#codependency is bad anyway!
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I love amd not automatically updating my graphic driver which least to my PC crashing after pretty much every Windows Update 🥰
Leads to many beautiful moments where I am in peril of hoping that I will be able to open amd before crashing so I can do the update ASAP 🥰🥰 And then hoping it won't crash until the update is done 🥰🥰🥰
#anyway guess who just found out you CAN make it update automatically#but this option was switched off for some reason??#sometimes i hate my pc#because it has crashing issues after literally EVERY windows update#like??#girl you cant really on others to live your life!#grt a grip!#i just want to play Sims 4 or Coral Island dont let me down like this!#let go of him (graphics driver) and live your own life to the fullest#you dont need him that badly#codependency is bad anyway!
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You're a lucky one, kiddo.
#mspaint#toolbar version in replies!!#limbus company#limbus posting#my art#art tag#binkyfishyart#rodigor#I LOVE RODIGOR I WANT THEM TO BE SHITTY AND CODEPENDENT RAHHHHHHHHHHHH#AUGHHHH#OFFICIAL RODIGOR FANFICTION#anyways ahem#rodion limbus company#gregor limbus company#limbus spoilers#the white cube means she does not see it<3 yay#also!! whos the lucky one here?#greg? for being able to forget his past and become a tool?#rodya? for being “chosen” by her lord?#or the kid (explodes)#i wanna write for them soooo so so bad#heterosexual on ao3 is back on the menu babyy
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how can you hate dennis' hair when mac mcdonald spent hours lovingly hand dying each individual grey strand. is his hard work nothing to you
#when he's pissed at dennis he starts slappjng it on haphazardly and getting it on his hairline and dennis freaks out#i also think because it's mac and he's bad at everything dennis ends up w a bunch on his hairline and face anyway#but what else is he going to do? dye his own hair? unthinkable#codependent losers
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SAID HE LIKES CRAZY GIRLS,
BUT HE HATES WHEN I ACT CRAZY,
IT TAKES TWO TO TOXIC!
FINALLY!!! Finished these pics of jinx I’ve been working on!!!!! HOLY SHIT, these took so long…. But finally… they’re done… pls enjoy this art of my beautiful princess w a disorder. Featuring alternate colors for the big pic and also a closeup! Cuz I rlly like how both the lines and coloring on her face turned out… like the pink gradients w her eye… her deer in headlights expression,, like uve just startled a raccoon digging thru ur trashcan and r two seconds away from getting mauled.. m proud of it!
#arcane#league of legends#jinx#jinx arcane#arcane jinx#doodles#hate and love how hardcore I relate to jinx…#little sisters w dependency issues.. + a whole lot of other issues#anyway the ‘he’ in the ‘crazy girl’ lyrics is in my mind referring to both vi and silco lol#I’m sORRY! I keep seeing ppl hardcore pitting these 2 bad bitches against each other#and it’s like… silco is objectively. morally worse than vi.. vi is not like. a ruthless crime lord#vi IS 100% trying her best and loves her sister. but she still screwed up w jinx#and silco ALSO truly loves jinx. but also screwed up by fucking. trauma bonding w her ghgh-#like.. silco is too close. he’s like. yes go apeshit jinx I support and love you and understand u no matter what fucked up shit u do.#were the same. and that’s beautiful!!! I love how supportive he is…#but its like.. silcos too close. he just became a new person for jinx to glomp onto and base her self esteem around after vi left#and he doesn’t manipulate that on purpose but. he DOES effect that girls mental state. cuz he needs her too#meanwhile vi is too far away… she thinks she knows who jinx is. but jinx has changed… time marches forward. she’s not that little girl#anymore#and nOW! after the finale jinx has NOBODY TO BE CODEPENDENT W..#her mental state has always been so tied up in how the ppl she puts on pedestals view her#and now there’s no pedestal anymore. she knocked down the statues. she’s alone…#it’s interesting….#anyway I’m not trying to say vi is as bad as silco at ALL. just that she’s an equally important building block in jinx’s mind#that has made her into the fucked up lil person she is today. and I think that’s neat.#lol anyway! I’m hyped for season 2….#aLSO GOD DAMN THIS GIRLS OUTFIT IS COMPLICATED. WHY DO U GOT SO MANY BITS N BOBS JINX??? I mean I get it accessories rock.#but u take so much time to draw ghfhg- require so much brainpower#aLSO ADDENDUM. while silco is objectively morally worse than vi his relationship w jinx is genuinely. like. makes me emotional ghgh-#its not perfect. or healthy. but… it’s. the both of them. being seen. and accepted. and loved and understood.. and I love that shit.
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which jjk man could fix you 🎤🎤 realistically .
#see i’d like to think that gojo could fix me#but . it would take years and years and years to even get into a relationship with him…#and suguru could probably fix me but he would make me codependent in the process 💀 and he would enjoy it .#i THINK .#….. higu or yuji . could fix me#higuruma is so . kind. and so stable#he overworks himself which would be bad but. i feel like i’d help him unwind and he would fix my brain entirely in return#and yuji is just suchhh a sweet soul#a golden retriever bf …..#… i was also thinking nanami kinda but he would lecture me very gently and make me cry so 💀#ANYWAY IM JUST CURIOUS i would love to hear what everyone else thinks ….. !!!!!!#ari noises ✩
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I generally find Rotten Tomatoes pretty helpful, except when it comes to lesbian comedies, because boy don't they like those! Let's look at some of the ones I've enjoyed over the years.







Okay, at least that last one managed to (barely) get a certified fresh, but isn't there anything you like?

Sure, but that's practically a drama. What about the sheer silly stuff with no deep angst?

Ah, there you go! (Ignore the audience score.)
#but i'm a cheerleader#better than chocolate#d.e.b.s.#imagine me and you#nina's heavenly delights#itty bitty tiddy committee#drive away dolls#saving face#codependent lesbian space alien seeks same#it's interesting that apart from saving face the ones that get a certified fresh have a bad audience score#while several of the others have good audience scores#it seems audiences and critics want very different things#anyway i had fun with all of these films so...
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Would anyone be interested in a Danny Phantom Planned!AU (Drs Fenton intentionally caused the “accident” to give Danny his powers) told from the perspective of one of his clones?
#danny phantom#fanfic idea#kinda fucked up the half story I have imagined#Idk how it’s gonna end until I start writing it#Maddie Fenton is pretty fucked up in this tho#Jack too just not as bad#Vlad is somewhere in the middle in a different way#no good adults#I think Danny is actually smart just only in what he cares about and in the show he doesn’t get that chance#because the requirements for being an astronaut#you don’t just get that if you don’t know what you’re doing#anyways Danny’s clone is given the chance to be smart#and then makes it everyone’s (Maddie and vlad’s) problem#I also desperately want to write completely codependent relationships#But like#one sided#I need to write about a kid who would burn the world to save his brother who doesn’t even see him#Who doesn’t even know he’s fighting for him tooth and nail#To make sure Danny isn’t the one on the operating table next time#Idk would anyone be interested?
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How do you think Marc takes the brews Val is pregnant with his baby?
excellent question, anon! I'm not really sure if this is about reverse omegaverse or post retirement so I'm gonna go w post retirement bc I've been daydreaming about torturing that old man w pregnancy so buckle up!
I mean honestly I think marc is pretty happy! I actually don’t know if he’s talked about it before but he seems to want to start his family after retirement (rosquez soulmatery strikes again) when he can focus on it 100 percent. in this universe I don’t think marc is going to be like suddenly ready to retire just bc he has the ninth and vale is accidentally pregnant, but I think the fact that vale is at least retired and can be fully there for the baby would probably be enough for him to be okay with the situation. vale is also at least tangentially obligated to be at a lot of motogp races by virtue of owning a team and mentoring half the grid so when the baby is old enough he would get to see them a lot more than is maybe standard in this sport. (idk I could be wrong about what’s standard here I got into this like a month and a half ago)
if you’re asking how I think the actual reveal goes, well……..I think it doesn’t go as bad as it could. vale is a fucking mess when luca leaves him home alone to wait for marc. but he’s also like—relieved? at least a little bit, I mean the poor old man has been out of his mind horny and nauseous for weeks at this point and fully just thought he had some kind of mystery terminal illness. a baby isn’t a death sentence. also, he’s already decided he’s keeping it. the doctor tried to hand him an abortion brochure and the idea of it made him sick to his stomach.
obviously none of this was planned so he’s maybe coming at it from a staunchly solo angle of I’m keeping it you can be there for us or go to hell type of thing. marc is completely delighted tho so that doesn’t become an issue. I think they probably don’t have the serious conversation about it that they realllly should (remember marc came to the ranch for the explicit purpose of hammering out the reconciliation bc they’ve just been having tender intimate sex and not discussing it) and instead, you guessed it, have crazy romantic sex. marc is like fully ready to let vale fuck him, gets on his hands and knees at first and vale is like wait, and turns him over and he’s like all I’ve been thinking about for weeks is having you inside me again.
and then marc fucks him in missionary and there’s a lot of breeding kink and possibly saying I love you (rosquez be normal challenge absolute fail) and it’s RAW so marc’s come is like dripping out of him around his cock (he is cockwarming marc soft for emotional reasons). they probably do a lot more fucking, vale sleeps more than he has for the last two months that week (with or without marc inside him teehee) and marc gets to fuss over him and take care of him which is a brand new dynamic for them! pre divorce they didn’t exactly take care of each other, but if anything in the rare moments it was vale taking care of marc by virtue of being fourteen years older etc.
they order every prenatal vitamin that amazon carries and like a billion different baby development books. vale is high risk bc of his age but the ultrasounds and blood work said the baby was healthy and everything looked okay so they don’t have to worry about health stuff quite yet. (keep in mind vale got pregnant at his age on the first try; let’s just say his body has really decided to be equipped for a baby idk none of this has to be real or scientific lol) marc can’t exactly cook but he tries his best and either vale elbows him way from the stove when necessary or they order in and feed each other in bed like disgustingly in love people do.
I think they push the serious conversation off for as long as possible and just sort of live together for as long as they can get away with it. vale knows it’s probably early enough that he can still ride but he’s petrified of something happening to the baby so when they go to the ranch he just watches marc go wild by himself and shouts pointers at him that marc playfully does not listen to. marc is also feeling rather delicate about his health wrt being alive and well for his future baby so he’s playing it pretty safe out there too.
they’re basically having a babymoon phase of only seeing each other, fucking constantly, and lounging around. I have this awesome image of them watching a bunch of pregnancy movies and when they get to juno vale, under full influence of first trimester hormones, sobs through like half of it. marc is bewildered and amused and secretly really happy to be big and strong for vale who he has never seen before vulnerable and soft like this, even before everything. it’s domestic bliss until marc starts getting increasingly annoyed calls from ducati about preseason obligations and vale has also been fending off Uccio and the academy and a billion other people who don’t believe him when he says he’s not sick anymore and just needs some time—omg wait maybe 100km gets canceled, that would be crazy juicy—and the motogp community and media in general thinks vale is dying.
marc is like struggling bc he absolutely does not want to leave vale, in fact he never wants to be without vale ever again, but vale is spooked by the reminder of real world obligations and gets weird and cold. tries to push marc away and insist that he needs to go do his job (he is subconsciously testing marc; if you leave you FAIL) marc is having ptsd flashbacks to the last time he was in tavullia (hello ranch visit trauma) which involved. a lot of the same cold shoulder and manipulation tactics.
it’s a bad time for all! they get into a blowout screaming match where vale tries to kick marc out while literally clutching at his clothes, white knuckled, marc is sobbing and holding vale in a death grip whispering into his neck I won’t leave you please don’t make me go vale I can’t lose you again I promise I’ll do anything I need you both.
the insane “compromise” they end up with is (let’s say ducati make that skiing thing an annual trip) vale GOES WITH MARC to the event and stays with him in the hotel/cabin/whatever (even tho he literally has a house there) and they don’t even try to explain it to anyone in the team. pecco knocking on marc’s door the first morning so they can catch up over breakfast and vale answers, sleep rumpled, wearing one of marc’s tshirts and they both just stare at each other dumbfounded until marc returns from his shower and and smiles all fake at pecco like why are you just standing there weirdos :)) come sit and have an espresso, pecco I’m almost done getting dressed :))
vale calmly makes a nonverbal pecco an espresso and slaps marc’s ass when he bends over to rummage through the one giant luggage that they appear to be sharing. pecco is texting luca paragraphs under the table. it’s absolute fucking scenes when they have the big fancy team dinner with the long tables and marc shows up w vale as his plus one. and vale refuses a glass of champagne for the toast……..
#mpreg au#realistically this would be angstier but I am feeling a little soft and little romantic about things atm#and obviously their insane codependence would become an issue eventually#when vale is too pregnant to travel……..#marc demands that ducati have a special signal board at every race that they can use to tell him if something is going on w vale#vale probably has to have a scheduled c section for a variety of reasons but geriatric pregnancy yanno whoops the baby is coming early#since they’ve told their families at this point let’s say vale is staying w marc’s family when marc is racing at the end of his pregnancy#just so he’s not alone in tavullia (and also bc he’s gotten closer to estfania bc of the baby but he’s still weird about their relationship#and he’s also making an effort to make amends w marc’s family#anyway to get to my point marc mysteriously retires like ten laps in to catalunya bc the team flashes him the vale emergency board#long story short this is how their daughter is born in cervera lmao#fic talk#anon mail#sorry this took me a while to respond I was trying to make it sadder and more feel bad but the truth is this is funnier#rosquez#marc marquez#valentino rossi#my writing
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Having Ryuki thoughts and what really makes the ending of aini feel off to me is like. Ryuki kinda just like, doesn’t have any friends. Mizuki has plenty of friends, we know she’s good friends with Iris, Ota, and Aiba and then we also see her with Mame, Shoma, Kizuna, and Bibi and generally she just seems to be on good terms with everyone in the cast. But with Ryuki it’s not really like that. He doesn’t really form any meaningful relationships with the characters he meets in the game, at best theyre acquaintances. Boss doesn’t really know what to do with him and Ryuki can tell. He has Tama of course, no doubt shes his only family and they care deeply about each other, but you just know Ryuki feels uncertain because she’s an ai who was made to work with him, she’s his friend cuz she HAS to be. The only friend he’s ever actually made in his life is Date and Ryuki just. He attaches himself so strongly to Date he bases his sense of justice around Date he starts feeling like he can carry on because of Date he starts losing his mind and drinking himself to death because he loses Date HE HAS DATE BACK FOR 5 MINUTES AND THEN TAKES A BULLET FOR DATE. But we don’t really know what becomes of their relationship after everything that’s happened or if Ryuki can even allow himself to be around Date considering all his guilt. And when Ryuki gets shot and starts bleeding out the only person who goes to him is Date and like. Their time is so brief I forget it even happens. We dont get to react to it at all and honestly why would we? This game hasn’t given Mizuki and Ryuki a relationship so why would she feel strongly about him nearly dying? So then when we’re finally allowed to know if Ryuki is okay AFTER BEING SHOT it’s done as a surprise for Mizuki and Bibi which is just. So so weird cuz like I said Mizuki doesn’t really have a relationship with this guy and Bibi like, actively hates him. Its so weird and like it makes a lot of sense WHY he doesn’t have any friends cuz he isolates himself and is just in general very socially awkward and off putting but for the game to just kinda squeeze him into this friend group all of a sudden as a second thought without putting any effort into what his relationships with these people would be like it’s just. I hate it I really hate it
#aitsf#ai the somnium files#ai the somniun files nirvana initiative#kuruto ryuki#idk its like the co protagonist almost dying should be treated like a big deal but it just. isnt#cuz they just drop the ball with ryuki so hard in the second act they forget about him so bad#and no one wants ryuki to have friends more than me GOD i desperately need him to have healthy friendships#ones that arent codependent and everyone is treated as equal#but you gotta fucking WRITE that game! you cant just put ryuki in a random dance number and expect me to be happy!#anyways fuckinnnnng i require the brain space that allows me to write the akane and ryuki saw trap au
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sorry for the wall of text but Zhan lore
#nine sols#nine sols oc#zhan#jiezhan#but its mentioned#zhan's whole deal is that hes just a retainer who stuck witht he worst person you know and is trying to survive#and ever since they left their family in penglai they grown heavily codependent on jiequan#they know hes a bad man but still loved him anyways. even to death#god......god i love these freaks sm
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Had someone in the codependency sub reddit um actually me when I said thought crimes aren't real and he was like "I'm a mental health *professional* I know what I'm talking about" so I looked at his profile and motherfucker sells weed???? Is that what makes one a mental health professional nowadays???
#anyway being codependent doesnt sudden make your bad thoughts more bad than other peoples bad thoughts#like i said in my comment if you put those thoughts into actions then theyre not thoughts#but thoughts arent crimes#never have been and you better PRAY they never are#people who are codependent tend to- gonna stop you right there they arent more likely to act on bad thoughts in general#i attend coda#okay thats great theres no proof at all that coda is beneficial#im a mental health professional#sir you sell weed stfu
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yes the last season of umbrella academy was rushed but im lowkey fucking with five/lila……
#like its been getting worse since season 2 its fine#ANYWAY PEOPLE ON TIKTOK ARE SO ANGRY ABOUT FIVE AND LILA…..#they could never understand complicated codependant resentful sibling dynamics..#<- its lowkey giving my sirius steals remus from reg au…#SIBLINGS HATING EACH OTHER AND BETRAYING EACH OTHER AND NEEDING AND LOVING EACH OTHER ALL THE SAME….#anyway like the show has been getting worse for a while yall are no fun :((#stop acting like five/lila made it bad.. like yeah it was rushed… but its COMPELLING !!!!#who’s with me..
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my packer princess (bestie who packs my bowls for me) (self appointed name lol) has spoiled me too much i haven’t ground up any of the weed from this half ounce i have and it’s almost gone, i’ve only packed a couple of bowls myself and it feels like a chore when i have to now, i wanna smoke and jork it but i don’t wanna pack my own bowl🙄
#i love my packer princess i miss him and he just left like an hour ago#i see him everyday he literally lives right next to me#i fear i may be becoming codependent on him#not really lmao i don’t think i’m capable of becoming codependent people annoy me if we get that close#but the fact that i don’t even wanna pack my own bowls anymore????#damn i gotta chill it’s not that bad LMAO#it’s not bad at all i’m just lazy#also feel like yappin apparently i’ve posted so much tonight lmao#anyway i guess i’m gonna go pack my own bowl now#ftm nsft#weed intox#intox k1nk#autistic nsft#the jester is high
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I'm genuinely interested in your hc for Kliff and Tatiana :0c
If you don't mind me asking, do you think the two could ever be friends or friendly with each other again? Like, annoying each other and banter, but not hating each other
Thank you~ I have a lot of Kliff and Tati feelings, so I'm happy to talk about them a bit! ^3^
Honestly, I don't think so, UmU.
I think that Tatiana wouldn't forgive him for getting other people involved in their personal drama. It's one thing for him to threaten her because she can stand her own against him, but it's a whole other thing that he not only manipulated B2J into causing trouble, but also threatened the lives of innocent people.
I do think that they were civil enough to talk it out after the revolution, which gives Kliff the strength to finally let her go, but it basically ended with her saying, "I never want to see you again, and there will be consequences if I do."
There's probably still a longing from him to be with her, but it'll fade with time when he finds something new to love~
#thanks for the ask!#nsr#no straight roads#kliff#tatiana#i don't talk too much about goolings era kliff/kul fyra#but they really f*cked each other up (in a bad way)#fyra took advantage of him in a number of ways#and kliff was too codependent to recognize that anything was wrong and enabled that behavior#by the time fyra finally realized that her actions (and inactions) had consequences#kliff was already too far gone for her to talk it out gently with him. (and she wasn't in the headspace to do that anyway)#so she just abandoned him. which f*cked him up even worse. but there wasn't anything she could have done to avoid that#it's only after kliff can accept the fact that his favorite person f*cked him up that he can start healing too#but that means that they can't be in each other's lives anymore#but. i mostly write comedic pieces so in my works they do hang out and bicker post-revolution~#but in my heart i know that their relationship is irreparable UmU
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i think interpreting yuta's relationship to rika as the 'pure love' he sometimes presents it as is so wildly, bafflingly off base that i don't know what to do with it.
#i think it is very clearly a wildly codependent relationship#like i think yuta is soooooo scared of being alone#like i think maki is mean to him but she has a fairly accurate read on the situation to an extent#and yuta knows it#i mean ok#i know rika tells yuta that he didn't ruin her life. thats not even really what i'm talking about#what i'm talking about is the wild power dynamics and the ways they shift but are always rotating around who its ok to direct death toward#and at the end of 0 they agree maybe that should be yuta#and then rika is the one to be like. wait no. that feels like a bad idea actually#and this is all tied to the way yuta's depression manifests#anyway#w.me
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tired of being called boring cuz i hate toxic ships </33 im sorry i get triggered easily by stuff like that brah, the most toxic my ships r allowed to get before i get triggered is a lil possessiveness and a hint of unhealthy codependency 🤭 beyond that, i literally get sick to my stomach lmao..
do what u want but anyone whose never been abused before does NOT get the right to call ME boring for not liking abusive ships..
#i just think too many people equate them not liking something as it being inherently bad.. why dont we all just shut up.. lmao#do ur thing tbh like if u enjoy reading it and dont condone abuse irl then go ahead#i just will not participate and thats okay bro like we dont all have to like the same things#be an individual bro like we dont all have to have the same likes and dislikes#why do i have to read comments on all my fav fics about how theyre tired of things being 'too fluffy' LEMME ENJOY MY LOVELY FLUFF#if i get a comment like that on one of MY fics it is literally over i will die#anyway..#okay this is a little fib cuz i am also a huge fan of the cannibalism as a metaphor for love thing. um.. let me have this LMAO.#romanticizing cheating is something i just cant stand though ngl#honestly i dont know why i like toxic codependency and CANNIBALISM but having an affair is where i draw the line..#i think consent is my issue like i need there to be consent or its over and i cry and throw up from reading it lmfao#i like toxicity when its because they love each other TOO much.. THATS IT.. NO MORE CHEATING NO MORE ONE SIDED ABUSE NO MORE#i will continue to enjoy my super healthy fluffy protective ships 5ever#meows post#fanfic#ao3
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