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idgaf wars champion
#ask any of his loved ones#all like. two of them#and they will say yeah hes my cutie patootie#who does murder#but hes unserious 💔#on a serious note i do like that they both take note of his nonchalance#and are justifiably frustrated#bc like it does speak of his position of privilege in comparison to the two of them#but tbh for jaime its mostly going joker mode to escape his existential dread#laugh at the horrors tommen 🤣#the only ppl trying to win the idgaf wars this hard r the ones that r actually losing it#getting kicked out of idgafganistan
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just a normal guy surrounded by residents with evil in their hearts
#my art#doodle#fanart#resident evil 7#resident evil 8#ethan winters#hes havin a bad day im havin a bad day but with the power of takin your frustrations out on fictional characters i will prevail#he wont but thats not whats important here#i wish i was surrounded by literal horrors instead of the internal unseeable horrors that plague me so that i could justify the incredibly#hard time im havin to myself like hey its not my fault im literally dead#but anyways thats the post. heres to coping with life cheers
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eat him alive <3
#house md#gregory house#michael tritter#screencap#s03e06 “Que Será Será”#no matter how i look at it tritter arc is a mystery#it doesnt work no matter what#if you ride for pigs - tritter is neutralised not justified#against - theres no retribution or satisfaction at the end of this arc - just frustration all the way#ig s3 is too early to sent house to prison or give disease to that fucker#they also kinda make him use some of the same lines as house. but even he was an ingenious detective it still wouldnt compare
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unsatisfied
#sry its so messy i have impatient artist disease >_<#and i just wanted to get this concept down#cuz we see susato express her justified sadness so little if at all on screen#if possible plz dont interpret this as her being mad at them. i think she loves them#but i also think she should be allowed to be frustrated w her circumstances as a woman in the time#and ummm. yeah. heart#tgaa#dgs#dgs spoilers#tgaa spoilers#the great ace attorney#dai gyakuten saiban#susato mikotoba
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If I see one more person saying that Jason Todd's fans only like him because they don't read comics I'm gonna lose it
Dude, they're the only ones who actually read his comics, especially his Robin runs. The amount of times I saw Jason's hater making a statement about him that isn't true to most if not any canon is riddiculus And I saw the even higher amount of people arguing and disagreeing with Jason's fans over facts based on actual panels from comics
If you hate Jason for being and angry Robin who disobeyed Bruce and got himself killed you already lost an argument
If you hate Jason for being a stupid brute who stands out only because he kills people and uses guns you already lost an argument
If you hate Jason for "stealing" from other characters and not having story elements unique to his own character you already lost an argument
Jason Todd fanbase is as intense as it is because OTHER COMIC BOOK READERS AND BATFAMILY STANS DON'T READ HIS COMICS
It's really frustrating to have other fans claiming you don't know your favourite (or one of your favourites) characters when you know for a fact that you had read so much more about him. And that you have to witness his character being butchered by both the new comic writers and people in fandom over and over again
#the frustration a large part of the fandom has towards batfam-centrism and its overshadowing of other dc characters is understandable#but attacking fans who just want to enjoy a character they like is never the answer#i love so many dc characters outside of batfamily#hell I don't even like batman that much only specific characters#but I would never accuse a comic book fan of only liking a character because they didn't read his comics#some people in fandom don't read comics#that is a sad fact#but most of the jason todd fans know and read more about him than his dc writers#so stop with the accusations#you're allowed to disliked a character for no reason you don't need to make personal attack and statements to justify it#jason todd#dc comics#comic book discourse#red hood#jaybin
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eddie doesn't want to LEAVEEEEE. HE DOESN'T WANT TO GOOOO. he WANTS to stay!!!!!! oh my god. oh my god he is in HELL. so so so crazy to me that anybody is here talking about whether or not eddie did right by buck (who was objectively acting NOT NORMAL and being unfair the whole time because he is heartbroken) when like. WHAT ABOUT EDDIEEEEE. HE DOESN'T LIKE THIS. he is unraveling. r u fucking kidding me. he hasn't even left yet but BRING HIM HOME!!!!!
#911 spoilers#i don't even feel inclined to defend eddie because it's so obvious he is justified in his frustration the weird part is that he#WOULDNT NORMALLY BE THAT FRUSTRATED. but he IS. because he's ALREADY TRYING TO DO SOMETHING HE DOESNT WANT TO DO.
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I've said this a thousand times, but it always bears repeating.
Saying that the Jedi were really the bad guys shows that Palpatine's anti-Jedi propaganda worked on you.
My autistic ass isn't letting this drop because it is honestly so frustrating that people DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS.
No, the Jedi were not perfect.
Yes, the Jedi made mistakes.
Everyone makes mistakes. It's part of being alive.
But the Jedi were never the villains.
They did the best they could for Anakin, but they have no control over the choices Anakin made. Anakin could have just as easily chosen not to cut off Mace Windu's hand. He could have just as easily chosen not to murder all the Jedi in the Jedi Temple. He could have just as easily chosen not to kill the Separatist leaders (who were completely defenseless and had no way of fighting back against him). He could have just as easily chosen not to choke his pregnant wife. He could have just as easily chosen not to fight Obi-Wan.
Palpatine is the one who pulled the Jedi into his war, something they wanted no part of, by weaponizing their compassion. The Jedi were peacekeepers, and Palpatine turned them into soldiers, having them fight alongside their own executioners without realizing it. They were slow to figure out what was happening because the war was distracting them. The Jedi died fighting for the Republic while the rest of the galaxy just watched in horror and did nothing about it.
What happened to the Jedi Order at the end of the Clone Wars was genocide, plain and simple. No amount of "they were really the bad guys" will ever justify what happened to them.
The real bad guy in all of this is Palpatine. He's the one who groomed Anakin. He's the one who poisoned Anakin's mind. He's the one who preyed on Anakin's insecurities. He's the one who orchestrated the Jedi Purge because it was the only way he would be able to seize control of the galaxy, and he used Anakin to achieve that goal.

He smiled in the midst of Anakin's grief. Anakin's biggest fear just became a reality and Palpatine was enjoying every moment of Anakin's pain.
But yeah...the Jedi were the real bad guys...
#star wars#jedi order#pro jedi#darth sidious#anakin skywalker#the clone wars#yeah the jedi made mistakes but mistakes do not make you a bad person this isn't complicated for fuck sake#i'm not interested in hearing about your jedi hatred either#this is one of the most frustrating things about being in the star wars fandom#people are always so desperate to villainize the good guys to justify the moves of their favorite bad guy
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i’m rewatching scott’s double life for the first time in two years. and his first episode is The aromantic experience. everyone around you is asking if you’ve found your soulmate and you point to your best friend and say “well yeah we’re soulmates now” and they say “HA! FAKE SOULMATES!!!” and then “well i just can’t WAIT until you find your REAL soulmate, i’m having SO MUCH FUN with mine!” it’s like when someone walks up to you and tells you that someday someone will change your mind. and you watch everyone around you get happy and comfortable and settle down with one other person in a tight-knit way that you don’t understand and they’re in shock and disbelief and they stare at you weird when you point to your best friend and tell people that you live together
#double life smp#scott smajor#widows alliance#life series#trafficblr#traffic series#moo analysis tag#scott tag#ramblings#i’ve got a lot more thoughts about scott & pearl and i kinda forgot how. justified scott’s frustration is in that first episode#his handling of it later not so much but pearl really does intentionally stop looking for her soulmate for a whole . like. episode.#thirty+ min video so hours of recording. like. Like#he’s alone watching everyone else get together taking random damage and getting weird looks#it makes more sense now#<- edit: ‘hours of recording’ = days in game/in character time that’s what i meant
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me: apple white is actually a really complex character and her moment with the evil queen was one of vulnerability because she can't be frustrated with how things turned out anywhere else and some part of her was still bitter that she had to give up something good for everyone else. the evil queen knew this and was playing on it. she was also playing on the pressure that snow put on her as well to 'get her happily ever after'. all of this resulted into her throwing the apple in the direction of the mirror in frustration (most likely to get her to shut up), which accidentally caused her to free the evil queen which she did not mean to do. once again afraid of making a mistake and this time having people KNOW about it she then covers for the evil queen as she's afraid of what people will think of her and not anything else because she's a flawed character. the evil queen the promises her happily ever after of course but apple doesnt really have a say in it as she's forced to do whatever the queen says in order to keep the facade that shes 'perfect' because (once again) her upbringing made her scared of making any sort of mistake so she tries to cover for herself instead.
people for some reason: YOURE JUSTIFYING HER FREEING THE EVIL QUEEN!?!?!?
#im not justifying it but explaining the complexities behind the situation that for some reason people miss#apple has flaws and its perfectly fine not to like her for those and think shes annoying because of it. but completely ignoring her writing#and her character is annoying as hell. shes a teenager who was brought up for one thing. ruling the kingdom for her story#so when that falls apart and she gives that up of course shes gonna feel antsy and a little bitter about it. i didnt like this personally#but it does make sense for her character and how she has little empathy for the rebels as she doesnt understand them#now... WHEN SHE FREED THE EVIL QUEEN it is not something that she did on purpose. it was an accident that was set off by frustration#it was the accumulation of all her faults come together and her freeing the evil queen helped her see that. shes not justified in doing it#but just straight up making it seem like apple meant to do it and MEANT to ruin everything pisses me off sm#apple white#eah#ever after high
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no, but the way, cersei brushes sansa's hair with her fingers after telling her ilyn payne will kill her if stannis wins his battle, so they can all die together. this intimate, almost maternal gesture following a death threat. and then later a similar gesture is used with her actual child, when intimidating the king himself, her youngest, after threatening to have his whipping boy brought in to be beaten before them. just as she scared sansa, she scares tommen, also thought to be meek as sansa was. cersei only knows how to rule through fear but in these certain cases, she can sometimes mix in acts of tenderness too for a particularly unsettling combination.
#valyrianscrolls#asoiaf meta#asoiaf#cersei lannister#sansa stark#tommen baratheon#like with sansa she wants her as a daughter-in-law bc she seems unthreatening#but she also somewhat relates to sansa saying she'll survive humiliation as cersei did bc she's stronger than she looks#and w tommen his perceived weakness frustrates her as unlionlike esp as she idealizes joff after his death#but it also makes her even more protective of him to justify all her schemes and plots against her enemies#tommen himself wants no harm to come to his wife and in-laws and sansa no longer wanted any part in cersei's schemes either#(c)lsb#happy murderous meowmeow monday!#You're stronger than you seem though. I expect you'll survive a bit of humiliation.#She would kill half the lords in Westeros and all the common people if that was what it took to keep him safe.
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Asgore: Constantly makes his ex wife uncomfortable by continuing to hit on her, uses his child as a way to try and interact with her, is hinted to be working with Carol to create more dark fountains
Everyone: ...
Toriel: Gets drunk one time
Everyone: SHE IS SATAN SHE IS AN ABUSIVE ALCHOLIC AND A NEGLECTFUL MOTHER SHE NEVER SHOULD HAVE DUMPED HER SWEET AND INNOCENT HUSBAND-
#deltarune spoilers#swinging a bat at a hornet's nest but maybe some hornets deserve to get their shit kicked in#y'all have been Fucking Weird about Toriel for years now#because she committed the heinous crime of *checks notes* divorcing someone#and this isn't just deltarune toriel! People were fucking weird about undertale toriel too!#and we know for a fact she's justified in not being interested in asgore there because we know for a fact he murdered a bunch of kids!#And frankly. Genuinely. Even if Toriel did just dump Asgore because she just didn't love him anymore#even if there's no dramatic backstory reason. She just grew apart from him.#there are hints that even when their relationship was good she found him a bit frustrating#even if all of that is true#that's Fine.#that's a completely valid reason not to want to be with someone#you are not obligated to stay in a relationship with someone for any reason#deltarune toriel
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Mxtx, creating a beautiful and well-rounded female character that appears only briefly: Hey, isn’t it fucked up that this character who is so important in the world of this story and to the people that knew her can only be known to you, reader, through flashback memories because the people in power were willing and able to sacrifice her in their never-ending quest for ultimate dominance? Do you feel the constant grief over what could have been had her potential not been killed in its infancy? Do you understand that you as a reader are mourning in the same way that her loved ones she’s left behind are, knowing that the world has been changed for the worse by her premature death? Doesn’t it suck?
(English-speaking) Mdzs fandom the bane of her existence (probably): Killing women in stories can have no other meaning than that you hate women, so this was a misogynistic choice, actually.
#mdzs#human metas mxtx#human gripes at fandom#my damn cat woke me up THREE HOURS AFTER I WENT TO BED#so i guess I’m channeling that frustration into fandom#jyl and wq had soooooo much potential!#just for it to be suffocated in the cradle#because the more powerful people around them#wanted to use their lives and deaths as fodder to justify power grabs#i almost wish mxtx did ‘what if’ type extras#i’d ask god (her) to take all of jyl’s and wq’s suffering#and give it to the jin clan as a whole and jc as an individual#with a special helping for jgy and jgs and also nmj#almost forgot about that damn hypocrite
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I have given up at trying to get people to treat us with any sort of basic human decency. I'll see people wishing for Israelis to get killed, raped, tortured etc, people telling us to "go back where we came from" yet simultaneously talking about how violence and hate crimes are justified for any filthy Israelis who dare step foot in another country, people telling us we don't deserve a single moment of security or peace in our lives because we dared be born in the one country that's safe for us, and people ON JUMBLR will go "they're clearly using Israeli as a dogwhistle for Jew so it's fucked up" "half of the world's Jews are there so it's antisemitic and therefore fucked up" as if it wouldn't be otherwise. I've given up at this point because I've realised no matter how much we try we can't justify our existences to anyone. All I can really do is lean into the argument in the ridiculous hope people will at least see us alongside diaspora Jews, as a part of the Jewish community as a whole, because sure people don't really like Jews anymore but at least they have to pretend like they do.
#jumblr i love y'all but you have to stop doing this i'm begging you#i can't begin to explain how frustrating it is for me as an israeli to see this shit#hating people on basis of their nationality is wrong!!! simple as!!! the sentence ends there!!!#stop implying xenophobia would be justified if it wasn't also antisemitic!!!#and yes it is xenophobia because even looking at it through their “fake colonizer country” argument#i don't see them wishing these things on other countries that are actual fucking colonies like yk. AMERICA.#you think with how much they circlejerk about hating america they'd be wishing death to all americans too huh. curious.#getting off track. xenophobia bad. xenophobia doesn't need other factors to be considered bad. end of post.#leftist antisemitism#antisemitism#jumblr#hila has spoken
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Some instances that I feel show how some messages in MHA are detrimental, especially on how victims react to their abuser, can be gauged by responses that tend to be highly prevalent in the fandom.
(Definitely not every fan, but a great majority).
Endeavor is a great example. Whenever you post criticizing his approach to atonement (and ultimately criticizing Horikoshi’s writing), you get BOMBARDED by people either belittling you for not liking his character or essentially forcing you to like his character by frantically writing “at least he tried” arguments.
If I have the CHOICE whether to forgive his character or not, especially given he goes through an atonement arc and not a redemption arc, why is any form of criticism about his abusive behavior and essentially his abuse of power practically ignored by the story unacceptable?
The message was detrimental because people operate on the notion that for victims to be good people, they must forgive and even help their abusers. MHA presents people who choose not to forgive him as either a monster (Toya) or inconvenient (Natsuo). And if they are still unforgiving, they must admire the abuser for doing the bare minimum (taking responsibility; this is also about Natsuo).
Essentially, they are considered "imperfect victims" because they weren't merciful in their approach to their abuser.
The majority of the fandom tends to ignore the lack of actual consequences for Endeavor's actions because he vows to talk to Toya every day. Insisting that doing the bare minimum, which is recognizing his son's existence and suffering, became his "hell" is a wildly fucked up message, in my opinion.
It harps on the issue mentioned above that if a victim isn't receptive to forgiveness or doesn't act "demure," they are seen as an inconvenience—which is how the Todoroki family ultimately views Toya.
On a less critical note, I'll vent, so if you don't like this, just ignore it.
I'm so fucking tired of stories depicting imperfect victims as people who deserve death and torture. Plus, having to be on the brunt of so many people acting like you're morally fucked because you're not impressed with how a writer handled abuse. Horikoshi is not the first writer to try to atone a character who is an abuser (and he isn't the first to fail at that, either).
I'm not about to dick-ride every decision every author makes. Especially if the message convinces some audience members that victims are inherently broken if they can't bring themselves to forgive and/or admire someone who hurt them.
#me: no systematic consequences for Enji's abuse is frustrating#some MHA fans: well what the fuck is he supposed to do then? die?#me: ... why does everyone in this fandom believe dying is the solution for every crime?#MHA: twice's death is justified toga's death is justified tenko's death is justified people the HPSC killed aren't brought up again#me: oh yeah lol#the experiences I had with the MHA fandom on TikTok so far have been the most toxic interactions I've ever had in fandom#like I used to think the bad rep was just normies being introduced to fandom for the first time#but no#people were right :v#if you like Enji and you're triggered by this#please leave me alone#also please don't try to convince me the end was good or that the story is good#I'm legit so tired of having to deal with that#each to their own#mha critical#bnha critical#anti enji todoroki#anti endeavor#todoroki family#todoroki touya#touya todoroki#todoroki shouto#shouto todoroki#todoroki natsuo#natsuo todoroki#RIP natsuo#you had some rebellion in you#he had to have a little bit of boot-licking by the end#the poor thing
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so im going into therapy (or social work, more broadly) as a profession (in school rn). i know that not everyone in anti psych would support that, understandably, and im not under an illusion that therapy isnt tied to the whole system and process. but i want to bring a liberationist, anti-racist, pro-mad, and abolitionist ideology to help who i can
do you have any suggested resources or reading recommendations or idk any insight on how to inform the way i go about juggling anti psychiatry in a profession that is considered going hand in hand with it?
Hi anon.
I think there can be ways that people working in the psych system can leverage power and resources in a way where they're acting in solidarity with psych survivors and mad people, but in reality, this very rarely happens, even among professionals who identify as radical or as having lived experience.
Fundamentally, the psychiatric system is one that perpetuates structural violence, and in smaller and larger ways, anyone who works within the system to legitimize it contributes to and is complicit in that violence. So I think that for anyone who is planning to work within the system, you need to be upfront with yourself that there is harm occurring and that isn't something you can just ignore or act like that's something you're separate from. Even if you're not working inpatient or facilitating forced drugging of someone, there's still a lot of ways that therapists can be complicit in psychiatric violence.
One of the most obvious ways is through mandatory reporting. I believe that in order to be an ethical therapist you must break the law--mandatory reporting is a dangerous way that mad people are surveilled by the state, and therapists must work to interrupt that and prevent it. There are a lot of therapists out there already talking about practical ways to avoid mandatory reporting and how to be upfront with clients about it, and I can link some of that at the end of this post. I won't say it's always easy, but we have an obligation to each other to do everything we can to stop psych incarceration from happening.
I think there's a lot of ways that even outpatient, therapists are asked to enable other forms of psychiatric violence. Even if in your practice, you're really focusing on liberation, respecting autonomy, etc, there are ways that other psych professionals might try to get you to help them perpetuate different forms of harm. And because of your degree and licensure, there's this power imbalance between you and your client that means you do have the power to enable these kinds of harms. The degree next to your name means that you will always be believed over your client and that is a lot of power to hold. If you're working with a client with an eating disorder and their dietitian gives an ultimatum that they have to be hospitalized or they're refusing to provide care, what do you do? If your client's psychiatrist is refusing to answer questions or let them switch to other types of medications, what do you do? If your client is involved in a court case and you're getting subpoenaed for their medical records, what do you do? If your MSW program requires you to do one of your internships in an inpatient program, how do you prevent that from happening? There are a lot more examples I can think of, but these are just a few things I wanted to highlight for ways that therapy is still entangled in the larger system.
Another thing that feels important to me is to make the distinction between being a "good therapist" and helping people, because I don't think those things are the same. I see a lot of "radical" therapists get fixated on this idea that they need figure out ways to make the psych system run smoother, to improve access, to overall make the psych system better, and that this is the only way to help people. It's really important to be able to separate those ideas. For me, psych abolition is a project of building up our capacity to care for each other while destroying the systems that currently enact violence on us, and reformist ideas about expanding psychiatric systems, increasing funding, and legitimize psychiatric authority gets in the way of actually transforming care. I think in order to help people, you need to commit to being a "bad therapist" in the eyes of a capitalist healthcare system.
One recommendation I have is to read Franco Basaglia's writing and learn about his approach of the democratic psychiatry movement. As a psychiatrist, he saw his role as a way to disrupt the system and deinstitutionalize. He has this quote where he talks about how they weren't focused on eliminating problems, but rather on how deinstitutionalization would create more chaos and new problems--and how that created so much possibility for transformation. I think he's proof that there are certainly ways that psych professionals can act as accomplices who actually are in solidarity with psych survivors, but it's rare.
Last point I have is that although you gain something from professional training and licensure, there's also a lot you lose. MSW programs often don't actually teach you the skills you want to learn about how to actually support people--there's a lot you're going to have to learn from continuing education credits. From my friends who have gotten their MSW, I've heard a lot of complaints about how surface level a lot of information is, and also about how a lot of the way that information is taught reinforces hierarchal ideas and doesn't respect patient autonomy. I'll also say that gaining licensure oftentimes creates barriers for radical action--I've seen so many therapists who then become so attached to holding onto and not losing that licensure that they weigh it above mad people's lives. I've heard so many therapists say "Oh I can't speak up against restraint because I'll lose my job/I can't ignore mandatory reporting because I'll lose my license/etc etc etc." And I think that can be a really damaging mindset that harms your potential to actually help people. There are several therapists I know who are in the process of intentional de-licensure because of this, but regardless if you pursue that path or not, this is a mindset you need to be on guard against.
All that being said, I think there is a need for more abolitionist therapists who are able to help support our communities, both in terms of creating that space for individual support and on a collective level. There are ways that you can leverage your access to resources and the way you're seen as legitimate in the system to help advocate for people, get them support, and interfere with psych violence. I have a therapist comrade who keeps working in inpatient psychiatry specifically so that they can continue to sneak in banned materials to the ward, prevent illegal restraints, be involved in court proceedings as an advocate, connect people to mad liberation resources, let psych patients use their phone, document psychiatric abuse with the plan to fairly soon release that information as a whistleblower, and more that I'm not going to talk about publicly. They still grapple with the fact that they are currently perpetuating harm at the same time, but to them, it's worth it to be able to sabotage things in that way. And I think that there are ways that you can take the information you learn in your program that is actually useful and find ways to bring that directly to your communities, and that there is good you can. I just think you have to be very intentional and aware of what it takes to actually do that, rather than just staying complacent with the label of being a "radical therapist" without doing anything to make that true.
For resources--here's my psych abolition drive with a lot of different zines, books, workbooks on different psych abolition topics. I really would recommend reading Psychiatry Inside Out by Franco Basaglia as an example of successful psychiatric resistance.
I would also suggest checking out Mutual Aid/Self Social therapy--the people who created this project are trusted comrades of mine, have both gotten their MSW or LMFT, and they have a lot of helpful insight into how to navigate things like avoiding mandatory reporting, de-licensure, etc. They have a discord server and also have regular online MAST meetings to train people on what MAST is and how to set up a MAST collective.
Genuinely wishing you the best of luck through school and appreciate that you're actively thinking about these things.
#asks#psych abolition#recently i've seen a trend. mostly on instagram. of peopel who identify as radical or lived experience therapists still not getting it#or exploiting the work of mad people and acting like it's their own. or using their lived experience as a way to justify the harm that#they perpetuate. or just really not interrogating the hierachy and power imbalance. or really thinking hard enough about what is actually#going on#so this response might seem a bit frustrated but that anger is not directed straight at you anon
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A very specific remix of Training Montage is playing in the background
#and it's tommy johansson's#dragon age#warden cousland#elanor cousland#ndo sta l'art tag#I imagine amaranthine being very humid and cold for 3/4 of the year#so of course the berserkers train almost shirtless to maximize the amount of frustration they'd channel into their training sesh u-u#I call that 'resident redhead berserkers having the worst time as sigrun and alistair divide a plate of raw ham and cheese cubes'#...look at me trying to justify a guns out picture lmao#these mirrors are very tall and slippery
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