that’s why i usually don’t say “cis men” instead of just men because too many trans men on this site have proven over and over again that they are not exempt from parroting the exact same misogynistic rhetoric as cis dudes. that’s cool if your gender is ‘spicy’ but you’re still a guy!
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dandelion talks about how when he died it was like he was floating in a sea of black, and the paladin, lafavel, tries to talk him into finding a deity because he's worried about this warlock's soul*
*it doesn't work. dande gets defensively antagonistic
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Living with Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors
Me: *Is super stressed over life.*
Trichotillomania: Time to pull some hair! C'mon. You won't even notice you're doing it. It'll make you feel better.
Me: NO. *Spends 4 days putting hair in a mini twist protective style* There.
Dermatillomania: Hey. Your hands are free. And restless. And dry... Pick your skin. Bleed. Bleed.
Me: Stop! *Starts up a new crochet project to keep hands busy.* Ok cool.
Onychophagia: Hi hi. Your nails are.... perfect biting length... you should do that.
Me: Noooooooooooo *Paints nails.*
Dermatillomania: Oh look, you got some nail polish on your skin. Pick it off... now pick some more...
Me: SDJAKFDSJFKLDKAFDJKLAFJDKSAKLFDASL
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how on earth can someone be so stubborn and resistant to change?? emilien keeps shooting wildly at the targets without hitting a thing it’s so ridiculous
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also it's so funny the rory/dean/tristan dynamic is so incredibly similar to the rory/dean/jess dynamic like the second tristan has left the show, jess is the one getting on dean's nerves and messing with their relationship LIKE the exact same conflict truly, they could've done something less love triangle-y, could've just let rory fall for jess and break up with dean but noooo
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Sometimes situations are so easy to get out of if you just listen to what the other person is saying and apologize genuinely but bitches just double down on their shitty behavior and get surprised when people get mad at them
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Anyone in fandom aged 18-21 I am BEGGING you to please treat older queers with respect. Please be fucking normal
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im sorry i didnt mean to be mean i was thinking of the absolute worst possible shipping options 😭
Lmao you're good, if anything it made me way less embarrassed about the real answer or literally any other thing I've ever liked
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I have good and bad news (for me; anyone else reading this probably won't give a damn). I think my advanced case of Paget brain is subsiding - almost like I had a fever that broke? It's good news because the obsession was not actually serving me anymore, it was a mechanism for avoiding some important things I'm working on irl. It's bad news because there is a certain amount of fun to be had when part of your brain is on fire in such a manner, and I was having that fun.
I still love Emily Prentiss and I still enjoy much of Paget Brewster's work, and yes I'd love to see her on stage if the opportunity is ever available to me. And I'm still "looking forward" to new CM in November (it will disappoint me! can't wait!)
But somehow I have a reprieve!! I am free (ish)!!
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THANK YOU LLAMA!! (signed an OC writer who has seen all the exact shit you talk about!)
I got you babes. I know how they do you oc writers, the moment you speak they automatically HOSTILE toward you, shammin you, being a dick.
"HOW DARE YOU REQUEST WE WRITE, I ALREADY FOLLOWED YOU BACK. NOW WE HAVE TO INTERACT?!?!?!? YOU DARE WISH TO INTERACT IN AN RP FANDOM?! THE AUDACITY! WIRTING AS A CANON IS HARD ENOUGH ALREADY! UHHHHHHHGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!"
Bitches, you don't even DESERVE those canons the way you do others. Outright shameful and disrespectful. And YOU want oc writers to respect YOU? How many of you fuckwads actually READ their fucking rules?
I bet yas too damned lazy.
That's the main dirty secret they don't want to be exposed. They may be busy at times, but you oc writers/ some canon writers know damn well that they just lazy. They ain't got time for ocs, why? Their lil "cliques", you know. That childish shit we do in high school/middle school? The sad thing? They actually think they are 'cool kids'. When in reality, they just like us.
WE DON'T ADMIRE YOU FOR THE RECORD, WE ACTUALLY IN THE FANDOMS STRONGLY DISLIKE YOU AND BLAME YOU FOR FANDOMS DEATHS.
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met an Ao'nung, I think he's a fictive iirc? but uhm. oh no. Literally just seeing him there is enough to make me chest feel weird and I asked the server we're in about what "irayo" means and he's the one who answered and. fuck.
I don't know why I'm reacting this way, like I know him and he knows me, because I don't and he definitely does not. Interacting with an Ao'nung before getting any memories of him has proved to be really fucking weird and I hope I get my shit together. This Ao'nung is not that Ao'nung. Not my Ao'nung whatever that means.
Doesn't help that he's a fictive so I feel really guilty feeling like this since I feel like I'm feeling the same way other people do when they learn about one of my factives. ughh
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You guys act like Austin Powers is some timeless unproblematic nostalgia piece but my partner and I ran into him at the grocery store recently and when we tried to tell him how big a fans we were of his work he didn't even look at us just start footworkin on my bitch so hard we both died it was honestly embarrassing behavior....
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