another thing i've Witnessed in all spheres of modern feminism is who gets afforded the grace of "internalized misogyny" vs who just gets called a "misogynist"
like if you are a feminine cis girl (& usually white too) all your sexist bullshit is excused as internalized misogyny that was pushed on them by a sexist society that they have to unlearn but in the meantime we cannot hold them accountable or be too mean to them bc they're traumatized and trying :((((( so if you call out their sexism, YOU are in fact being a woman-hating bitch/dyke/etc who hates girls and girlhood
but...... if you are a trans woman or you're butch or a stud or a woman of color and you say anything even perceived as sexist, oh no no you do NOT get the grace of "internalized misogyny". you don't get time to learn or grow. you are a sexist and you should be shot and you might as well be a man.
and usually the latter group's "misogyny" is just pointing out the other group's double standards and sexism which gets us called not girls girls and "pick-mes" (used wrong) and sexist etc. like sometimes obviously we ARE misogynistic, everyone is, but usually it's over the dumbest shit and even in the cases where someone in the latter group is being genuinely sexist, they are NOT given the same grace as the former group
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I can't believe that septa rhaenyra scene is real. IMAGINE ALICENT'S FUCKING POV..... imagine you're on your knees praying and when you open your eyes your ex bestie with whom you are actively at war but also still have hella unresolved homoerotic tension with, is just... right there beside you dressed as a fucking nun. INSANE
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what your fave parx album (or technically ep) says about you, imo:
- airplane conversations:
we get it youre scene
- blacklight:
we get it youre emo and youve got Big Dreams
- cluster:
youre probably a bit of a simp and just generally in your head a lot, also oo pretty grunge aesthetics
- double dare:
warped tour has shaped half of your personality, the other half has been shaped by your middle school experiences. youve got taste, but youre probably nostalgic or a parx elitist
- entertainment:
youre DEFINITELY a simp, and it has bitten you in the ass your whole life. but hey at least youre fun at parties
- fandom:
youve been thru enough relationship problems to start your own couples counseling probably (but it wont be a great one because you still dont know how to get over your ex(es))
- greatest hits:
congrats on the adhd diagnosis, but condolences about The Horrors. youre the friend that looks the most put together but has the most unhealthy coping mechanisms of the group
- intellectual property:
you either have bpd, have been in too many relationships with people who have it, or youre the parx fan who will be least embarrassed to have control of the aux because a lot of it can be found on the radio (but if you play any from this youll get a sideeye)
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i never thought i would ever refer to depression like a thing of the past, i never thought i would have a healthy relationship with my mother, i never thought i would have any kind of relationship with my father, i never though i’d sleep without the help of medication again, i never thought i would feel the kind of joy only a great new read or a life changing movie or a baby laughing at just the right time or a specific ray of sun kissing my skin at the perfect angle can bring again. and yet. and yet. and yet.
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read a D&D idea where it's like "your bard wants to fuck around with all the npcs? ok. roll for pregnancy then."
and i'm sitting here like... 'is this a consequence???'
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self indulgent modern AU Yvonne doodle
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since vi got me curious on mbti compatibility with our f/o's decided why not do it (but add in my ex's and crushes)
I'm an INFP (went from INTP to ISTP to INFP over the years, INFP is my recent result lmfao)
venti (entp) = 85%
yumi/wanderer (intj) = 92%
lyney (entp) = 85%
heizou (entp) = 85%
lilia (entp) = 85%
ex's
ayato (entj) = ...93%
idia (intp) = 85%
crushes (because why not)
gaming (enfj) = 99% (?!)
sethos (estp) = 94%
cyno (istp) = 93%
gorou (isfj) = 86%
rolo (intj) = 92%
my thoughts
do i have a thing for entp types what the fuck???? WHY IS LITERALLY A FOURTH OF MY F/O'S ENTP??? love how yumi is the highest out of everyone that's so fucking funny to me i can't 💀
also gaming being 99% is actually so shocking...is this why i was so enamored by him??? should this be my sign to make him my f/o? also how is it that my crushes have better compatibility with me then my actual f/o's???
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Had a friend dare me to do this with a “no balls? you won’t???” so it’s time to edge my brains out!! (to prove a point of course not because of anything else /s)
Edging note time!
Every note on this post is an edge I have to do before I can cum again, and every ask is 5 edges! I have to respond to asks and make an updated tally of edges received through asks on every ask I answer!! Notes and asks to add to this will be open for the next 5 days (until the 17th!) I’ll be on no touch until this ends (horrendous but what’s a lil fun without being an aroused frustrated mess??) if you have any mantras you want me to repeat while edging, make sure to include it in your ask <3333
let’s hope this doesn’t go too far >_<
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Attention yall if u want me to draw a agere thingy pls ask me im bored :P
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i am so sexy and multitalented (successfully cut my nails by holding the clippers in my mouth and biting down)
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