#fucking over it

[spiralgayvatar]

First of all Maybe don’t call bisexual people half straights. They aren’t half anything they are a whole identity. BISEXUAL.

Also WHAT BI PRIVILEGE?! This is genuinely dumb as fuck post and I hope op gets their shit together

And you are insecure honestly considering you are putting down members that are part of our community just because you can’t handle being called out for being a biphobic asshat.

Biphobia is a fucking rampant thing in the community. You don’t have to be bisexual to see that. “Just pick a side.” “Just be gay or straight.” “You’re obviously going to cheat on me.” “Eww you’ve dated men?!” How about shut the fuck up and listen to bisexual people jesus fucking christ.

[audhdnight]

Got muted in three of my Facebook groups this week alone for pointing out ableism because they call it “armchair diagnosis”.

Like bro I didn’t say “this person definitely has pda profile autism” I said “it’s ableist to moan incessantly about how gross it is when people don’t brush their teeth and how disgusting people who struggle with hygiene are, whether this person has a causal condition or not”.

I have since left all three groups because FUCK THAT but also one woman responded to my comment simply saying “yeah as someone who struggles with hygiene I probably shouldn’t have read these comments” and THAT is exactly who I’m speaking up for. I am so sick of getting silenced for defending my own fucking community.

For context: the group I’m specifically referencing in the above example is dedicated to making fun of the trash men who send unsolicited pics and get really really upset when you aren’t impressed. Someone shared a post in that group where a woman told a man she would expect him to brush his teeth multiple times a day, and his response was, verbatim: “That doesn’t work for me. I suggest you find someone you think is better than me. Good luck.”

Like… that’s not even what this group is for??? He said they didn’t click, respectfully cut contact, and wished her well?? He wasn’t even rude! WHAT THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM WITH ANY OF WHAT HE SAID??????

And everyone was in the comments with puke emojis and saying things like “no one should have to ask for basic hygiene” or “there is no excuse for this” or “men are so fucking disgusting”. Like hello casual ableism? Also, men are not the only ones who could struggle with caring for themselves. There are SO. MANY. reasons someone might not brush their teeth often. I personally have a hard time with it because with my adhd I genuinely just forget and with my autism the sensory experience can be a LOT so it’s hard to make myself do it on the rare occasions when I do remember. And I’m definitely not a man, cis or otherwise.

[spinderella-umbrella]

What is your time worth?

Is it worth the two hours travel a day? What about the $50 a week you spend to use the train in addition to your car because you still need one, regardless of the fact your city has adequate infrastructure.

Are you working on the train? I can hear you on the phone talking business. Are you being paid yet?

What about you there, with the laptop open to a presentation? Are you including this time in the total hours you’re being paid for for the week?

Aren’t you tired? Don’t you think you should be able to fit your workload into a standard work week? Don’t you think we should be able to find work in our local areas?

Aren’t you tired???

[blaazeeedbabe]

I’m never fucking good enough ever and I’m so fucking tired of everyone reminding me

[tonbelova25]

When someone tells me: “you’ve ruined my life”

My response: “I’m sorry to hear that” gets up and walks away

[newandimprovedredpanda]

Communication is key.

In any kind of relationship.

Fucking friendship.

Romantic relationships.

How can we be friends if you refuse to communicate anything to me? You can't even tell me why you are having a hard day. You are choosing to be fucking lonely, and distant. Why bother having a "friendship" if you refuse to talk?

[shadestepping]

The graveyard shift descent into madness

[panicismydefaultstate]

I scream out for help, that I’m drowning, and my hand waves frantically as a signal and my limbs flail to keep me afloat while waves crash over me. I can hear their voices, sometimes I can see them on the shore standing and looking at me- why are they looking at me! What aren’t they helping me? I scream louder and they tell me I’m fine, to stop being dramatic, all while water fills my lungs and my will to keep fighting begins to die.

You’re gonna be fine, they say. But I’m convinced they only say it so they can convince themselves that they didn’t need to take my cries seriously.

[ana-actually]

[chronicallyavoidant]

Just saw the bill from my last ER visit. Next time I think I’ll just let myself die

[merrcat]

Fucking over today

[mastermunson86]

Who wants to get stoned off their ass and fuck while Black Sabbath plays in the background? That’s what kind of day it is, so any volunteers are gladly accepted.

[sapphosclown]

if mercury goes in retrograde one more time i swear to god

[garrettrulefivewhitlock]

tannerhouckschewinggum -> garrettrulefivewhitlock

[snailcubezz]

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