#aceflux

[zombie-jed]

Diversity win! The horniest person you know is on the asexual spectrum

[genderqueerdykes]

asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn't a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn't about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it's none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it's not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.

someone else's asexuality isn't about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.

[yourfavisamilf]

Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!

~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur

[genderstarbucks]

Okay new rule

Only aspec people can ship aspec characters until you allos learn to behave

[miitopia-cake]

I wish some aces would stop excluding other aces with complex sexual experiences. like I get why but you have to realize that being ace does not mean they don't enjoy sexual experiences and it's weird when you complain about allo people and boil it down to "people who have sexual experiences" and also shame people for their sex life and kinks as if your own community doesnt INCLUDE those people. because there are other aces out there who still masturbate, who feel sexually attracted to their own body, who barely experiences sexual attraction but still enjoys sex, who like consuming sexual media, who like sfw kink. being ace is so so much more complex than just "disliking sex". and also aromantic exclusionism in the same genre of posts is something i see a lot. especially aro allos. I hate hate hate seeing a community that SHOULD be inclusive boil down sexuality and exclude people.

[bizarreaizen]

religious conservatives: no sex before marriage !!

asexuals: okay

religious conservatives: wait no, not like that.

[cheesemenace]

Hopefully I find someone to be in a QPR with in college... if not i'm moving off the grid and living like mother nature intended

[cometmothman]

self indulging but:

Aroflux people are still Aromantic

Aceflux people are still Asexual

Aroaceflux people are still Aromantic and Asexual

Just because your asexuality and/or aromantisicim fluctuates doesn't mean you are "faking" or "lying." You are valid as HELL!!!!!!!

[demi-romantics]

Feel free to tag your gender identity if you would like or if I forgot to list it!

[the-anemoi]

hi hi hi happy asexual awareness week! especially to those who don't feel they fit quite right

as in. the demisexuals, the greysexuals, those who are questioning asexuality or those who identify as it but still feel unsure anyways. those who are sex positive or sex neutral. those who are sex-repulsed, or those who worry that they think they're not really ace, maybe just allo and sex-repulsed. those who think they'll grow out of it, and those who worry if they'll still identify as asexual later. those who experience intrusive thoughts, those who have other factors play into their identity, those who end up worrying about it because of these factors.

it's okay not to feel confident. it's okay to worry. just think of right now, this week. you're valid. this week is for you, too.

[acespec-ed]

I made a couple of flow charts for the ace and aro spectrums! Not meant to be taken 100% factual- you know yourself better than a basic flowchart. They’re mainly just for fun, though they can also be a good start for anyone questioning!

(Free to use as long as you keep my url on them and aren’t making money off it!)

[twigstarpikachutroll22]

The thing about how when I tell people offline that I'm aroace they usually go "Oh, I didn't know that was a thing!" is like. It’s a good response, it’s good that the response I get generally isn’t outright aphobic, but it reminds me just how much they don't know. Like. The sheer range of the aro and ace spectrums and the experiences relating to attraction that I see people in those communities talk about, the amount of breaking down of attraction and relationships, the amount of discussion about ALLLLLLLLL the hecking nuance both of those can have, and like. So many people literally Do Not Know that even the words "aromantic" and "asexual" exist. And just "doesn't feel attraction" is the easiest and most basic thing here to understand. It’s the tip of the iceberg. It’s the tip of a really really freaking huge iceberg. And plenty of allos have a hard time wrapping their heads around even that, let alone all the many more identities and many many more kinds of experiences on these spectrums. So many people literally do not know that not feeling attraction the way they do is a thing. So many people, like, the VAST majority of the population, are entirely confined to this incredibly freaking limited ONE standard concept of how attraction and relationships can work that seems mandated for everycreature. So many people don't even know that anything outside of that exists. And SO MUCH outside of that can exist. It's some straight-up allegory of the cave junk.

[genderqueerdykes]

btw that "slippery slope" bullshit argument being used when talking about accepting asexual, aromantic & agender people into the queer community is the exact same logic that was applied to scare people out of accepting gay men in early 1900s america. it's a bad argument, you do not have to silence other queers so you can be heard. let us have a voice, too. thanks

[artsyaech]

reblog for a bigger portion size

[gray-ace-space]

no judgements here these are all completely morally neutral ways of experiencing it!

@newpath3432 because you suggested the poll

@aegosexual-moments @cat-flavored @apples9 @arlyiahshay @limetimo because you might also be interested

rb for sample size

(especially curious to hear the allos' perspectives)

[scretladyspider]

An Ace Week reminder that:

•celibacy is a choice anyone can make

•asexuality is a sexual orientation

•asexuality is not celibacy

•celibate aces are still ace

•non celibate aces are also still ace

•you are not entitled to information on our sex lives