#but as a possibly aro likely greyaroace person
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ok i’m working off my own aro revelation here but grey-aro xie lian who is experiencing romantic attraction for the first time w hua cheng, and that’s why the whole experience feels so startling and new and foreign
#tgcf#tgcf meta#meta stuff#rambling#xie lian#xianxia jesus#sorry i’m still working through my words here#but as a possibly aro likely greyaroace person#i’ve realised that romantic attraction really is this irrational and intense thing that i’ve just never experienced#how one psychologist described it as ‘everything about them is different. everything they do is special’#and yeah i imagine if i ever experienced that level of attraction to a person for the first time now it would be OVERWHELMING#and honestly that’s how xie lian’s entire experience reads to me#like. sorry an allo person would not be this level of shocked and also oblivious to the Symptoms Of Crush#yeah i’m trying to figure out how to express this. if anyone has ideas hmu
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Romance / Sex Repsulsed A Spec Flags
Romance Repusled Arospec : ⬇️
For Aro specs that are repulsed by the idea of personally engaging in romantic activity
Sex Repulsed Acespec : ⬇️
For Ace specs that are repulsed by the idea of personally engaging in sexual activity
Romance and Sex repulsed Aroace spec : ⬇️
( For those on both Aro and Ace spectrums ) Being romance and sex repulsed
These were intended to be “side labels” or something like that ( eg. Sex-repulsed Aceflux, Romance Repulsed Aromantic, Sex and Romance repulsed GreyAroace etc.. ) but they can also be used as a single label by itself
( btw it is possible for an ace / aro spec to be repulsed by sex / romance on a personal level while being sex-positive / romance-positive in regard to other individuals 👍 )
Links to the other flags
Romance / Sex Indifferent
Romance / Sex Favorable
Romance / Sex Ambivalent
Romance / Sex Oscillating
#sex repulsed#romance repulsed#apothi aroace#apothisexual#apothiromantic#a spec#a spectrum#ace spec#asexual spectrum#aro spec#aromantic spectrum#asexual#aromantic#aroace spectrum#Aroace#angled aroace#oriented aroace#aroace flag#asexual flag#aromantic flag#grey a#greysexual#greyromantic#grey aroace#aceflux#aroflux#aroaceflux#ace spike#aro spike#aroace spike
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