#blog boundaries

[midnightfire830]

Blog Boundaries

So. It’s come to my attention that I need to set down some ground rules and boundaries. I’ve noticed some, uh, behavior for lack of a better term that just doesn’t sit right with me. So I’m going to lay out my boundaries for my blog and as an artists. I’ll put what I’m ok with and what I’m not ok with so this can kinda be a reference guide for my blog.

This may be a bit harsh and I’m sorry. Those who have gone across those boundaries BEFORE I made this post are ok as long as you start to follow the ground rules from here on.

I am ok with:

- People drawing my AUs and characters as long as you either @ me or mention that it belongs to me. (Hell, I’ll even reblog and help support ur drawings)

- Asks about my AUs and characters in general are ok. From questions about how an AU works/aspects, questions directed to my characters, or even if you wanna give something to the characters (I’ve seen that done in some blogs and as of now I don’t mind that, just pls don’t go overboard, thanks)

- I don’t think I mind inputting your OCs if your doing drawings of my AUs or characters. Just don’t expect me to make it canon or draw it into canon. (This one is iffy I might take this off if it goes overboard)

- Clarification in the comments section. If there was an ask that didn’t fully explain something or you wanted to clear something up then by all means go to the comments I don’t mind. Or put in another ask. That’s another way to do it.

- I also don’t think I mind people putting in requested ideas in asks for now. Tho there’s a chance I won’t do it if I’m not too motivated by the request. (Again this rule may change depending on how it goes from here on)

Things I am NOT ok with:

- Asking me or pressuring me to draw your AUs, characters, or OCs. This has come up a few times but I want to officially put it on record that if you ask me to, I will say no. Even for asks. Any kinds of other OCs or AUs I draw would only be for my close friends.

- Spamming me with the same asks. If you sent in an ask and I didn’t response don’t send in the same ask again. (That includes reiterating the same ask) I can see all interactions with my blog and posts. I see your asks, replies, comments, reblogs, and likes. If I do not respond to your ask it is for a good reason. Sometimes I’m trying to answer other asks, I’m drawing up a response (that takes time), I’m holding on to it for a later date, I’m lacking motivation on answering or I just don’t want to. Pressuring me to answer your ask Doesn’t. Help. Just because you put in an ask doesn’t always mean you’rs entitled to an answer.

- Being aggressive or pushy with asks. I’m ok with playful aggression targeted towards characters (say for example someone expressing they hate Dice from Royalty) that’s ok. But there’s a line. And some have started to toe that line. Please tone it down a bit.

- Please don’t include me in any kinds of drama. Both internet and off. This includes political topics, wars, events, gossip, etc. I seriously don’t want anything to do with it. The purpose of this blog is to share my AUs and ideas and support other artists. Not for internet drama. If you’re gonna tag me it should be about art, AUs, and fandom related. I’m not gonna waste my energy, time, or stress on other stuff like that.

- And ig in terms of topics I want to avoid things like: NSFW, incest, p*dophilia, r*pe, permanent disfiguration (like chopping off limbs stuff outside of I guess whatever I have built into the lore of my AUs), outright physical torture or major character death. (The usual things)

Warning: if you cross one of these boundaries I will give you a few warnings. If you continue to cross boundaries I will block you.

I’m sorry to be harsh about this but I really have to put my foot down on this. I can’t tolerate people who won’t respect my boundaries.

This post might be subject to change and updated as time goes and as I interact more with viewers/readers. If you are wondering if something you’re doing might be crossing a boundary, you can use this post as a reference. I’ll pin it to my blog so anyone can find it.

If you are still not sure or want clarification, or you have a specific circumstance in mind, you can jump down to the comments section of this post, send me an ask, or even go to my DMs (if you want to ask privately). I will more than likely see your question and I’ll try my best to answer as soon as possible. It might take a bit depending on if I’m busy IRL. So please be patient.

Anyway, thank you guys for taking the time to read this and respecting my boundaries. Your support with my blog and art so far is greatly appreciated im excited to continue to interact with y’all going forward! (stars I sound like I’m writing a business email XP)

Also, I apologize if it might come off as harsh or passive aggressive, I’m a little bit steamed at the moment and I’m trying to make this as neutral as possible! 😅

Thanks again,

Midnight/Sanity

Last updated: 11/01/23

Also bc this post was helpful, this link will take you to the AU guide I had pinned previously

[uncanny-tranny]

just seen a post by a pre-op pre-hormones pre-everything trans woman complaining about ~evil cis bitches~ crossing the road at night when they see her and i was so so so certain it was a troll/fakepost/terf shitposting/etc but it was legit and all her friends were agreeing with her, and i'm like??? this is why cis women hate us lmao, you can't get mad if you're pre-everything and it's night time and a woman assumes you're a creep in the dark. why are the worst voices always the loudest

Why did you think this was appropriate to have sent to me instead of just... blocking her and moving on? Out of all the reasons I can think of for people to be transphobic, the thought of a trans woman being upset about feeling like she's treated like a perpetrator of a crime she isn't committing or thinking about committing doesn't cross my mind. Maybe she didn't express that frustration in a way you approve of (probably because you weren't what she was thinking about, she was probably thinking about how she was feeling), but that's where blocking her comes into play. You aren't required to view that person's post or entertain their friends, nor are you required to come into a stranger's inbox to vent about it. You don't have to dedicate time to that.

Oddly enough, I don't trust that you aren't a troll trying to stoke fires, especially through anon.

[bobfloydsbabe]

you can't say your blog is an 18+ space when you're a minor yourself.

[starrbee]

(just reposting this from my insta, just in case!)

[viciouslilmillie]

Hey guys It’s Millie 💖

Just wanted to pop in with a lil introduction and boundaries post!

About Millie

I’m a Y’allternative Gal from the Southern United States

I am queer! So if my post resonates to you it resonates. The trans and non-binary community are very much welcome here terfs ARE NOT

I am single- that being said I’m not necessarily looking for a partner on ol’ Tumblr lol this blog is more for me to express myself but I love talking to people

But I’m open to anything

Despite my username I am not actually very mean (unless you push me) I just really like the movie Knives Out and Chris Evans’ delivery of “you vicious little bitch” has stuck with me since I first saw it

I love animals, I currently have two dogs and a horse but am looking to adopt a new cat (I lost mine to cancer recently)

My asks and dms are open and I love answering any questions you may have about me!

Boundaries

Absolutely no minors are allowed to interact with this blog

This blog is 18+ however my dms are 21+!!!

If your age is not on your blog you will be blocked

Do not send me nudes or porn links, unless I ask 😘 (especially if they do not belong to you!!)

This is a side blog so I probably won’t follow anyone back so y’all can’t get my main blog lol

I’m not particularly interested in sexting but I like a lil fun flirting

I am not your baby girl, slut, whore, etc you may address me as Millie

I will not call you daddy or sir you are not my dom

Hard limits

Age play

Pedophilia

Race play

Gun play

Feederism and fat Fetish

Scat

Rape

Face slapping

Water sports

Vomit

Beastiality

Choking

[godawfulhomestuckships]

Returning home soon + boundary update.

This means I'll be answering with ship names next week or so.

Tonight I am going through each ask since the previous ask in the best way possible made me realize yeah no I need to tell people my boundaries here and not let people push me out of it since saying no is hard for us.

So here is the list.

No ancestors + guardians + other adults shipped with the beta/alpha kids/trolls + cherubs.

No incest.

Selfcest is fine but I will only do it with sprites since the jadesprite and Jade karkat scene made us giggle but thats for jokes.

I will not ship Bec or Gcat with anyone.

Not all ships in here I ship or even understand so please do not think I do. MOST of these I don't. Most of the things people have asked ive even been like ?????.

Not all these ships are flushed. I have it left to interpretation to not cause a fuss but most of these i see as other quadrants or just literally pure garbage so please don't think i do.

If i mess up PLEASE TELL ME. We answer questions and make these at 2-4 am and aren't really here, when we are tired we are very very stupid so please tell us if we mess up so I can attempt to fix it. Feel free to ask, dm me, what have you.

Please only keep ships within 5 characters. I know poly doesn't have a number to it but some of yall really trying to push the bounds of this blog LOL.

Tagging us in fanart you made for these shitty ships you made because of this blog and introduced you to it is 100% fine. I highly doubt this blog has made anyone ship anything but it's a funny thought.

These are all I can think of for now but I will make a section on this blog with a full list once I return home.

[navybrat817]

I am sorry I did not realise or know that you don’t talk about lives of celebrities, and I came across your account a few days ago so I didn’t know that you had already had a similar ask or had been in a similar situation.

I totally respect your choice to not involve yourself, again I’m sorry.

Nonnie, you have nothing to apologize for, but I appreciate it. I created the navigation post very recently, so I can easily see how it and asks can be overlooked, especially if you just started recently visiting my blog.

One of the reasons I don't like to involve myself in it is because I'm doing my best to set boundaries for myself. This site can be great, but it's also draining at times. Making a safe space is important.

You are welcome to thirst, share great stories. Hell, I don't even mind people venting. It's the gossip part of their lives, it's not for me.

I hope you have a great morning/afternoon/evening. Love and thanks! ❤️

[elfhamer]

what i will write.

fics, blurbs, hcs and dialogues.

smut & sfw pieces, however the majority of my work leans towards smut because i’m a slut. i write dark content too.

dc may include: consensual somno, toxic!character au, positions of power eg. doctor aus etc, mafia!character au, slight!!!! dubcon and dbf/dilf character.

what i won’t write.

anything obviously problematic.

i won’t write any requests that make me uncomfortable. do not send me asks that you've sent to other blogs— it’s rude.

no goes include: non-con or severe dubcon, cnc, incest, scat/piss, snuff, race play, age play, pregnancy trope or abortion, male or domme reader.

other disclaimers.

don’t send me asks like ‘why do you never write (insert vibe) reader’ if you want that vibe then write it yourself.

do not resend requests. i see every ask i get— i will get to yours eventually, i promise!

only send in a request if you’re going to say please and thank you. i am not a vending machine. learn manners.

[the-amazing-dragon-witch]

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Names: Helio (Pronounced Heel-EE-oh) - [You can also call me any version of my url!!]

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 Species:  Human-Dragon hybrid

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 Gender: transfemmasc genderfluid boygirl

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 Pronouns: he/him, she/her, it/its, ix/ixs/ixself, ve/vor/vors/vours/vourself, trance/trances/tranceself, wonder/wonders/wonderself, cele/celest/celests/celestials/celestialself

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Preferred Titles: Mx., The Dragon Witch

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Preferred Descriptors: masculine, feminine, nonhuman, neutral

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Age: None, Ageless, Adult - [Bodily 19]

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 Favorite color: most shades of purple and pink

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“Main” System Blog: @the-octopus-consortium​​

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I have no DNI but I will block freely and without warning.

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We are bodily white 

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We are bodily 18

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We are physically disabled, mentally ill, and neurodivergent, which may affect how and when I post.

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I am part of a plural system, and I may talk about it.

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I may talk about my source [Sanders Sides]. If this is an upsetting topic for you I do not recommend following me.

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#The Dragon Witch’s Hoard - My identity hoard

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#Reblog - Reblogged posts

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#The Dragon Witch Answers - Answering asks and similar things

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#Roaring Into The Void - Me posting random and unimportant things because i want attention

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#Not The Dragon Witch - For any of my headmates that might post on here for whatever reason

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#Dragon Witch’s Shinies - Important things for this blog

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Source Talk - Talking about my source and source memories

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[uncanny-tranny]

Do you believe in transandrophobia

I mean, I talk at length about being a trans man and the intersections of my trans manhood and interacting in a world which often doesn't want people like me to exist, so even if I don't really call my experiences that, maybe you might? I generally support people calling their experiences with oppression how they see it, which is why some trans men say they experience misogyny and some don't. Neither are "more correct" because we almost all experience transphobia, misogyny, and everything else slightly differently.

At the end of the day, trans liberation must happen with all of us no matter what their experience is. I've seen so much "discourse" surrounding terms like these when at the end of the day, we're still being oppressed no matter what we call our experiences. I think it's okay for people to label their experiences as they see fit, but I don't think that's the end-all-be-all. I guess my sole focal point is trans liberation before debating about what terms we have to use.

I always find asks like this to be very odd, mostly because I don't know what the context behind this is or why it's asked. If you want a more direct answer to my political or philosophical views, I really would at least like more details as to what inspired questions like these so I can clarify, expand, or discuss specific points.

[self-study-journal]

Blog Updates --------------------------------

Here are multiple elements I am updating on my blog:

1. schedule of submission of posts - monthly schedule of weekly agendas and topic themes - daily schedule of submitting posts 2. blog theme : Multiple tags and themes in Tumblr is available for the purpose of my blog; More changes shall be implemented until two things happen: - I find the theme that I've been finding this whole time - I code my own html to ensure that I cater to my own desires 3. Content | Essays to be Published In This Blog : Daily content shall be written through essays. Research are to be produced outside of this website; the only purpose of this Blog is to provide me a platform in which my intellectual endeavors and creative purposes are then applied to the outside world, in hopes of creating and attracting an authentic community. : A time shall be centered and defined for the point of submitting these essays; Essays shall be defined through submission posts as is, headers shall be the introductory post until the post breaker is then applied; For the sake of multiple posts and organization, cuts shall be applied on the posts themselves. These changes shall be applied. Until then, a definite schedule is to be prioritized for my own health and boundaries.

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[askninathekillarrxx]

RULEZZ + BOUNDARIEZZ

I’m gonna try keeping this as short

as can be so people don’t grow annoyed ! !

If you’re reading this I am assuming you’ve read my introduction or planning on it. I am a NTK fictive. This is not a roleplay blog. Be mindful with what you ask and how you word things.

ASK RULES

IT/ITS ONLY WHEN REFERRING TO ME ON MY PAGE

Please avoid mentions of triggering topics and extremely personal questions.

Please do not be rude or overly sexual with your asks!! Reminder that we are still bodily a minor.

Keep drama out and refrain from making weird assumptions or accuse me of anything weird. It’s more common then you may think unfortunately

You CAN ask about my sourcemates, memories, source, appearance, love interests, etc etc. I allow asks that aren’t exactly me centric as well but still in the same criteria yknow?

I cannot bend myself to everyone’s personal likings. Please be mindful of that.

BOUNDARIES

I am A-OKAY with other people who source Nina. Im also okay with sourcemates interacting - I just ask that you don’t thirdtalk me, reality check/fake claim me, or treat me as less than by all means.

PREFERABLY I would rather not have any generally triggering or controversial topics floating around in my asks box or on my page. This also applies to the basic DNI criteria.

NOT A ENDO SAFE BLOG. Endogenic systems aren’t welcomed here and I’d highly advise you skidaddle. This IS a safe blog for traumagenic systems, fictionkins & IRLs, therians/other fictotypes, unmedicated or undiagnosed (researched) disorders.

JUST BECAUSE IM ME doesn’t mean you can harass me with stereotypical fanon assumptions. I allow people to ask about my source, my memories, my sourcemates, etc. but if you pry about something that doesn’t exist to me then get upset then idk what to tell u.. it’s happened one too many times 😭

That should be all… I may add on during some point in the future. For now this seems good enough since I don’t know what potential this blog holds for in the future as of yet <3

[crybabypupper]

Btw if any of y'all check out my characters on Unvale.io and decide that you want to make agere/petre content of them, that's perfectly fine with me. However, please keep in mind that I'm not comfortable with people making that kind of content for some of my characters.

Characters like Javier Fernandez (who I haven't posted about at the time of writing this) were created as a way of venting. This character in particular was created when I was twelve, and dealing with some serious issues right around the time that my hormones really kicked in. I don't want to get into what was going on at that time, exactly, but I will say that Javier represents the kind of men who I wanted attention from.

My character Jason Sloane was created in order to vent my frustrations about how certain types of activities are portrayed in fictional media. Again, not going to delve too deep into it, so I'll just say that he's an awful guy who has done vile things.

Basically, I just don't feel comfortable with agere/petre content made of my villain ocs. I also don't feel comfortable with people making agere/petre content of any of my personas as age regressors/pet regressors, unless I specifically request for that to be made. Drawing any of my personas as caregivers for the fictional characters I'm attached to is fine though, even I don't specifically request for it to be made.

I hope this makes sense. 😅

[musingsinmountains]

AN FYI

If I go to your page (b/c you followed or interacted), and I see ANY of / combination of the following: 1. a blank blog 2. A blank bio / no pinned info post 3. No indicator of your age

I will block you. I do not want minors interacting with my content. I am a smut blog. I post A LOT of smut, whether I write it or want to archive what I've read.

If you feel like you have been unjustly blocked, please send your user via anon and I will re-evaluate your page. I reserve the right to use my best judgement on my evaluation of blogs.

I reserve the right to set boundaries for my blog. if you cannot respect that, then block me.

[desultory-suggestions]

If you see someone behaving in a way that’s reminiscent of a person who has harmed you before you have every right to be cautious. You can give them some room to show they’re different or you can trust your gut and go separate ways. Just don’t be afraid to draw a line when it comes to how you will allow yourself to be treated.

[navybrat817]

Sorry I sent the ask about other blogs gossiping and I did exactly what I was complaining about lmao, so dumb, I swear my brain stops working sometimes 💀

I really like that you avoid gossiping it’s not very nice to do. and if people like gossiping so much they should do it with their friends and not on the internet.

I appreciate the apology, nonnie, but there's no need for you to do so! I have answered asks here and there before, but not doing so makes my space a bit lighter. That's just my choice. There are blogs here who do discuss that and they are well within their power to do so. Our blogs, our rules. 💙

I also understand the need to vent or get things off your chest. You are NOT dumb. 💙

Love and thanks! 💙