saw a video of a butch talking about how they can tell someone is femme just by feeling, Not by how they present themselves. they said that no matter how you (femmes) present, butches will always be able to clock you and that just filled me with so much warmth! I love butches so much mwah mwah mwah kissing you all on the mouth
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what do u mean i cant wrap her voice around me like a weighted blanket. r u sure? can i at least try
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Love butchfemme couples where the femme looks like she has a 10 step skincare routine, perfectly done nails, reads classic lit and does yoga, and the lovestruck butch is holding onto her wrist trailing from behind like a rescue dog she found in an alleyway chewing on a wrench
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whats in my bag this whats in my bag that. butches whats on your carabiner
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Nothing's hotter than watching my pretty girl squirm and squeal while I hold her against my face and eat her out until she can't take it anymore
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realizing im a lesbian (and stone) has changed me so much. i noticed im much more confident in myself and my body especially, ive let go of so much guilt and shame i felt. the idea of dating again is EXCITING! i hated the idea of getting married and having kids but now im fantasizing about my wedding day and having a WIFE and potentially having a family????? making community literally changed my life i love lesbians <3
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Me and my femme fr @sweeter-than-cherries
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"it's a bad look for a butch to tell femmes not to infantilize themselves" have you considered the infantilization of femmes directly contributes to and fuels the demonization, dehumanization, and sexualization of butches/studs? and to further claim that to infantilize yourself is to be hyperfeminine or ofos? unbelievable.
femmes abuse butches/studs. femmes cause interpersonal harm in their communities. femmes enforce harmful institutions. this is especially common among white, cis, gender-conforming, abled, and skinny femmes. asking femmes to consider themselves as full human beings shouldn’t be a big ask. and when you take into account how butches/studs are constantly being treated and the subsequent disbelief that a butch/stud could ever be hurt by such a sweet feminine person, how dare you even suggest that it's somehow "policing" or "invalidating" for a butch/stud to defend themselves against rhetoric that actively harms them?
butches/studs and gnc femmes are not oppressing you by asking you to consider how your gender-conformity, strict american housewife femininity, and rampant infantilization impact others and yourself.
if you can’t consider the fact that you can be causing harm or even be critical of yourself, you have no vested interest in community and should not call yourself a femme. the end.
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anyways i’m a dyke harringrove truther
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