#Obey me asexual player

[pseudonymphomania]

This is the first time I've made something for my own MC. "Dear Love" refers to my IRL partner, whom I pretend to write to about my adventures in the Devildom.

I play the game as everyone's platonic friend. I am asexual and enjoy Queer Platonic Relationships for myself. I also play matchmaker in my own Devildom universe.

My attributes: average height. Black hair styled with a medium hold matte pomade. Brown eyes. Beauty mark under my nose. Dimple on one side of my face.

Clothing: Prefer formal wear over casual. Suspenders over belts. Monochromatic colours or loud ostentatious patterns, no in-between. Comfy dress shoes in black or brown but open to other colours to match outfits; I'm wearing leather monkstrap shoes in the picture. Metal accents like tie clips are crucial. Got laser eye surgery but sometimes wears fake glasses to feel something on my face. Satchel contains good pens, quality paper, and workstation. Fitbit on my wrist to count every step I take to solve the problems of the day.

Personality: wry and dry humour. Workaholic. Lifelong learner. The Parent Friend. Always happy to help. Frontline tendencies.

Skills: technical writing, sewing and clothing construction, trades and mechanics, hair cutting, musician (piano and guitar), singer and actor (theatre), novelist, artist

Likes: obtaining new skills and making new friends. Justice. Equity.

Dislikes: misunderstandings, situations that could have been handled effectively but weren't. Unclear communication.

Occupation before I got Isekai'd: Director of Operations

Character I relate to the most: Lucifer

Character I would date if I was inclined: Diavolo, because he reminds me of my actual partner.

The reason I ship DiaLuci so hard: I love my partner the most and this is a mirror to that, right down to situations and actual conversations we have had in real life. The narrative potential. Other reasons.

My MC and OM Characters in my Devildom:

Lucifer: would smugly tell me that I've used a comma splice and I'd tell him to "shove a semi-colon in it". He's my bestest friend in the entire Devildom. We go to cafes and bookstores and go shopping for office supplies. I tell him to stop working so hard and he stares at me like "You're the one telling me this? The audacity." I needle him about his crush and he tells me to fuck off but his face is red.

Mammon: my other bestie but in a wildly different way. He brings out the shit-disturber in me. We play billiards together and play for treats. I disapprove of his gambling but am all-in on the shopping. He takes me out to all the best food places. "Try this, Beckett, you'll really love it." Meanwhile it's some sort of Devildom Atrocity, but somehow it's still good.

Levi: my nerd friend. I bring him offerings and leave them outside his door. We play games often with Mammon and I kick their butts at fighting games, but get wrecked when I have to make choices. We stay up hellishly late and I wake up with chocolate on my face. "Lets do this again: ive got the hottest new dating sim to try!" We are both groggy and destroyed and i have to go to work, but I agree to come back tonight.

Asmo: my favourite boy toy. He's stylish as hell and knows what looks good on anybody. Hes my personal stylist. I cut his hair in exchange. Just like with Mammon I go shopping with Asmo, except he knows all the good places for clothing and knows where all the thrift stores are. "It doesnt have to be new and expensive to look good honey!" I agree. I cuddle with Asmo the most because he loves touch.

Satan: my boy thirsts for knowledge and I do too. We skill-trade and fan over cats. Unfortunately I'm very allergic, but I appreciate them from afar and draw cats for him to hang in his book-filled room. "Do you want to come to the cat Cafe with me?" Oh Satan. He's his father's son alright, but he's just as much of a shit disturber as Mammon. He teaches me fun curses to use on people but I'm content with just knowing it.

Beel: when I'm tired Beel carries me back home and talks about the science behind calories and energy retention in relation to demonic body types. He enjoys cooking and I love testing recipes on him, but I have to swat him away from eating it before it's done. We do exercises together and buff up together. "I can almost see your six pack, haha".

Belphie: he's my sleepy boy. He can be irrational sometimes but I put a blanket over his head to shake him out of it and he snuggles closer. I play him songs on piano and guitar and sing him to sleep, but then I also end up quite sleepy. He's like a son to me and I lecture him often. I try to keep him and Satan from screwing with Lucifer too much. I'm a double agent in the anti Lucifer league lol

Diavolo: i enjoy it when he regales me with Devildom laws, traditions and customs. He speaks of how the executive branch and legislative branch operates in the context of his kingdom and I suggest to strengthen certain areas of his constitution to bring his vision of equity and interrealm relations to the forefront. I am also a shit disturber and needle him about his crush. "You are asking beyond your means, Beckett. Forgive me if I don't answer." Hm... yes, of course. Sorry.

Barbatos: I learn how to be the most efficient I can be from someone who is the most efficient. He is skilled in everything and I must learn from the best. I'm his best student and I'm a teachers pet so i love to hear it. He's been and seen everything and he is an excellent linguist. He is poetry personified in the every day. "Don't let Solomon ruin you too much." I won't!

Solomon: I use my knowledge of mechanics and trades and recontextualise it to be an artificier and create magical items. He is also one to bring out the shit disturber in me and I have almost become Thirteen just from the incidentally nonsense stuff I make. "Oh that's an interesting effect. I wonder what will happen if I give this to Barbatos". Solomon, dude. Do you want to get murdered. Is that what you're into.

Simeon: he is my sweetest and chillest boy. My bestie to talk about justice and relationality with. When I'm insecure and feel like people don't like me as much as they do, he reassures me and tells me stories of his own relationships. "There is nothing wrong with stepping back. Once you've regained your sense of self, you'll be able to pursue the path of friendship again and people will be ready to receive you."

Luke: he is like my son. I make sure he doesn't get nightmares because he seems to have a hard time acclimating to his demonic environment. He teaches me how to bake so that I can make some cakes that look like real inanimate objects and eat them in front of people, to their shock.

Mephisto: I am like Lucifer 2.0. He doesn't really like me but I have no hard feelings toward him.

Thirteen: my Bae. She's a delight but I have to make sure her shenanigans don't cause too much damage in the area or accidentally kill me. I would date her after Diavolo if I was inclined to do that.

I hope you enjoyed seeing my experience and interpretation of the game from my point of view. Everyone's MC journey is very personal to them and I do not believe there is a wrong way to enjoy the game. Thank you for reading. :)

[gt-ridel]

Hii!! I was wondering if you know about a mobile game called Shall we date Obey me! If not, if you want, give it a try, i think you might like it ;3 no need to answer this, just wanted to let you know it ^^;

I know of it, but it's not my kind of thing.

Sorry. 😅

I appreciate games like Doki Doki Literature Club, and whatever that one where you date a ukulele(?) playing T-rex was called.

But as a whole I have a hard time taking dating games seriously.

Way too many pretty people fawning over my outrageously boring player character. Plus I'm asexual, so I could not possibly care less for how horny these games tend to get.

Never did complete one successfully, I think. 🤔

That being said, I do get it.

I can see why it would be fun for a lot of people. So no judgement at all!

It's just not my cup of tea. ^__^;;

(Plus I don't enjoy religious stuff in my media. So I tend to stay away from things that have demons or gods from actual world religions in them.

I think that's what the game is about?)

I do appreciate the recommendation, though!

[streptoarpus-saint-paulia]

Uhm... Words here

Anyways, here's stuff about me.

I'm Aromantic Asexual (Aro Ace), a sex and romance repulsed one at that. All my works may have some sort of romance in it, but it will NEVER go far. I'm already struggling to write kissing without cringing, the... rest won't happen at all.

I'm an adult, won't share my age (its the online world for pete's sake), but I can say I'm not a minor.

Pronouns? All. I'm Genderfluid, so... But if you really must know, I'll try and keep this blog updated with which ones I prefer for that day (along with updating the Player thing).

I'm probs cringe, but honestly I don't care. Just here to enjoy the work and try and make silly goofy fun things from it.

Since I'm apart of the Homestuck fandom (and have, briefly, scrolled through the typing quirk tag), if you need me to update any of my works without a typing quirk let me know. This rule may go away simply because I just might make another blog dedicated to that. I hope not too, 'cuz I wanna do that here, but time shall tell.

I might be slow to respond or update. Honestly forget I have a Tumblr I can share my works too semi-anonymously.

PLS PLS PLS, tell me about any typos I make. My keyboard atm is BUSTED. I do my best, but some letters repeat, don't show up, or swap places with others.

Transphobes, Racists, Homophobes, etc. Get off my lawn <3. I hope you change your life choices and stop being a-holes.

'Nother thing. I dunno if this will bother people but, I don't really swear. My CHARACTERS might, but personally I won't. Instead I censor myself (like above) or replace it (ex: frick, heck).

This is a purely text based thing, but I just thought to let y'all know I have no clue how text ID things work or if my writing obeys readers. If anyone could direct me to somewhere I can learn, I would appreciate.

Anyways, that long list out of the way (did NOT expect it to be that long), I hope you enjoy your stay here!

[paradisoperdita]

Hello I love your writing! I am another ace Obey Me player and I would love to see MC coming out to the brothers as ace and their reactions! (Any or all of the brothers I’ll leave it up to you.) Keep up your amazing work!

Hello! I'm so glad you enjoy my writing, so I hope this lives up to expectations!

I've thought a lot about the best way of doing this, and decided to write some mini-scenarios. Many of these are based on genuine experiences I've had. Satan's one in particular is based on how I 'came out' to one of my parents.

To you and all of my aces and LGBTQ+ folks out there, happy Pride Month. You are all amazing! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

The Brothers Reacting to an Ace MC

This is all pure fluff, be warned! 💜

Lucifer:

It was one of those warm moonless nights in the Devildom. The two of you had sat on the loveseat under the weeping willow in the garden. Lucifer sat close to you; his coat slightly covered your lap as you mindlessly stroked the soft fur trim. Everything was so pleasantly peaceful. In spite of it all, there was a question tugging at the back of your mind.

“Are you truly content like this?” You asked, keeping your gaze on the view before you. Lucifer tilted his head to look at you, seemingly aware of what you were trying to ask him but with no intention of pressing you to explain yourself.

“I am, truly...I assure you that I have never been happier.”

“Even without the...y’know...because I’m asexual?” You tried to keep your voice as conversational as possible, but you could already feel your heart racing.

“I love you, MC, every delightful little thing about you. To be the one you love and treasure most is my greatest pleasure. There is nothing that I would wish to change, because you are already so entirely perfect.” Lucifer smiled as he reached into his coat pocket. He took out a small velvet pouch. He gently placed it in your hand and watched as you opened it

Inside was a single black ring, the perfect size for you.

“How long have you been carrying that around in your pocket?” You smirked at him tauntingly.

Lucifer cleared his throat and tried to conceal his reddening cheeks with the back of his hand.

“That’s not important. Asmo told me that there are humans who choose to wear a black ring as a way of expressing their identity, and so I wanted to get one for you. I am so proud of you, not just for ‘coming out’, but for all of the effort it’s taken for you to be where you are today. I know it hasn’t always been easy and there were times where giving up felt like the easy way out. Yet you persisted, you got stronger and now you’re here.” He lifted your hand and carefully slid the ring onto your finger. He continued.

“Nothing would bring me greater joy than to see you living the life that would make you happiest. I want this ring to symbolise that. All I want is to see you wear it with pride.”

Mammon:

Mammon and you were out on a date along a quiet street. You had just finished eating and were ambling back to the house. Your intertwined hands swung loosely between you as you both continued the conversation of the night.

“I bet this the best date you’ve ever been on, right? After all, you are datin’ THE Great Mammon!” He puffed out his chest in his usual bombastic way that he uses when he’s seeking reassurance.

“Well, I haven't really been on many dates at all, but this is by far the best.” You grinned.

“Huh?!! I’m surprised, I would’ve bet loads of people would wanna date ya. Humans are weird...” He scratched the back of his head.

“Oh, it wasn’t quite like that. I’ve just never been all that interested, being asexual and all.”

“Asexual...?” He pondered for a moment, trying to think of where he’d heard that word before. The light bulb dinged and he turned to you excitedly. “Oh! Like a—...!”

You launched yourself at him, covering his mouth with both of your hands. You were smiling, but there was an implicit weight in your words.

“Please don’t finish that sentence...”

Mammon nodded sheepishly. He pressed a subtle kiss to your palm as he quietly apologised for being insensitive. You spent a little time explaining the term to him and what it meant to you. He hung on your every word.

“...so if I ever talk about being ‘ace’ you should know what I mean.”

“Uh-huh.” His face was a picture of pure adoration. Especially now, he was in awe of your kindness and patience. How could somebody like you continue to become more perfect?

As you neared the house, a thought struck him.

“Hey uh...hold out ya hand a minute.”

You did as he asked you and waited to see what he was planning. Mammon motioned his hand in a way very familiar to you. His deck of cards materialised in his open palm. They were the richest black you had ever seen, embossed in gold filigree that reflected every glimmer of light. These were the cards that Mammon used for all of his deals; you knew how inordinately precious they were to him. He shuffled through them and pulled out a single card. He placed it face down in your hand.

“You can keep that one.”

You flipped the card: it was the Ace of Spades.

“I’m uh...I’m not great with words like you are, so take this as my promise to you. I can’t do anything without that card, my deck is incomplete...just like I am without you. Keep it with ya all the time, got it? I’m gonna need to borrow that card from ya sometimes though, so make sure you’re always by my side.”

Leviathan:

The sweeping background music played in surround sound as Levi and you continued your platformer co-op game. You were leaning against Levi, something he felt comfortable doing purely because it was you. You sighed in contentment.

“We really are like a married couple, I love it.”

Levi shifted awkwardly in his seat. “I mean, sure, but just without the kissing and stuff.” He muttered, the envy hidden in his words.

You blinked hard. You could practically hear the cogs whirring in your brain as the penny finally dropped.

“Oh my goodness...I’m so ace that I completely forgot kissing existed. I was just so happily in love with you that I didn’t think it could get more perfect than gaming and cuddles. I’m so sorry for not realising, Levi. I can’t give you the ‘other stuff’, but I can make up for the lack of kisses right now!” You paused the game and threw your arms around him.

Levi turned bright red, his eyes wide with shock.

“Hey hey, whoa!! G-Give me a s-second, I’m not sure my heart c-can take it!! I’m n-not sure I can h-handle loving you m-more than this!!”

Satan:

It was unusual to see Satan reading from his phone, especially as the book lay open in his lap. His face was contemplative as he studied whatever it was that he was reading. You were sat next to him, reading the adventure novel that Satan had recommended to you.

Ding!

You looked at your phone to see a message from Satan.

“What’s this?” You inquired.

“It’s a link to the article I was just reading. It made me think of you.”

You opened the link. It was titled ‘Growing Up Asexual: What Does it Mean For Me?’ You smiled at Satan’s thoughtfulness.

“Hm...that is the term I use to identify myself, so it’s pretty accurate.”

“I’m glad.” Satan nodded contentedly and returned to his book. He seemed satisfied with your response and settled in his chair. This was a little unusual for you.

“Did you...want to ask me about it?”

“Hm? Oh, not really. It’s not your responsibility to educate me. All I would ask...” He elegantly raised your hand to his lips. “is that you teach me the best way of loving you. I want to leave you in no doubt about just how much I adore you, my darling.”

Asmodeus:

It had become part of your weekly routine to spend at least half a day with Asmo. This kind of love was new to him and he wanted to be as perfect for you as possible. Not that this was an issue for you, as you were more than happy to shower him in as many compliments and cuddles as you could muster. He would always happily return each and every one of these ten times over.

You were walking into Majolish which was unusually busy today. Asmo gasped and whispered to you excitedly.

“Look at that gorgeous demon over there!”

You looked in the direction he was pointing. There were three demons stood admiring a printed shirt. You had no clue which one he was talking about.

“Uh...which one?”

“What do you mean ‘which one’? I’m talking about the hunk with the sexy body and immaculate hair!” He watched your expression grow more confused. “The one with the amazing butt...!”

You looked again, squinting a little. You could confirm that they all had bodies and hair...and butts. Which one was supposed to be the most attractive out of those you had no idea.

“Asmo, I’m ace. You’ve gotta give me more than that.”

“Oh yeah! The guy in the purple shirt.”

Now you could pick him out.

“Oh I see. Yeah, the shirt goes nicely with his hair colour. His whole outfit is well co-ordinated.” You had learnt a bit about fashion after your numerous shopping trips with Asmo. He hummed and hugged your arm as he pulled you further into the store.

“Of course, you are far more attractive than he is, sweetheart. That’s why I’m so head over heels for you. Not just in physical beauty either, mind you, but you have the kindest heart too.”

You chuckled. “I’ll take your word for it; you are the expert after all.”

Asmo’s demeanour turned serious as he whisked you into a private part of the shop. He held both your hands and spoke with deep sincerity.

“I mean it, truly. I never thought I’d ever meet someone who could love me as much as, or more than, myself. Yet here you are...and you are my everything.”

Beelzebub and Belphegor:

The three of you had decided to have a midnight feast in your room. Beel had bought a special tin that you could light like a candle to toast marshmallows. He was happily munching away, feeling complete happiness to be spending time with two of the most precious people in his life. Belphie watched the two of you sat on the floor as he lounged on your bed. He had been resting his head on the teddy bear you had sat by your pillows. He stretched and yawned, then looked as though paying attention to the bear for the first time.

“Why does your bear have a shirt that says ‘Nope’ on it?” Belphie asked.

“Oh, it was a present from a friend. It’s because I’m ace. It’s kind of a joke.”

Belphie smirked and admired the bear a little more. “Hmph...clever. Are these stripes the flag Satan was telling me about?”

“Yeah, although I didn’t realise you guys knew about it.”

Belphie nodded. “You’d briefly mentioned it in passing before, so we all did some research and shared it on the group chat.” He felt a little embarrassed when he saw the sheer joy on your face. His voice grew quieter as the warmth rushed to his cheeks. Why were you so sweet? “We all really care about you, so we wanted to make you feel as comfortable as possible. I didn’t want to ask you about it before, just in case you didn’t want to talk about it.”

“I’m touched...thank you.” You stood up and hugged Belphie.

“Ace means really good, right?” Beel asked between mouthfuls of molten marshmallow.

“It does, why?”

“Then it’s the perfect name for you, because I think you’re the best. You’re amazing in every way.” He gulped down his mouthful before standing up. With the biggest grin on his face, he leapt onto the bed and pulled you both into a giant hug. The sound of your laughter carried on into the night.

[agentaletha]

Raybearer

Tarisai has always longed for the warmth of a family. She was raised in isolation by a mysterious, often absent mother known only as The Lady. The Lady sends her to the capital of the global empire of Aritsar to compete with other children to be chosen as one of the Crown Prince’s Council of 11. If she’s picked, she’ll be joined with the other Council members through the Ray, a bond deeper than blood. That closeness is irresistible to Tarisai, who has always wanted to belong somewhere. But The Lady has other ideas, including a magical wish that Tarisai is compelled to obey: Kill the Crown Prince once she gains his trust. Tarisai won’t stand by and become someone’s pawn—but is she strong enough to choose a different path for herself? - Goodreads

Raybearer by Jordan Ifeuko, 2020 Amulet Books

Raybearer is a lovely young adult fantasy novel, the first in a two book series. I read a fair amount of YA, and a good amount of speculative fiction and still Raybearer felt new and exciting. In fact I’d say it’s probably my favorite YA I’ve read so far this year. The world building is unique with a wide variety of cultures (obviously influenced by certain real world countries but with enough departure to not feel just relabeled with fantasy names), interesting magic abilities, a sense of history, and an unusual system of government.

While stories of youths rebelling against oppressive regimes are YA’s bread and butter, this takes a deeper look at justice and inequality. I love that Tarisai’s goal for most of this first book is just to protect her friends and chosen family. There are so many that we don't really get to know all of them, but the ones we do know are perfect. While Tarisai has a strong sense of right and wrong (literally, she gets physical symptoms from injustice) the entire time, the book covers her journey from ignoring it, then trying to save individuals, to trying to affect the whole empire. But even when her purpose is to protect, she still sees systemic injustices and comes up with systemic solutions, wanting to fulfill her role as more than keeper of the status quo. This is a story that questions why things are the way they are and how the status quo is maintained, but also looks seriously at what can be done better in the future. The problem isn’t one bad person abusing their power, the problem is the system that supports and maintains inequalities. I appreciated that there are no scenery chewing villains here - everyone has understandable motives, from lashing out to hurt because they were hurt, to fear, and to how easy it is to dismiss injustices that happen to other people, in other places and justify that that’s just how it is, no point in trying to make a difference. Everyone is treated with compassion, even when they make bad decisions or react from their emotions, which they sometimes do.

I’m really looking forward to the second book! In the words of George Washington from Hamilton,”Winning is easy young man, governing’s harder.” I love seeing what happens next and I’m going to leave it there to not give any more away.

Spoilers ahead as I talk about representation

As for LGBTQIA representation, it’s there but fairly background. Same sex relationships aren’t stigmatized and it seems there’s a bit of an “everyone is bi” default, although all the main on-page romantic relationships are male/female. Gender roles vary by culture but don’t seem to be strictly delineated in the palace although gender does seem to be considered strictly binary. One of the 11 is gay and fairly flamboyant about it - he’s described as a “bleeding-heart poet” dreaming of handsome swains, but that’s about it. However, there is an asexual character and while he’s not the protagonist, he is one of the key players. A little less than halfway through the book, when she is an anointed member of his council, Tarisai asks the Prince to meet her privately at a known lovers’ meeting spot. He’s afraid she has the wrong idea and this is what he tells her:

 “There’s something I should tell you. I don’t...I don’t think I want sex. Ever. And I don’t mean with you, I mean - with anyone. Girls, boys. Anyone.” He stared at the leaves on the ground, smooth brow furrowing. “I mean, I’ve had crushes before. On you, on Jeet, and some of the others. I’ve just … never been interested in the sex part. Sometimes I wonder if I’m broken.”

You aren’t broken, protested the voice inside me. You’re the kindest, most loving person I know. Run. Live.

“But I’m crown prince,” he continued, grimacing, “and I have to have heirs someday, so… I guess - if I could choose anyone-”

The conversation ends there because Tarisai stabs him.

Ekundayo, or Dayo for short, is described as happy, naive, trusting, and having a “big fragile heart”. He is the Crown Prince, but he believes in the best of everyone. He’s well meaning but doesn’t always get it. They don’t have a word for asexual, but the author makes it clear by indicating that it’s all genders he’s not interested in and that he’s not aromantic as well. And the author includes the classic, “I wonder if I’m broken.” On the one hand, broken would go on my ace characters bingo sheet, but on the other, it’s a classic for a reason. Asexuality is already so much more visible than when I finally encountered it over ten years ago that maybe in another ten private wonderings about our brokenness will no longer resonate with the younger generations. I hope so. In the meantime, I already liked him as the soft-hearted prince and this made my heart go out to him. I love that Tarisai’s immediate reaction is “you’re not broken” although she doesn’t get the chance to say that out loud or even finish the conversation. I assume it will come up again in the next and final book. I really don’t know what’s going to happen next and I love that.

In summary, I loved Raybearer and I think it’s a good representation of an ace character that doesn’t fall prey to stereotypes (although I am keeping an eye on how often naive tends to show up) and I highly recommend it as a diverse thoughtful YA fantasy.

[proxyedgy]

I can't stop thinking about Unomaru and how in the Es route he starts making extremely uncaring remarks about her all of a sudden, just because he's made the new models. It doesn't fit his personality at all.

I get that he becomes more distant from Es the more she learns to be independent, that's fitting, he's prideful and he thinks he knows best. What isn't fitting is for Unomaru to dismiss her as garbage after all the time and effort he put into building and keeping her in prime work conditions. Es is flawed but she's one of a kind. She is one of his achievements. Would Unomaru really have no pride on her?

He went through the trouble of giving her maintenance every two days for five years. I can’t believe for a second he didn’t get attached, in the same way one would to a dear old tool they keep sharpening even as it starts to rust. A newer model was inevitable, technology marches on, but that doesn’t mean the old one needs to be thrown away.

“Oh but he’s evil” but see that’s the thing, he’s not evil because he’s uncaring, he’s evil because he’s a control freak. Unomaru wants world peace by the means of controlling people’s thoughts so as to stop them from ever arguing (as if that would solve everything...). Es fits perfectly within that mentality: a homunculus created solely to obey orders, a doll with no will who will never fight, never complain, never think. In his mind, isn’t that the perfect human?

Sure, she isn’t human, so he thinks less of her. Sure, he’s angry that Es is starting to malfunction to the point of having feelings and disobeying orders, that’s definitely a problem. Sure, I can see him coming to the conclusion it was time to retire her.

But

And less than a minute later

Unomaru says she’ll be gone with a smile, yet he also boasts about having created her (there were no mentions of other homunculus prior to Es). And later he doubles down on dismissing her, ordering the newer models to destroy Es without a second thought. It’s like he’s both proud and ashamed of Es at the same time, but there was never a moment until now where he disregarded her as a thing, so it comes out of left field.

I understand he’s both sleep deprived and the card-carrying twist villain with bigger plans in mind, but it just feels out-of-place. Unomaru's relationship to Es doesn’t factor at all in her character development, all because of this sudden dismissive attitude he didn’t show until now.

It feels like a missed opportunity from a writing perspective, and it’s really frustrating as someone who got invested in both of them and wanted at least some kind of closure. If we as players are to see Es as a person, then it follows that we are to see Unomaru as her father figure, but neither them or the game acknowledge this idea.

We already have an absentee father who sees his children as things and doesn’t care in this franchise, XBlaze. The least you could do is show the other end of the spectrum, a dad who sees his child as a thing but cares too much. I wanted to see him angry. I wanted to see him trying and failing to keep Es away from Touya, trying make her come back to his side, trying to keep her in stasis forever as a memory of one of his greatest achievements.

If you must make every asexually-reproducing men in this franchise evil, then at least give me some variety. Unomaru should want Es as his cute little trophy daughter to display, and that’s final.

[obeymebutnotlikethat]

I want to discuss something I have found a bit disturbing. This content is being labeled as TW/CW for topics of : sexual assault, consent, and implications of  rape.

The world of otome games and dating sims is vast in almost every category. However, I’ve noticed a simple trend in most of them which seems to be a problem. Many seem to disregard consent in favor of action between dataeble characters. 

In Obey Me, Lucifer (who the devs often push) is known to disregard consent. His interactions are often sexual and even when it isn’t he still finds a way to make it. Many players found the Vampire event to be a large issue, Where Lucifer still goes after the MC, even when he is told no. Some chats are a bit strange as in the one where MC is allowed to pick a place to go to. If the MC chooses the clothing store he bring up “I know you’re dying to take your clothes off for me” (This is a paraphrase). Even though he is the avatar of pride, this is not good territory and shouldn’t be used as an excuse. The current Angelic event has him acknowledge that the MC may not be ok with him shoving them onto the bed. This premise of the event, was the brothers become more holy and less of themselves. For, the devs to implement Lucifer taking in the MC’s feelings of the situation is a problematic situation. That is to say: Lucifer is only wise to consent when his whole being is switched around. This game is gender neutral and I feel this part of it should be a bigger discussion around the current topics as well.   

In Mr Love mobile/ Love and Producer, the player tends to view these situations in dates. While the story line tends to stray from asexual nature, the dates do not hold back. A vast amount of problematic occurrences are from Gavin’s dates. There are so many to recap:  Film Studio date (which the MC is stalked), Relieving date (Mc almost ends up assaulted/implication of possible gang rape), Blazing date (MC is put in revealing clothes for the studio men), and Journey date (MC is sexually harassed by a strange man on the train). The player will also encounter: objectification and child-like treatment from characters all while being sent sexual innuendos by said characters.

The newest game: Court of Darkness, the first chapter involves a understanding of MC may end up assaulted. The game gives the player a prologue which already tells them the MC is going to be treated as a tool and/or doll. Guy, who is the main offender wants to use MC as a tool for a power up. Whereas, Fenn, just wants to fuck the MC. This game off the bat has high objectification, sexual assault, and the avoidance of consent. In the first chapter, MC ends up hurting themself and screaming to escape Guy, who locked them in a room with him. This leads to the MC being thrown into his room, while paralyzed, and miraculously ends up not being raped. While MC ends up being healed by someone who serves Guy, they have a class of “This isn’t right” and “It’s nice I’m being healed now and its kind of my fault I got hurt”. I felt the need to point this out as for the reason discussed above was why MC wound up injured. During the same chapter, MC is taken by Fenn who merely wishes to make them into a fuck toy. MC once again is paralyzed. Unlike with Guy, MC can speak and tell him no. This, MC does do, and Fenn decides to ignore it. 

I cannot stand the bad endings in Mystic Messenger; but, although, some of them appear problematic, it is consensual between both MC and the character.

Many readers of fanfiction call for warnings when a writer makes potential triggering content. These games should provide a content warning in their descriptions as well. The way they get buy without it is the rating: Teens. Rating it for teens means for its sexual implications and not its “these things might make some players extremely upset”. 

This conversation I feel is only brought up when a game makes a mistake with certain choices. I want it to be a larger discussion about how the devs feel comfortable enough to slip in content like that casually and throw it as part of their characters personality. How, so many red flags are implemented in these story lines that many players do not recognize or understand. From the MC being treated like a child while the other characters make sexual innuendos towards them; MC being treated as an object; MC often being ignored; and MC often made as some fuck toy. 

I am aware there could be more depth and detail into this piece. I just need a base to start things off.    

[aromantic-misguide-to-romance]

Headcanons and Nonfiction Masterlist

Fanart and fanfiction masterlist here. Reader-inserts are GN unless otherwise stated.

OBEY ME! Original

Headcanons Hair headcanon - brothers, others & the new three Migraine headcanon Sharing a Bed (brothers + Diavolo), Barbatos, Solomon, Simeon Velociraptor headcanon DevilVision Leviathan x Diavolo Tennis AU: Lucifer, Mammon, Leviathan and Satan, Asmodeus, Beelzebub, Belphegor and Lilith, Simeon, Luke, Solomon, Barbatos and Diavolo Mouse AU: brothers and others Asexual HC: Asmo is demiromantic Simeon as aro ace Diavolo as Lith Ace!reader comes out after a misunderstanding - brothers & others Ace dates (reader-insert): Lucifer, Mammon, Leviathan, Satan, Asmodeus, Beelzebub, Belphegor Angsty: Nightmares of MC’s death - brothers Fallen Luke: part 1

Edits: Lucifer’s Robot Unicorn Attack, YMDA

Analysis Satan’s “childhood” [All headcanons, including unlisted small ones, can be found in this tag (#no one’s om headcanons). Under #no one’s om musings you’ll find more free ideas or guesses.] [Ao3: nonromantic headcanon + analysis link; Romantic gay headcanons, GN romantic headcanons]

AYAKASHI ROMANCE REBORN

Kagemaru short headcanons Kuro short headcanons Toichiro short headcanons

CYBIRD

Ikemen Vampire Purebloods in relationships

Ikemen Sengoku Headcanons Warlords as tennis players Warlords at jobs they suck at Set of random headcanons Edits: The Fox 1, The Fox 2, The Ground Spike for Ieyasu

OTHER NONFICTION

Reviews

Full reviews My Spy Romance Love Tangle - Ike Love Tangle - Moses Sengoku Love - Masamune Prince of the Resort - Lavi Magic Sword - Estel

First impressions SWD Pretty Awesome False Vows True Love Modern Cinderella - Patrick Hughes Love Ice Rink - Hayato

Angry ramblings/ridiculing Modern Cinderella - Rudolf (rant) Ninja Shadow - Tsubaki

[katarafirelady]

Ive said this before and I'll say it again until everyone in the fandom stops shaming each other and being rude about it:

The Main Character (MC) in Obey Me has no canon gender. This means that the gender of the MC is up to the headcanon of each individual player. Your MC can fall anywhere on the vast spectrum of gender, or can be agender.

Because the MC can fall anywhere on the gender spectrum, that means that the all* of other characters in the game can be anywhere on the sexuality spectrum! You can headcanon them as whatever you want! They don't even necessarily all need to be sexually attracted to your MC if you dont want them to be! Your MC is a man? They can all* be gay if you want! Your MC is a woman? They can all* be straight if you want! Your MC is nonbinary? They can all be pansexual if you want! Or you can mix and match however you choose! Maybe your MC is a woman and Solomon and Diavolo are gay, and Lucifer is pan. Maybe your MC is a man and Levi is asexual. Maybe you have more than one MC and theyre all bisexual! It's all up to you, and nobody else gets to dictate the sexuality of these characters as they interact with you/your Main Character.

* with the exception of Asmo who has canonically showed interest in (at least) both men and women aside from MC, and is therefore canonically bisexual/pansexual

[southparkhighrpg]

Firkle Smith - Accepted

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1. Mun information Preferred Name: Spooky Age: 21 Pronouns: they/them Timezone: est Activity Level(Scale 1-10): 5-6 Discord: ~~you know it~~ Password: Eric Cartman is a Fat Ass 2. Muse Information Muse’s name: Georgie ‘Firkle’ Smith Age: 12 Birthday: Oct. 9th Height: 5'0’’ Sexuality: Asexual Gender/Pronouns: He/Him, They/Them. Agender 3. Personality (two paragraph)

Firkle is a depressed, nihilistic, cynical that wallows in his own self pity and woe is me act. At least that’s what those who aren’t goth would think. He’s a true nihilistic, and will be till the day he dies. He has little to no Empathy, and some would call him a sociopath.. but if you’ve broken into his defenses he’ll do anything to keep you at his side. Going so far as to murder for your behalf. 

He comes across to those who don’t know him as a cold or heartless individual mostly due to the fact that he doesn’t rather enjoy or want to interact with the idiots around him besides his own friends. 

He has a good sense over his own emotions, and will play off emotions that will get him what he wants. Even how low it is. Though this is rather far and few between. He doesn’t usually play to others emotions(unless it’s his parent’s trying to punish him. He usually is good at making them change their mind.)  4. Appearance (two paragraph)

His appearance has slightly changed as he has grown into a bit more. He still adores the black fringe hair and black eyeliner and purple lipstick. His eyes are a hypnotically beautiful shade of blue.. but he wears grey contacts to cover them up for being too colorful. Only those he trusts knows his true eye color.

He still wears his turtle neck black sweater but has been getting into other kinds of black clothing. But nothing ever going into the territory of a fucking emo. Fuck those posers. 7. Name at least 5 headcanons

Firkle sees Karen as an acquaintance from Henrietta bringing Karen into the Goths. He tolerates her but makes no effort to become friends with her.

He has dabbled into the dark arts , and is a practicing believer of magic. Going so far as to try and influence other’s emotions.

 He hates his classmates but tolerates one, that being Ike Broflovski for whatever reason. He could care less if the guy dies though.

He has a deaf uncle so his parents made him learn sign language so well, he’s fluent in it and will shit talk about you while he physically talks to you. But makes it look like he’s talking with his hands.

He has a knife collection in his room.

His parents are particularly well off, and are scared of him to an extent. (As they should be) 8. Write two decent sized paragraphs that shows how you would portray your muse

Firkle sighed sitting in his desk during Detention for hurting another kid that had been bullying him. Not his fault the kid lost a finger cause he picked on the wrong kid. He tapped one by one with his fingers on the desk. He wasn’t allowed his books or paper or pencils during Detention but that didn’t stop him from sneaking in his mp3 player. 

He dug out his headphones and shoved them into his ears. Drowning the silence out with his playlist. Shooting a glare at the teacher who would dare protest his music player. Soon after the 3 hours were up he got up, grabbed his things from the teacher before walking out. Why he obeyed the rules of this establishment? Who knows but he did and who knew what he was planning in that fucked up head of his.

9. Any additional information  you would like to add