#and it makes me so ANGRY

[phoebehalliwell]

[saiikavon]

I finished Trespasser with a Solas romance for the first time and I am absolutely incensed to report that it was my favorite to play thus far

Solas continues to be infuriatingly interesting

[frnkiebby]

that little piece of hair~🎃

[mcondance]

to anyone who needs to hear this: let that shit go

[huellitaa]

the amount of accounts romanticising ed's on here breaks my heart. please eat. ur deserving and worthy of every bit of love in the world,, treat ur body the same, ur so beautiful. ur not gaining weight. ur not being greedy. u dont need to binge or purge or anything like that. food should help you survive, not the opposite. pls let yourself eat. ur body is beautiful & please dont hurt it

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

It’s one of my biggest pet peeves. Why is is lesbians having to prove our innocence? Why is it lesbians being painted as the horrible oppressive mean people that need to make a statement to prove we “aren’t like that”.

And what would YOU know. You aren’t even a lesbian!! Yet you fell fine to push this narrative to a wide audience and make money off it while acting like you know what you are talking about despite not even being a member of the group you are subtly throwing under the bus with this bullshit

[artificial-condition]

Ignoring the person you’re upset with and refusing to tell them what you’re mad about and withdrawing from everyone is not a healthy way to express anger or upset. It makes everyone around you miserable and isn’t productive in any way

[icepixie]

Dear Finance Department:

The appropriate response to something about a purchase order being wrong--especially when it's usually some rule change you never tell anyone about when you change it--is not "sit on it for a month until the purchaser asks you why the delay, then tell them the rule changed and you need form nine-XY18P26blargle-blargle instead of form eight-XY18P26blargle-blargle."

It would be too much to ask for you to have an FAQ or a rulebook or something on your website, obviously. Or even have a website where half the links aren't broken. Or have ANY GODDAMNED COMMUNICATIONS SKILLS WHATSOEVER.

Signed,

Someone who just wants to spend the money IN MY BUDGET on WORK-RELATED THINGS without spending literal hours convincing you to release the funds

[buttercuparry]

Palestinian men should not have to repeatedly hold up pictures of their family struggling through a genocide, for us to care about them. Fundraisers conducted by/for Palestinian men, should not have to repeatedly refer to their mothers, sisters, wives and children, to make us realize their humanity, their vulnerability. Enough. Isn't it enough after so many months? Hadn't it always been enough?

[currentlyembracingthevoid]

I absolutely hate that the way doctors don't take women seriously just means they don't go to doctors with stuff that could be serious

My friend just went to a gyno because she's been bleeding for 4 days after taking plan b like 9 days ago and googling results in basically "that's not normal please go to a doctor" and so she did but that doctor just insisted on doing an ultra sound to check for pregnancy told her that she wasn't pregnant so everything is fine and then just told her to take hormonal birth control for a couple of months to sort her out

The thing is, she's still bleeding and I can't blame her for not trying another doctor after that because wtf and our other flatmate just said that yeah she's also just waited for this kind of stuff to go away and I absolutely hate it because this is really common

[spidergvven]

queerness under apartheid

[thetragicallynerdy]

Reminder from someone with actual literal brain damage from a brain injury to stop fucking using "brain damage" and "brain injuries" as a means of describing someone whose opinions you don't like or deem as stupid.

It's ableist and offensive as fuck, and for some reason a lot of leftist people think it's okay to use. I've seen posts replying to right wing racists calling them "brain damaged if you believe this" and "do you have a brain injury? do you not understand X?". Just now I saw a beautiful post about fat people throughout history that was absolutely ruined by opening with "How do we break it to boomers with actual brain damage and nostalgic brainrot..." before continuing to say that fat people existed throughout history.

Brain damage does not make you racist. A brain injury doesn't make you ignorant, or fatphobic, or unaware of history and politics. Stop fucking using my disability as a catch all to describe people you think are shitty. Y'all use it like it's a replacement for how people used to use the R-slur, which shows you learned absolutely nothing about why the R-slur was wrong to use and decided to throw in other disabilities instead. Fuck off and stop doing it.

(And don't do it with other disabilities either, because I know y'all do.)

I know a lot of people with brain injuries. They're smart, and funny, and compassionate. They learn about the world and care about social issues and wish they could go to protests if their disability won't allow them to. Are there right wing people with brain injuries? Sure, absolutely. But they are not right wing because they have a brain injury, and using any disability as an insult is still fucking ableist.

Tldr - stop using brain damage and brain injury as an insult. It's ableist and incredibly offensive.

Love, your local brain injured/brain damaged pal

[frnkiebby]

can we just take a minute~🎃

[spitblaze]

considering how many transmascs were legitimately way angrier BEFORE starting T and have since calmed down significantly have we perhaps considered that maybe the reason so many cis dudes are angry and aggressive isn't because of testosterone but maybe. like. personal issues. unmet needs. a social climate that teaches them that there are only like three acceptable emotional outlets for men max and one of them is being angry and shouting

[hollandsmoose]

me vs the urge to yell at the pick-me girl in my greek class lmao

[elbiotipo]

IQ people really believe that countries of millions of people are mentally impaired as a whole and they still think it's any meaningful way to measure inteligence. IQ is perhaps one of the worst concepts ever concieved, there is no redeemable scientific or social value to it, it should have been left in the trashcan of pseudoscience with phrenology and homeopathy