#actual situation I am currently in

[bibliophilianapologist]

You have fake spiderwebs, skeletons, some festive gourds.

My body managed to perfectly time things so that I was in pain and bleeding heavily all of October, Friday the 13th.

We are not the same.

[thedreadvampy]

sometimes I forget that my experience has been. um. not 'your experiences are not universal' vibes but more like 'your experiences are EXTREMELY atypical'

[selestial-skies]

So I just had someone immediately cancel their pledge after downloading content and I unfortunately have to now put up a rule about it. If you cancel your pledge within 24 hours of pledging you will be blocked from my patreon page. If this happens again and becomes a consistent issue I will have to restrict downloads to a higher payment tier or remove them all together and instead only offer discounts. I knew that this potentially could be an issue but I trusted people to not take advantage of me. This has only happened once so far so this is sort of a three strikes you’re out scenario downloads will remain available until I’ve had multiple instances of this behavior.

[piplupod]

if i have caught a flu bug on the roadtrip bc my family refuses to wear masks then i am going to start tearing this house apart piece by piece. it may just be exhaustion and hunger, but I am feeling so incredibly sick rn. brb going to go dig a deep pit and jump in it to never be seen again

[sundaysundya]

there's a post going around saying that jewish people would be considered settlers (perjorative) anywhere they went that's annoying me because it fundamentally misunderstands what settler colonialism is. Moving somewhere and joining an existing community isn't being destructive, and those who claim it is are xenophobes and racists, and historically have been being antisemitic when saying this to jewish peoples in various countries! On the other hand zionists creating settlements on the west bank and telling palestians who are Also indigenous to the land that they have to leave on pain of death (or just killing them up front) is a totally different situation. It's just not true that it's impossible to go anywhere without displacing people. I think that recognizing that jewish ppl have been and are frequently targeted by xenophobia can be really clearly separated from the criticisms being made of Israel and zionist ideology.

[ashthedestroyer]

Women’s shoulders. Reblog if you agree.

[cinnabarsilly]

chat how much aura did I lose for genuinely rolling around in bed, giggling, and kicking my feet when my friend asked to call with me last night

[absolutelyzoned]

its me and my inability to compromise against the world

[anon-unofficial]

hi guys. i like pizza rolls. anyways did i ever mention that it turns out i'm actually a sex-favorable asexual

[twistitch]

Thinking about setting up to start doing art commissions but the whole thing seems very daunting

I don't know how much to price things, like I have an idea of what kind of categories people generally list on commission sheets I just don't know how much I should be pricing things at

I have an idea for a sheet layout I just have to make it and figure out prices

I also don't even know how best to go about advertising that I do art and if anyone would even want art from me

I also am nervous about the whole thing in general but I want (and kind of need to) start offering to make art for others

So if anyone has advice or suggestions I would love to hear it

[culmaer-sideblog]

please forgive me, but I need to complain and over-share or my brain is going to explode please feel free to ignore

[ifyourereadingthisblinktwice]

i need to stop forgetting things exist the fucking second they leave my field of vision. why is is impossible for two things to occupy my mind at once especially when im tired. like. i feel like a sim. i feel like actions are being canceled and i just. move on. and completely forget what i was doing moments before. i fucking hate it

[swingingliveaway]

I got invited to a kind of get together / birthday party thing earlier this week which sounded fun, but also kind of really triggered my anxiety (I know why, but that doesn't make it less annoying), so I decided not to go and let the people who invited me know, and now I'm anxious about whether they think that was rude. I hate this brain.

[transingthoseformers]

Mild question about a fic series i recently read: in "Hot Rod's Dream, Rodimus's Nightmare", post "Made and Used and Wasted", what the hell is Tarn's plan (if he has any damn plan)??

[bugjams]

crazy how youre besties with a zionist

Are you going to elaborate any further on this or are you just going to throw accusations at me and expect me to know what the fuck you're talking about?

[scully1998]

1. thinking "bad" thoughts, allowing my thoughts to acknowledge bad things, and/or not sufficiently "punishing" myself for "bad" thoughts does not cause bad things to happen.

2. when bad things do happen, they are not related to or triggered by my internal thoughts or feelings.

3. i do not "think things into existence." mentally acknowledging a bad situation exists does not make it more real or worse. avoiding mentally acknowledging a bad situation will not banish it.

4. it is not possible to "jinx" anything.

5. i do not need to take internal or physical action to counteract or cancel out "bad" thoughts.

6. sometimes bad things are direct consequences of my physical actions. this does not mean that i caused them by acknowledging or thinking "bad" thoughts. recognizing this causation, taking accountability, and changing my physical behavior accordingly are appropriate responses; "punishing" myself for "bad" thoughts and developing internal rituals for counteracting "bad" thoughts are not.