#idk it just rubs me the wrong way

[shellshocklove]

i think some of you need to check yourself when you’re talking to writers on here. i don’t need to give you anything. i don’t need to give you alternative endings or part twos. especially not when you don’t even reblog.

[gender-void-partially-stars]

i know its like a funny bit to call people born on leap years 1/4 their ages cuz like a person born on feb 29 1996 has only had 7 birthdays haha theyre 7 but i imagine that gets so annoying for them. like imagine that was you

[inseparableduo]

@muu-kun replied to your post “When I say some muses were giving Darla death...”:

because she was being, yeah, ruthless of a point to pick on those of a broad interest? is that not what a lot of tumblr narratives are when you think about it? yall ever make mention of something like Steven universe or that hazbin hotel thing and seen what people will call you for enjoying something? I guess I'm just not seeing why death threats would need to be a reaction at all, I guess.

​Most of her harshest things she was saying were directed at muses that kept posting and going on long rants on how they were gonna beat her up, put her in her place, calling her ugly etc. With that in mind her laughing it off and calling it cringe was the best way she could take it. If she started it I would say she deserves more of it but she really didn't? I think telephone happened and people think Darla was saying things that she never did???? Like people had the wildest takes calming she was saying and doing things she just flat out wasn't????

Yeah, she isn't nice or good but she didn't actually deserve it for once?

[jasper-crow]

Hey I know I cook and post about canning on here. But please don't reblog any of my stuff and tag it "cottage core"

Me making food for my family and having a hobby isn't an aesthetic to be co-opted by people who think it looks like a fun ghibli film.

No issues with y'all enjoying your aesthetic and you don't need to unfollow or not reblog. Just don't add those tags. Thanks.

[chaerypop]

the way people are treating that video of staff hitting sunoo??? maybe it really was playful but it doesn't LOOK playful. especially hitting him bc he said hi to a fan 🤨🤨 LIKE ???? even if it really was playful, you couldn't have waited until there weren't cameras on you???

[mad-as-a-box-of-frogs]

If you wanna wax poetic about the ‘’’beauty of being platonic’’’’’ of a particular pairing, that’s fine, but like…. That doesn’t belong in the ship tag :-/

[jadetea-writing]

went to the doc for fatigue, got recommend ozempic lmao

tbf, she did do blood tests and mentioned other factors that could be contributing (post-viral syndrome, sleep apnea) but lol, I did not walk into the clinic expecting ozempic on the menu

[pandorem]

Anyways sometimes I am incapable of writing out a thought until years after I’ve had it to the point where it may be irrelevant now but it’s still spinning around in my brain, so:

No, Katara does not make everyone else’s trauma and grief about her. Commiserating and sharing her own grief is her way of showing empathy, and it’s a style a lot of real people have, including me to a certain extent. I think it’s perfectly fine to not necessarily be comforted by that kind of attempt at empathy/compassion (just like some people don’t respond well to people trying to problem solve for them when what they need is someone to just listen, and understanding that is a very useful thing for people to learn), but straight up calling Katara selfish and making everything about her for allowing herself to be vulnerable with people when they are vulnerable with her is a poor and deeply uncharitable reading of her character.

[dreadfuldevotee]

I'd like to discuss the elephant in the room. Why did we get zero Loumand sex scenes? We got hints and implications, but season 1 was pretty explicit. Do we think that that's a creative choice or something else is happening?

I'm glad I ended up ruminating on this for about a week because episode 7 & 8 really solidified my opinion on it.

I do wanna start by saying that it's very clear to me that there was supposed to be more explicit scenes between them. There has been some thoughts tossed around that censorship happened with the 9 pm timeslot (as opposed to the 10 pm timeslot of S1). I believed this hearing Assad and Jacob talk about the BDSM dynamic between Louis and Armand, but what really sold me on this was Production Designer Mara LePere-Schloop talking about the bedroom set and more specifically about their beautifully carved custom headboard. (If you're a production nerd like me or just want to know more about the design philosophy of IWTV I recommend giving the entire thing a listen!).

I think there are several reasons I think as to why they decided to leave any more explicit scenes on the cutting room floor but above them all is: you cannot separate Armand's sexuality from his abuse. I am really against pulling a "well if you read the books" card but reading just the first couple chapters of "The Vampire Armand" makes me understand so much about not only Armand as a character, but the care being taken to his adaptation. It's clear to me that alongside Rolin & Co.'s commitment to not watering him down to a one-dimensional villain they are also trying to not fall into Anne Rice's tendency to romanticize his trauma.

Sex and sexuality is not the same pillar of Louis and Armand's relationship it was in Louis and Lestat's and so I don't believe their story suffers from the lack of on-screen sex. But I also firmly believe that maybe we don't need to be slutting out the character who we literally just watched talk about how he doesn't remember his life before being sex trafficked. And even when he was "freed" he was still being repeatedly assaulted at the hands of, and under the eye Marius de Romanus. Like it is extremely important to remember that Armand's craving for dominion in his relationships is a manifestation of trauma that deserves the same level of care and depth given to every other trauma portrayed in this show.

I think people have gotten too comfortable calling IWTV a romance when it has always been Gothic Horror. Romance and sex are pivotal to the story but I have found the demands for sex scenes this season a bit absurd and also? unfounded? Loustat share more kisses on screen but there are two sex scenes and both are very plot relevant. I truly figured we were all in agreement that the eroticism of this show is found in the various displays of power, and the dynamics it creates and not the actual clapping of ass-cheeks...which also wasn't happening in S1 either. S2 does not suffer because of the lack of sex-scenes, but the likelihood if it suffering trying to make one work is

[macbethz]

ok ive thought about it a bit and i dont like it. sorry. i think it fufills that kind of instant dopamine rush of pure spectacle and the idea of the doctor needing a fucking break is good but essentially splitting a fragment off of him to go have all that off-screen feels like wish fulfillment rather than good story. its also like. RUSSELL THIS IS THE SECOND TIME YOUVE BROUGHT "SPLITTING DAVID TENNANT TO HAVE AN ORDINARY LIFE" TO CLASS. LIKE WE DID THIS BEFORE.

FUNDAMENTALLY the part that most upsets me about it is it feels motivated by the same nostalgic urge that bringing back DT had in the first place, which ended up being a decision I enjoyed but I still think is rooted in this fear of change and this avoidance of tragedy. Tragedy and sadness provide catharsis, they really do, and doctor who is a show about change. It feels...emotionally stunted, in a way. like RTD is giving us pool floaties because he doesn't trust us to swim in the deep end of the pool. Its the same cautiousness that I found particularly upsetting about Chibnals tenure, and the same cautiousness that motivates the endless steam of reboots under late capitalism.

I like to HOPE that this will be resolved in the near future just as I'm HOPING biregeneration will also be explained. At least we got to see Ncuti's ass

EDIT this post i made in 5 minutes intended for my mutuals has brought me nothing but misery. Please take a film class and listen to the new Suede album. thank you

[takeustothelakes]

why does rhaenyra essentially keep threatening jace with vhagar?? “you’re not agreeing with me so i’m gonna continuously mention the dragon that murdered your brother to make you agree” like girl what…

[jakeperalta]

have quite literally never been less excited about a taylor announcement in my life

[doufudanshi]

for anyone who criticizes jyl for bringing soup to yiling instead of like, money—

we should first ask: could jyl actually have given wwx money? she must have something, you say. the jins are rich! she could even give him some of her betrothal gifts.

but realistically jyl probably didn't have much money at all! let's think this through. not only did she not marry jzx yet at the time of her yiling visit, but (based on many, many imperial palace tv shows lol) all her worth would be in betrothal gifts of jewelry, fine clothing, or other misc items, which is 1) heavy and difficult to transport without notice, but that doesn't actually matter bc it's ultimately 2) disrespectful to sell and worse to have the gifter find out when they come by for tea and you begin chatting about the event in two days and they say oh where's that one-of-a-kind jade bracelet I gave you wouldn't it match the also one-of-a-kind silk garment that lady jin gave you sooo well oh you will look so lovely in it won't you wear it.

or worse, have it recognized in some random pawn shop on the street by someone who has never really liked you and WILL get you in deep shit for it.

does jyl have any money from the jiang side? well, jc has been busy at work rebuilding lotus pier and the clan since before wwx's defection, and even if he's not borrowing a shitton of money from the jins (which he almost certainly is), he definitely has the opposite of surplus funds. he's also busy organizing and buying gifts for the wedding too, making him go more in the red because you know the jins aren't going to want cheap-ass things even if you don't have money.

let's say jyl did get a significant bride price (aka given money money)—not only does that go to her family (jc), but it is given during the ceremony (which, again, hasn't happened yet). and, realistically, jc probably will have to use it to offset the costs of the above.

beyond that, let's just take this scene from a storytelling perspective. sometimes it is simply about the emotional resonance. the vibes. let's say jyl did have some funds to give wwx. but imagine if jyl was like here a-xian take all this money 😐 ok sure useful for some period. but is that the gift that wwx would want during the first time he's gotten to see her in months, and likely the last time he will see her in a long, long time (possibly years)? would that be impactful for the story?

meanwhile, the soup she brings represents her love. we hear in the extra, from wwx's own words, the care she put into selecting the ingredients, making sure the lotus root is fresh and perfectly ripe. it also takes hours for her to even make iirc. wwx derives so much comfort from it—that's why it comes up again and again. it is one of his first memories of feeling safe in lotus pier, of home. it provides wwx some semblance of normalcy. he hasn't had any this entire time, and is likely something he aches for whenever he's homesick or sad or questioning his choices. it is simply, given the circumstances, incredibly thoughtful. (and how meaningful was it to see wn treat it with such respect? seeing that is literally the moment in the chapter when wwx realizes—ah. the wens are people I cherish as well.)

and regarding jyl coming in her wedding dress—it is not for herself. it is for wwx. we saw how devastated wwx was just to even hear that jyl was getting married because he had to hear it from someone who wasn't jc or jyl. and to immediately then realize he cannot go? even more heartbreaking. and jyl, who clearly knows wwx extremely well, would know, without having to ask, how upset wwx would be to miss such a huge occasion in their lives that was previously a given. this is what she can do to offset that, even just a little. because jyl came in her dress, wwx gets to experience a piece of her wedding even though he cannot physically be there. not to be a 2000s mastercard ad, but there really are some things that money can't buy.

idk there's also some fist-shaking at the class discrepancy in the scene. and I get it. it sucks! her dress is certainly lavish, and the wens are farming on a corpse mountain and have only just started making a bit of money. yes, it's fine to think that if you were in the character's shoes, maybe you would've found it to be in poor taste—but the story isn't about you. it is about these characters, and what this scene means to them. and I'm of the camp that if there is no indication that wwx is upset by any of this, and in fact moved by it, there really isn't reason for the reader to be righteously indignant about these things on a character's behalf. that's just not the focus or the point of the scene.

plus, jyl is sharp. she is likely more aware of the discrepancy than most people think. she has also been shown in the text to not just be another sheltered, spoiled noble (re jzx soup incident). but if what you want is guilt from jyl—I personally think that guilt is performative, and accomplishes nothing. her guilt would've only made wwx unhappy. instead, here is an action that is meaningful and brings joy to wwx. to share her joy with him is not selfishness, nor is it some lack of awareness of their situation. if in this moment, she shows off her dress, if she revels in her joy, her happiness, it is for wwx, and wwx is incredibly moved by it.

and let's face it—wwx, of all people, would want to see jyl in a wedding dress that cost more than rebuilding lotus pier from the ground up. he wouldn't want anything less.

[gwyoi]

I feel like over the past maybe 10 years there’s been a lot more visibility for people with vitiligo and lots of people drawing people with it but at the same time a lot of content feels almost fetishy to me if that makes sense

[hometownrockstar]

This is directed at skinny people, fat people u can do whatever you want its chill. Ok so i have discussed this before but there's a popular phenomenon where thin people on here and twitter and whatnot want to show how they are progressive by talking about how they find fat people hot, either through popular text posts or in fandom where they talk abt a character as being hot SPECIFICALLY in relation to their size. And my issue is not with seeing fat people as attractive FOR their fat traits, its just the prevalence of it from skinny people usually sounds very performative and almost chaser-y with how it is almost solely focused on sexual desirability of fat people.

So in my opinion, i dont think skinny people should stop talking about finding fat bodies attractive altogether, but rather show their love and support for fat people and characters in other means as well. Portray a fat character as admirable, charming, pretty/attractive (without solely sexual attraction), or just plain normal, all the kinds of things you portray skinny characters as being.

[thedeafprophet]

Struggling for the right way to say this, but I'm kind of put off when I'm talking about something important relating to disability and surgery and it gets turned into a gender/transistioning thing

Like don't get me wrong, gender affirming surgeries are very important! and equally as life saving for many people. And i understand that being important

Its just that when someone is talking about physical disability and life saving surgeries, thats kind of a different topic altogether, and it kind of comes across as speaking over disabled people and their experiences.