#DailyNotes

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[bitterpieces]

好溫柔的一句話，「因為我想替你講述你的故事」。

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[ohwowwirisb]

Hurt

That's the Big word I felt when you didn't even talk to me. You kept playing music of all sorts which was noisy. . But this actually calm me down. I couldn't breathe properly that time.

When the call ended, I asked if you were okay. You just laughed. Told me we could talk tomorrow cause it's morning and you have someone else you're chatting with.

I wasn't jealous of that.

I was hurt because you did not bother talking over the phone where you were the one who called me. Now, I am angry at how I feel. I cried.

I gave you power to hurt me and it hurts.

Why? I don't understand this feeling for you. This is a crazy attachment! I want to put an end to it before I fall for it.

[imbirok]

mam ochotę uderzać głową w ścianę jak myślę o nas

[adviceformefromme]

What no one tells you about self love...

You’ll often feel like you’re a pendulum swinging from one extreme to another. You go hard, you’re reading Atomic Habits, you’re eating the organic veggies for lunch AND dinner, the apartment is immaculate, you look and feel great…until…until quite literally the opposite. Washing your hair becomes a chore, you’re in a mood with the dog and your organised healthy eating has now become something you have to do, and in turn tastes like crappy vegetables with no soul or life. Why has self love become such an uphill effort?

This is because you’ve focused on the doing. The joy of self love has been missing, yes you can meditate for 40 days. Yes, you can go for runs throughout the week, but where is your joy? When is your inner child getting play? As important as the reading, the pilates classes, the podcasts are. You need joy. And this is why you rebel. You want to scroll on your phone instead of reading that book, you want to make something quick because you’re not in the mood to cook the Ottelenghi recipe or make the seed cycling crackers. Because adulting 247 is not fun. You need variety, play, laughter. When did life become so serious? Understand that you need a break from cooking, a takeout once a week is a healthy balance. Watching a movie during the week is not a sin, and it doesn’t need to be on Gaia. The self development books are great, but so is fiction and a little fantasy. Disciplined mornings are life changing, but so is sleeping in on Sunday, and having no set regiment. Balance is key, and not having balance is the reason why self love is starting to feel like a chore. So take some time to reflect on your ‘level up regiment’ and throw some balance in to the mix, adding some play, and a sprinkle of laughter. What you’ll start to see is that the swinging pendulum finds some middle ground and self love is really in the sweet spot called balance. 

[truclam]

Đã bao lâu rồi mình không dùng Tumblr nhỉ?

Có lẽ cũng phải 8 năm rồi.

Thật buồn cười vì trong suốt thời gian qua mình bận tới nỗi không có thời gian dành cho nó.

Giờ đây bất giác lại thấy muốn tìm một trốn nào đó để ẩn náu thì Tumblr lại bỗng dưng hiện ra một cách kỳ lạ.

Hôm nay tạm thời thế đã, med time rồi 😐

[myguidetogrowth]

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Belajar Berprasangka Baik

Baca postingan Tumblr Bang Heri kemarin, jadi keinget yang dulu-dulu, hehe…

Dulu sewaktu masih kuliah (S1), saya tuh punya teman yang menurut saya, kita tuh deket banget. Kita itu se-wisma, se-organisasi, se-jurusan, bahkan kita se-kelas. Dan memang nggak ada masalah di antara kita, kalau ketemu kita pun ngobrol, makan, dan haha-hihi bareng seperti normalnya seorang kawan. Daripada banyak yang menerka-nerka, saya spill aja, namanya Zain (perempuan).

Waktu itu, saya follow akun sosmed dia, tapi nggak ada respon sama sekali. Bahkan untuk beberapa minggu atau bulan. Nggak di followback, dan nggak di mention sama sekali. Karena penasaran sama alasannya, yaudah saya beraniin diri buat ngomong langsung ke dia (daripada timbul prasangka). Terus dengan tampangnya yang sok iye hehe 😅 , dia jawab, "Emang tolok ukur pertemanan bisa diliat dari sosmed ya? Kalau banyak follower berarti banyak temen gitu?"

Nah, sekarang diusia yang segini. Saya baru ngerasain apa yang dibilang teman saya itu ada benernya juga. Kalo orang yang udah nyaman sama kehidupannya, nggak butuh yang namanya pengakuan diri.

"Nggakpapa loh, tidak saling mengikuti. Nggak masalah juga kalau diikuti, tapi tidak ada keharusan juga untuk balik mengikutikan? Itu semua bukan berarti kita nggak bisa jadi teman."

Dunia itu udah terlalu riuh dan bising manteman, jadi udahlah jangan dibuat sumpek dengan pikiran dan hati kita yang sempit 😅

Semoga Allah senantiasa meluaskan hati kita.

Solo, 7 Juni 2023

[howyoudoinwithmeguys]

Hi. Today is getting boring so i'm trying to save my mind. I want to go home. I don't like school. Yes. That's all.

[laelans]

Suatu saat dalam suatu kegiatan organisasi di kampus terjadi keterlambatan suatu rangkaian agenda karena kedatagan armada yang delay hampir satu jam.

Dan di saat-saat ini para peserta mulai gusar dengan menanyakan berkali-kali pada panitia tentang kenapa hal ini bisa terjadi atau tiba-tiba menjadi si paling perhatian dengan menanyakan sedang ada dimana secara berkala.

Panitia lebih gelisah lagi tentunya. Kalau peserta gelisah level 1, panitianya gelisah level 2. Karena terdesak oleh pertanyaan peserta dan ketidakjelasan armada yang terlambat tanpa konfirmasi. Ditambah lagi, kejadian ini terjadi saat peserta sudah menyelesaikan kegiatan 2 hari yang tentunya lelah menjadi oleh-oleh yang dibawa peserta.

Terlepas dari semua itu, seorang teman panitia dengan bijaknya datang mengantarkan sebuah kalimat ajib yang cukup membuat peserta bungkam.

"Mungkin Allah menunda untuk menyelematkan"

begitu katanya.

"Kenapa ya, aku ngga kepikiran kayak gitu? "

Bisa jadi itu batin sebagian besar orang saat itu. Karena setelahnya semua reda (atau mungkin menyisakan rutukan dalam hati saja).

Ternyata satu jamnya kita menunggu, Allah seolah ingin mengantarkan hikmah melalui sebuah kalimat sederhana itu di akhir sebuah penantian.

#muslimahthought

#dailynote

[bitterpieces]

九點三十六分，是斜射抑或是反射的光線灑在我的床上的時刻。我把手伸出，它乖順地爬上我的手臂。

[desemberlimabelas]

#dailynote

Serius. Kangen masa-masa berdua sama suami doang. Tapi, saat sekarang udah ada si bayi pun rasanya membahagiakan tiada tara. Meski waktu tidur jadi berantakan, ga peduli skincare, lelah, tapi serius punya suami yang support banget tu suatu anugrah yang tak ternilai harganya. Disaat diri ini stress karna merasa bersalah sama anak belum bisa mengASIhi dengan baik dan benar tapi suami benar-benar ngertiin kalo semua butuh proses.

[ohwowwirisb]

NO CONTACT

Blocked Everywhere EXCEPT --

I had gone No contact since May 14 but yesterday, he said " I'll talk to you". Like the demanding entitled person that he is, he continued to say, " CALL ME".

When I read it, I contemplated whether calling is good for me or not. In my mind, I wanted to know what he was going to say so I did something stupid like calling.

No one responded. I knew he has work. So why did he ask to call me?

He wants validation. That I will always be there no matter how bad he treated me. This is an understatement..

You will know in the next posts.

I'm trauma bonded.

[90syang]

23/05/23

As my relationship matures, I have noticed that my expectations are increasing and my disappointments aswell. Am I asking for too much? Is it too much to request a gentle nature?Am I overreacting? Is it unreasonable to want a perfect relationship?

Unconsciously , I keep comparing my current relationship to past and sometimes, it feels the same. -Y

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