#discourse confession

[transformersconfessions]

Nothing grinds my gears as much as the CONSTANT infantilazation this fandom does to Bumblebee. Some of you literally get off on turning a grown ass adult into a permachild baby man.

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[ellenthefox]

Bruh I can't man we start the year off with dream using the r-slur, the back and forth videos, the tubbo 6 hour react-a-thon extravaganza, the call, and to put the lovely little cherry on top of it all awesamdude stole almost all of his redstone designs and never gave credit and took credit for at least one of them what a January

[screamsilas]

@ii-neg-confessions is really stupid

IMPORTANT UPDATE!; @II-NEG-CONFESSIONS IS BANNED (on tumblr)!! ALL CAN REJOICE!!!!!

@ii-neg-confessions is kind of what it sounds like, a blog about inanimate insanity to spread hate and negativity and I feel like people shouldn't be so open to absorbing hate all the time

I wrote a better worded version on my phone but the drafts thing apparently doesn't work so take this kind of lazy one instead cause I don't really wanna spend any more of my time on this earth trashing an admin on a confessions blog who most should know is just a negative nancy hater who needs to get off they damn phone

time to "see through the bullshit" and "simply call out this bullshit" instead of "mindlessly consuming slop and following the herd"! /quoting their blog

also if you are gonna say "ohh don't give them them attention that's what they want" hold that thought cause this post isn't FOR them, its to educate ABOUT them and show people they're stupid. Its your choice if you wanna block them. Also, this is my space to criticize whatever I want, block whoever I want, etc. so I'm gonna post this rant here and let people act under their discretion.

anyways more under the cut

update on 12/09/24; rephrased/added context to some stuff in the Adam Katz segment.

update on 12/09/24; added a funny thing at the very end of the post.

update on 12/10/24; removed Adam Katz segment for correcting and editing.

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This is one of those things that when I read it I audibly said " are you fucking serious" cause truthfully I don't think they are being serious here.

To make fun of people that are POSITIVE? you actually must be absolutely MISERABLE to make a whole word to try and describe people who are positive in a negative light. I don't have much else to say here other than they must be genuinely sad with their life to do this.

small bomb break just to preface something

I'm not gonna go into their blog and criticize every word they have ever said, because I simply don't want to, but feel free to add onto this in the comments or re-blogs, cause I think its important to acknowledge this person and see them for who they are... and act accordingly of course.

anywayyy...

death threats (I'm gonna talk about that)

I've seen a lot of the OSC unanimously say that Mil has sent death threats to the II crew which I believe is true considering their overwhelmingly negative behavior and opinions towards most people who like ii/the crew themselves. I wanna of course start by saying that (as obvious as it should be) DEATH THREATS ARE NEVER OKAY! In some places in the world, even online they can be ILLEGAL!!! Its never okay to tell someone that you are gonna kill them, or that they should kill themselves, no matter how bad you think their YouTube show is, or how true you think your preconceived notions about peoples life or political stances are, death threats of any sort? NEVER OKAY! The fact that they went out of their way and spent that time (and most of their time) blatantly hating on this thing that was never about or for them is really disgusting.

Some more stuff I wanna say (in bullet point form!)

I never will say that I don't think its okay to have negative opinions or state said opinions, but from what I can see from this entire blog, its more than that. Its more than sharing criticism, its spreading hate about something a lot of people hold dear to them for no other reason then the fact that you hold hate in your heart

I'm pretty aware that Mil has some issues, whether that be relationship, familial... its none of my business. If she's reading this, just know there are people who can help, help is always available to you.

for a blog that's all for "seeing the truth" you really love to delete everything you don't agree with (even if its negative)

using art and not taking it down even after asked to is really rude, everyone should know that.. well except for Mil, who still has the post up

people calling everything that is appealing to the audience "fanservice" is so stupid is that the only word you know? do you only know how to use buzzer words to catch your audience instead of giving genuine points?

I was gonna say some more but I got distracted, and also I'm already sick of their shit so

okay bye bye!

p.s. ; a hefty handful of screenshots I didn't wanna write a whole paragraph saying they're shit to

this one is just sad to read like who hurt you

blatantly threatening a hack against AE's channel (also illegal)

shit like this makes me believe that this account is ragebait

more "posies" talk (makes me giggle)

looking pretty defensive to me (definitely a dream stan)

self indulgent insert but uh maybe its cause cobs is in the show hmm idk maybe though

death threats arent okay even if mil sent them to others (it will only repeat the cycle)

this is just funny to me, the ii crew has gone back and deleted scenes that aren't good, they have said they were young at the time and they are growing and changing people and apologized for what they did, what else do you want? do you want them to beg for forgiveness at your shoes?? you're fucking weird.

""digital footprint" isn't real" says a lot

what do you mean?? they're hating WITH YOU!!!! just because they can see good in the show doesn't mean they're corny! full post here

maybe because the songs are... musical inspired... maybe you just hate fun... (they literally say they do what am I talking about)

hating for no reason again (and ignoring everything anon said except for the thing that caught their eye; hatred)

okay I'm done, Mil is exhausting, @ii-neg-confessions is exhausting, I'm forever a "posie" I guess

if you read this far also... hi! thank you for reading all of this and educating yourself! remember that despite their hatred, there's still lots of love and care in this world and you deserve the most of it! please get some water and a snack, and have a wonderful day!! <3

okay that's my rant bye

p.s.

stop following me, mil

[realmblr-confessions]

The problem with how Pili is vilified by fandom and some CCs is due to how small his audience is. Like Pili gets an average of between 50 to 200 viewers, and a lot of those viewers from his main channel don't watch the Realm because it's in English and there's no subtitle mod like QSMP had.

So when he got into the Realm, basically no one knew him and he had a pretty small audience. And then he got very very close to Pangi and Bad, and a significant amount of his viewership started coming from both Pangi and Bad's audiences (and a lot of ghosties are also pangooners). And after Mocha died and Pili2 came, there was the rift between Pili and Pangi/Bad, which made a lot of the ghosties/pangooners stop consuming his channel. It's also part of the reason why people romanticize Mocha so much, as if he was the only reasonable Pili when in reality all of the Pilis had motives, people just stopped watching Pili2 and Ace. People who were defending Mocha and saw that he was being forced to kill people because he was a member of red team were suddenly saying Pili2 was insane and abusive for lashing out against Pangi's stalking and dehumanization.

TLDR Pili suffered from being a very active agent in the narrative, but having low viewership and not enough people who actually understood his character. Mainly because Pangi took the viewership in the divorce.

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[conclaveconfessions]

I’m sick and tired of fanfic where Vincent is whiny, bratty, or childish. WHO are you talking about?! Just because he has childlike awe and whimsy. The man has canonically survived human horrors like you can’t even imagine. With ya nasty ass

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[sdv-confessions]

Sending this in on nations women’s day yay, and in honors of that, WOMEN IN STARDEW VALLEY ARE INTERESTING. Y’ALL IUST DON’T CARE ENOUGH TO LOOK. Hayley has one of the best character arcs in the game but, oh no, she’s “mean” but Shane’s just fine!! (not a dig on Shane, love him, just some of his fans) Maru can be funny asf if you take the time to READ HER DIALOG.

Jodi is one of my favorite characters by far. She loves her sons and husband but also wishes she had more freedom in her life. She’s just a kind soul who cares about her family, just wishes she could’ve had it a different way. Robin has an up and down relationship with her husband which results in a complicated one with her son. IT’S AN INTERESTING DYNAMIC. SHE IS NOT BORING BECAUSE SHE IS A WIFE AND MOTHER.

Penny has her whole Pam thing and not to mention, lots of quirks of her own. Like being bad at cooking which results in some really funny scenes. While I am not a fan of her, Caroline, has interesting family dynamics. And on that topic Abigail is more than a “manic pixie girl” god forbid a woman be into the occult. Again, she has really interesting dynamics. Even though her family dynamics are tense, she still says “I’m wearing our matching family sweater under my coat… Don’t tell Dad!” or something like that. She clearly still loves her family despite the ups complications. And she has a whole friend circle with Sam and Sebastian.

Emily is amazing. She has so many interest and quirks. And her relationship with her filled with so much thought. They’re so different, they argue and tease each other, but they love each other. They are all they have. Leah has a whole life before Pelican Town. She has dreams, hopes, aspirations, messy ex’s. Listen to me and LISTEN TO ME CLOSE. JUST BECAUSE A WOMEN HAS ROMANCE IN HER LIFE. DOES NOT MAKE HER BORING.

And then you got sweet granny Evelyn. Oh my Yoba, I love this woman so much. She loves her husband and grandson so much. Always tending to plants, making cookies for everyone. I would die for this woman. And then, on the opposite end, Jas. She is such a little sweet heart who deserved so much better in life. Her dynamic with Shane is so special. And her friendship with Vincent in Leo. Ugh. There is so much to this kid and she gets so much shit for being “creepy” THATS A CHILD.

Let’s move onto her god-aunt (?) Marnie. I will say it again and I will say it again loudly. JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN HAS ROMANCE IN HER LIFE DOES NOT MAKE HER BORING. Her relationship with Lewis is such an interesting part to the valley that adds so much drama and depth to these characters. The fact she takes Shane and Jas in, the fact she cares and worry’s so much for Shane. The way she cares for her animals.. ugh. I love her.

Moving onto our out of town girlies, we got Sandy and Birdy. Sandy is such a mystery, I love her. I do wish we got to know more about her, but her mystery is part of her charm. She’s just so fun to talk to. I wish I had more to say but unfortunately I only have around 5 hearts with her due to not going to the desert to much. And then Birdy… Her storyline is so tragic. I really wished we got to behind her. Her decision to watch over her husband’s bones is so UGH. No one should force her to move on. She has made her choice and it’s powerful.

And I think I’ve covered all Stardew woman. So maybe take from this rant… to read dialog. Because these woman are strong, flawed, and amazing.

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[marietheran]

See, the vibe I unfortunately get from a large part of the American Protestant online space is far too many people unaware of their obvious scrupulousity positioning themselves as moral authorities, and it's frankly – dangerous.

[pacicidal]

really wish that fandoms could be normal about platonic displays of affection.

"oh, [character] said something heartfelt to [other character]! that means they like each other romantically--"

or maybe they're just friends. and they like to show the other they care about them.

"but [character] is physically affectionate with [other character], and always wants to be around them!"

okay, and? some people's love language is touch. love languages aren't inherently romantic.

"but why would they be so affectionate if they weren't--"

because they are friends. and affection isn't some super exclusive thing reserved for romantic partners.

you can show you love someone platonically in a lot of the same ways you show you like them romantically. showing you care about someone isn't inherently a sign of romantic interest.

[mychemfessions]

I think most of the Illi Mcillin discourse can be solved with "art is subjective" and "you can have your own interpretations and at the same time acknowledge authorial intent"

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[toxicanonymity]

When you engage with confessions accts, you're encouraging this kind of parasocial hater behavior

Note added for context: A "confessions" account has been posting anon hate mostly toward writers in the pedro pascal fandom. A parasocial hater of mine discovered it and has been going to town. I posted this after a revolting analogy they used (screenshot at bottom of post).

Obviously I am disgusted that anyone would post such a deranged analogy just to stir up fandom drama. FYI many of these are from the same individual who has been fixated on me for a while and i know others have their stalkers too. We block them but when a "confessions" acct is active, they have a platform. I'm sorry to everyone who has been attacked.

warning: hate, trivialization of abuse & genocide, gross stuff.

the screenshots below are all from after I blocked this person

I normally don't address things like this, but that's only because I'm trying to keep it off your dash and off my blog for reasons including not wanting to give the hater a larger audience for their message. Normally I block/delete. But thanks to a blog dedicated to posting anon hate, some of this is already on the dash, and additional context could be illuminating.

a couple weeks ago, this person chimed in on my non-fandom post, and their comment made me uncomfortable. Their blog tagline was antagonistic. They weren't being earnest. I checked to see if they followed me, and they didn't. I wrongly assumed they followed me from a main account since they were commenting on an un-tagged, un-reblogged post. I replied, taking issue with their comment and asking them to keep their thoughts to themselves rather than coming at me from a sideblog. But I now realize they were simply hate checking my blog.

These first ones are from their burner after I blocked the account that started it:

(Blocked the burner too)

They were saying this last bit preemptively - I've never talked about stalkers here until this post you're reading rn. I didn't include all their anons in this post, just enough to show they clearly out themselves as being the same person.

Sometimes they will act like they're laughing and pretend to be multiple people. They also sent asks targeting att*********h and made comments off-anon before she deactivated this wk. In other asks they use large font to praise a former writer (jr****t) and insult everyone else - they sent one of these off-anon and reblogged another.

This post i'm making may only make it worse idk. I want to trust people not to automatically believe and repeat accusations, but my experience leaves me pessimistic.

I won't be dropping this creep's url in this post: This week they have repeatedly changed their url anyway, along with their display name and blog appearance. I had never heard of them.

Now the ask that prompted this post, idk if it's the same person or not but they def sent multiple asks

Note the "our" 🙄 typical hate stalker tactic pretending to be more than 1 person. I used to get "we are laughing" asks after like every post I made.

I haven't included nearly all the hate in this post, only the last one which crossed the line pushing me to make this post and all the others to illustrate how one person can go so wild. In other posts, I was sexualized without my consent (TOS violation) and it was really gross. And then miscellaneous hate.

Note - yes you can share this if you want. It's already out there anyway. Also feel free to DM for the known urls but do NOT contact them / rile them up.

Update - the anon-hate account referred to above, pedgeconfessions, has deactivated after violating multiple TOS including doxxing (not of me) which can put people in real world danger. It wasn't the first such acct this summer and may not be the last.

[transformersconfessions]

I hate it when a ship becomes popular because of an AU. I'm not gonna name names cause it's not the fault of the AU creators but some people are so quick to confuse fanon and canon... Like no First Aid isn't a freak as in blood and guts he's barely presented as a freak in one continuity. It's IDW, and he's freakishly obsessed with random shit, not freakishly obsessed with violence. Istg whenever an AU that changes a lot of a character's personality gets popular I brace for the misinformation that's gonna get spread for the next 3 years

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[danmei-confessions]

gonna be real with u chief theres exactly one reason why i dont think jiggy killed his son and that's that sect leader yao said he did

like at this point i dont care if jiggy himself says "yes i yeeted that baby" or provides actual camera footage of him yeeting the baby. idgaf. the mere fact that sect leader yao said he did is enough to make it bullshit to me

antis pay attention this is what it means to be a real hater <3

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[starcanwrecked-confessions]

I am not saying whether or not definitively cinderella's castle is transphobic or not i'm not a trans woman so I don't really feel like an authority on that but I will say it feels odd how the show was never accused of being transphobic when they revealed the plot a year ago. they said back then that it was going to be about trolls wearing the skin of humans and no one said a thing at the time so I genuinely can't help but wonder what happened

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[sojirai]

its ok bro just tell me and ill block you like a normal person

[realmblr-confessions]

"No one's been bullied off the server" they say as Pili states he's done doing lore and interacting with pangi because his fans harassed him too much

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[conclaveconfessions]

ok listen up. yall ever heard of a little group called isis? they were kinda known for terrorist acts, putting planes through skyscrapers, etc. they were the good folks that vincent had to deal with on a regular basis. so i find it hard to imagine that of all people, tedesco is the one that is able to intimidate vincent. again, you’re telling me that the man who regularly faced war criminals and terrorists would reach his breaking point bc of a 71 yo man, an elderly religious bureaucrat?

listen im not trying to rain on your parade. but the reason why tedesco’s speech rang hollow and why vincent’s speech rang true is bc vincent spoke as a man who had witnessed actual horrors, who knows intimately the price of violence. tedesco is speaking like a man who’s seen more warfare on the news than in real life.

tedesco isn’t catholic darth vader, alright. he’s just a guy.

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