#condescending ass

[they-are-a-prolife-autist]

Does America have any other serious problems that need fixing or is it your autism that keeps you fixated on the propaganda of the religious right?

Show me where in my blog I address religion at all? Are we only supposed to talk about American issues that YOU approve of personally? What problem would you like to discuss since you wanna come to MY blog and tell me how to run it/what social issues to talk about. How would YOU like me to apply my personal experiences? What would make YOU happy?

[the-sunlit-earth]

Master Neloth woke up at 3am and chose violence

[rainbenrry23]

She used it as a header lmao queen behavior

[catboyollie]

Made this, you can read the inspiration tweet below.

[spacelazarwolf]

there is no such thing as a binary trans man...there are trans men who are men, fully 100% men and only men, completely male and nothing else. but you cannot draw a distinction between binary and non-binary trans ppl. the gender binary was invented by a cissexist society and even if you are capital-m Male there is no way to be trans and binary at the same time. we are all breaking the gender binary equally

yeah no. if someone wants to call themself a binary trans person because it reflects who they are and the fact they only align with one gender, there’s literally nothing wrong with that. stop putting the onus on trans people to change the system, stop relying on identity politics and semantics to make any meaningful change, and stop going out of your goddamn ways to remind trans people that we’re just so different from cis people and will never fully fit in. we fucking know.

[taylortruther]

Sorry I’m old but this reminds me so much of the 80’s when women were starting to break the ceilings in the business world and the sentiment was to break into a “man’s world” you had to imitate a man. Hence all the power business suits with shoulder pads rivaling football pads and using very direct and abrupt language and sacrificing marriage and children for face time at the office. The women that then succeeded were labeled “bitches” for the same behavior that was applauded in men. Why in the world as women do we want to normalize that attitude again or make women think they have to be hard or sacrifice parts of their life in order to succeed? Marriage and children surely aren’t for everyone, but there is no reason a woman can’t have those things and also be successful. Why should a woman have to bend her desires in order to be taken seriously? As long as we keep buying into that, that’s what will be expected by society at large and women will continue to be expected to conform to a “male” standard. Taylor is actually a good example (and a highly visible one which is rare) of decidedly feminine strengths and uber success coexisting.

Men have their own issues of being hogtied by societal expectations (machoism, work/life balance etc) but that’s a whole other conversation.

i mean, it's complicated (perhaps the understatement of the century)! women can be successful if they have a family but it's really fucking hard to balance both. there's the whole recent movement of acknowledging that, no, you really can't have it all, you have to sacrifice something if you're a woman seeking career success, motherhood, and personal fulfillment.

i feel like taylor represents a sheryl sandberg "lean in" philosophy. she has absolutely broken down walls and blazed trails on her own, and she's made a wildly successful career out of "the most feminine body of work" (her own words)... but she alone can't change systemic problems so she plays by the rules of a broken, imperfect system. take, for example, the "elephant graveyard" she referenced in miss americana. she knew her time was "running out" so to speak, and obviously she blew that out of the water, and she broke down that wall for other popstars, we hope! but she still wrote clara bow afterward. this pressure - to be youthful, new, exciting, interesting, challenging, but not uncomfortable - is still present, although she finds was to punch holes in it.

[lucabyte]

Invoking the quadrants to explain sifloop hurt me psychically but. You are so fucking right. Anyway wanted to say I so so so enjoy your loop + sifloop + sloopis + honestly ISAT as a whole headcanons/ideas. I feel like you really capture the tone of how fucked up yet meaningful song and loops relationship is. And also how real the Isa torment nexus is. It's enriching to him <3

you look me in the eyes and tell me that simultaneous pity, pacification, armistice and rivalry aren't four of the most fitting adjectives for this goddamn ship its insane right (also thank u for the compliment on the headcanons i love to. try and read texts in as supported a manner as i can)

also yeah. get in the torment nexus pear wiggler boy. dance for my amusement

[chickenoptyrx]

Tag :U

[akkivee]

NEW HYPDREAM VISUALS ➕PV!!!!!!!!!

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

it's so funny that spop fans bash glimmer for being manipulated by shadow weaver and sympathize with catra for the same thing because.. who was the one who patronized adora for not realizing that shadow weaver and the horde was manipulating them? right, it was catra.

[metroid-fusion]

i was gonna say something like "writing characters like therapyspeak is bad practice but if u can vocalise your thoughts like that in irl casual conversation thats probably good for you" but then i remembered someone i used to know that would qualify EVERYTHING with some therapy bs and it was actually incredibly condescending

if you disagreed with this person theyd ALWAYS break out the "I disagree, and that's allowed! You and I are different people with different opinions, and we can respect each other for it! There's no moral aspect to this disagreement, and I'm happy you're my friend" every single time. at that point id rather you make fun of my opinions

[danzainosolitude]

Once again I read fanfiction that seems to have been precisely written to deal psychic damage to me.

[ivan-fyodorovich-k]

God I am so tired of hearing about G.K. Chesterton fucking read another book

[rewritingcanon]

my fav new thing to do is trolling jegulus shippers by saying jegulus is hinny-coded

[silviakundera]

"how do you, as a fan of [insert character here] deal with [list of this characters's idiocy and/or misdeeds] ?"

.... bestie... my girl, my main man... do u...? think I can only enjoy characters who are good people and smart? 🤔

I don't need to deal with anything. Yes, that character can be awful & makes frankly the dumbest choices. I'm not pretending this character is a whole-ass different person who did different stuff. Then they are someone else, so what's the point?

I.... just come 'ere, I need to understand what lead you to such a ludicrous conclusion. Me & Katherine Pierce wanna understand why you're trying to right my girl's fabulous wrongs.

[forestfan69]

You fill the room with sun, hold me close and let me breathe. I am foreign to that kindness.

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Some soft moicy, featuring my latest obsession which is to cover everything in flowers. I hope you all enjoy this as much as I enjoyed drawing it!!

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This piece is also available on my INPRNT, if anyone wants to buy this for themselves!