really fascinating that it seemed to be so easy for you! stayblr is the most unapproachable fandom i've ever experienced in my time (and that were quite a lot of them actually). not in a mean way, people are nice on a surface level, but underneath it all it is very cliquey and such a tight-knit group that it's nearly impossible to befriend anyone. don't know where i'm going with this, i guess i'm just tired of being ignored when i've been making the first step countless times haha.
ah anon i’m sorry it’s been a bad experience for you :/
i’m gonna be honest here, i don’t talk to everyone who follows me and they don’t all talk to me. there’s people i’ve been mutuals with for a year now and we never talk and there’s people it clicked with immediately, like i hit follow and we had the first chat in the same hour.
there’s also people on here i have blocked and i’m sure a few have me blocked too. i’ve lost some mutuals and i broke off some of them for various reasons, one of the last ones was literally just that i don’t care abt txt that much and i was seeing a lot of them on my dash.
i think you’re right actually that it can be weirdly cliquey and i know that i’ve contributed to that in some ways. there’s certain attitudes i don’t share (some people really don’t like sexualising idols, i personally feel like that’s not an issue with grown men who are attractive for a living) and certain ones i do share (i don’t like self-insert fic). i think these things contribute to that.
i often feel that these disagreements are the surface level starts to the cliquey-ness. i ended up talking to a lot of people on here early on because i love complimenting people and i enjoy even the surface level stuff usually. but these disagreements are persistent and they do make it harder to make friends. most of the time we only talk once or twice and thats it. i don’t really know where i’m going with this either but i guess what i’m saying is like… i talk to 4 people on here regularly, that’s it.
i think some of these friendships can seem a lot deeper than they are because people tag each other and interact and i really like all the people i tag and i would and do call them my friends but please don’t think that it’s constantly going on outside of the dash. most of what you see on here is the whole extent of our interactions. like fundamentally i don’t know much about anyone on here. i love doing tag games and getting asks but i’m not likely to invite anyone here to my wedding (i’m literally the most single person alive and not looking but u get what i mean i think)
again i’m sorry that it’s not been good for you and if you ever wanna chat on or off anon, i would love to do that!
class swap design masterpost for convenience (from top to bottom: bard!riz, cleric!gorgug, sorcerer!kristen, barbarian!fig, artificer!adaine, and rogue!fabian)
Since book 7 part 5 (the part where we meet Meleanor/Maleanor 👀) is coming to EN this month, i would love to see your take on lilia’s proposal to meleanor! i mean they were like little kids right? it couldn’t have been that serious…i think the only reason she even brought it up again is because she could tell lilia still genuinely loved her…(even if he didn’t realize it himself?) but, oh well! Let’s think about silly childhood shenanigans to numb the pain! ^_^ (orz)
oh shit?! get ready for a doozy guys, it's comiiiiiing ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ
I chickened out of posting the whole thing (look, I get VERY carried away when it comes to these wacky kids and their Tragedy), but I do believe that it probably ended with Lilia getting embarrassed and just shoving the first thing he sees into his mouth to try and cover for it.
deciding to accumulate all of these into a singular post to make my life easier + so that I can have some more food for you all,,, anyways.
My. My son. Clementine my baby my sweet boy,,, Some of these ARE actually reposts but the first 2 are for sure not :3! (I think at least LMAO), enjoy this :3! I must go back to my hole /silly
I have finally finished 2.4 and oh my GOD watching Dan Heng be so protective of his friends nearly killed me, MY HEART.
And yes, the cutscene where he pushes the trailblazer out of the way and even cushions their fall with his own body, but I mean even before that! When he was already trying to protect them and March 7th from Feixiao and Lingsha!!
Because if you watch the dango trio throughout the main quest, you'll notice that they often position themselves in the same way, which is a detail that makes me super happy that Hoyo thought to include- when the three of them aren't evenly spaced, March 7th and the trailblazer tend to gravitate towards each other and stand very close together, frequently side-by-side. And by comparison, Dan Heng usually stands slightly away, and often even slightly behind them, where he can pull on their leashes to wrangle them keep an eye on them.
This is probably a habit learned through experience, since March 7th said during Belobog she is the "queen of unannounced disappearances" fjdksajfkldjsak
And of course at least a little bit of it is just done for like, aesthetic purposes. It's a video game. Things have to look nice for the player. The trailblazer and Dan Heng are the same height, March 7th is a bit shorter, and Yanqing is even smaller. It makes sense to have the trailblazer and Dan Heng stand on the ends, with March 7th and Yanqing in the middle, it just looks nicer and more balanced that way. But still! Even when they're accommodating for Yanqing in this quest, they still all arrange themselves the same way, almost every time!
But this changes after Dan Heng and Yanqing become suspicious of the visitors from the Yaoqing.
The dango trio still stand around relaxed and in their usual manner when they go to the artisanship delve and meet Skott,
but Dan Heng takes notice of Lingsha when she arrives, and he and Yanqing mentioned her specifically when discussing their worries.
Yanqing worrying so much about Jing Yuan got me right in the heart, he's such a good boy WEH
And when the four of them go out to the alchemy delve to meet Lingsha for tea, the pattern breaks. Suddenly Dan Heng is standing right up front, and even walks in and enters the scene before March 7th and the trailblazer to get to Lingsha before them. He stays a step in front of them the whole time, too.
And then when Dan Heng and the trailblazer have to go be interrogated by Feixiao! The same deal! Dan Heng walks in ahead of them and stays in front of them! Noticeably so! Enough that even Feixiao takes note and voices it!
Dan Heng is so so fiercely protective of his companions, and I love it, I adore hyper vigilance in the wake of trauma like this, I'm so excited to see what else he does in 2.5, I hope we either get to see him get fucked up or the trailblazer gets fucked up in his place, I wanna see them run through the meat grinder!!!
Vettonso complaining about each other not respecting schrondinger's track limits on the radio compilation + Seb's commentary that made me a bit feral
Must include these sexy ass pics okay, it makes me feral how hard they race each other.
Also SO upset that we got this vid and there's also pictures(and presumably a vid out there somewhere) of Fernando, back then, ALSO debriefing this race. And yet we never got them together?????? Evil. Fucked up.
Imagine seeing them complaining about each other but also having to (begrudgingly if you're Fernando) compliment each other IN FRONT of each other. Maybe its a good thing it doesn't exist, bcs then I'd have a heart attack.
You know Content Warning? Lethal Company but youtube videoing?
Danny does that- just well, with the Zone. It’s not like it can be mapped out, what with people moving their Lairs and more lairs and islands constantly manifesting. And well, there’s so many things out here, and it’s not like he can be an astronaut.
So, he decided to make exploration logs for the Zone instead, alongside his friends and a doppelganger or two holding equipment. It’s great, and people can donate whenever he live streams so he’s getting income too.
He just erm, maybe should have double checked it was uploaded to just his dimension…