I think what I want to get into with the "Anyone can do harm." thing that I keep beating yall over the head with is that literally anyone, anyone at all can do harm it's not "in your DNA" to be an abuser or written in the stars that you'll be a predator.
Whatever image you have of an abuser in your head, drop it and replace it with your favorite person in the world and you'll probably be closer to the truth than you realize.
It's easy to address harm when it's coming from someone you already hate.
I see it happen all the time. Someone you couldn't stand for no real reason does something heinous then all of a sudden here comes the avalanche of "I always knew they were a fucked up individual."
No, you didn't.
There is no possible way you could have known, you just already didn't fuck with them before they started doing something you could use to justify your hatred of them. I'm guilty of it too! I'm petty, mean, vindictive, and yes! I'm way quicker to believe something bad about someone I hate versus someone I love because I'm human. Still, y all gotta learn to move past that initial "Well, they were always nice to me!" gut feeling and understand that nobody truly knows anyone and anyone can be capable of anything. Even victims. Even you.
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[ID: a doodle of old, Commission-era Five lounging in a bathtub with cucumbers over his eyes and a glass of wine in one hand and a bottle in the other. He has several scars, including one that starts at his collarbones and goes all the way down his torso. End ID.]
i missed old five this season so bad. where was he!!! Where was my old man!!! I took it upon myself to answer with "in the bath, chilling" because he deserves it. old five people, you're welcome
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Multiverse crossed lovers...?
There's something that bothers me about the whole multiverse thing regarding the canon and the fanon – mostly the "angst" plotlines of Said Character that lost their lover but after a while they found out that Their Lover is also a spider person on this random universe.
Like, don't get me wrong it's a great plot to explore but I personally feel like everyone does it wrong... Bear with me through this;
I'll use Hobie as an example for obvious reasons, anyway- Think that the whole plot of the story is Hobie and Reader (or whatever OC/spidersona/sona) are each other's canon event and of course they find another version of one another after a while of the canon and blah blah blah, it's pretty obvious at this point of how it develops.
They see each other, stand there like two sticks until one runs for the other and they're soo all lovey dovey.
I don't think that's how it would work? Because, think with me, you had a lover who was your perfect partner and they were the love of your life, you wanted to marry them, have kids and die together from aging etc but that was snatched away from you.
Then suddenly there's this slightly different version of your lover who's alive and well and for as much as some people think that they'd rush to their arms I think that an internal battle would take place.
This isn't yours. It's not the one you spent part of your life with. It's not the one that took care of you all those years. It's not exactly the one you miss every damn day and night.
So when I see a story with that plot were the couple just gets back to each other I go 🧍 because to me it doesn't make much sense.
Anyway that was today rambling and real angst because I'm in the mood to cry about fictional characters. ✨️
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You know what's sad? Sukuna probably knows about Satoru's situationship with suguru, he was with kenjaku the whole time since gojo got unsealed, he must have asked Kenjaku how the fuck did he manage to seal Gojo.
Poor guy, he was dead for a thousand years and just got reincarnated a couple months ago, met his soulmate (gojo), promised to kill him (for love), found out gojo is in love with someone else and got sealed because of this love, had to fucking wait for him to get unsealed so he can kill him, and then had to wait again because gojo wanted it to happen on the same day he killed geto, like😭😭 and now Sukuna is probably gonna die and go back to hell...
What a sad life man...
He already had a terrible first life that turned him into a curse.
Like seriously, When Sukuna dies who is going to welcome him in the afterlife? Gojo is already with geto & the others.
Is Sukuna even going to the same place?
Is he going to die alone??? Is he gonna just.. rot in hell?? he really has nobody that's so sad
Stsg is tragic but Sukugo is even more so.
They're on complete opposite sides, They don't even get to meet in the afterlife!! they're literally star-crossed lovers.
Satoru what are you doing you're letting nostalgia blind you, WAKE UP your real soulmate is Sukuna.
you wanted someone to understand you for so long, now you're just gonna give up on him??? leave him all alone for eternity???
What happened to not wanting anyone to feel alone???
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