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It’s 9pm, I’m on a beautiful Caribbean island & all I can think about is you.

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Yes indeed...I'm magically delicious!🤣

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The goal is not to surround yourself with people who never hurt you. The goal is to surround yourself with people who can have conversations about the hurt. People always hurt each other. It’s part and parcel of human relationships. To never be hurt by another is to lock your heart so far away, that no one can truly know you. But while the distance may protect you from hurt, it also keeps you from love and connection. Accept that people will hurt you. You will likely hurt them too. Most often, that hurt happens unknowingly. It is the conversations you have about the hurt that will determine the strength of your relationship. It is your willingness to be vulnerable, honest, receptive, and respectful to each other. It is your ability to lay down your armor, to bare your hearts to each other, and take the risk of hurt in exchange for the possibility of closer connection.

Once you are willing to have conversations about the hurt, you can discover whether the people around you are also willing to have conversations about the hurt. If they are, they are the people who will grow with you. In every conversation about the hurt, you will learn a lot about vulnerability and commitment together. There will be times when you both hurt each other. It’s inevitable. You can hurt each other and still love each other. Once you accept that, every conversation about the hurt will increase your connection to each other. Every conversation is a reminder that the relationship is worth the effort to overcome the hurt. Every conversation, no matter how big the hurt, will be an expression of your continued love for each other. Every conversation strengthens the foundation for a healthier relationship.

— suhylawrites on instagram

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Passing The Dutchie 💨

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TELL ME ALL ABOUT THE GOOD STUFF!!!!

being the person ppl go to with their good news because they know you'll genuinely celebrate and honor them in the moment. >>>

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i hate seeing men try to humble women who are confident in themselves, major ick!

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Source

"Isn't it exhausting being someone you're not?"

"No! Isn't it exhausting being the same?"

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😂😂😂

I burst out laughing

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A training collar is a collar worn by a submissive partner in a BDSM partnership to signify a more serious relationship level. It can be compared to an engagement or purity ring in a vanilla partnership.

A training collar is given to a submissive to symbolize a step forward in the relationship between the dominant and the submissive. This is the stage in the relationship where values and expectations are more deeply discussed. If, during the training collar stage the dominant determines that the submissive is the right fit, a final collaring ceremony may occur which is often similar to a wedding ceremony. In some cases, a submissive wears a training collar while being mentored by a dominant. The submissive is trained and mentored by the dominant before being released into another dominant's possession.

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Be open to love

There is a big emphasis on a lot of millennials to date as many people as possible and keep things superficial. However, do be open to the prospect of love. Online dating can turn dating, into a bit of a factory line so that romance is materially diminished.

Falling in love though is one of life’s greatest pleasures so don’t put yourself off the idea with a predetermined notion that you don’t want anything serious.

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Can We Take Them For Walks Like This Tho? 🤔 Asking For A Friend

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What are you doing to genuinely look after yourself today?

Charcoal Face Mask & Some Time To Soak Up The Sun

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