#getoveryourself

[tameramann]

This Is Why I Won't Use App's For Dating

On Friday, I let my granddaughter play with my cell phone while cleaning the kitchen. On Saturday, I decided to get on Facebook because it had been a while since I’d been in. To my horror, I found out she somehow added me on the Facebook dating site. It wasn’t intentional, I am sure because she is only three and doesn’t understand those concepts. Long story short, in the three hours it took to…

[ianfichman]

Yea… it’s in your hands. You really are the only person in your way. Here’s to getting out of our own way in the future🍻 • #2023 #thefuture #beyondfear #getoveryourself #signature #ianfichman #dirtyhands #loveyou (at Ian Fichman Sculpture) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm9rbqLOEZK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[puddlez83-blog]

New episode is out!!! This week we’re talking about “something people”. You know, the person that always has some kind of crisis going on and thinks their situation is different/bigger than everyone else. 🙄 These people are a pain in the butt in normal every day life, but imagine being married to one of them. 😳 Hope y’all enjoy this episode, cheers! 🥃 #getoveryourself #yourenotspecial #yourenotalone #mentalhealth #instadaily #newepisode #podcast #husbandandwifepodcast #marriagepodcast (at Broken Arrow, Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cegv0kFl73L/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[desertmile]

Sorry to hear about your lack of motivation, hope it goes away sooner than later! What about Fellswap (Purple) Papyrus sharing a pack of pockys with Mutt?

~ sending love ❤😘

Haha- thats ok. Also this seems a little like a request then a motivation idea xD buuuuut ... couldn't resist drawing the swapfell/fellswaps

Purple trying to convince Mutt to play the pocky game cause why not?

[duranduratulsa]

Some people are just being melodramatic about Twitter switching to X. If this is the biggest problem in your life, you're doing pretty damn good. #Twitter #X #melodrama #overreaction #getoveryourself

[projectourworld]

Flesh Love All - Photographeral. Under the pseudonym Photographerhal, the Japanese photographer Haruhiko Kawaguchi presents a disturbing series of portraits about anxiety for a perfect life, and the design of the self as a personal brand, manufactured for public admiration and consumption : Getxophoto festival – The Guardian #getoveryourself #imaginebetter

[jessiescourt]

This why you shouldn’t emotionally dump on fb. You don’t know who doesn’t have the capacity to deal with your shit but I guess you don’t care about other people like that, you just desperately need them to care about you🚩🚩🚩🤡🤡🤡 #npd #bpd #getoveryourself

This emotional dumping energy when people don’t have the capacity for that shit is what can drive them over the edge to kill themself so maybe think twice before obsessing over yourself & your own pain & maybe, just maybe, you could see theirs for once….

This isn’t to say if you are in pain & need help to not reach out! It just means be mindful where you emotionally dump! If you are struggling get help from a licensed professional. Fb is the wrong place to take your pain. ITS NOT GOING TO HELP YOU! It will prolly make it worse actually

[lil-dizzee]

peOPLe wiLL....

always try and provoke you until they bring out your ugly side, then play the victim when you go there.

[poetrythreesixfive]

Victim

Everyone, one time or another, has been there—

trying your hardest or just minding your business

and someone accuses you of something you didn’t do,

or someone neglects to help you in your time of need,

you are sick, or wounded, or in dire financial straits,

someone gets upset with you over the inconsequential,

your heart is broken, depression takes hold,

and you want and need the world to understand,

to give you a break, extend an hand,

acknowledge your pain.

Understandable—

sometimes, for a spell, but

some seek sympathy with the fervor

of an alcoholic hunting for a bottle,

yearning, aching, whining for a hit,

anything to dull the long, trivial hours

of being ordinary and irrelevant.

If you are addicted to yourself,

to your own sense of persecution,

the cheap, visceral thrill of empathetic eyes

weeping in your favor, the emotional applause

and its innate sense of entitlement,

know that your worst enemy,

your oppressor,

is you.

Victimhood is not

a victimless

crime.

[tcmacdesigns]

Insanity= Doing the same thing expecting the same result! Well, I tried many things, but I'm doing things differently this time! #crazy #notcrazy #tcmacdesigns #PAPERTRAILS #GODWINS #GodOnlyKnows #GraceAbounds #insanityresults #truth #stoplying #growup #getoveryourself #ittakesavillage #twototango #lies #fabrication #entrapment #botched #courtcase (at Killeen, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ8uITlMexI/?utm_medium=tumblr

[abridurif]

Paul Thek

[nativebeautyhailey]

People think I'm whitewashed🙃like bitch you act like natives are suppose to act a certain type of way😂😂we have different type of personality's too🤷🏾‍♀️like geez we ain't 👽we're humans💯🖕🏾PEOPLE💯💯stop tryna control us bitches👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[hopelesscabbage]

Me, a female: *likes cricket*

Every single guy ever: *makes it their mission to test me to prove that I don't even know that much about cricket and want to make themselves feel superior because when a girl likes cricket it hurts their super fragile masculine ego*

[mtd1964]

And once again this is going around, I may aggravate or tick people off for my rant, however I want you to read it before you slander, get angry at me or out right throw a fit. I don’t know how to say it without people thinking this sounds ungrateful. I have nothing wrong with our men and women choosing to serve. I honestly greatly appreciate what they do and have done. I thank them some in person and others through prayer. I also know a few who are happy to have served and are not so receptive (not in a hostile way either) that feel they have to be thanked every day fir what they do or have done. With that being said this is a ongoing social media whoo haa that has been circulating for ages. Some veterans chose to give of themselves by giving services. Others where by circumstance. I just think it’s gotten out of hand with the “I deserve because I served” mentality I’m not jealous and yea they should get things because of it. However I also feel that the ones who came back unharmed both physically and mentally don’t deserve more because they came back. The ones who I see deserve the help and praise are the ones who never came back, the ones who are physically back but not mentally. Yet they are the ones who struggle. Let’s focus on the ones who die at their own hands because their health is gone. The 20 something that die every day! I never was allowed to serve because of a weight issue and family history of illnesses back in the late 80’s (it’s totally different now),do I never served. Yea who doesn’t love a discount. But come on let’s cry about 10% discount as compared to being the two who come knocking at mom and dads door to tell them their 25 year old son or going to the house of his newborn and his young bride to tell them he’s not coming home, he’s not going to see his young daughter...EVER... meanwhile I want my$1.50 off on that 2x4!!! Yea oh so worth it!!!!! NOT #homedepot #military #rant #getoveryourself #loveourservicemenandwomen #godblessthosewhoserve #strongertogether #mentalhealth #somegaveall https://www.instagram.com/p/B5FKhy2JZY9/?igshid=128dbjp710hx3

[audrak79]

Are you a “Millennial” in your walk with God?

We often poke fun at our younger generations (the Millennials/Generation Y and the Gen Z kids).  We talk about their lack of independence, their entitlement, their selfishness, and inability to think through things.  We’ve all seen the memes.  We’ve all experienced it.  I work at a busy law office.  I have 4th year college interns, some honors students and Dean’s List kids, yet they have no clue how to address an envelope, use a land line, have never written a check, or don’t even know what a deposit slip is. Their cell phone takes priority over ANYTHING.   We laugh about it.   I don’t want these younger generations to think I am picking on them, I mean I am but I also understand that this is a result of our society and what they have told us is normal.  Hmmmm, ROMANS 12:2 can’t be preached enough.  Anyway, what I just realized is that this is how Christians act with their faith.  WHAT!?!?!  Yes.  I’m serious.  Think about it.  There is no independence.  There’s the expectation for the Pastor to “feed you” spiritually.  The entitlement of the gift of salvation without the realization of what that cost was (why the price has to be paid to begin with) and what that really means you are to do with your new life.  The selfishness of doing everything for self and nothing for His kingdom or for HIS GLORY.  And the inability to think things through, because if you did you wouldn’t be doing the last 3 things I listed.   We all show up on Sunday, listen (or sleep through) the sermon, sing a little or maybe just clap your hands to the music. We smile as we leave, greet a few people that we greet every week.  Then you leave the building, and nothing happens until 7 days later when you do the same thing as the week before.   We get hung up on self that we lose sight of the most incredible selfless act ever performed, Christ’s death on the cross.  Sure, you think about it when you take communion.  But if you are truly realizing what that means, why are you still stuck in this weekly routine?  How often does the Bible get picked up and read from Sunday afternoon through Saturday night? How often are you praying and giving thanks for even the breath in your lungs?  How often are you sharing what God has done in your life with others?  How often are you sacrificing something to give to someone else?  1 John 3:17 is pretty clear: “If anyone has material possessions and see a brother or sister in need but has not pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?”  It’s great to join a fundraiser for your favorite cause, attend a banquet dinner, march for awareness, etc.  But this is supposed to be part of our EVERYDAY life.  Not just the occasional event.  Are you filling your calendar and saying “God, please bless this and get me through!”?  Or are you asking God, “Lord, please fill my calendar with what You say is important for Your kingdom and Your people.”  When we put self first, where is Holy Spirit supposed to fit in?  Put Him first and I guarantee you everything else will fall in line.  The Mary Kay business has great skincare and cosmetics, but guess what else, it is a model of GOD FIRST, FAMILY SECOND, CAREER THIRD.  God comes first.  He comes before your spouse (when you put God first, you are honoring your spouse).  He comes before your kid’s ball game (there will be more and if you are teaching your kids right, they will understand).  He comes before your career (He will guide you through your workday if you let Him).  It’s time for self examination.  What have you ignored, neglected, or put off because of self, your spouse, your kids, or your job came first?  Your spiritual growth? Serving God’s people? Giving of your possessions because you aren’t comfortable without them?  (OUCH!)  Or maybe you are afraid others will be weirded out if you put your priorities where they should be.  Maybe you’re afraid of what others will think if you miss a game or if you pray in public.   Maybe you ae afraid to let go and dance or cry during worship because someone else would see you, or because your knees became so week at His presence that you fell to your knees or just couldn’t stand.  Guess what.  It doesn’t matter what others think.  IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU!  It’s about Jesus.  It’s about taking up your cross and following Him.  It’s about sacrifice and doing it for His sake, not your own. So I encourage you. Dance and jump like crazy, sing even if it doesn’t sound good, cry, pray out loud, love and serve others daily.  Feed yourself by reading your Bible, attending a retreat, finding quiet time alone, joining a study group, seeking wise counsel, or by being wise counsel to someone else.   Be an example inside and outside the church.  When someone prays, join them.  If someone falls because they are so aware of Holy Spirit’s presence, catch them or hit your knees with them.  Things don’t happen when we wait for someone else to do it for us or by remaining comfortable.  Things happen when we rise up and listen to Holy Spirit speak. So are you a hypocrite?  Are you laughing at the meme’s and society’s new norm yet doing the same in your walk with Christ?  You can change that.  Don’t conform, be transformed. Let the scriptural norm be revived and put to death the societal norm.  Lord Jesus, I pray that help me step out and make me uncomfortable.  Lord I pray for opportunities to love your people.  I pray my eyes are open to these opportunities.  I pray that I let go of self and pick up your agenda that you would have for me.  Thank you Lord for the breath you provide so that we can do Your work.  Thank you that You are not finished with me yet.  I love you Lord!  Amen.  09/30/19