#i um just like thinking abt gender and sexuality

[alstroemerian-dragon]

ITS OKAY IM A TRANSFEM KAZ TRUTHER TOO

HELL YEAH HELL YEAH HELL YEAH 🤝🤝🤝

IT JUST MAKES TOO MUCH SENSE TO ME. nothing against transmasc kaz enjoyers but her specific brand of Toxic Masculinity is so Unaware Egg. To Me

[izzyliker]

i was thinking abt this earlier but i guess a criticism i have of whipping girl is the characterization of the instinctual sexing of people with sort of understanding of like, um, womanhood/femaleness as a “lack” of, as in that people scan for indicators of maleness and in their absence the person is then identified as a woman, which i think isn’t that uncommon as an argument in some outgrowths of transfeminism irt having gone thru a testosterone based puberty to the point where many are now arguing that estrogen is “weak” because its effects are in practice degendered unlike testosterone which IS gendered (as male) and thus you can “undo” estrogen and thus “femaleness” much easier than you can “undo” testosterone and thus “maleness” bc That’s what you’re scanned for first and only in the absence of those sexed traits are you identified as female. which like, i obviously do agree that womanhood and femaleness is framed as a “lack of” and transitioning is seen as “losing” instead of “gaining,” but i also think the sexual objectification of Women is much more active and much bigger of a component in how people do Gender Perception to each other, like i said yesterday re cishet men generally seeing women passively as a sex object that can talk back to you. which iirc serano also talks about wrt “losing” socially bc womanhood and femininity is performing sexuality because being a woman is about being a sex object for cishet consumption. which is again also why a lot of cishet men have an incredibly visceral disgust violent reaction to any person they instinctively categorize as a woman but who is doing it wrong in a way they can’t grapple with, and why so many teenage boys are so incredibly unflinchingly sexually violent towards tomboys or transmascs the same way they & grown adult men are towards trans girls & women, because the gendering of a body isn’t just about the lack of manhood but more critically about whether they are fuckable enough

[fvedyetor]

sigma balls

💔 An angsty headcanon

🏳️‍🌈 A sexuality headcanon

🏳️‍⚧️ A gender headcanon

👽 A headcanon about a weird quirk of there

💔: ooohh yk me and my angst. um. an old idea i had was that sigma has red ink instead of blood bc book/page ykyk. its angsty bc it just adds to sigma not being really human!! even chuuya can bleed, and sigma cant. hes super sad abt it!!

🏳️‍🌈: bi. because everyone is bi unless otherwise stated. i think aro sigma is cool tho i think hed be insecure abt it and struggle with it a lot. until aro!ranpo relates to him and helps him thru it (sigran <3)

🏳️‍⚧️: I CANT PICK HELP i love transmasc sigma i love transfem sigma i love genderqueer sigma i love all the sigmas!! except cis. i do make a lot of transmasc sigma stuff bc im a trans guy so like. my experience influences it. but the other trans sigmas are so cool!! my pfp is transfem sigma <3

👽: i think sigma would be good at spinning pens like. like cool spins. like colorguard people do with their flags, sigma can do with pens. and guns too for that matter i suppose. sigma is shaky bc anxiety but hes very calm with his hands the pen spins help him and his anxiety.

ty for the ask kai <3

[suffarustuffaru]

I'd love to hear more about Otto and Natsumi Schwartz if you have anymore thoughts on them

hah once again ty for all the cool asks its been fun answering them :o !! and arghhhhh otto and natsumi......................................... i have many thoughts.

ive been planning on making a comprehensive otto queer analysis post for a while - just bc i think my thoughts on reading otto as queer are kinda spread across different posts of mine HAH and i dont normally write very formally with proper grammar in most of my analysis posts, even (...i normally save that for my school essays...... </3) but id love to make an actual formal analysis just for the topic of queer otto bc i have been Gathering Evidence!! making theories!! otto's whole judging attitude towards natsumi is definitely part of it.

and also i do have fic wips in the works abt these sorts of topics!! i am publishing one sometime this month or early next month!!

anyway i went over like my theory on otto being a little fixated on normalcy in asks like this one.... which is yknow due to being an outcast his entire life so then he ends up overcorrecting a little (see: him insisting on wearing green bc he thinks itll help him look approachable) but then he never fits in anywhere Except for the emilia camp anyway so :,))

that, and. you would Think that otto wouldnt give a shit bc of his dp. like animal biology is soo widely different between different animals, biological sex can be a little complicated at times (like. snails. for example) and of course animals all work Really differently, but also sometimes animals will have sex with other members of their species with the same sex (like bats. or giraffes.) so its like. Yes, human sex and gender and sexuality and human concepts of these things are Not comparable to animals but its still like - these are natural things, you know? and ottos talked with lots of animals and probably seen a bit of shit, so you would expect him not to be homophobic or transphobic or anything right?

and i think on one level he would recognize human sex, gender, and sexuality as natural things, bc they are, but i also think otto still has internalized shit going on from all the times hes struggled with learning social rules and how human connection works as he was growing up, id say. i remember how in my. um. "how homophobic would rz characters be" tier list i had to move otto UP a tier into the same tier as FERRIS AND SUBARU.... in the DEALING WITH INTERNALIZED SHIT tier..... yes. i have reasons for doing that yep!!

so. in three idiots goddess statue episode, garf otto and subaru of course crossdress to go to this party with roswaal for Reasons!!!! and ottos got a bit of an attitude about the crossdressing ok. just gonna leave some excerpts from there regarding otto's feelings on natsumi and crossdressing:

She is a thin woman with wavy gray hair and beautiful ornaments. She has a neutral face, but the lightly applied makeup enhances her good looks. She looks so good in a dress that exposes her thin white shoulders that it is a shame that she walks with her head down.

Natsumi: “So, how long are you going to keep your mouth shut? Don't you think it's time to make up your mind?” Audrey: “I'm more curious as to why you're so adamant about this!” Natsumi: “Oh-ho-ho-ho” Audrey blushed and yelled at Natsumi, who put her hand over her mouth and laughed loudly. However, in no time at all. Audrey immediately covered her face with her hands, as if ashamed of herself. Audrey: “How could this happen? If I knew there had been two other people besides me, I wouldn't have had to resort to such emergency measures! I've been tricked!"

Needless to say, it was Garfiel who was dressed as the blonde woman, and Otto as the gray-haired woman. And the last one, Natsumi Schwartz, was the one who… Subaru: “So she's the temporary form of Natsuki Subaru, as you know.” Otto: “Um, how come you're so smooth and perfect? Even your voice has changed, hasn't it?” Subaru: “Actually, I failed once before because I couldn't change my voice. Ever since then, I've been practicing for a chance at revenge.”

Subaru: “Did you actually have a secret desire to dress as a woman? So you took this opportunity to......?” Otto: “don’t look at me like you've just found out the terrible truth!” Otto spat and screamed at Subaru's shocked face. Then, while he was breathing hard. Otto: “Your crazy prediction is way off! I really only did what Ram asked me to do. I thought I was doing the camp a favor, and this is how they treat me!” Subaru: “Wow, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, calm down. Look, you're ruining your pretty face....…” Otto: “Shut up”

With the men calling out to her one after another, Audrey left the crowd and took a breath. She wanted to sit on the balcony and enjoy the cool breeze to cool down the heat of the party. To be honest, since we entered the venue, the men have been constantly coming at us with no time to rest. Audrey had heard that this was a place to meet people, but the hunt of a hungry wolf is insatiable. They are so hungry that they are even blinded by the gender of the person in front of them. If they don't develop a better eye for women, even if they do meet someone, they will probably end up unhappy. Or is it that "good"?  Audrey: “Hmm, makeup is scary. I can see how men can turn into....…”

Audrey glanced toward the center of the hall. There, as usual, Natsumi was having a good time chatting with many of the participants. She was so excited that she could be heard shouting over and over again. Garnet: “Captain...... No, not so much as a lady” Audrey: “I really wonder what's going on with that guy....... I'm worried that he won't respond to me calling him Natsuki-San anymore.”

Gwain: “No, no, no, enough is enough. You ladies are beautiful, especially that dark-haired girl, Natsumi Schwartz. She's got the youngsters by the balls. She's a bad girl.” Audrey: “Ha-ha-ha.” Audrey couldn't help but let out a hearty laugh and failed to look feminine.

Then, smiling with her hand over her mouth, is a woman with distinctive mean looking eyes. With her unusual black hair and jet-black dress, she exudes elegance in her demeanor. Perhaps it's because she's a good talker and a good listener, but she seems to be able to swim through the social scene with ease, laughing and creating a friendly atmosphere even when surrounded by several men.  I couldn't decide whether I should be impressed or dismayed by her versatility. A short distance away, a sharp-looking blonde woman silently waved away the men who approached her, creating a stark contrast between the light and dark of the people involved. And to those of us on the sidelines, watching the scene…

anyway so. thats a whole lot of excerpts and theres probably at least a little bit more in that ss that i didnt put in this post hah.... and i know that you could definitely interpret these scenes in a few different ways, and also that when youre writing about gender, your feelings on it are likely to bleed into the text a bit and so some of stuff like otto being a Bit of an Asshole in this ss might just be tappei's tappei-isms also (which is most likely the case for stuff like this entire ss tbh :,)) ) but. but i do think theres Something here to be analyzed in regards to otto!!

bc like. lbr. i really doubt that otto is Straight. i really really doubt that hes straight, and i feel like theres just so so much possible gay subtext behind whatever the hell ottos feelings for subaru are thatre scattered across side content and the main story HAH...... this isnt even my ottosuba bias talking, its genuinely what i think could be happening here. and lbr if otto was female everyone and their mother would be shipping ottosuba more i think haha.

but yeah anyway otto shows up being a little...... wack..... about crossdressing??? HM. hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. but also the rezero fantasy world seems to be rather Judgmental about these sorts of things anyway so. :,)))

but i am squinting HARD at "I'm worried that he won't respond to me calling him 'Natsuki-san' anymore".............. and the hungry wolf part......... im squinting at it for multiple reasons (tappei being tappei) (.....but also WHAT is going on in otto's head...)..... "I couldn't decide whether I should be impressed or dismayed by her versatility."............

anyway. i think this could be several possiblities....

otto is once again focused on what's considered "normal" and is focused on trying to at least Attempt to fit into societal ideas of normalcy so when he sees subaru whos this absolutely chaotic and bold person whos also like Queer In Every Direction, otto's brain basically shortcircuits. hes like "wtf how are you doing that. you cant do that. thats not allowed. youre so confident about this too. wtf" (ie: ............otto is transphobic.) (this is 1ooo% the most likely option)

otto is gay for subaru and subaru dressing as a woman gives otto a little bit of a bi crisis. natsumis a bad girl thats got youngsters by the balls, you see. also bc subaru called otto pretty and otto was immediately like "SHUT UP" like T^TT

otto is gay for subaru and subaru dressing as a woman gives otto a tiny itty bitty crisis bc if subaru's sex was female and if subaru was 100% a woman then liking subaru romantically would be a million times easier bc then its societally acceptable

otto, being a bit of a manipulative asshole, goes "hm. subaru-as-natsumi effortlessly charming the room? interesting. i approve of the political maneuvering."

otto is being an asshole, once again, to complain, once again, about all the work he Willingly Does for his friends

................................................gender envy???????

or feeling off bc hes uncomfortable crossdressing just bc of that mismatch between his gender presentation and his gender yknow

otto is feminine/androgynous, so could he have been made fun of for this in the past?????????????????? does he ever get uncomfy about that?????????????????????? not being traditionally masculine??????? bc otto easily passes as a woman when hes crossdressing?????????

a mix of a few of the above options!!!!!

but yeah like. ottos clearly ashamed and embarrassed to be crossdressing. he's also been mistaken for a woman in the past (in subaru's pov) bc yknow hes very androgynous. and also otto gets Really Fucking Defensive when subaru insinuates that otto couldve wanted to dress as a woman also this entire time. the "youre ruining your pretty face..." "shut up." exchange is SOOOO.... T^TT

(and also quick side note but i think ottos stance on queerness is "i dont think its personally wrong. except that i think its wrong Societally bc society will be a bitch about it!! too much Trouble and Work For Me!!!! " :,)))) fucking bitch. thanks otto </333)

and im sure the "I'm worried that he won't respond to me calling him 'Natsuki-san' anymore" line is a dig at subaru passing so so strongly as natsumi that ottos like "urgh hes more of a Woman now" or smth :,))))) however!! its also interesting just bc "natsuki-san" is like. otto turned it into a pet name. basically. like at this point. even though he and subaru have grown closer during and after arc 4 otto Still uses "natsuki-san" - its kind of special, yknow? dude turned that into a fond nickname. so its like..................... if you squint.... why is otto basically saying "will subaru being natsumi drive him away from me..." like im gonna slap otto across the face i swear HAHA. but also otto Does use "natsumi-san" towards natsumi as well but im still. squinting hard at that. "natsuki-san" is The original pet name, after all.

and also the hungry wolf lines... like i know the intent of that is like. otto as audrey keeps getting hit on by guys at this party bc shes attractive, right, with her dress and makeup and styled hair and all that. insert tappei's tappei-isms here. but ottos musing on this like "mm.... men can be so hungry in their romantic pursuits that they'd be blind to the true gender of the person theyre hitting on...... makeup can really do such a thing huh... turns men into Animals..." and its like. hm. otto. you know. i Wonder. i really wonder my guy after hearing about you be obsessive over subaru for like three arcs!!!!!!!!!!

as for ottos gender like. dude is cisgender in canon im sure. though i definitely think its fun to explore genderqueer interpretations of him - and even then, i think even if he isnt genderqueer, i think there might be a bit of shock or even envy, if you squint, at otto seeing subaru so flamboyant and way more confident about crossdressing while ottos over here ducking his head and red with embarrassment while natsumi is absolutely OWNING it. despite the judgment otto and other people are giving!!! otto could Never. it completely blows ottos mind a little, from the looks of it. "how come youre so smooth and perfect?", the defensiveness at subaru saying otto couldve secretly wanted to dress as a woman, "i couldnt decide whether to be impressed or dismayed", and of course it all goes back to subaru being in the spotlight and otto watching from the sidelines. in the Darkness, you could say. hahahaahahahah................. subaru who gets easily into trouble and seems so so shameless about things while ottos so distressed about it.... about every little thing................

but also i do have another running theory that subaru's masculinity issues and otto's androgyny do clash a little just bc. well subarus judged ferris a bit before - "what part of you is like a man?" iirc is the line from arc 4 wn that subaru said to ferris. and subaru can feel more confident bc hey.... im more masculine than a guy like otto, right? otto, who can easily be mistaken for a girl? but im sure subaru would be a little jealous, even. maybe. bc woah. i want to pass as a girl when i decide to dress as one. and then yknow ottos being a dick abt it. maybe its a "im a man and Not a woman" (cisgender man who is uncomfortable dressing as a woman and knows this is not for him) thing too or maybe its a "im a man and Not a woman, so doing this is stupid and beneath me" (internalized/not internalized transphobia????????????) thing???????

yeah so idk i feel like theres different ways to read this fr especially when. haah..................... otto is Not Straight for subaru. thats for sure.

so why are you being an asshole about your crush crossdressing????????? why does it kind of threaten you a bit???????????????????????? why are you behaving this way????????????????????

but if you think about it i do think that maybe. at the heart of all of this. otto is just upset at the Impossibility of him and subaru being together (in any sense of that word) bc theyre so similar but so so different and it makes them clash in every way. :,))))

[minty-leafy]

ik tumblr has a lot of folks in the LGBTQ+ community so...

hey guys um, how do you know if ur aroace (or at least asexual) or just have commitment issues, or am i both

im 19 now, and i HAD crushes in primary sch (7-12) that i later realised i never liked them, they were just like my biases or eye candy, i would act shy around them, or do things i dont normally just for them

in secondary school (13-16), when all my friends were saying theyre jealous of couples and want to start dating, i felt nothing, i always think abt whats the point of dating, i rather hang out with my close friends, marriage doesnt appeal to me, and s*x disgusts me (but i enjoy reading smut?) every time they see a couple in public or online, they will feel jealous and salty that they dont have one, and im just there laughing at them (i purposely point out couples to them even hehe)

in poly (17-now), esp this past year and a little before that, ive been thinking if i just have commitment issues instead, because the thought of having a relationship scares me, like the label of 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' just gives me a big NO, im scared i lose feelings for the person, i had 'crushes' before but they never lasted more than half a month, it either disappears after a while, or immediately vanishes the moment i dont see them anymore

i realised the trend of my 'crushes' in poly is that they treat me nicely, like a gentleman, and i immediately think like "wow i like them", but it never lasts. when i think i like them, i try to think of us tgt, but i cant, like it feels very weird, and i cant imagine kissing them on the lips

these thoughts came out because this guy likes me, and literally our entire friend group knows, like he's not hiding it, and so our friends ship us, but when i think abt what if we were tgt, again, its just impossible, not sure if i just dont like him, am aroace, or have commitment issues. when i try to think of us doing couple things i cant, but i can freely do those with my girl friends (like hugging, holding hands, gg out 1 to 1, im a highly affectionate person, i love physical affection from close friends, be it guys or girls)

as i said before, im currently 19, and ive been singlr all my life, idk whether all these thoughts are because ive never experienced dating before, or am i just too young to confirm my sexuality?

TL:DR

19F, aroace or commitment issues, single since birth

loves physical affection and would do it with close friends no matter the gender

afraid of the term 'boyfriend'and 'girlfriend', cant imagine dating anyone, dont know if i just haven't found the one

doesnt get jealous and wishful looking at couples, never felt butterflies in stomach or heart beating fast over ppl i thought i liked, weirded out by kisses on lips (even on TV), gets repulsed by the thought of s*x

[nogchompa]

Hm idk how 2 put it unto words but theres smth abt everyone in usa needing 2 b diagnosed medically w something, capitalism generally just grinding down n making everyone feel bad n crazy, leftist infighting abt gender n sexuality labels n who is allowed 2 say or experience what like these r all connected 2 me . I think trying 2 make the entirety of human experience fit into specific categories tht we ourselves have made up, thus Cant include the broad scope of humans living all over the globe bc nobody can have Allll of those perspectives so yr Going 2 automatically be excluding someone bc they havent yet been considered so a label for them and ppl like then has not been made . I think having tried 2 do that is ultimatly harmful 2 us . I think its important 2 have pride in yrself n who u R in yr soul than what sexuality or gender u define yrself as.. Of course where we r @ rn is situational as fuck n crazy so its only natural n i jus think u gotta have fun wit it idk um rambling and now im bored of this post . Labels n categories r helpful when necessary , But when labelling n categorizing yrself is constantly enforced, it becomes walls tht seperate us frm reachng out 4 e/o in my Opinion.

[wulvert]

accidentally got my friends hyperfixated on paperteeth. oops. heres a byproduct image of that!!

thank u for making all ur characters full of autism (/POS OFC!!) we r attached 2 every single one of them,,,

do u mind dropping the sexuality/gender shenanigan list again? (without the info that incurred The Horrors last time of course!!) i um. cannot remember anyone except avery and scarlet. and "his wife left him for america" bc it made me laugh wjashfwkcwkxsgjs

i think i almost made that edit a while back but was too lazy thanks 4 spawning it in2 real life for me...

of couerse!!

so yea avery+scarlet she/her lesbians

trisha/fish: idk ngl! very repressed individual.

kelly: probs bi & trans guy he/him

& yes, trishas dad/avery scarlet & kellys boss: also he/him, het 58yr old man, whos wife left for america, 😔

thats pretty much every major character introduced so far, i dont tend to think of set like canon sexuality & gender very often ngl, for a few characters like avery & scarlet i do bc its pretty relevant bc like. they kiss 😗😎 and i think abt avery too much so its hard not to decide very fixed things like she likes CHOCOLATE CAKE from THIS BRAND OF BOX MIX but most stuff i tend 2 just leave pretty vague which makes it hard to answer some things bc tbh i dont know, I guess i think its nice to make it easy for ppl decide what they like best for characters like the guy named guy in page 2 that hasnt shown up again yet. they dont have my word getting in the way!

[vvintagerose]

For the character asks, Creature Frankenstein :)

oh wow how surprising that i got asked this! /lhj

Sexuality Headcanon: i think he’s mlm and aspec!!! he only asked for a bride out of comphet and because that was the only romantic relationship he’d been exposed to (Adam/Eve and Felix/Saphie)

Gender Headcanon: ooohohoh this guy, this lad. Victor set out to create the most gender thing in existence and succeeded. genderfluid and intersex any pronouns (preferring he/him tho), unfortunately he only wears what can fit him so not much clothing options for him to try </3

A ship I have with said character: um uhhh me but forreal i don’t seriously ship him with anyone? i’ve seen a few that i like, like him with Walton or Hyde, i think those work nice. I’d say i ship him with Alexandra but that would require ppl to know who that is and i haven’t posted abt that on here yet 😔

A BROTP I have with said character: him and Hyde!!! either romantic or just as friends i think they’d get along pretty good, if you sit down and think abt it they have quite a lot in common

A NOTP I have with said character: Victor. just. no.

A random headcanon: while i love steve blanchard my original headcanon for Creech’s singing voice was actually Johnny Cash, i just think he captures how deep and mournful he sounds in my head. in addition to that he’d obviously be a wonderful singer 😌

General Opinion over said character: i know he’s a very controversial character but. i like him ok! i relate to him a lot and you can hate him all you want just. don’t do it to my face lmao. love him <3

[mamawasatesttube]

Cassie and Cissie for the character meme ❤️

cassie!!!! <3

Sexuality Headcanon: lesbiab

Gender Headcanon: her gender is butch lesbian.

A ship I have with said character: cissiecassie, rosecassie, also in my rich inner world cassie/aura from superboy and the ravers but specifically in tt03 when kon's dead and they're considering aura for the titans because i think aura would piss cassie off sooooo much. homoerotically. <3

A BROTP I have with said character: cassie & kon, cassie & donna, cassie & tim, also cassie & kara (can also be romo but like. man. yknow?)

A NOTP I have with said character: um... cassie / men? ever? like koncassie is an important part of both of their development but not a good actual romance. does that count?

A random headcanon: when she's had her butch revelations and cut her hair and started really leaning into self-acceptance, she phones tim up like. hey. i want to get a motorbike. what specs and stuff should i look for? and he gets so excited she ends up letting him build one for her (on the condition that he lets her help and tells her what each part they're installing does, etc). friendship :)

General Opinion over said character: i love my girl :) i wish dc did more with her and also let her stay more gnc and individual than just making her Generic Blonde Barbie #4. also wish they let her have, like, anger and grief issues without sacrifcing the way she Does Love Her Friends Deeply and all. cradles her gently in my hands babygirl i love u

and now cissie time!!

Sexuality Headcanon: lesbian as well :)

Gender Headcanon: genderfluid. points at the part where she talks about names and phases. this is transgender behavior

A ship I have with said character: cissiecassie, cissieanita, also hear me out cissierose (and cissiecassierose),

A BROTP I have with said character: cissie & bart have such a genuinely sweet friendship 🥺 but also i like to think a lot abt cissie & kon and the whole "childhood consumed by media and expectations" thing.

A NOTP I have with said character: honestly i don't think i've seen any ships with her that made me go :/. cissie/men in general i guess??? does anyone even do that

A random headcanon: it makes her nervous, but she really wants kids of her own. something something breaking cycles of abuse.

General Opinion over said character: I LOVE HER. her narrative in yj98 is sooo good i think more teen heroes should get to retire and still be respected and loved by their friends in the community. the trauma and nuance of her entire story is just. MAN!

[t4tbedehopmar]

IMPORTANT IMPORTANT IMPORTANT share your gender and or sexuality headcanons about the galar rivals.

UM UM OK!!!!!!! not gonna make an essay out of this btw so dw guys fkhdjdk but mainly bc how can i make an essay of this. ANYWAYS ahem i might go a bit insane down there WTV AND THANN U FOR THE ASK I LITERALLY WENT INSANE WHEN I SAW IT FKSHJDJAJJDAJDHJAJDHJSJDJ ok then here we go!!

so let's start off w the easiest one! me/bede :] bede is me so there u go that's it *crowd goes completely wild bc of how amazing that was* yes thank u thank u i'm a genius 😌😌 OK BUT SRSLY there's rlly no hcs there bc yk. that's literally me. so like. bigender and bisexual and aroace and polyamorous idk what else i can say fkhfhdjd OK UM idk who's next HOP!!!!!!!! well hop is just bi very obviously. at least to me KDHDJSNJSJDJDHDJHSJDJD but yeah my guy's bi and that's all u need to know 👍👍 also polyamorous BUT UM who said that i didn't hahahahaha COUGHS ANYWAYS and marnie!! marnie 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💝❣️💘♥️💕❣️💘♥️❣️💝♥️💕❣️💝💗💝♥️💕♥️💕♥️💘❣️💝💗❣️💘💕💕❣️💘❣️💗💝❣️💘♥️💕💖💕💖❣️💘❣️💘💘 idk who she is sorry :/ JOKE KDJKSHDKSJAJDJAJDJ she is also bi!! and transfem too! :D heyyyyy have i ever told u abt t4tbedemar have i bc i think i haven't. actually i won't tell u abt it bc it's embarrassing SO LET'S JUST IGNORE WHAT I JUST SAID OK? OK she's also polyamorous but i didn't just say that hahahahah AHEM so yeah there u go!! galar rivals hcs by urs truly 😌😌 ik they're pretty simple but i'm a very simple pink guy what can i say :') hope u enjoyed tho like and subscribe for more content abt my faves!

[shopcat]

im so sorry but ur recent eddie posts have reignited a kind of insanity within my brain cuz like. w/eddie it's honestly like... for one its like usually im like flexible in terms of sexuality hcs or whatever with some exceptions where i just see a character and im like "no yeah this is a 100% homosexual" and im like that with eddie bc i just physically Can Not imagine him being with a woman or like attracted to women at all like it doesn't click in my mind and it is what it is other ppl can do whatever but also for two ive seen people be. So fucking homophobic under the guise of the "oh i just think he's bi" it's genuinely weird. like there was this post where the op said something like "oh eddie is a gay man hehe :D im a gay man too and i relate to him a lot" and the tags were Full of just "UM WELL HE'S BI/PAN/WHATEVER ACTUALLY HE FUCKS WOMEN!!" and ppl being like uhhhh he can't be GAY he flirts with EVERYONE smh :/// and that obnoxious "why would you limit the characters to just one gender uwu" from those weirdos who think every character dynamic should just be a threesome. its just like. Why are you so insistent on that like what bothers you abt a man being exclusively gay lol. + honestly all the ships ppl make w/eddie and the female characters from the show are either nonsensical nd stupid or downright creepy tee be aych. ANYWAYS so sorry for this insanity once again ❤✌️

yeah people will definitely invent new ways to be homophobic in fandom you didn't even think was possible. and then they'll like use the most misogynist mindset possible to prove he likes women like him.. smiling at those two cheerleaders he let pass in the cafeteria 😭 when men are polite to women it's because they want to have sex with them. this is a normal thought to have. but yeah i get being sort of.. protective? almost or just very like hard opinion over the gay hc for eddie in particular bc the ways it has been used in conjunction w homophobia is like startling. and troubling. and also it is kind of funny to be like "sorry he's gay" in the wake of the 10 million adult women who want to have crazy sex with him and WILL be blazing that shit in public

[fvedyetor]

Fyodor and Chuuya for the character ask game

oooh ty for the ask! sorry for how long and messy it is i have lots of thoughts just not very coherent

ok fedya first:

Sexuality Headcanon: bi but denies it. lowkey just anyone with white hair huh. actually yk what?? aroallo. hes soooo aro omg (projecting). fyodor himself would be very no-label tho.

Gender Headcanon: um usually just cis actually. cis guy or cis woman. but valleykey's fics are so so good and xir fyodor gender fuckery is so fun. again i think fyodor is pretty no-label. could have queer vibes, but would never tell you. OMG ESPECIALLY IF FEDYA TAKES OVER OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES wait i wanna see him take over a woman. genderfluid fyodor?

A ship I have with said character: fyosig :3 theyre my toxic yuri. i ship fedya with so many people but him and sigma's relationship is so interesting and brain itching omg. in canon itd be so toxic and bad and fucked up and in my aus its also that but sometimes its fluffy.

A BROTP I have with said character: um. yk what? agatha and fyodor. i want to see what their relationship is like... but for now im just imagining them drinking tea and talking shit abt fitzgerald and stuff.

A NOTP I have with said character: ummm i rarely have notp's. i am super non-judgmental when it comes to stuff like this in fandom. fyodors one of those characters that pretty much every ship i see is super cool

A random headcanon: strawberries. he likes strawberries. idk just thinking abt fyodor and bloody fruit hehe (pomegranates!! he'd struggle opening pomegranates he'd need help from kolya or other)

General Opinion over said character: very cool!! asagiri is hurting my brain with all the lore drops abt him that actually isnt enough explanation of lore. i love fyodor and his religious symbolism omgggg

chuuya!:

Sexuality Headcanon: um gay or bi w/ very masc preference. hes the guy who'd think he's gay and then realize hes bisexual, not the other way around. theres a fave fic of mine with transfem dazai? chuuya is sure hes into men and then after dazais two year defection he comes to the basement and sees the most gorgeous woman ever and is like "oh wait nevermind" also i think he'd be into yosano. but thats it for the women he's attracted to.

Gender Headcanon: trans masc loser :) love him

A ship I have with said character: sigchuu. i have a legend of zelda au with them and omg <3 <3 chuuya would fix sigma. but not really. anyways sigchuu my beloved <3 they have similar pasts if you look close enough... theyre so silly!!

A BROTP I have with said character: tachihara and chuuya!! i mean obviously the flags ofc but i was just reading some fics and omg tachihara and chuuya are besties. they need to hang out more

A NOTP I have with said character: again... i dont think theres anyone here... tho maybe i'll say romantic skk. platonic and queerplatonic skk is so cool and more fitting i think. i'll still read romantic skk fics tho

A random headcanon: ummm hmm i dont think about chuuya enough for this huh. i think he'd be into theatre but it'd be a guilty pleasure. in the privacy of his own home, he's jamming out to rock musicals, but in public he'd never squeak a word about theatre bc hes so embarrassed.

General Opinion over said character: so cool!! hes so awesome. i like him. i like how hes so powerful but then also just so chill. as much as people are sad about how little we see him in canon, i really like how he'll only pop in once a while. good for him for skipping out on the canon's bullshit all the time hehe

haha sorry for how long this is!! i dont have any solid headcanons really, theres so many ideas out there i cant pick lol

ask game

[falthiere]

Kaeya for the hc thing......

sexuality hc: the most bisexual man alive we love to see it gender hc: cis male but trans ftm headcanons are cool as well ships: i like a lot of kaeya ships... all of my friends' selfships with him are the most valid and true and real (my uncle works at mhy so i can verify) but also i like rosakae... kaebedo is also pretty cool brotp: rosakae is also based as a brotp duo notp: do i have to say it random hc: oh god im so bad at headcanons. um. uhhhhh. idk if this is anything but even though i know he says grape juice is his least favorite food i think he probably enjoys all things summer (so fruity drinks and popsicles and all that jazz) just bc it's his favorite season general onion: probably one of the best charas in the game imo. he is funny and cool and also extremely sad sometimes (thinking abt him for more than .2 seconds will destroy you). the game deserves to give him more love (and screentime outside of diluc interactions). also where is his skin. amber got one (kinda) and lisa is getting one Where Is Kaeya's

also in terms of actual gameplay hes basically the only one out of the starter 3 that actually rlly holds up so good for him!! also obligatory balls mention

[camvrin]

I'd say for diluc. hm. bisexual and aroflux/demi i like both. Questions his gender quite a lot but is he/him and cis to the outside world. He probably decided he was a few different genders in the span of months and then decided to keep it simple and identify as cissie while he still tries to figure himself out. (He never figures it out) so; 

Diluc - Bi, Aroflux/Demi, He/Him but doesnt mind a little bit of any pronouns once in a blue moon

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Zhongli. i literally have no idea. He could be so many things if you look at him from different angles. BUT i will say Pansexual i think is a kind fit for him cus ya. Could be a little omni with prefrence for who knows what, u tell me what gender u think he prefers if he was omni cus idk. I'll go with pan tho. He/They, does not mind It, and also won't be mad if you called him she. He just likes his normie He's tho! He looked to see what the youngsters were doing online and saw neoprns and tried to give himself dragon/dragonself pronouns once and made fun of himself. No one else knows this tale but him and his close ones who he'll never admit are close. May have questioned if he was on the ace spectrum, and for that we will not know the answer, may b a lil aromantic, you'll never know. he decides he is not tho. 

Zhongli - Pan, Gender questioner but cis to his mind, Fine with any prns but prefers his He/Theys

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Kaeya. Kaeya, kaeya, kaeya. Good lord my beloved big chested hot male. He is msot definitely bisexual, no preference at all but he only goes for the skrunkly hot babes of each gender if u know what i mean/j. Does not give a shit abt his gender at all, loves his feminine and masculine side, and he very much does love to make people question if hes a ripped slutty wrestler female or not. He loves his non gendered expressions as well, dont get me wrong. Goes by He/Him, and does not mind any and neoprns but he'll never tell you. its kind of a telepathy thing for only those who will understand.

Kaeya - Bi for the life of him, Androgynous, He/Him.

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Childe my sweet disaster. Oh lord. You're one hell of a ride. He IS the bisexual. Say im wrong and u'll be shot/j Typical ginger. Cisgender the simple-est of decisions. He goes by He/Him and He/They to his closest. He isnt afraid to express himself either. Cus hes a ginger. He can have a preference for either gender it switches by the hour. As i said, sweet disaster. 

Childe - THE Bisexual, Cissie, He/Him / He/They, Ginger 

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Scaramouche.. Um. WEll. HErE WE GO. HOMOPHOBIA TO EVERYONE EVEN IF THEY ARE STRAIGHT HE'LL NEVER HOLD BACK AND HE HANDLES NO REPRECUSSIONS!!@! Bi/Omni/Anything he pleases by the hour never question him labels are below him. GENDER ENVY AS YOU SAID HES SO PRETTYY BUT SO BOY YK?? Also i like to think of him as a trans man on some aspects bc yk hear me out it just sounds like scaramouche. But also he is cisgender. But also he is every other gender u can imagine. May have thought he was genderfluid but never told anyone. I'll say cisgender for now but like i said i agree with every gender hc for scaramouche, but he doesnt seem like a feminine labeled person so it excludes some. Pronouns are below him, will get mad if you call him certain things but thats just the way of the gremlin. He doesnt know what he'll be mad at, it always depends on the person. But he goes by He/Him/It. It is very rare to see bc he can find it demeaning if you arent certain people.

Scaramouche - Bi/Omni/Scaramouche sexuality/j, Cis but questioner and mixed labels on high levels. He/Him/It :3

[lovemars]

hm. time to psychoanalyze myself i think. cw traumadumping cw long ass post cw oversharing 😭

the srs cws are talk of sex and stuff but in a sad way not a horny way, sa, men on the internet being gross, bad coping mechanisms, etc

like. idk. i was thinking abt this last night and now im thinking abt it more and like. i feel like. the way i appear in headspace and stuff is just. completely based after. OH MY GOD SOFT BOY CAME OUT? um. sorry it just came on shuffle. ANYWAY. 😭. i feel like how i appear and everything is just based off of like our brain trying to be attractive to- well men mostly. other genders nd stuff but mostly men Specifically cis men. and like. literally none of us actively want to have cis (esp cishet) men attracted to us ❤️. but its like, i know Why like i know its cuz one of my roles is a sexual alter and our brain made us appear the way we do in headspace as part of it trying to keep us safe etcetc WHATEVER i dont care 🫶. like. i literally even- like for instance when we were dating our ex i remember trying to like. be attractive to her and make her like me/us even tho like. i was uncomfortable as fuck and like. i did the same with redacted from irl and just didnt set boundaries at all- no thats not true we definitely did set boundaries. i was just bad at enforcing them- i guess cuz i was like. idk completely lost in this mindset of like, not being able to say no and not feeling safe and feeling like it was my only purpose inguess?

and then like- i also feel like. imean i dont really get the love languages thing but if i had to pick one it would definitsly be words of affirmation and like- i feel like. okay 😭. im not a good person by. whoever the fuck uhh. pat the bunny i think? plays in the background. like for years and by for years i mean ever since 4 days after i turned 18. my thing had been like. posting on reddit . in various subreddits that like, Well the men in them are not very nice to me or to women . and like. i feel like that ties back to the words of affirmation thing cuz i was like intentionally seeking out people who would hurt me (<- which also ties into being a persecutor). and i dont do it anymore because months in the getalong shirt with nik made me feel bad abt it 😭 and then i started to realize that i like when people are nice to me actually. and then i was like Huh maybe tjats not super healthy for me probably. (it is not). well and thats the reason im banned (by nik) from reddit and sex with cis people forever.

but like. 😭 SORRY THIS IS SO LONG. writing a damn novel here. ANYWAYYYY. the whole posting images on reddit dot com -> talk to creepy men on reddit dot com -> intense self hatred and shame -> nik fronts and freaks out and deletes everything -> i feel bad -> i do it again next time i feel like making myself feel terrible on purpose for fun Spiral. like. ive spent all this time gojng down that spiral and now its like. bro i jusr want someone to be nice to me. like i spent ages convincing myself that actually i didnt care abt the shit those men were sayinh & that i liked it and now im like. i literally dont. like. i dont wabt someone ive never spoken to who didnt even say hi or ask what im ok with to say like. waves hand. stuff im not repeating just make up something genuinely disgusting and a bit terrifying and ive probably heard it. and now i dont even KNOW like. what i want i guess. idek my sexuality cuz ive never bothered to think abt what i want cuz i was too focused on what people i dont like/am scared of/etc to think abt how i felt. which in retrospect. bad and scared and. etc.

anyway. idk its just dawned on me the other night how much of who i am is wrapped up in how much i want everyone to like me all thw time and also how much i dont like myself. and like im working on it. and if working on it means thinking about drm from minecraft youtube ******* ** ** ***** so be it i guess 😭. idk man if nik can read dr*amnotnap fic and call it coping i can thirstpost abt drm in my head. idk.

ig im just. now that im able to be more normal and rational and stuff im able to see like. damn i was really bad at dealing with my emotions and tried to do that in ways that were not healthy for me or anyone else. and now all my sense of. who i am is wrapped up in that i guess. which sucks. and im working on it . SLOWLY! but im working on it

tldr: damn this guy should probably talk to a therapist abt all this shouldnt he. well thats okay at least hes hot

[lottiies]

hiiii i appreciated your kind words abt my art so much and analyzing everything cause i was thinking abt all the details you pointed out!! 😭 jst wanted to wish u a good day you're a rlly nice person! :]

OMG HII <33 thank you so much for sharing your art on here i felt so blessed when seeing it!! i barely finished omori like last sunday so i got so hyped

um…i actually have some more to say about it because i’ve been looking at them a lot

the one where sunny is hugging mari is SO cool i love that you added the eye detail on her back and the light bulb 🙂‍↕️ ahh it was so unsettling

one of my absolute favs is the 28th one where they’re at the frozen lake location because of all the small details about the place and the characters ˊᵕˋ i love all the little accessories you added to the characters

the 19th picture where (i’m assuming) you put all your headcanons about their sexualities and gender identities? UGH SO GOOD love the nonbinary bracelet sunny had

AND THE ANGLE IN THE VERY FIRST ONE!! i like how everything looks so much bigger than omori and it makes a lot of sense considering the deeper well is where the player gets more of a idea about why he made the headspace…

hehe the bread twins in the 11th drawing

WISHING YOU A LOVELY DAY MUAH (also very sorry if this sounded all over the place/has typos AHH i was just rambling excitedly)