#cuddles are so important to me

[technically-human]

I love how Pebble and Egg are happily in love, completely open about it, very cuddly and soft, while real life Stone and Eggman are still trying to come to terms with it all

Cuddly...

ko-fi

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Beware the Whisker Wizard!

(Based on this post)

[treef-greef]

nightmare support group

[wafywaify]

i hate svsss fics that downplay sqqs (yuan) trauma incredibly.

and not in the sqq pov where hes just an unreliable narrator, no, I mean when the author very clearly did not understand how dramatic what happened to him was. i dont see them very often but every time i do i just sigh and leave it lol.

i doubt this is done on purpose but for those who actually enjoy that uh view of things (?) thats fine, totally cool. kudos to you and everything- but at least put a warning in the tags. im begging.

ive gotten really into some of these fics without realizing and its just so disappointing but i cant just leave it unfinished, yknow? the shen yuan in me wont allow it

like bro literally got half his limbs ripped off by a person with the face he loved and has died for MULTIPLE TIMES. and then was raped..? by that same person??? (not that im blaming binghe, they were both victims) but like. CMON??? oh and dont even get me started on the whole "binghes going to want revenge after i unwillingly had to push him into literal hell, i must prepare" and the entire holy mausoleum arc.. aint no way hes totally chill after that man. for years he was just waiting for death while also mourning white lotus bingbing..

give me more fics of sqq having breakdowns, ptsd, trauma!! he deserves to cry!!! sqq is just as traumatized as binghe!! let the man sob!! preferably in binghes arms!!!

[jaylaxies]

jake and his messy hair after he eats you out and fucks you 💗

[beckyelrro]

old old denji and nayuta art!!

[bunny-uninterrupted]

imagine your f/o dragging you to bed after you've stayed up super late. would they coax you to bed with gentle reassurance, or would they just grab your arm and physically pull you to your room? how do they lull you to sleep? do they cuddle you, or perhaps play with your hair, or sing you to sleep?

^ (use this as a gush pass btw ^^)

[idkwhatimdoingbutslay]

There will never be enough fanarts or fics of caitvi cuddling. NEVVEEEERRRRRAHHHHHHGGGGGG

[bitchslapblastoids]

Random parasocial phan lore speculation; do you think that when they had seperate bedrooms they were actually sleeping in different beds? Bc ive definitely seen the sentiment floating around since BIG first came out, and even before, that the different bedrooms were just for show, but to me that just doesnt make sense. Like yeah they were both very closeted but also when they moved to london they were also extremely broke and it doesnt make sense to me that initially they only rented a two bedroom apt for show. Like i know this is the "whole fake apartment" duo we're talking about here but that was when they were already mega rich and has started building a million dollar forever home. When you're broke and 21 years old even internalised homophobia and being closeted doesnt seem to me like a good enough reason to rent a whole extra room that you dont plan on using. Personally i think when they were younger they very much utelised having seperate areas for themselves. I think dans room was His room. His own space. And phils was the same. And they probably just picked a room at night and slept there. Or slept in their own beds. I know we joke about dnp being completely codependent, but its also very clear from an external pov that they have a really healthy relationship. And they have worked, lived and spent all their free time together basically since dan was 18. I dont think its possible for any couple, not even dnp to do that without having strong boundaries for personal space, and the physical space to enact that. I dont think they really started to cohabitate in that sense until like. 2016/17. They 100% shared a bedroom in the second london apartment and they obviously definitely share a room now, but i dont think that was the case in the early days at all. And I think probably even now in the phouse they have their own spaces where they can exist by themselves and text each other from across the phouse.

(P.s they uploaded right as I was typing this which is so rude of them to interupt my important thoughts)

to no surprise i've yapped about this before, as someone who is rocking a happy healthy separate bedroom longterm relationship!

yeah i've always been firmly in the camp that having their separate spaces has protected their own sanity. they both really are introverts with different habits about how to keep a space. thinking specifically about sleeping - they are large men, one of whom we've learned snores very loudly. their manchester and london beds were doubles (maybe queens?) which, while fine for some snuggly nights, does not provide much space to spread out when you're long-limbed.

other reasons i think they prob slept separately a lot - phil has said he likes to sleep with many pillows, while dan's manchester and london beds (which definitely seemed used (not used in a weird way just like consistently rumpled whenever we saw it which was often for many years)) always only had 2 pillows max. phil's london bed had 4. they had some text exchange that i can't be bothered to track down in one of the wdapteos about hearing a beeping noise in the night or something, and phil saying he thinks it's something in the kitchen. to me, it read like what you'd text someone when you're in different bedrooms in the same home. plus, the different hotel rooms on tour (instead of just one room w/ two beds, which would be a totally normal thing to do). i know it seems like they often ended up in one another's rooms, but they could spend their evening together and then sleep separately if one of them really needed the rest. snoring can truly drive a person mad.

but also, all that aside, i do think that no matter what, they would have had two bedrooms in manchester & london to protect their own privacy while they were closeted. there's just no world in which they would have moved into a one-bedroom apartment for their first london spot. i doubt that was ever even a question. they were closeted to what seems to be almost everyone in their lives. meanwhile, they had guests over fairly often, and their careers were filmed out of their own home. trying to hide a one bedroom apt would have been way too much of a risk, and they basically wouldn't have been able to have anyone over without outing themselves.

i agree that it seems they shared a bedroom in that second london apt, bc we never saw an actual phil room, only the set, and barely saw the 'dan' one. and it does seem like now in the phouse, the 'dan room' is the primary bedroom. but i'd imagine phil also views the green room as 'his' in that his wardrobe seems to be in there, it's a space he can retreat to, and it's a separate bed he can sleep in. ok long answer done!

tldr yes i think they've taken advantage of sleeping in separate beds

[agalychnisspranneusroseus]

For Marcy, a good thing about having two girlfriends is that, between the two of them, they can fulfill her need for physical contact with no problem. Touch is her main love language and her clinginess can be a bit too much for a single person to bear, but thankfully she has two girlfriends happy to take turns so she never has to run out of hugs and kisses.

[transusopp]

i genuinely believe luffy and usopp got some awesome platonic homieship (possibly qpr but idek honestly). going on where they casually cuddle and kiss sometimes because neither of them really gaf about appearing to be "normal" besties. they'll hold hands. they'll sleep together (!!! MEANING IN THE SAME BED !!!). luffy is very aroace but that makes it interesting because he doesn't consider it a romantic relationship at all. usopp is biromantic asexual and also doesn't consider it a romantic relationship. they're homiesexual. its great. their bond is unbreakable they are best friends and i love them.

[chevelleneech]

Do Jimin and Jungkook know they don’t have to tell us certain things? Seriously. Because some stuff is so… couple-like no matter what, yet they constantly tell us.

[moonlight-nat]

need to know every single detail about loustat coffin time bc like…how did it start once louis got his own coffin? what is the routine? does one ask the other if they want to cuddle? do they knock on each others coffins in the middle of the day like hey let me in? is it just an unspoken agreement?

[bookwyrminspiration]

If you see me violently sobbing holding my mutuals close in gently cupped hands don't worry about it

[scorchedmazes]

saw a post that said “your cat likes it when you eat with them”and,, now i can’t stop thinking about minho with his (& gally’s) cat.

Minho prepares his own dinner before making his way over to Enculé’s food bowl, picking it up and taking it over to the counter.

He grabs the wet food that he stores in the cabinet, scraping some of it onto Enculé’s plate, saving the rest for later.

Meow

“I get it, it’s dinner time. You’ve told me that fifty times now.” Minho looks down at the brown cat, who has now resorted to pawing at his calf. “You’re impatient. I had to cook my food first, you don’t want to eat alone- do you?”

Meow

“See? I know you. Come on.” Minho sits the cat’s food down at the kitchen table before grabbing the cat’s water bowl, placing it beside of the food plate.

Enculé makes a small, happy purr as he jumps up onto the chair, placing his front paws on the table in order to reach said plates. Minho sits down in his own chair across from his pet.

“Gally would kill me if he saw you up here, you know. He’s kind of allergic to you.” Minho says, shoving his fork in his mouth. Enculé gnaws on his kibble, having already finished his wet food. He glances up at Minho as he chews, seeming to recognize Gally’s name.

“He loves you, don’t worry.” Minho winks, pouring more of the wet food on the plate for Enculé. “Not more than me, of course. He’s just your second dad.”

Meow

“I know! He’s starting to warm up to you, though. He likes it when you lay on his lap during our movie nights.” Minho smiles, reaching over to pet Enculé’s head. He purrs, rubbing his forehead against Minho’s palm. “I get it, I know. Your place is my chest, don’t worry. Gally won’t take your spot during movie nights.”

Minho doesn’t hear the door to their apartment open, nor does he hear Gally’s footsteps as he comes into the kitchen.

Gally opens his mouth to greet Minho, but he hears Minho talking. To who? He has no clue. For a second, he assumes Thomas or Newt are here. But when he notices that Minho keeps talking despite no answer, he comes to the conclusion.

It’s the damn cat.

Now, Gally does love Enculé, at least.. He tolerates him. He’s cute, fluffy, relatively friendly when he wants to be. But he’s jealous. And possessive.

The first time Gally tried to cuddle with Minho on the couch, the cat jumped across the room and slapped Gally’s hand away from Minho’s thigh before hissing at Gally and curling up on Minho’s chest. The first time Gally kissed Minho, Enculé climbed up Gally’s pants and clawed through them.

The cat is demonic, in Gally’s eyes. And Minho knows this as well. There’s a reason why Thomas is scared to enter Minho’s apartment while Enculé is out and roaming it. Enculé doesn’t like Thomas either.

The pair have now resorted to shutting their bedroom door in order to sleep at night, the cat would lay in between of their pillows and growl at Gally if he tried to touch Minho.

The two have gotten better, Gally is now allowed to pet the cat’s head-at first, the action had earned Gally a few scars-without consequences. The cat also likes to sleep on Gally’s lap if they sit on the couch.

Progress. They’re making progress. Gally still gets hissed at whenever he kisses Minho on the lips, though.

Gally shakes his head, leaning against the island in their kitchen as he watches Minho talk about his day, hands going in all different directions as he walks the cat through his job.

“And then- the newbie broke the espresso machine! So I had to tell all of the angry moms that they couldn’t have espresso at four in the afternoon- and they got mad at me! Can you believe that?”

Enculé looks up from his plate once again, pupils narrowing as he watches his owner wave his hands around like a madman. Gally stifles a laugh, not wanting to ruin their moment.

“It’s okay though, we’re supposed to get a new one tomorrow. I won’t get yelled at by angry people anymore.” He pauses, looking at the cat’s empty water bowl. “More water?”

Minho grabs the empty bowl, going towards the sink when he jumps, finally noticing Gally.

“Gal- Hi! I didn’t hear you come in!” He quickly looks at the cat, who is still sitting at the table. He looks back at Gally, cheeks turning red. “We were eating dinner together, but don’t worry- I’ll clean the table off really well so that you don’t—“ Gally walks over to the sink and pulls Minho in for a kiss, effectively shutting Minho’s rant up.

“It was sweet. You were talking to him like he’s a human.” Minho rolls his eyes, the red on his cheeks deepening. Blushing is always something that Gally has always loved to make Minho do.

“He was responding, Gal.” Minho defends his pet. But before Gally can say anything back, the cat leaps off the table and saunters over, rubbing his head and body against Gally’s shins.

Meow

“Look- He’s saying hello!” Minho beams, looking down at Enculé with as much love as a father would have for his baby. “He loves you.”

Gally chuckles and shakes his head, bending down and scooping the cat up in his arms, cradling him.

“Yeah- Hi to you, too.” The cat purrs, rubbing his face against Gally’s chest and chin. “Uh huh- and I love you too.”

Gally knows that is going to make Minho’s night.

And he’s right, Minho doesn’t shut up about Gally saying “I love you” to his cat.

In fact-in Gally’s mind-Minho makes it an even bigger deal than when Gally said “I love you” to Minho himself.

[coldshrugs]

you two keep silent and the silence gets delicious. one of you two talk and listening gets delicious. [x]

@harumeau has blessed me with the dreamiest sketches of io and estinien!!