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"Parents need therapy."

"Cops need more training."

That's often said as the solution to child abuse or police brutality.

Sure, that could be part of it. But you're missing the elephant in the room. Parents and cops face no accountability. They're legally allowed to commit massive amounts of violence and abuse. And even when it's illegal, they're usually still able to get away with it.

No amount of therapy or training will stop someone from being abusive if they face zero consequences for being abusive.

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Protesters block traffic. An ambulance is unable to get where it needs to be. Someone dies as a result.

Many people say that the protesters should be jailed or even shot.

The logic seems to be "if you cause someone to not get the medical care that they need and they die, you should suffer for it".

But that's exactly what CEOs do when they price gouge or deny claims. So why is the protester considered a criminal who it's justifiable to kill but the CEO isn't?

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"Most cops are good. The bad cops are just a few bad apples."

If that were true, cops would see whistleblowers as heroes. They'd publicly celebrate whistleblowers. Whistleblowers would receive the highest awards. They'd want everyone to see how good whistleblowers are treated in order to disprove the "unjust hate" that cops face.

But in reality, that never happens. Literally, it happens zero times. Show me even one example of a whistleblower being treated kindly by cops as a whole.

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You're a teenager. An adult is showing interest in you. You feel special that you're getting attention from someone older, and you also feel like you're mature for your age.

That's exactly why you shouldn't do it. In a healthy relationship between adults with an age difference, the younger adult does not feel special to get attention from an older adult, and the younger adult doesn't take pride in how mature they are for their age. They're just two people who happen to be born at different times.

If you feel special that someone older than you is showing interest in you, they have a power imbalance over you. If you feel the need to call yourself "mature for your age", they have a power imbalance over you.

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when people say my name im like.   cant believe i exist

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it's wild to me that so many people are fine with someone building their life and personality around their gender and gender identity until someone does it the "wrong" way

like a cis man can be ultra manly and do everything in an exclusively masculine way, and be praised for it or deemed normal

a cis woman can be super femme pretty in pink girly girl and she's valid for that

but someone talks about being nonbinary or a binary trans person and is proud of their gender presentation and suddenly they're "shoving it down people's throats" and "being too much"? what's the deal with that?

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Just tried looking up fanfics for my Paracosm on AO3, what am I becoming /j

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Omg yes :0 I love hazbin rewrites

would anyone be interested in hearing about my hazbin hotel rewrite / paracosm? i havent been active on here because i've been putting all my time into that. it also doubles as the world where all of my selfshipping happens.

ive made a very in depth pinterest board if anyone wants to see that as well :D

polls arent working for me atm so feel free to just like or reply to this post if you're interested

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I don't understand how people just Do things without daydreaming. like how are you not off in a silly little fantasy world rn

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blasting my silly little music and creating my silly little daydreams so i don’t lose my silly little mind

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Hey, quick question MADD tumblr—

What's the difference between just having OCs and having a paracosm?

I have this group of characters that I daydream about pretty much every day, if not every other day, they're very special to me. I've seen paras being talked about with a continuous storyline, but I feel like mine is kinda,,,done? Not that I stop daydreaming about them, but their story has a sorta stopping point where it feels like a season of a show ending and I haven't thought about what happens past that point too much, maybe some long-term stuff every so often that feels kinda like when you have a show and in the last episode of the last season there's a time skip(like the owl house), but it's not this ongoing plotline, it has an end. I just keep adding details about what happens between the beginning and end.

Also, while I feel attached to the characters, they're not really me in any way. There's one that I consider the 'main character' who I think about the most, but she's nothing like me and I don't really feel personally connected to her life or trauma. I definitely feel like my excessive daydreaming is a result of needing a place to escape to when my real life sucked growing up, but the worlds I make don't feel like a reflection of my trauma, yknow?

So yeah I guess I'm just wondering where the line is? What's the difference between having a paracosm and just having some OCs I really like?

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"Self insert characters are cringe"

Bro I'm trying to survive capitalism with maladaptive daydreaming. Leave me alone.

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The Recloseted Lesbian. Maladaptive Daydreaming 2

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I'm afab nonbinary, transmasc, and I feel like lately my friends and family who know and accept that I'm trans are treating me more like a transman than the nonbinary person I am. I feel like I've leaned too hard in the other direction, and I want to be seen more neutrally. My best friend was even joking that I'm straight, because I'm a masc person who's interested in women, which I get the joke but also pls no? I'm literally not? I wouldn't have a problem with it if yknow I was actually a trans man, that would be straight, but I'm not and comments like that make me feel like they're not seeing me for who I actually am.

Like when someone calls me exclusively male terms and doesn't really use the "they" part of my he/they pronouns I just get this sinking feeling in my chest. It would be fine if they also referred to me neutrally sometimes, but they don't and it feels wrong to be just seen as a boy or like Transman-lite.

I know this is a stupid little issue, and I'm happy that I have accepting people in my life. I've just been struggling lately because I don't want to look at their support and say "tone it down a bit", because that feels ungrateful and rude. But I do want them to refer to me in a more neutral way. I'm not a girl, but I'm not a boy either. That's the point.

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i'm not "evil" or "broken" for being aromantic. i've been like this my whole life. people kept telling me that I would start to develop crushes, and i would eventually fall in love, head over heels for someone and know what it was like. that i would fantasize about cuddling, kissing and being possessive over someone else.

that day never came. i never developed the urge to kiss or cuddle. i never developed the burning feelings that drive other people to pursue relationships. i never asked anyone out or felt the need to. i never felt like another person was "mine" or "my one and only". i never developed that sense of "special" attraction that everyone told me about. i never understood what people meant when they said those things, and i still don't

my best friend called me "heartless," "mean," "broken," and "evil" for not being able to enjoy romantic plots in media or understand why she liked romance manga so much. she told me i was an "emotional brick wall that needed to be broken down" because something must be "wrong" with me because i didn't gush with love over fictional characters getting together.

there's nothing wrong with me- i've been like this my whole life. i'm not "evil", "mean" or "broken". i'm just me, and part of what makes me me is not feeling romantic attraction or urges. this is a very big part of my personality. i am not obligated to bend myself out of shape to make other people happy. i am this way because i was meant to be. it's not a curse. it's just a state of being.