#communication and growing together

[jaynovz]

So I reblogged a post earlier about how your friends don't secretly hate you or think you are annoying and the way you know that is they're still hanging around after you go on an absolute deranged rant in the group chat and that nobody has the time or energy to put into a con trying to fool me into thinking they actually like me or whatever

And that I know my friends are busy and if they didn't actually like me they would spend more time watching TV than listening to me ramble etc and all of those are very good points!

However something that I think is also important to internalize is that--

Yes your friends and loved ones do you think you're annoying sometimes. It's not the end of the world! Because everybody's fucking annoying sometimes and *you* think they're annoying sometimes too. Even people who really really enjoy your company and like you are not going to like you 100% of the time. That is perfectly fine and normal.

The problem arises when people snip and snap at each other because they're annoyed and don't apologize or acknowledge it, right. There are many times that I am annoyed with my loved ones and so what I do is if it's not some actual big problem that needs to be unpicked I just take a deep breath and go take a walk or disengage and do something else.

You have all made a pact with each other that we like each other enough to move past any of the annoying moments. Again as long as it doesn't become toxic and it's not an actual issue.

Like sometimes I get in a mood and I talk and don't make sense or I'm grumpy or I honestly just talk too much or I talk in circles

I imagine at certain points that can be annoying

Anyway just a revelation that I had that it's fine if you're annoying, it's fine if you're a burden, we're all burdens on each other, that's called being alive and having relationships. Deciding to stick with a relationship and to keep working on it is the commitment we all make and choose to continue carrying that burden. Hopefully it is reciprocal but it will go in phases and cycles it's not going to always be 50/50.

All of that to say, you're allowed to annoy your friends and they're allowed to not always be 100% happy with you and vice versa. It doesn't mean they don't care about you, it means that human beings rub each other the wrong way sometimes and then we all as, hopefully, mature adults deal with it and grow and continue on.

[marilynjeansims]

San Sequoia Community Lot Gallery Recommendations. part 1 | by marilynjeansims

ꨄ︎ 01. water park san sequoia by simcubeez size | 50x40

ꨄ︎ 02. daycare center by bojanasimsyt size | 50x40

ꨄ︎ 03. greenhouse restaurant by marmeladart size | 40x20

ꨄ︎ 04. san sequoia bar by typicalnerd99 size | 30x20

ꨄ︎ 05. anchorpoint library reno by itsmikeee64 size | 30x20

ꨄ︎ 06. san sequoia cafe by sportster909 size | 30x20

[alerionjkeee]

18 Celebration Way (Gas Station + Convenience Store)

finally I built up this 40x20 lot omg who even came up with this UgLy SiZe lmao

anyway, here you can find a small convenience store which I made that way you can use it as a restaurant and a retail if you wish!

I always would love to see your screenshots, so feel free to tag me @alerionjkeee

No CC Lot size: 40x20 Lot type: Restaurant/Retail Located in: San Sequoia

Recommended have all packs. Make sure to enable “bb.moveobjects” before placing the lot!

🟢 Download ZIP file - (SFS free, no ads)

special credit to @florwalsims​ for shopping cart and for soda machine that I used on this lot!

[pixeloosims]

~ Jane Hair - Toddler ~

Mesh Edit

Base Game compatible

15 EA Swatches

I added the mini buns from Growing Together to the Cottage living extension hairstyle !

/!\ You can do what you want with my cc's but don't put it behind a paywall or claim as your own /!\

Please, let me know if there are any issues !

📁 Download :

Curseforge

[rhysnolastname]

lot download -- san sequoia coast college, thanks to @sunlithills for helping me with the name.

download link: sfs - gallery id: lilacfingers

64x64, recreation center lot type, i have all packs except the star wars one, no cc, please place using move objects on! it was built on the 64x64 lot in san sequoia. playtested!!

i wanted a community college for san sequoia so i made one. there's classrooms, a pool, a gym, a library, a sad student lounge, a community garden, a culinary classroom. the second floor is entirely empty so there's room to add whatever else you want, if you like. but overall, i think it should give your sims a place to learn a variety of skills 😊 disclaimer is i built this for myself, it isn't perfect and i'm not a builder but it'll get the job done for my gameplay. also the big tree at the front clips with the second floor of the building, it doesn't bother me but just in case. tou is don't be a dick. more pics under the cut

@public-ccfinds

[applecranberryjuice]

Something something it's a metaphor. Hair as a form of communication but also as passage of time and also as a way for letting people in and also as a detail etc etc you get it

Actual explanation in the tags btw

I'm really nervous about this comic actually, is not the best. It doesn't make sense, and the art is mid, but I put love in it and I think that's enough

[krysfatale]

Kindergarten "Sunshine"

A kindergarten for toddlers and infants, and you can also bring your children here to play.

Download: SFS / Gallery: krysfatale

When inserting my lots, you need to enter the code: bb.moveobjects on

Please do not reupload my work and do not pass it off as your own

[spacedlexi]

maybe if i just put these screenshots together youll understand why i think their relationship just Works so well as it pertains to the characters and themes of S4 in general

neither of them know what theyre doing, but theyre figuring it out Together. the old ways are dead. and together theyll build a new future thats worth fighting for

[mycological-mariner]

First day of Pride and I just want to shine a light on all the trans people who are unable to transition, especially those who aren’t fresh faced university grads. Those who don’t live in a supportive or even just accepting home or community. Those who aren’t well off, those who aren’t good at or popular enough to crowd fund. Those who can’t afford transitioning. Those who can’t even transition socially or need to stay in the closet for your safety. Those who rely on benefits or unforgiving jobs to just pay the bills. Having to hear day in and day out you’re just GNC, that your pre-transition body is “ugly” and the ways you can express your gender are “cringe.” Every trans person who’s been told they aren’t “trying hard enough”. Those trans people who won’t even get to imagine transitioning for years.

I see you. I love you. You’re so undervalued and under appreciated in a world where being a white, well off 20 year old on HRT and getting surgery is more common to see than people who work full time and just don’t have that privilege. It sucks, so much. But you are loved and you are seen.

Happy Pride Month to trans people who aren’t where they want to be. The world is better with you in it. We all need each other.

[theseptembersim]

San Francisco Terraces

As soon as I found out the new world was based on San Fran I knew what I had to do! Here are some cute colourful townhouses for your Sims and their multiple guests that stay!

MOO and debug used Bed: 6 Bath: 8 World: San Sequoia Type: Residential

Origin ID is TheSeptemberSim

If you would like to download this build please use the links below. Although all my builds are no CC, I use a custom thumbnail so make sure 'modded' is checked to see this in your game.

Watch the speed build here

NO ADS

DOWNLOAD (sfs)

If you would like to support me, consider buying me a coffee ❤️

[farfallasims]

this little angel owns my entire soul x

linked infant cc || skin || bow recolor || onesie recolor ||

thank you to all the cc creators for your hard work thus far!

♡ || Simstok || Simstagram || Simblr || Pinterest || ♡

[mrtequilasunset]

I dunno how long Gorący has worked at the Whirling but Garte has been there for 14 years and he's only in his late 20s so I just can't stop thinking about Gorący helping a 14/15 year old Garte with his homework during his shifts

[alerionjkeee]

Seafood bar-restaurant + Souvenir shop

there is a small but cozy restaurant with seafood also a souvenir shop with various shells and cute gifts, which I didn't furnish too much to don’t load and break the game... so I think this place is perfect for Anchorpoint Wharf!

I always would love to see your screenshots, so feel free to tag me @alerionjkeee

No CC Lot size: 30x20 Lot type: Restaurant Located in: San Sequoia

Recommended have all packs. Make sure to enable “bb.moveobjects” before placing the lot!

🟢 Download ZIP file - (SFS free, no ads)

[pixeloosims]

~ Nini & Nana Hair ~

Mesh Edit

Base game compatible

For Toddler & Infants

/!\ You can do what you want with my cc's but don't put it behind a paywall or claim as your own /!\

Please, let me know if there are any issues !

📁 Download :

Curseforge

[lighthouseeee]

San Sequoia Center Clubs

I share my old building, which I built three months ago before buying a licensed game. This lot functions as a nightclub. It has a club for stars. where you can dance to the music of a popular DJ, and drink expensive cocktails. I also built a club for teenagers, which is located in the basement of the house. In addition, I have built a cafe where Sims can drink coffee.

No CC Lot size: 30x20 Lot type: Club Located in: San Sequoia

The streets of my beloved San Francisco and its architecture served as a reference.

Download ZIP file: Dropbox

[motherfuckingbrad]

so much untapped potential in jeff and shirley having an episode where they must confront their internalized fatphobia and realize people are beautiful regardless of weight but no. the writers had to be cowards.