#diviseness

[still-searching-for-something]

[xxdreamscapes]

diary 061925 | 10:00 pm

It’s impossible to be human (sometimes);

React too much — you’re dramatic. Not enough — you’re apathetic. Advocate too much — an SJW. Don’t advocate enough or *correctly* — a bad leftist Speak too much or give advice — you’re lecturing. Say too little — you don’t care or pay attention enough.

Of course this angle of scrutiny most often happens to women, but it doesn’t discredit the same double standards and bs non binary folks, femmes, etc. go through. We're more alike than different.

Divisiveness hurts everybody.

Even the rare mensies who are genuinely trying their best to be decent people and allies.

People have this tendency to operate in binaries, even if they don’t know it. And for the last time, probably ever, any time I’m speaking on nuance — or being a little more open minded/less judgmental — doesn’t ever mean I’m suggesting centrism or fence sitting as the solution. I'm sick of your labels and micro-labels. It's impossible.

A lot of people will hate you for being right or thinking outside the lines. They will resent you for working solutions with them instead of enabling unhealthy behaviors. And rather than admitting their faults or owning up to thier decisions, they'll scapegoat you because it’s easier to blame you than change. Choose better. Be better. More curious and less judgy.

This constant deflecting, shifting accountability, and blaming each other for quite literally everything is poisoning us. It's poisoned my personal life and relationships enough. And I don't want to live like that anymore.

If someone is willing to have good faith dialogue, and not just "own the libs", of course I'll talk to them. Most people just want someone to listen. Listening ≠ Agreeing. I do think people can change. It’s whether or both their ego will allow them to commit to it. The one's that put up walls are none of my business. The "friends" that ice you out for speaking up or speaking out, aren't your friends.

Everything is connected. From our government to our communities to the food we consume to the internet to capitalism to all the ways we treat each other. Love is respect, remember.

⋆⁺₊⋆ + ⋆⁺₊ ⋆ ☁︎

current rotation: "People You Know" by Sel G and "Breathe" by Taylor ft. Colbie Caillat

p.s. Don’t ask for people’s advice/help only to never take it seriously or consider it. Don't waste people’s time or use them as a sounding board for your shitty decisions. Silly rat !

[engravedlives]

misc band/music blinkies

[cowinf]

Started playing Apollo Justice

[devyat10]

saint Dolores bless me 🙏🙏🙏🙏

INTERZONE | disco elysium animatic

[pastelaeqy]

diaster

[sunnbnn]

When you just gotta...

[the-decepticon-apologist]

Soundwave’s files have to be WILD

[dissolvedvoid]

Ian Curtis's handwritten lyrics to Joy Division's "Love Will Tear Us Apart"

[muscletitanlover]

Derek Lunsford, USA

IG: dereklunsford_

[tranzombie]

enough of girl math what about boy division

[pericardium-and-glass]

AU idea: Tarn got injured during a mission and lost his memories, returning him to pre-empurata Damus... (I just want to draw him with a big smile 😭)

Bonus DJD reaction:

[your-mom-friend]

Truly amazed by the fact that Mob’s main tactic for defeating evil people is to earnestly and with full honesty tell them that they are lonely pathetic losers and he does it with such conviction that it slams his enemies into reality so hard that they sit there and think oh my god…I am a friendless pathetic loser and Mob’s like I never said you were friendless :( and just becomes their friend and they instantly decide that even though they’ve known him for 3 hours and he’s kicked their ass if anything happened to Mob they’d kill everyone responsible

[thisblackcathedral]

Goth Posters

random personal project i decided to do, wanted to make a bunch of posters revolving around goth music i love.

[cosmonautroger]

Joy Division, Disorder