#fictosexuality

[chillyneon]

I like that the ficto and selfship community has only continued to grow since ye olde days of internet.

I remember that fictosexual wasn't even a major term, so there wasn't much of a way to look for others. Hell I remember getting dogpiled a couple times for using the term because people assumed it was attention seeking. So I couldn't use the term and find any actual results for many years.

We all just kinda stood around thinking we were the only people like this, and maybe there's something severely wrong because no one else feels this way. Hell, even when asking my therapists they thought self shipping sounded like a wonderful thing for me and coping with trauma or stress. So being unable to find others like me was so frustrating because I just wanted to know I wasn't fuckin alone in my passion for fiction.

That was like, 20 years ago, the Internet has exploded since then. And now look, the community has grown so much, selfshipping is more common enough we can actually find content on a tag filled to the brim. We can fucking TALK about self shipping and being ficto and attracted to fictional characters. Hell, just able to say I'm fictosexual feels nicer than it did years back. Is everything perfect for us? No, people can still be douches and say mean things, but we have far more folks doing their best to spread the fun things about being ficto and self shipping.

It makes me smile that I can type in ficto or selfship and be witness to the gorgeous menagerie of people loving their F/Os or folks saying their fav things about self shipping. To see people going feral over their loves and gushing about every detail. Seeing folks finding themselves and exploring their ficto feelings, seeing people create things because they love their F/Os so goddamn much. It just makes me happy to see it. Things aren't perfect, but I'm glad we're all able to find that we're not alone.

You're not alone or weird for loving fictional characters, there's plenty more of us out there and you don't have to stop when you get older. It's not just a phase for many, it's how we are and how we love and you don't have to grow out of it. I'm in my goddamn 30s and the only thing that's changed about my selfshipping is I got even more F/Os to love from the past few decades.

It's just nice to be ficto knowing others are also out their loving and selfshipping with fictional favs. <333333

[fictolove]

Fictosexuality IS valid!

Fictoromantism IS valid!

Treating your relationships as real relationships IS valid and not weird!

Your partner/f/o(s) loves you very much and your relationship with them is very valid!

Don't listen to haters or "fictophobes" and remember to take care of yourself because it's what your partner/f/o(s) wants! 💞

[fictional-others]

The best feeling in the world is coming back to one of your f/o’s you used to be in love with, then falling in love with them again.

It’s like taking a blanket out of the dryer and wrapping yourself in it.

Your f/o’s will always have their arms open for you, no matter how long it’s been.

[sirensea14]

A drawing of my sona :))

She's a loser, baby.

[leosabi]

promo (●'◡'●)

hiii my name is Leo (it/he) and my husband is Wasabi from Big Hero 6! im fictosexual and a self shipper and also objectum, i consider my wasabi plush my partner as much as the character!

i seen people doing promos today and it's been a very very long time since i did one and i would love new mutuals so here <3

check out my byf please!

[sumthinganarchy]

I hate having obscure f/os, like why do I self ship with a sim

[true-autistic-tales]

you ever just glance at a character and know for a fact that they're going on the f/o list?

[mocharaycookie]

hey, ever wanted to join a server of people who understand and embrace the experience of the label

well, here's a new server for that. yet another server who are in relationships and in love with fictional characters, and wish to communicate with fellow fictos.

sfw/all ages, friendly crew!

poly-friendly of both 2d/2d and 2d/3d varieties

unconventional f/os not only allowed, but accepted and encouraged

f/os that are above the age of consent and self-aware enough to in the first place only. no lolicons, a nice change of pace.

there is a verification process before you are fully let into the server for safety purposes.

we are very niceys. won't bite, so please join us in our growing efforts to community!

if this link is dead, please dm my tumblr for a new one!

[eliyafreeman]

🧡💗 INTRODUCTION 💗🧡

Real Love is temporary, Fictional Characters are forever <3

About the s\i, me ! <3

ʚ Eliya\Eli\Gordie 💗 She\Her\They\Them 🧡 lvl 18 💗 Aquarius 🧡 Infp 💗 Atheist ɞ

☢️ Am I new to the Selfship Community? Nope ! Done it for years but finally found out about and joined the community since january from Twitter !! (It is dying so I came here-)

☢️ What will I be posting? Selfship stuff and arts I make, me and my f/o (mainly !) and some reblogs of cute f/o imagines !!

☢️ My motives? To normalize selfshipping, Fictosexuality and Fictophilia !! It is helping to all of us in so many ways. if it's coping, to cure trauma, or anything else <3

☢️ Other stuff abt me? Yes! I'm Pansexual, Demisexual, Demigirl, Fictosexual !! And I'm a Half-Life Girl !! (Not a part of the game's community or fandom for protective reasons.), I have Tourettes, PTSD, ADHD and BPD. and Gordie is my non-binary side name ! <3

About my f\o ! <3

💗 Gordon Freeman from Half-Life !! 💗

☢️ Headcanons ? Yes !!

LGBTQ headcanons:

Transmasc, Pansexual, Demisexual

Random headcanons:

Religion; Atheist

Height; 183cm

Personality; tough, strong and stoic around others but only around me alone he shows his soft self

he has PTSD and ADHD

(May add more !)

Pronouns: He\Him

☢️ Other stuff ? Yes !!

❥ He is muted

❥ He is a Theoretical Physicist

❥ Is lvl 27 (i am not a minor anymore so that ain't an issue !!)

❥ has 3 brothers; Felix, John and Wyatt (he is the biggest of them all)

(May add more !)

☢️ What is he for me? My husband ! <3

☢️ Date of him becoming my f/o? July 30th, 2022 \ anniversary date; December 13th, 2022

☢️ Comfortable with sharing?

No ! Canon x Canons or Selfships/Selfshippers including him are My Severe Triggers !! It is very important to me to protect myself and to keep my selfship space safe !! (may block specific accounts but I have filtered tags, but won't be spreading hate on other selfshippers !!)

Side Note: if your f/o list does include him as platonic or familial i will be uncomfortable as well for various reasons but if your f/o list doesn't include him at all you're perfectly fine for me to interact with. I just love that he's mine alone, and that is it.

So please, CanonxCanons/Selfshippers with him DNI, tysm !! ❤

Other Stuff !! <3

☢️ Tags and Pair names !

#🧡| Gordeliya Freemeli |💗

#🧡| HEV Suited Lovers |💗

#Gordeliya Freemeli

#Gordon Freeman x Eliya Freeman

#Lambda Roses

#🧡☢️x🌹💗

#🧡💗| My Freeman !! <3

☢️ TWs (Trigger Warnings) !

Yandere, Obsessive Love and my delusional being (reality is your playground, play around with it !!)

Blood and Weapons (in drawings and in posts I upload/repost of the game)

nsfw content I may upload or repost !! Filter these tags that I made for y'all so you'll stay comfy !! #nsfw warning ‼️💗 #suggestive warning ‼️💕

DNI !! <3

DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU ARE ANY OF THOSE !! IF INTERACTED YOU WILL BE BLOCKED !!

Sexist / Racist / LGBTQIA+phobic / Antisemitic / Freemanphobic / MAPs / Pr*ship / C*mship / Sh*ta / Lo*i / In*est / Toxic Shippers,Selfshippers / Supporters of toxic cringe culture / Antisemitics / N*zis / T*rfs / NFTs,AI Art / Pro SH,ED

Social Media !! <3

☢️ SpaceHey - https://spacehey.com/eliyafreeman

☢️ FriendProject - https://www.friendproject.net/eliyafreeman

☢️ Discord - eliyafreeman

☢️ Bluesky (twt alternative) -

♡ !! NEW !! - Click here to browse stuff abt my ship !! Art, refs and etc !! (Google Drive Folder) ♡

Ending !! <3

Will be happy to make selfship moots !! 💗, I will be happy to interact and be friends with you and support your selfship !!

See y'all on the flip side !! 💗🧡

Blinkies were made in blinkies.cafe !! Check it out <3

[oceanmoonlune]

[killerkyw]

my favorite part of the new update is when kanelkeeper kissed <3

[anya-ackerman]

Wanted to try one of those reblog games I’ve seen people in the community do!

So, reblog this with a picture of your f/o as well as their name and, in the spirit of the upcoming Halloween spirit, I’ll tell you what I think would be a good couple’s costume for you and your f/o this Halloween! 🎃

[fictional-others]

Reminder that it’s okay to be aro ace and selfship romantically. It’s okay to be a lesbian and selfship romantically with male characters. It’s okay to be one thing with real people and it’s different with your f/o(s). You’re absolutely valid, and don’t let anyone tell you different!

[treasure-of-eden]

IbaJade commission by @/030_Akiidos on twt!

Me with my bf (and Eden got a new member hehe <3)

[sumthinganarchy]

Baking with millennial tree!!! <333