#anti reylo bs

[rhaenyratheecruel]

[kittenfangirl20]

That is not how enemies to lovers works. By the time Finn met Rey, he had officially left the First Order. Rey and Finn were never enemies and for it to be enemies to lovers, they have to be enemies at some point. No wonder people like this think that Reylo is abuse if they don’t understand the concept of enemies to lovers.

[shitthyantireylosspeak]

Stylesmilky?

Avy. Or better known as Haley is Known as somone who is just a horrible anti reylo. They constantly bully with one girl who is so good at edits and stole her art.

They are just a horrible disaster. They say it's because they where in a toxic relationship. But I'm pretty sure that she (Haley says they use THEY/THEM.)

But she changed it so much we know she is just faking Pronouns. To hide her tracks. Please watch out for this horrible person.

She also ships real people. Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson together even though they aren't together.

They also had a few friends making fun of someone's art. Together they did this. They were also a larrie.

Watch out.

[fabulousprancingtrashstallion]

How p*ssed do you think antis are right now?

[agir1ukn0w]

every once in a blue moon tumblr decides to curse my dash with motherfucking antis who don’t know how to tag their posts apparently

[justice-for-rose-tico]

[myimaginationplain]

lore olympus is one of those times where the anti-fandom is 10 times more annoying than either the fandom or work itself could ever be

[benthelastskywalker]

In the almost seven years since I’ve been around the Reylo fandom on tumblr, you know how many times I’ve seen a Reylo say antis should kill themselves/send them death threats? Exactly 1. You know how many times I’ve seen antis tell Reylos to kill themselves/send them death threats? I have honestly lost count because it happens all the time. I’m not denying that there are probably toxic Reylos out there, but in my experience toxic antis far outnumber the toxic Reylos.

[rhaenyratheecruel]

the absolute shitstorm over Reylo remains the craziest, dumbest thing I have ever witnessed in fandom. People really lost their minds over a lorge space goth romancing a rowdy sand scavenger.

For real!! It is so insane looking back at how vanilla Reylo was and how many people still lost their minds over it

[kittenfangirl20]

I hate it when someone does something like this, the post doesn’t mention Reylo at all, yet the person felt the need to tag the post anti Reylo. Reylo really living rent free in their heads if they have to mention being anti Reylo in a post where Reylo is not brought up in.

[shitthyantireylosspeak]

That person is horrible, but can we please not accuse anyone of faking pronouns?

No, no. We must. This person Haley. As @NokiDriver has said "Haley fakes pronouns" Noki is on Twitter and puts on Twitter fakes Pronouns. We must listen to the victim. Haleys actions are like Amber Heards. I bet someday she'll abuse her children.

Threats are most certainly true for thus user stylesmilky. Now known as @larriestyless. She does deserve it for what she put Reylos through.

I do hope she end up in a mental hospital. This is unacceptable.

Please don't sympathize with Amber Heard the Anti Reylo.

[fabulousprancingtrashstallion]

[neyafromfrance95]

ghoulcy is my first ship after a long time and i get mad whenever i see people hating on it but i agree with avoiding the discourse and the fight, it neve ends well for the either side of the ship war.

when you get baited by the antis' bs and start arguing with them, spending all of your time in the fandom defending your right to ship, constantly talking about why your ship is better than the other ship,

is when you can be sure that when you look back at your experience with the ship, you will remember only frustration.

been there, done that. that's how it is.

and then there is the issue of the general/casual fans getting tired and confused about the discourse and perceiving the both sides of the war as annoying af and in the wrong (i don't go there but i think that's what happened with reylo).

the fandoms with the most longevity and positive vibes are the ones where the shippers spend most of their fandom time creating content for their ship - making gifs, edits, writing fics and drawing fanart, or just hyping up those who do.

[saotome-michi]

People where are my reylos at? I've been seeing too much anti-reylo bs on my feed recently and a lot of my old reylo mututals have left tumblr :(

[simplyalexeiofficial]

Friendly reminder that you are allowed to ship/not ship characters in a show, but you are NOT allowed to tear down other members of a fandom because baybee this is FICTION. And guess what fiction isn’t? Reality~

There are extreme dynamics and characterizations within fiction that would absolutely be unacceptable in real life, but that doesn’t stop them from being enjoyable from a story telling perspective.

I bring this up because, as we get closer to bridgerton season 3, there have been increasingly polarized posts that attack not only the main couple but also the fans of that couple. I did not survive the anti-reylo troop just to see BS infighting about a fantasy regency dramady

[weaselbeaselpants]

Since I don't want to link it back to two scenarios so...um...immediate, I'll just say; the "Suffering just makes you hurt"-mantra is one I def subscribe to in day to day life, even in small, trivial' things like fandomwars.

I had a person get pissed at me once cuz I defended antishippers. They explained and showed me how they'd been harassed and abused by antis for no reason other than calling themselves a proshiper - no, NOT for actually liking anything with r@pe/cest/p3doshipping - just Reylo *in theory*. They got treated like a literal predator not for anything they actually did but for the title that genuine creeps have decided to use for their kink as this person did for their safe shit and they got blasted for it....and then this person proceeded to call me a cword and accused me of condoning their abuse by proxy of me saying " I don't think antis are inherently evil, actually".

I get it. When you put up with harassment from people touting their selfdeclared fandomom as some kind of badge of honor, of COURSE I understand turning your back on everyone who calls themselves that same thing! That's just, like, a survival instinct. You don't want to be reminded of your tormentor(s) because you really shouldn't have to be reminded of your tormentor(s) while you're browsing fandumb inbetween school or work. You want to keep your tormentors at bay so no triggering shit ppl are romanticizing or covert bigotry someone's hiding under the language of criticism to get in the way of your vibes when this is your fandom and your space to be creative and unwind and be you. I really get it.

The problem is, and the reason I DON'T put up with antianti or antiproshipper shit, that's labeling a whole lot of strangers inherently bad over not having the exact fandom takes and conflating that with your legitimate ethics of outing predators and bigots...THAT is what's shitty.

I know for a fact that not all the people who tag their shit #proship even fully agree on what proship means. I know they are not all predators or even don't care about predators being in their fandoms. Trust me, they care. Some of the #antiship folks I know are the most lax mf w it comes to content warnings, horror, kinks and nuance and also really hate call out posts and want to avoid them as much as they can. I know they are not all self-righteous prudes and bigots trying to get kink out of pride or some shit. THAT SAID- if I haven't already seen creepypredatorybs from proshippers or bigotedbully-tactics from antis, I can definitely believe those things exist in those spaces. But again, those behaviors exist whether or not a person uses these self-given labels. You shouldn't throw your hands in defeat anymore then your shouldn't declare yourself the sole liberator.

Blocked the proshipper-stan I was of talking about because I kind of don't like being called a cant and told I'm okay with death threats...just like I did the antishipper who was sending me death threats that same day =). I know I don't have to deal with that bs and I'm glad I took that advice from a mutual abt my own personal boundaries.

Call out shitty behavior all you want, but the absolutist-rhetoric is not healthy and, more importantly, not doing anything to help people being abused by fandomculture anymore than you were when you first got accosted for disliking a thing that made you upset/liking a thing that made someone else upset. You gotta share your fandom with everyone so long as they're not bigoted, abusive or predatory. And yeah, I kind of reserve all those notions for people I can tell ARE doing those things...so, y'know Lily Orchard.