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freckledsweetpea · 25 days

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I truly cannot believe I was on a dating app for 3 days and then deleted the app because I'm a girl failure and there are no hot slutty butches in my area.

#like the 700 femmes I swiped left on?#all absolute 10s #stunning gorgeous queen goddesses #just not my type #and it was starting to make me feel like a rotten human being #I'm not built for dating #I'm built for girlrotting #and then I was like #if these are the other women on the app #who the fuck would want my disgusting rotten meat suit anyway #lgbtqia #queer

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chrollohearttags · 9 months

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when you realize 75% of this app has zero media literacy, the reading comprehension skills of a wet gym sock and the attention span of a fucking goldfish, you won’t feel so bad about your work or take these opinions seriously. Expecting people with a 3rd grade reading level and the plagiarism skills of an amateur thief to have anything good to say about creative writing is asking too much . Lower you expectations.

#this is literally WattPad with a Van Cleef bracelet on #ppl migrating from that hellscape and coming to this hellscape to be even more annoying #bringing their negativity and atrocious writing with them #originality is a lost art #the girls are plagiarizing left and right #cherry chats 🍒#send the flood #creativity is always going to bother ppl who can only follow trends and replicate what someone else is doing #I ain’t calling nobody dumb #but y’all possess some very modest intellect #they think bashing smut and certain hcs makes them scholars #and getting their opinions from tiktok and other ppl #you also don’t get cool points bc you hate a character portrayal either dumb ass bitches #but ask them to list the difference bw their there and they’re and they’ll seize up #“everybody has to start somewhere in their writing.#and the starting point is just stealing others’ works and recycling the same opinions #again y’all won’t be satisfied until this whole app is deserted #y’all keep drudging up nigga eren as if he’s the first character that has had this type of hc #y’all said the same thing about Bakugou and the Haikyuu characters #y’all just don’t want black women to have a safe space period #George bush you gon pay for your crimes #don’t argue with anybody who used to get their tests handed back to them face down

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swaglet · 1 month

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is it "choosing to breed with your oppressor" if you're disabled and have kids with an abled person. is it "choosing to breed with your oppressor" if you're a person of color and have kids with a white person. how come i never hear this shit. how come it's only ever said in relation to women. i don't ever want to have kids and i'm saving up to get permanently sterilized asap and already have my surgeon lined up ready to take my payment when i have it in full and i literally hate children and am antinatalist but i still don't think it's okay to refer to human women having children as "breeding". a word we fucking use for animals. do men breed? when we talk about the action of men having sex with a woman and impregnating her is that breeding? or is it only about the woman when she gets bred. sick fucks. a lot of people on this app, especially ones that call themselves feminists, need to deal with their own misogyny wayyy more than they realize

this isn't directed at just one person i've seen it popping up recently from multiple different people i just think it's sick to refer to women with such a dehumanizing term when we of all people should know better

*the tags are important

#>#the answer to the first few questions is undoubtedly yes btw #but why dont i ever hear anyone referring to those issues in that way other than feminists calling other women breeders #ive never seen anyone more obsessed with calling an oppressed group 'breeders' than self proclaimed feminists on this app #other than literal actual misogynistic abusive rapist men

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derpinette · 5 months

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when i exchange a message whether i receive or send one i have to immediately shut off my device & walk some laps for a few minutes to shake off the adrenaline rush

#i try to forget that ever happened so i can relax because otherwise i get heart palpitations & headrush my uterus drops ETC #so i have to stay off of whatever site i just used for like an hour but now i have messages sent+received on every app #i can only escape to yourube & it sucks #also even anonymously i exit out of the thread/tab & ignore that tab for as long as it takes me to forget #& then i check back on the replies hours later or days even despite not ever posting bait i just get nervous #( but not always... خلّي أيامك أحلى )#currently hamster walking everywhere in my house & it took me a day to reply back ( was too busy agonizing )#could have been a month like last time. or year like the other two times before. IDK why i even bothered #WHEW #that one screencap i already posted before with the courage the cowardly dog picrel Shockingly not posted by me #but i might as well have i do the exact same thing & when people are nice to me i ride that high for a week if not more #the high i got from crushing it at scribbl with randoms in 2020 i rode for like two years & then the *** livestream in 2022 #i am still riding today & ALWAYS WILL best days of my internet life for Serious look forwards to it annually cured me completely #from suicidal ideation. THANK YOU WOMEN. ^_^

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possibilistfanfiction · 10 months

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anyway idk why anyone wants spain to win the wc?? if u don’t rly watch or follow womens football, just do a quick google on vilda & the federation. of note also: england is wonderful! great squad, FANTASTIC coach! it’s frustrating to see ppl know literally no history abt their past year even & want them to lose based off of one (1) match. most importantly, if ur enjoying this world cup, 🙄 follow womens football 🙄

#i’ve spent this entire tournament talking to friends who don’t follow at all other than world cups #& it’s truly been the bane of my existence lol #there are so many complex Big Bads like y’all women’s sport is NOT fun & games #but fr if this has been fun (which it has) like… pay for an app to watch the wsl. watch CL. watch nwsl (🤮) but yes #actually pay attention!! care!! sports aren’t stupid!!!!!#also!!!!! england is a wonderful squad!!! fantastic coach!!!! don’t be a hater for literally no reason!!!

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hazellvsq · 2 months

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both of hazel's boyfriends being her only actual close friends on top of dating is also very....it tracks but i don't like it. she needs to get out of that space.

#someone needs to get hazel on the apps #and also she needs to be allowed to interact with other women on page #nothing wrong with dating your best friend but you do need to let other people into your world as well #which she does do to some extent so i'm being uncharitable #idk. the real problem is how underdeveloped all of her relationships are #but there is something kind of bleak but also pretty believable about how sammy and frank both kind of function #as buffers between her and other people. like she doesn't want to BE alone but also she does want to be LEFT alone #i'm reading too much into it but like her going off with just frank at the end of blood of olympus??? depressing

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the-ashenstreaked-doctor · 3 months

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I’m taking a break from tumblr for my Mental Health (scrolling down my dash actively gives me 15 debuffs over nothing) but I support women’s wrongs (scarlet’s right to kill people bc she’s having fun)

Happy international wimen day

#idk when I’ll be back? probably whenever I actually feel like clicking on the app and scrolling #also shoutout to my other women ocs my beloveds!!#extra shoutout to shay bc I adore her

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elysianymph · 11 months

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no fucking way i just saw a post saying orion never hated sirius and regulus but was forced to act like it so he wouldn't get punished by walburga... DO YOU PEOPLE HEAR YOURSELVES AT ALL??

#ofc it was on tiktok #BUT ARE YOU KIDDING ME???#HE WAS THE MAN OF THE HOUSE HE COULD DO WHATEVER HE WANTED #just say you hate women and go #poor orion the heir of the most noble house in the wizarding world unable to speak out bc his wife was gonna beat him up :(( GO OUTSIDE #we've established how patriarchal the wizarding world was in every other way but for SOME reason #walburga remains the only villain in that house #i'm literally so angry i had to sit up and close the app immediately #nymph rambles

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positively--speculative · 5 months

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I am completely sure his response won't be something incredibly misogynistic.

#A lot of dudes think women want to be propped up at the expense of other women #And maybe the more immature ones do #But to me?#Massive red flag lmao #Dating app fails

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bunnihearted · 5 months

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📓🕯️🐇🖤pt.2

#only 30 tags lol i ran out... so furthermore #we only get one life. im gonna try as much as i can to enjoy the little moments. nd to not give up on myself nd my life #i will die one day anyway. why rush it. i'll enjoy as many books and as many walks and songs and tv shows as possible #if i get a loan nd have more money i wanna bleach my hair nd dye my hair green #and later this year i think i might change my name #it was the name i wanted to change to from the beginning. but i was in such a bad headspace i just picked eden at random #i do kinda like it now nd im attached to it but i more feel like this other name actually is me. my birth name nd my current name dont feel #really right. so maybe. i havent decided yet. like i rlly dont know. im also attached to this name for some other reason. like it's who i am #to a person i rlly like and if i change... will i be anything to them? i cant put it into words but that makes me hesitate #but it's unhealthy to stay attached to someone i cant truly have even if i want to. so i mean. idk im just weird abt it #but i do kinda wanna change my name (to embla. my mom wanted to give me that name but my dad was like nooo >.<) i am not 100% sure tho so #when i've been getting used to going to school nd working out at the gym. nd after my surgery nd i have more energy #i will try to face my avpd and try apps for making friends. there r two apps where u can find new girl friends!! maybe i can try that #also like i've never tried apps but i think maaaaaybe i can use bumble to try to find friends and women to date. potentially. idk.....#rn it's hard for me to think in those terms bc. i mean i am hung up on someone!!!! i cant evwn imagine dating or being intimate w anyone els #sometimes i feel like.. they're the only person i've ever felt like it'd even be possible. who i'd event want to do that w #not only physically but emotionally. so ig it's even harder to let go bc im so scared i will never feel like that w anyone else #but i rlly need to try to make the most of whatever life i have. the world will collapse soon anyway #that makes me even more sad that i cant be w who i wanna be w nd do what i wanna do but #all pain will all be completely descimated eventually. it's not forever bc life isnt forever #i've just never felt this before. like i want smth to be real so bad but if it happened once surely it can happen again? right?#i wont spend my life alone without intimacy and love and comfort nd support nd understanding right???? :o hope not #im still so sad nd exhausted rn. nothing in my life is working nd theres no repreive nd no help #it gets sooo hard to endure everything sometimes when everything just keeps piling up and gets so heavy it feels like im drowning #nd atm i dont feel like i have any anchor. nothing that keeps me grounded nd im just floating away nd im constantly being overwhelmed by my #feelings nd emotions. im like a stupid little kid who dont understand how to handle what im feeling. or make rational decisions #i feel so ... stupid and useless. i dont know what im doing. i have no idea. i have no compass. its so scary

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turtleboyo22 · 1 year

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University (I'm English oops) au doodles!!

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lottieratworld · 2 months

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kinda curious if theres any mutuals on here that are in my city and would wanna meet up or something but i also dont want to doxx myself lol

#now that im back home ive been kind of bored and lonely #visiting my gf and being in a home with 4 other weird trans women rly helped me feel better and i miss it #i dont rly want to use hookup/dating apps though bc autism

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vanilla-voyeur · 7 months

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As a bisexual polyamorous woman my dating choices for women are between single women who are convinced I'm planning to spring my husband on them and married women who try to spring their husbands on me.

#polyamory #cnm #non monogamy #poly #unicorn hunters #bisexual #wlw #sapphic #i am neither married nor is my np a man #but im still fighting an uphill battle #unicorn hunters really do ruin it for the rest of us #bi poly women have trouble dating women and get told to just date each other #the situation is a little more complicated than that #yeah im attracted to men but im not attracted to your husband #if i were i wouldve matched with him on one of the many apps for cis men and women* to find each other #too many cis men on the wlw dating app #my np is on grindr and apparently grindr has its own problems with cishet men #cant have shit in detroit #imagine people thinking it was ok to do this to straight men #like just gonna match with this dude bro and then when we make plans to get spicy i tell him i want my husband to watch #just once i want someone to randomly ask if their wife could join in #the answer is still no #but at least thered be variety #kinda surprised so many unicorn hunters are interested in the first place. i thought they mostly preyed on single women

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marzannafilia · 4 days

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What’s up I feel like I never say much here but hello. It’s pride month.

How the hell do I get a gf

#ok the genuine question is: it’s like all the women i i see on apps are either:#poly or ENM or even partnered and looking for a third #SUPER into makeup like. some women who wear makeup will agree that’s it’s not feminist I’m fine with them but #or they’re gnc and androgynous and hot but they have pronouns—I think that’s smth where I’d have to know the person irl to see if it could #ever work but online? I don’t wanna take my chances #in other words. radfem gf? not likely.

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eddis-not-eeddis · 8 months

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I have had a sword for a little less than 24 hours, and already I have driven off a man with it.

#i'm on a language exchange app #i only message other women #but if a guy dms me and asks a language related question i don't mind answering and will have conversations #it's usually business men who tell me up front that they are married and want to know the difference between two very similar words #or random teenagers who try to hold conversations in extremely broken english before getting tired and giving up #from time to time someone tries to get a little too chummy and at that point i just ghost them #so today someone dmed me and after chatting for a bit he asked if i could send him a picture so he could verify that i was a real person #and i get that people are out there pretending to be very different from who they really are...i get that #but my guy #we were talking about verbs four seconds ago #pull yourself together #...now i ALWAYS ignore requests for pics #of any sort at all #however #the newest picture on my phone was one of me #With The Sword #and the temptation was greater than i could withstand #so i sent him that #and he blocked me #XD

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reflectionsofgalaxies · 11 days

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having a normal one over here

#i think the meds overcorrected #i cannot sleep and i am bubbling with Emotions #can i tell what most of them are? No #but there’s a lot of them #and they’re not actually super shitty??#they’d be nice if they could just dial it down a notch #also this isn’t vague posting to be clear i’m not having Emotions because anything happened #this is run-of-the-mill confusion posting #kinda nervous for the comedown after these like. several consecutive pretty great days in a row???#other than the late night panic attacks i was giving myself by reading the news #my doctor literally made me go into my settings and turn off notifs for my news apps #while telling me ‘at least you’re self aware’#(bc i knew it was the news fucking me up i just wasn’t Allowed to turn off notifs)#anyway i’ve gone on a tangent #tumblr is back to being my journal #which means i’m gonna get like. at least 3x more annoying with my posting.#anyway i’m also thinking about Women but like. what’s new right?#also it’s Pride Month if there was ever a time to be gay over women it is NOW #someone’s gonna have to talk me out of dating apps again soon #(i hate dating apps and i don’t even want to date)#(but like maybe there are other cool queer people who wanna have queer movie nights and be casually gay together)#(you never know unless you try!)#anyway i’m not gonna be embarrassed for those tags bc if you’ve read this far that’s on you #personal

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