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hey this isn’t aimed at anyone in particular but I’m saying it for the record here: if I tell you no, please stop messaging me about fundraisers and mutual aid.
I get enough messages that it’s impossible for me to keep up without devoting at least half an hour each day, when I’m not even on tumblr that long most days. Me having a boundary about this isn’t a moral failing, it’s a lifeboat for me on my own blog.
In my personal life I’m already advocating and donating literally as much as I can spare. This is not me not caring, it’s just me not willing to interact with that on the one place I go online to not interact with irl news and world events for the most part.
I cannot be upset all the time. I cannot be upset everywhere. I cannot use all my emotional and mental energy fielding my own upset from ongoing events. My options are to hold boundaries about this or stop coming online at all.
I’m all for sharing information and signal boosting to reasonable extents, but the scale of it this year is so large and so enduring that it is literally not possible to for me to participate on every account I have. I’ve previously shared links to Gaza eSIM donations and a major hub of verified Go Fund Mes here and elsewhere online. We, the online humans, know how to look those things up ourselves by now. There are many, many people choosing to do advocacy work, and right now, I can’t be one of them.
If you’re extremely upset when I tell you I can’t share/donate right now about a Gaza family or personal fundraiser you ask me to share here, just unfollow and block me. That’s what those buttons are for. Protect your own emotions and energy and get me off your feed instead of staying upset and continuing to engage with online people or content that upsets you.
Please don’t send repeated angry messages based on manufactured purity politics and moral outrage into my messages and inbox when I exercise the right to run my own blog.
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happy valentine’s day yall :-) !
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10 likes and I open a fourth personal instagram account that I actually use to connect with family, friends and acquaintances
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Can somebody who knows how to use a cellphone tell me how to fix the "text in mobile browser is suddenly super fucking tiny and zooming in just makes every other element on the page huge to the point of being unusable" issue?
Screenshot on the left is how it used to be, screenshot in the middle is how it is now all of a sudden for some reason, screenshot on the right is what it looks like if I try to use any accessibility features to fix it.
This problem is why I never switched from Chrome to Firefox because Firefox has always had this problem, but now naturally Chrome started it up too. I am at my wit's END my dudes. My vision is super impaired and I CAN'T FUCKING SEE
(FWIW, for some reason some websites like Wikipedia remain unaffected by this still, but most have this same issue. And naturally AO3 is one of the most egregious cases because I can't have nice things.)
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me: I am going to write a little fanfic out of this dream I had with funny little robot guys.
me, but 19k words later: girl help I am exploring themes of disability, chronic pain, ableism, subculture, systemic oppression, PTSD, aging, neurodivergence, community, forgiveness, healing, and recovery. with funny little robot guys.
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i love your art style so much, it's rad as hell. how long have you been drawing? :o
you mean the goofy little sketches i do from time to time? if so, that's really kind of you to say!!! that said, i wouldn't necessarily say they're the peak of my drawing abilities though, since i just draw with a mouse.
i use to draw a lot when i was growing up, though after getting Gmod for the first time, and subsequently SFM, i moved over into those programs to make my art, and kinda stopped drawing from that point.
i don't normally draw a whole lot these days, but when it comes to how i draw the stuff above, really i just find the messiness of using a mouse to draw really goofy, that and it's kinda nice to draw stuff without it needing to be perfect. it's just silly lines.
but regardless, thank you for the kind words, im glad you like my silly stuff
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one day ppl online are gonna have to learn that there's no way to cordon off "male" sexuality as uniquely bad and gross without just ending up saying sexuality is bad and gross on the whole (conservative, reactionary, dangerous, tired)
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its me and my 15+ sideblogs against the world..
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me scrolling my dash from 2016 and 2020 when i didnt even have this account, seeing posts from people who are now friends who i hadnt even met yet then: ohhh this is how the doctor feels
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Hello everyone! I’m pow and this is me thanking everyone for enjoying my work!!
I haven’t drawn selfishly in YEARS.
I can’t remember the last time I was this happy with my own art. It’s all selfish. All self-indulgent. I never expected so many people to show up and love my drawings. It genuinely is a shock to me, a bit overwhelming and ngl I have all my social media muted because I cannot handle knowing people have their eyes on me and my art. BUT despite me doing that for my own mental sanity. I very much value and appreciate the support that I get from people who are cheering for me to continue on being selfish and happy while drawing silly hedgehogs… so. Thank you again for supporting me ��
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not really the type who likes posting their ocs much but here's a Nim :}
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I am the nail growth self saboteur!!
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Hello! I was wondering if you write fic, and if so, where do you post it? I love your blog, and I wanted to know if you had more content out there! Thank you so much.
So.... Okay. Here's the thing. I do write a lot of stuff but mainly for myself. I don't really post it ever.
I do have an AO3 account and I did write about 93% of a story on there but honestly I'm really bad about consistently uploading and it was stressing me out so much that I didn't want to do it anymore.
You can read it if you want to, it's a YJ (the show) fic about Wally and Dick going undercover at a summer camp for baby geniuses, it's almost 30,000 words but I will warn you that (even though the ending is fully planned) it's not finished.
And also I wrote this a while ago and it's not really up to par with my writing skills now. It's not bad but it makes me cringe whenever I try to reread it.
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when more masadai art😔 pls, u have gotten me addicted to their dynamic and im hungry for more...
be the change you want to see in the world my brother..... i believe in you.......
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If your first instinct is to gaslight ppl who enjoy things every time they reblog smth that personally triggers you maybe they’re not the one with problematic behavior.
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