE OF THE COUNTRY because of this friend of mine and I only lost it because of the pandemic
(It is important to mention that perhaps one thing that influenced this is autism)
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TRANSACCENT TiPS.
PT: Transaccent tips.
Hang out with people who have your desired accent, ask them to teach you, read about the accent or watch YouTube videos, practice your accent, in time you will be able to replicate it!
I recommend that you get used to speaking in that accent, take time to perfect your pronunciation, sit alone in your room or wherever you want and practice.
Study the history of that accent, but don't memorize it, just practice.
Talking fast will make you nervous, speak slowly.
Don't write like you talk! The construction of written and oral language are different, you may have errors.
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Pt: If you dont like us, just block!
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nicogotscared · 7 days
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dicas pra encontrar radqueers (e associados) brasileiros? Ja é difícil achar o pessoal mogai, quem me dera os radqueers.
pior que eu nao sei bem, a maioria acaba fazendo post em ingles justamente 0q a comunidade eh muito mais gringa, mas tem bastante radqueer e inclus br também
eu diria que vc pode encontrar alguns brs e ver as contas que eles interagem e etc, eu to pensando wm criar um grupo pra inclus inclusive
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nicogotscared · 7 days
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I saw a lot of people on Twitter talking about how they wanted this manga to be about a queer couple between two women, but I honestly think the fact that it's a man-woman couple makes it EVEN BETTER
I, as a GNC transmasc, feel very happy to see a manga where both protagonists are GNC, where a boy wears "feminine" clothes and a girl wears "masculine" clothes, and seeing this manga I feel obliged to create headcanons about them being t4t
honestly, it's kind of sad that you look at a boy who wears feminine clothes and immediately think "gee, he could be a girl", you should take advantage of the few GNC representations we have, there's nothing wrong if you have hc that they're a wlw couple, but please stop acting like a mlw couple can't be cool and queer too
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nicogotscared · 7 days
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— VAMPYQUEER 🦇🌈, 🩸🌈, 🥄🌈.
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VampyQueer is a Queer Stance focused on paraphilias and immorality. This does NOT include crimes and pro-contact/complex-contact. Pro-C/C-Con, this queer stance is not for you.
Pro-Para.
Strictly Anti-Contact & Anti-Complex-Contact, Anti-Abuse.
Pro-ConSang.
Pro-Kink.
Anti-Moralism.
Pro-Ship, Anti-Censorship.
Inclusive of contradictory labels, m-spec, etc.
Anti-XenoSatanism, Anti-BasedQueer, Anti-LSDQueer, Neutral on RadQueer.
Anti-Christianism.
Coined By @d4hlial0v3rrr And Me ! 🗝️
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nicogotscared · 10 days
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my personal profic pipeline [🚬⛓️]
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nicogotscared · 10 days
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SIGMATSU FLAG
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FROM THE RIVER TO THE SEA 🍉
🇧🇷: literalmente uma bandeira inspiradas nos sigmatsu (ship atsushi com sigma), isso pode ser usado pra ship não-romantico também
🇺🇲: literally a flag inspired by sigmatsu (ship atsushi with sigma), this can be used for non-romantic ship too
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nicogotscared · 10 days
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cocozão !
irmao vai se fode
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nicogotscared · 11 days
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𓎟† TRANSiD C◇DES †𓎟
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🌈☂️ , 🌈🍥 , 🌈🔁 ~ TRANSEVERYTHiNG / TRANSPAN / TRANSPANDiA .
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☂️🤝 , 🍥🤝 , 🔁🤝 ~ TRANSiD H♡ARDER .
O = ♡ I = i !!
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nicogotscared · 17 days
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TransID pride month 2024 calendar
The finalized version! No one had any complaints about the themes, so they're the same, but I did shuffle some days around compared to the draft, so be sure to check this version!
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There were also a couple questions, so let me answer those real quick.
Q: "It's not transID pride month, it's actually Hispanic heritage / Alzheimer's & cancer awareness / national suicide prevention / 9/11 / etc. month."
A: As you proved yourself, months can have multiple themes. June, for example, is not just queer pride month, but PTSD awareness month, children's awareness month, immigrant heritage month, and more. I'm not even the one who decided September to be the month, that was decided a good while ago. (This was "asked" by an anti, but I bet others are also thinking this.)
Q: Can transabled, transPOC, (etc.) beings also be apart of the disabled/neurodivergent, POC, (etc.) days?
A: Of course! I'm not here to tell you what you can and cannot do, anyways, do what you want.
No credit necessary if you share this, either!
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nicogotscared · 17 days
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in fact, feel free to elaborate on any of the options- It's a genuine question because I've seen people saying different things about it
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nicogotscared · 17 days
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Intersex Support FAQ
1. What is intersex?
Intersex is an umbrella term that describes people who have variations in sex characteristics that fall outside of the sex binary. This includes variations in genitals, internal reproductive organs like testes and ovaries, chromosomes, secondary sex characteristics, and/or the way that your body produces or responds to hormones. Some examples of intersex variations include AIS, CAH, PCOS, Klinefelters, hypospadias, and more. 
The three main factors that define intersex variations are: 
Variation in sex characteristics 
The variation falls outside of the sex binary and is different from what is considered typical “male” or “female” development. These variations in traits might often be stigmatized and discriminated against for being outside of the sex binary.
This variation is either present from birth or develops spontaneously later in life. It is not caused by transitioning or by something temporary like a medication side effect, tumor, or other medical diagnosis. 
(This definition is inspired by InterACT).
2. Does ____ count as intersex? 
There are around 40 different intersex variations that are currently known. InterACT”s intersex variation glossary lists out those intersex variations and gives a brief description of each one.
However, we know that isn’t a complete list. People have intersex variations that haven’t been medically researched yet, or might have a rare variation that the intersex community isn’t aware of yet. 
There are also some variations that might seem on the border between perisex and intersex. Some types of hormonal or reproductive diagnoses might not have a clear answer on whether they’re intersex or not. 
Ultimately,  intersex is a social/political identity rather than a strictly medical one. Increased research and changing social attitudes can cause the definition of intersex to expand over time. Regardless of whether someone has a confirmed intersex variation or an “intersex adjacent” diagnosis, if intersex resources are helpful to you, we hope that you continue to use them and act in solidarity with the intersex community. 
On this blog, we do include PCOS with hyperandrogenism as part of the intersex community. Check out our PCOS tag for more posts about our reasoning, and PCOS specific resources.
3. Am I intersex?
We cannot diagnose you with an intersex variation over the internet. We can share resources such as the intersex variations glossary, share tips for navigating the medical system, and share information on other non-clinical signs of being intersex. 
Some questions to ask yourself that can help you start the process of intersex discovery:
What do my sex traits (genitalia, secondary sex characteristics, hormone levels, etc) look like? Does this seem like it lines up with the “typical” descriptions of those sex traits? 
Do I have any information about my birth? Were there any complications? Did doctors do extra testing at birth? Did doctors take me away from my parents for long periods of time? Did it take me longer to have my sex assigned at birth?
What was puberty like for me? Did I have early or late puberty? Did I have to go on hormones to start puberty? Did I have any variations in puberty, such as unexpected breast growth, irregular periods, or other changes? Did I go through puberty at all?
If you’ve tried to have children, are you infertile or struggling with fertility?
Did I have any unexplained surgeries or medical procedures as a child? Was I ever told I had to have organs removed and was told it was because of a cancer risk? Did I have to be on specific medications or hormones throughout my childhood? Did I have to go see a doctor more frequently? Did I go to an endocrinologist or pediatric urologist as a child? 
Do I have surgery scars or scar tissue? Do I have more frequent UTIs than typical?
Do I have access to my medical records? Is there records of hormone panels, ultrasounds, physical exams, surgeries, or other medical procedures? 
This kind of information can help you start to piece together if you think you might have an intersex variation, or if you think your intersex variation was hidden from you. 
If you’re sending in an ask trying to figure out if your symptoms line up with a specific intersex variation, please share as much information as you’re comfortable with so that we can answer with the most helpful resources. 
4. Can I self diagnose as intersex? 
It’s complicated! Intersex is different from other LGBTQIA identities, in that it’s not only about self determination, but also about our embodied experience in a very specific way. In order to be intersex, you have to have an intersex variation. And there are many intersex variations that can only be confirmed through medical testing, so it’s not something that is easy to self-diagnose.
However, we recognize that the medical system is expensive, discriminatory, and often actively hides information about people’s intersex variations from them. (it wasn’t even until 2006 that the AAP stopped recommending that doctors lie to their patients about intersex status, so many intersex adults were born before that policy change!) Considering all that we know about intersex oppression, curative violence, and medical abuse, it feels incredibly cruel to tell people that they have to force themself through that system in order to seek answers. 
So, we understand that there are ways of finding out that you are intersex without having a specific, confirmed, medical diagnosis. Many of us might find out that we’re intersex because we realize that our genitalia visibly looks different, and we can tell that we are intersex, even if we don’t know our specific diagnosis. Others might find out that we’re intersex because of strange discrepancies in our medical record. We might find out through discovering surgery scars on our body. We might go through puberty and realize that we’re developing in an atypical way to our peers. We might do a lot of research into intersex variations and have a pretty good guess into what variation lines up with our experiences. We might have some test results that help us understand we have intersex traits, even if we don’t know our specific diagnosis.  
Before self diagnosing, we think it’s important to do thorough research into intersex variations, so that you truly understand what intersex means, what intersex variations exist, and understand how that information applies to yourself. It’s also important to be considerate of how we interact in community spaces, and respect other intersex people's boundaries as you engage in a questioning or diagnosis process. 
5.  Are intersex people trans?
Some intersex people are trans, and some aren’t. Most intersex people are still assigned a gender at birth, and many intersex people who are raised as one gender and then later identify as another gender identify with the label trans. Intersex people can be cis or trans just like any other group of people. 
Many intersex people have complicated relationships with gender, and don’t feel like labels like cis or trans really fit their experiences. For this reason, terms like intergender and ipsogender were coined.
6. Are intersex people LGBTQIA?
It’s complicated! The “I” in LGBTQIA stands for intersex. Intersex history is intertwined with other parts of queer history. For example, the very first protest for intersex people in the United States was organized by Hermaphrodites with Attitude and Transexual Menace. There are intersex inclusive versions of community pride flags. Many intersex people view their intersex identity as a queer identity. Intersex oppression overlaps in many ways with homophobia and transphobia. 
However, not all intersex people think that intersex should be included in the LGBTQIA community. Sometimes this is for bigoted reasons, with intersex radfems who use this stance as a way to be transphobic. But there are also intersex people who think that the “I” should only be included in the acronym when intersex people are actually meaningfully being included in queer spaces and resources. Many of us feel frustrated when people put “LGBTQIA” on a resource but then don’t actually have any intersex specific information in those resources. 
In general, this is an ongoing intracommunity discussion where we don’t have a consensus. 
7. Are intersex people disabled? 
It’s complicated! Intersex is an umbrella term for many different experiences, and there is not one universal intersex experience. Some intersex people identify as disabled. Some intersex people do not.
Many intersex variations do cause disabling impacts in our bodies and lives. Some intersex variations are comorbid with other health conditions. Other intersex people become disabled because of violent normalizing interventions we’ve survived, such as forced surgery or other types of medical abuse. 
Intersex people are also impacted by many of the same structures of oppression that harm disabled people. Both intersex people and disabled people are harmed by ableism. Both intersex people and disabled people are harmed by pathologization. Both intersex people and disabled people are harmed by curative violence. 
In the book Cripping Intersex, Celeste Orr explores all these concepts and creates something called “intersex is/and/as/with disability,” which is a model to think about all these different and sometimes conflicting relationships with disability. Some intersex people might identify directly as disabled. Others might sometimes think about the way that intersex is treated as a disability. Other intersex people might think about intersex and disability as a way to have solidarity. All of these relationships with disability are meaningful parts of the intersex community. 
8. What is intersex oppression/intersexism/interphobia/compulsory dyadism? 
Intersex people face a lot of oppression in many ways in society. At the core, intersex oppression relies on the idea that the only acceptable sex traits are sex traits that fit into the sex binary. Intersex oppression relies on mythical ideas of the “ideal male or female” body, where someone's chromosomes perfectly line up with their genitalia and internal reproductive organs, with perfectly normal hormone levels and perfect secondary sex characteristics that don’t have any variation. When people don’t fit into that “perfect” sex binary, they are seen as less valuable, abnormal, and threatening. There is then a societal pressure to eradicate any traits and people that fall outside of the sex binary, which causes a lot of targeted discrimination of intersex people. This form of oppression is called “compulsory dyadism,” and was coined by Celeste Orr. 
Compulsory dyadism is also rooted in, overlaps with, and is the foundation for many other types of oppression. For example, ableism is another form of oppression that creates ways of harming people whose bodies and minds are labeled as less valuable for societally constructed reasons. Check out Talila Lewis’s definition of ableism for more information. Another example is how racialized people are targeted by sex testing policies in sports--both intersex and perisex women of color are consistently targeted by sex testing policies designed to exclude intersex people from sports. Another example is that homophobia and transphobia contribute to why intersex bodies are seen as threats that need to be eradicated--society views existing with intersex sex traits as a slippery slope to growing up as a gay or trans adult. Compulsory dyadism is also at the root of a lot of transphobic rhetoric about how transitioning “ruins” people’s bodies. All these forms of oppression are connected. 
There are a lot of ways that compulsory dyadism causes intersex people to be targeted and discriminated against. A huge issue is nonconsensual surgeries at birth, that attempt to “normalize” ambiguous genitalia, remove intersex people’s gonads, and otherwise alter genitalia or internal structures. These surgeries are often referred to as intersex genital mutilation, or IGM. These surgeries do not have any medical necessity, but doctors lobby to continue to be allowed to perform them anyway. These surgeries can sterilize intersex people, cause lifelong trauma, and also cause many disabling medical complications. Alongside IGM, intersex people also face a lot of different types of medical abuse. 
Besides curative violence and medical abuse, intersex people also face discrimination in our schools, jobs, and public places. We face legal discrimination in changing our names and sex markers. We face discrimination from institutions like CPS, which often target parents, especially people of color, that refuse to put their children through intersex genital mutilation. Many intersex people survive targeted sexual violence. We have a widespread lack of resources, visibility, and representation. Many people still have prejudiced ideas about intersex people and call us slurs. These are just a few examples of the many way that interphobia/intersexism show up in our lives. 
9. What is intersex justice? 
Intersex justice is a framework created by intersex activists through the Intersex Justice Project as a way to fight for intersex liberation. 
“Intersex justice is a decolonizing framework that affirms the labor of intersex people of color fighting for change across social justice movements. By definition, intersex justice affirms bodily integrity and bodily autonomy as the practice of liberation. Intersex justice is intrinsically tied to justice movements that center race, ability, gender identity & expression, migrant status, and access to sexual & reproductive healthcare. Intersex justice articulates a commitment to these movements as central to its intersectional analysis and praxis. Intersex justice acknowledges the trauma caused by medically unnecessary and nonconsensual cosmetic genital surgeries and addresses the culture of shame, silence and stigma surrounding intersex variations that perpetuate further harm.
The marginalization of intersex people is rooted in colonization and white supremacy. Colonization created a taxonomy of human bodies that privileged typical white male and female bodies, prescribing a gender binary that would ultimately harm atypical black and indigenous bodies. As part of a liberation movement, intersex activists challenge not only the medical establishment, which is often the initial site of harm, but also governments, institutions, legal structures, and sociocultural norms that exclude intersex people. Intersex people should be allowed complete and uninhibited access to obtaining identity documents, exercising their birth and adoption rights, receiving unbiased healthcare, and securing education and employment opportunities that are free from harm and harassment.” (Source: Dr. Mel Michelle Lewis through the Intersex Justice Project.)
There are seven principles to intersex justice: 
Informed consent
Reparations
Legal protections
Accountability
Language
Children's rights
Patient-centered healthcare
10. What is intergender? 
Intergender is a gender identity for use by intersex people only. It doesn’t have one specific definition-it is used by intersex people to mean a whole variety of things. It’s used to describe the unique ways our intersex experience intersects with and influences our gender.  Some people use it as a modifying term, such as calling themselves an intergender man or woman, as a way to explain the way being intersex affects their identity. Other people identify solely as intergender, and have that be their whole gender. 
11. What is dyadic/perisex/endosex? 
All are words that mean “not intersex.” Different groups will have different preferences on which one they like to use. 
12. Is hermaphrodite an offensive term? 
Yes. It is an incredibly offensive slur that perisex people should never say. Many intersex people have a very painful history with the slur. Some of us reclaim the term, which can be an important act of healing and celebration for us.
12. Can perisex people follow? 
Feel free, but understand that questions by intersex people are prioritized! Anyone is welcome to follow.
13. I’m writing a character who’s intersex…
Check out this post:  https://trans-axolotl.tumblr.com/post/188153640308/intersex-representation. If you’re writing about intersex people for a paid project, you should pay an intersex person to act as a sensitivity reader before publishing. 
Check out our Resources and Intersex Organizations pages as well!
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nicogotscared · 18 days
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kenji fanart !!!! half spoiler after the cut
I hope it didn't turn out too bad, I don't draw digitally, this was an experiment to see what I can do
KENJI IS NOT DEAD
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nicogotscared · 19 days
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eu sou singlet, mas eu tento apoiar ao máximo os sistemas que eu conheço (e não são poucos) e justamente por isso eu NÃO TENTO FALAR POR ELES
uma coisa que tem me irritado muito recentemente é que tem pessoas específicas que fazem comentários infelizes em relação aos meus amigos e aos termos plurais
e sabe o que eu percebi? até agora, nenhum sistema. são sempre singlets igual eu, que pensam que sabem mais sobre sistemas do que os próprios sistemas
se fossem outros sistemas falando sobre, talvez eu aceitasse melhor e tentaria entender. mas um singlet, como eu? o que VOCÊ sabe sobre a vivência de alters? toma vergonha na cara e deixa de ser inconveniente
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nicogotscared · 20 days
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Help an intersex family in Gaza!
Hi everyone. I'd like to share about a fundraiser that is very important to me. A good friend of mine is in contact with the organizers.
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Their story:
"Hello, my name is Abeer. I'm organizing this fundraising campaign from Belgium on behalf of my family, who currently live in Gaza. 
Since October 7, all families in Gaza have been subjected to genocide. My family is one of those families that has had to flee its own home several times because of the threat of regular attacks. 
After two months, my family decided to return home and take the risk of being bombed at any moment rather than stay in the street. Our 4-floor building now contains over 100 people who have fled from different parts of Gaza. We always open our hearts for our own people, but we can't do it without your help and support. 
My parents, Kamal (53) and Moukaram (51), are suffering from the war because of their age and health. My brother Suliman, his wife Rawan Abualnaja and their two-year-old daughter Bisan are trying to stay strong, but it's complicated by their little daughter's enormous needs. My other siblings who are not married are Mohammed 25, Inas 22, Ibrahim 17, Abdallah 15.
My family medical condition during the war:
My father suffers from delusional disorders. He can't work or help my family financially. Mohammed and Ibrahim suffer from a chronic disease, congenital adrenal hyperplasia. It is difficult for them to obtain medication in Gaza. One of their medicines has not been available in Gaza for two years. During the war, they couldn't get their medicines because they simply didn't exist anymore. My family members are still suffering. They don't want to be potential victims. They want to escape death and live like other families on the planet.
 On 01/01/2024, they attacked the local mosque and the missile failed to explode and ended up in front of my family's house. My family is in danger and the missile will explode any second.
Since then, my family has decided to be evacuated from Gaza because of the senseless attack on our city. Please help me evacuate my family to Egypt so that they can rebuild their lives in peace.
I've been in Belgium for over five years. I feel useless because I haven't been able to do much except try to help them with their daily living expenses. That's why we created this campaign. We're raising funds to evacuate my family to Egypt, a place that offers a glimmer of hope and stability. However, the cost of the evacuation is high, hence our call for crowdfunding.
Every contribution makes a difference The funds we raise will be used for :
- Evacuation from Gaza for both families (Rafah border crossing fees for 9 people total)  - Two months of temporary living expenses in Egypt, including food, shelter, and transportation  - Passport fees  - Food expences untill they leave Gaza 
No matter how small your contribution, it can make all the difference in breaking the cycle of violence and uncertainty. By supporting our campaign, you are offering a lifeline to our families so that they can rebuild their lives, heal from their trauma and make a fresh start in a safe and secure environment. Please leave a comment and share our campaign with your friends, so we can reach more people and make a bigger impact. Together, we can make a difference!"
They are using a French platform called Papayoux Solidarite instead of GoFundMe. Abeer also has a Paypal account for non European donors.
They are currently at 33 588,78 €/ 50,000 €.
Let's see if we can get them to 34,000 today. Any donation matters, even $1 or $2 donations can add up.
We need to help them meet their goal. Intersex liberation means intersex liberation everywhere--it is so important that we show up in solidarity. Those of us living with CAH know how dangerous salt wasting crises are without medication, and how important it is to urgently help Mohammed and Ibrahim get access to the medications they need to support their CAH. Intersex solidarity means that we need to show up and support intersex people facing genocide.
If you can't donate, please share. Consider doing an art raffle to raise money. Do whatever you can to help this family because it is urgent, and we need to act in solidarity with them now and make sure that the intersex community is here to support them!
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nicogotscared · 21 days
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Respondendo: https://www.tumblr.com/nicogotscared/760423791627206656/oi-deus-mogai-tudo-bem-to-parecendo-bot-sem?source=share
MENTIRA, O MEU AINDA TA CAIDO (to quase querendo usar vpn mas a multa de 50k diaria é dose)
o meu foi w voltou e agora foi de noco vey que porra eh essa
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nicogotscared · 21 days
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I hope my american moots don't get offended by the things I write, because I know you guys are nice, but it's almost impossible not to hate your country as a whole
especially when I'm from Brazil
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nicogotscared · 21 days
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In fact, I think this discussion about "alts shouldn't buy from Shein" is such a gringo issue, for the love of god, the world doesn't revolve around your experience as an alternative in a big American city, expand your mind
na verdade, eu acho essa discussão de "alts não deveriam comprar na shein" tão pauta gringa, pelo amor de deus, o mundo não gira em torno da sua experiência como um alternativo em cidade grande americana, expanda sua mente
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