kidology the youtuber just came out as a lesbian and she was talking about how disappointed she was because it meant now she had an even slimmer chance of finding love in the modern dating hellscape.
and i just found it so funny because when i realized i liked women i was so happy because it meant that my odds of finding someone who wouldn't kill me and make my life a living hell had increased
i had always seen my chances of finding love among men 1% and thought that might be too idealistic. bisexuality gave me a better shot at marriage and romance.
that being said, i'm still entirely single and have lost hope :)
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okay i know pretty little liars is all around a bad show and tbh although i have seen all seasons I've never by any means been a hardcore fan, it was more just a thing i saw now and again with my sibling as "mindless television". But you will never not convince me that there are no homoerotic undertones to mona vanderwaal and hanna marin's relationship. They were literally lesbians it always seemed so obvious to me
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I am so sorry for sending like 500 asks a day BUT it must be said your tags about Alison Gordon are completely correct, she literally is such a good character and people are SO mean to her for no reason and it breaks my heart!
Don't ever apologize for sending asks, I love them <3
But for real!!!! Like she never deserves this much hate!!!! So many depictions of her make her adversarial to Lawrence and like a huge Bitch and nothing else. Which just like. Breaks my heart.
Prepare for a long ramble about her, bus especially in the context of Chainshipping.
Like the reality of her?
She is a strong protective woman who cares about her child and her husband and wants her relationships to be valued and she's just trying to do her best!!! Like I'm all about Chainshipping, but like. To make Alison the Evil Bitch who stands in the way of that is hmmm. Not where it's at.
My favorite versions of her (in the context of Chainshiping) is someone who may (or more realistically, or may not!) initially understand Lawrence being gay. If she immediately understands great! More power to her, if she was married to him, she would most likely be the first one to pick up Lawrence is gay. If she doesn't, equally understandable!
Because, (Gasp! A woman side character with complex feelings???) any feeling of being betrayed or lied to when a previously long and lengthy relationship ends because of said partner's self discovery of sexual orientation is an immediate real human reaction, especially within the context of a relationship that has a child involved.
And I'm not saying it's the kind or accepting or most correct instinct, but it's an understandable feeling to have, and Alison, depending on your interpretation of her, is absolutely allowed to have such complex feelings. She's human and complex and allowed to think wrong things and make mistakes.
But, Alison doesn't strike me as a person who would hold that sort of resentment for long. She might be confused at first as to how Lawrence could have claimed to love her (but, deep down, she knows he didn't) and how he could have had a child with her (As, unless you are familiar with hetronormative closeting and family building, it would be confusing!), but she'd educate herself and move on.
She would never want Diana to pick up resentment or hatred of her father from her. She fought and bled and attacked a man bodily to protect her daughter, so why would she ever want to damage her daughter's relationship with her father? She wants the best for both Diana and Lawrence, as well.
She would be, in the end, I think, supportive and happy for her ex's happiness. Like that's literally all she wants!!! She wants Lawrence to have passion!!!! To be happy!!! She literally says that!!!
She's willing to accept Lawrence's hatred of her as long as it inspires some genuine feelings within Lawrence!!! She wants him to be fully alive and feeling and living!!! She wouldn't stand in the way of Lawrence achieving that!!!
And we, the fandom, forget that about her.
It's a fine line to walk when there's a canon straight ship that 'gets in the way' of a fandom popular gay ship, but please, please, please, everyone. Value and stop demonizing Alison Gordon 2kforever.
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Alright, so don't get mad at me, but I've been thinking of this:
So "the clown got stabbed", right? The entire show has been a sorta drama in disguise with all the comedy, and so it definitely doesn't half-ass the pirate life and their whole deal as pirates.
And so what if, Lucius is alive, but his whole "death" was a warning? I.e., what if this was our taste of "the clown got stabbed" to foreshadow that all our favs don't have plot armor. So it's not like I'm wishing this to fruition, but...
I think a permanent crewmate death might happen this next season
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