#i wouldn’t marry me either

[aiuredsworld]

“ I wouldn’t marry me either ”

“ I’d marry you with paper rings ”

saw this current trend on twitter, feel like it's considered a crime if i don’t do drarry version

[jackysobsessions]

The two of them have the opportunity

[bpdmemequeen]

It’s so heartbreaking how much you can really tell she wanted to get married and he just didn’t want that

[tsireyqs]

how it feels listening to paper rings immediately after you’re losing me

[swashbucklery]

You’re Losing Me is, like All Too Well, difficult to enjoy on a level that doesn’t include the metatextual but also. On a non-metatextual level I want to listen to it 600 times because it scratches the itch of “breakup songs that make me think about the mirror of them and help me write fic.”

I want to crack the bridge of You’re Losing Me open like a walnut and then make a little house inside the scooped out shell of it like. Fuck OFF what a good mean beautiful achy disaster of a pop song.

[0pportunistic-lover]

& I wouldn’t marry me either

[rosenallies]

If date girl and I have been seeing each other about 6 weeks, exclusive to one another for about 2 weeks, is now too early to talk about Valentine’s Day?? bc dammit if I don’t have a reason to wear a pretty dress and red lipstick for once on Valentine’s Day I’ll kms fr

[tisthedamnseason-writethisdown]

YOU’RE LOSING ME IS ON SPOTIFYYYY

I’m so happy now I can finally listen to it normally

[carouselofswift]

i can’t get over the bridge i think i’m in shock

[liketaylorswift]

kinda feel like you’re losing me is becoming the soundtrack to my relationship. how do i patch the holes in the ship before it sinks

[swiftly-searching]

do something babe, say something

lose something babe, risk something

choose something babe, i got nothing

to believe, unless you’re choosing me

you’re losing me

[bookstagramofmine]

You used to be the person who left the WiFi on so I could call when I couldn’t sleep. That changed some time ago; I could still not sleep, you just didn’t care anymore.

Anyway

We need to talk

Because I was untraumatized going into this relationship and now my issues have issues and I don’t want to have a kid and give this to her.

I don’t think I can trust you again, even if in our happier moments I think I can.

It’s been ruined and broken and gone and nothing we do next year can fix it, because you can’t do the tangible things, like actually get married.

You’re having trouble booking a flight for a trip where you get to have a free vacation (but couldn’t come when I was ready to kill myself. You couldn’t come when I was ready to jump or drown. And you can’t book a flight when you get to come and get laid and take advantage of a girl; that’s how I feel now, that’s how I feel and you’ll be so mad I said that but it’s how I feel and you don’t care enough anymore to get it. I know you’ll already be so mad reading this it won’t matter. I don’t want to put myself in a financially hard situation when you aren’t even going to be around 6 months later, you can literally not even buy a ring or book a flight or marry me, why should I harm myself for you now?)

The $300 ring that you say you’re willing to get is only a sign of how little you want to invest in us now. And you have even less will. This should have been waiting for me if you wanted to. You think so much and do so little when it comes to these things and it’s the death of us. You knew I was hurting, you didn’t need to think so much, you could have just done it. You should just do things now Amir. I keep telling you I’m hurting and you still refuse to do things. Like today. It was only until you realised that I was absolutely hurt that you said you’d see me.

And I’m supposed to forget that you promised me December and then changed your mind. I’m supposed to trust you about April. Oh God amir, how can I?

I’ve been calling, but even if you answer you’ll be pissed, you won’t understand. The person who understood is long dead and gone.

I can’t take this to 2024 like this. I can’t. I asked you for action, and you always say I’m setting you up for failure when you haven’t even tried.

Amir. I’m not taking this to 2024.

You can figure out our nikkah this year or we’re not a thing.

I told you think a few months ago and you said I was setting you up for something impossible. I’ve realised that it wasn’t impossible. If you had actually thought of this as something you didn’t want to lose, you would have done it.

But you didn’t.

And now I’m the bad guy, but I’ve realised that I’ve never been the good guy in this relationship; I’ve wanted so much more and you can’t do it.

So here is your impossible challenge, the thing you’ll say I’m unfair for, the thing that you say I’m malicious and nasty for, here it is.

2023 is the year we get married or we break up.

2023 is the last time you take action.

I suspect that you’ll be too angry to do anything. I suspect that you’ll be too busy thinking of how this is unfair and how I said I’d trust you and how this is impossible to try. And that I have told you that I suspect you’ll be like this will only piss you off further. And once again it’ll be my fault. You’ll think a lot about how you can’t do much. You always thinking more than you do is the death of us.

I will only meet you now if we’re getting married that day. And that offer only lasts till the end of 2023.

[twisteddthoughtsss]

oh my god, it’s back. I’m in a chokehold. ahgg

[charityreadsabookanddrinkswine]

It’s be a really great day for blondie to release You’re Losing Me so that everyone could listen to it 👀👀👀👀

[rory-bor-e-alis]

HELP I CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO YOU’RE LOSING ME

[thelasttime]

STOP, YOURE LOSING MEEEEE… I can’t find a pulse… my heart won’t start anymore… *laying on the floor in the dark playing this on repeat*

time to go listen to “you’re losing me” and be sad 🚶🏻‍♀️