not aimed at anyone but like, I think as a community we gotta remember that butches/doms deserve to feel wanted for who they are and not just for the sex or fantasies they can bring to the table. if you’re looking for a partner just so you can feel like you’re not “missing out” in the community or so you can have fun without responsibilities, then either you gotta take a step back for awhile and work on yourself, or realize that dom/sub stuff just isn’t healthy for you. and that’s ok!! there’s nothing wrong with that!! but I guarantee that butches and doms are just as anxious about being used as a fill in or piece of meat as any femme or sub is. it sucks to be in a position where you feel like you’re replaceable and only worth what fantasies you can give to them as a placeholder. anyway. yeah. treat butches better please.
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Bra Comfort Poll
All my bra-wearing homies argue constantly over whether bras comfortable and wonderful or if they're manufactured by hell to make us suffer. I've long suspected that there is a correlation between this opinion and cup size... but let's get the data to see if that hypothesis holds up!
Please reblog for more data! This question has plagued me literally for years, plz plz I need to hear everyone's experience and feel less alone because bra struggles are so real.
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Angel: In my defense, I was left unsupervised.
Vaggie: Wasn't Husk with you?
Husk: In my defense, I was also left unsupervised.
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not to get on some freak shit rn but i can't stop thinking abt a big and unspeakably terrible man saying "oh, poor thing" in the least sincerely sympathetic way possible
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a visual guide to all of hua cheng’s adaptations :D / follow for more hua cheng appreciation posts / transcribed notes + versions without my deisgn below the cut if you want this as a reference!
donghua
(by haoliners animation league) (i found multiple necklace designs in the manhua so i picked the most recent one - the S2 trailer)
very dark gray, straight hair
pointier nose
human ears
slightly paler than xie lian
parallelogram shaped eyepatch
thick braid
tall collar
broad shoulders
low neckline (cleavage)
tunic more form fitting
butterfly + geometric design (on belt and vambraces)
two belts
short red thread
e’ming has large red + white hilt
criss-cross chains (on boots)
white sole (on shoes)
book covers
(by 曰出的小大陽 / tai3_3)
same skin tone as Xie Lian
dark brown hair
trapezoid shaped eyepatch
very long hair + thinner hair
human ears
long nose, thinner face
red liner under the eyes
brain behind shoulder
big necklace charm
simple, loose fitting tunic
wavy + intricate design (on belt and vambraces)
long vambraces
minimal e'ming
endless red thread
lower boots
manhua
(by starember)
wavier, ink black hair
heavy eyeliner / shadow
mismatched earrings
very gray / pale skin
shield shaped eyepatch
arched eyebrow + piercing
lip glos
no hair strands in front of shoulders
beefy / dorito shaped
many outfits + hairstyles
extra straps on belt
pointy vambraces
floral design (on belt and vambraces)
very cool toned red
more detail overall
dark colored pants
e'ming is LONG
my design
(by @lazycranberrydoodles ) (subject to change)
blue / purple toned hair + skin
wolf cut type hairstyle
red & black eyeliner
trapezoid shaped eyepatch
pointy ears
black choker
lipgloss
many earrings (one is a fic reference :))
skinnier (died @ 17)
warmer toned red
big ol sleeves
floral + butterfly design (on belt and vambraces)
extra chain on belt for style
rings
simple e'ming
high boots w/ heel
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you know what I don’t get? when ppl message me, wanting to sext, but they don’t follow me. I’m not talking about side blogs. I’m talking about those that hop into my dm’s, have never at all interacted with any of my stuff, don’t follow me, and think I’m gonna sext with them.
if you don’t even like me enough to follow me, then don’t bother. I’m an actual person who likes being wanted, not just being used. jeez.
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I love how despite how awkward it was we as a fandom all collectively decided to look at the silver lining of the whole cluster fuck that we got to see guillermo covered in blood and him being dramatic at the end
like was it his own blood? yes
was he only covered in blood due to really REALLY shitty planning and execution? also yes
and was he only being dramatic to try and save the situation but it arguably was all in vain cuz they were in the back of a fucking gas station awkwardly dancing around the fact that they both had no idea what they were doing? once again yes
but like the deed is done, the die is cast, those red eyes were fucking dope, and guillermo is covered in blood which is really sexy of him sooooooo shut up let us have this >:(
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oakworhy are sooooooo t4t trans guys to me im sorry but i cannot stay silent any longer. just think about it. Normal finding out Hermie wears his binder onstage & during musical numbers and being SHOCKED and UPSET and shows him the wonderful world of trans tape. Hermie as a little kid getting obsessed with and "method acting" as fictional boys to the point where he was insisting on getting he/himmed, and then finding a fictional girl he wanted to act as and but realizing that he still wanted to be a boy. Normal getting really into the idea of being a cheerleader and being absolutely thrilled to realize that boys are allowed to be cheerleaders too. transfem Sparrow having long talks about gender with her son and helping him come into his own, even if she's worried that he'll be made fun of for it. that one @apricior fic where Hermie helps Normal with his t shot. do you see my vision
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