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sandinmybed · 11 months
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can i be fr for a minute?? sending abuse to people online for holding different views than you is not activism and in fact actively hurts your cause. most people are not extreme in their viewpoints, you can give them a new perspective if you're willing to spend some time explaining shit. if someone is saying something you disagree with and you rush in there to condescend to them and call them disgusting and subhuman and dont even TRY to explain calmly why their views are harmful, they're going to shut you out instantly and double down on their views.
most people are simply genuinely ignorant to the issues they're talking about - they just pick their views up from the news and the world around them and express opinions because that's what every person does. if you run in there and tell them they're scum for it, what then? if someone does that to you, are you going to think "maybe i should do some research" or are you going to think "this person is an asshole, im blocking them." a lot of you think you're activists and then refuse to do any kind of actual WORK to support your cause.
#this is not about the isr*el thing even tho thats obviously a huge issue rn#its just a pattern ive observed online#im not saying you have to be kind to people who oppress you dont twist my words#but if youre trying to support any cause and you think calling people names is going to help#youre a fucking idiot lol#people call themelves activists and pro-X cause because they called their opposition dirty c*nts online#how the hell is that meant to help anyone? theyre just going to retreat into their propaganda chambers because you proved what the leaders#of those spaces have been telling them#you can obvs block people if you dont want to deal w them but thats a neutral action. sending abuse harms ur cause.#text#like educating ignorant people is hard work! yeah! its also the entire fucking point of activisim#and if you think its too much effort then just stop pretending you give a shit tbh#like my parents managed to change our neighbour's very xenophobic stance on migrants with a calm conversation#some people will listen and some wont and shes not exactly going out to protests for migrants rights but shes not hostile anymore#and a lot of yall think that isnt good enough but let me tell you it IS good because these things take time!#unlearning things is MUCH harder than learning them in the first place and a lot of people grew up in environments that taught them#very discriminatory and conservative views and its actually not their fault. and its hard to educate yourself differently on something you#have no idea is not true. where do you start w that?
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doinggreat · 1 year
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autisticlee · 5 months
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you know what, it's autism acceptance month. that means all the cool, nice, outgoing, fun people should adopt an autistic person (me) as a friend and show them what it's like to have cool and fun friends! most of us struggle with that and don't know what that's like, so in the spirit of acceptance, please accept us into your friend groups :D
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utenaposter · 1 year
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hello tumblr mutuals and friends i am asking for help once again!
i have an amazon(ew) wishlist for things i need for myself/for the upcoming school year.. also a few random fun things i want but those arent as important as like the wrist brace or hard drive so if anyone could help out id be really helpful!!
if u send proof of the order in my dms itll be like a commission payment so u cna ask me to draw anything you may want! reblogging also helps a bunch ofc <3 thank u!
also here's my carrd if you just want to order a commission/see what else i do!
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5-pp-man · 1 year
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No. You guys don't get it. Yosukan is about them wanting to earn each other's respect, its about overcoming internalised homophobia together, it's about having each other's back and helping each other out and
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notblue-bandit · 5 months
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the autism experience is constantly pissing people off without meaning to and people getting offended when you try to figure out what you did wrong
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garciapimienta · 3 months
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people who call memphis 'depay' intentionally annoy me so much
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wr0ngwarp · 2 years
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spending every moment in a fever just to go around again o’ the joy! "it's all the same," you say "there's always another day."
self-indulgent brainweird jet set radio yoyo and nt-3000 art with lyrics from Bass Cannon by Vylet Pony..... i see a silly guy i blast him with the fucking mental illness laser
designs are based on my sibling @virtuaquarium3d's headcanon/au designs :3 (...at the time of writing this though, those arent posted so dont bother looking on that blog for them LOL)
Yeah sorry i made the sillyguy and his evil robot doppelganger start dissociating. They keep forgetting which one is the real one and which one is the fake one. Yeah theyre both too emotionally insincere and caught up in layers of lies and self-irony to acknowledge that there's a problem. Yeah thats how they got to this point in the first place. Sorry 👍
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ratmans-notebooks · 7 months
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does my adhd diagnosis mean nothing to her ?
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sungbeam · 11 months
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can't tell if im just tired from this week or if im tired of this fic T-T pls pass on the strength to finish this
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hikari-saito · 8 months
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I’m convinced that Lan has the ability to simply manifest ramps. (NT Warrior Axess) iykyk
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Luka looks so petite when he plays for Croatia.
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deadsh33p · 2 years
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The SCP fandom hates me (I ship anomalies)
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silverislander · 2 years
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honestly i worry a Lot about whether i'm really neurodivergent or not and what that means/what i'm "allowed to do/think/feel" because of it but one of the best things that's changed for me is probably just letting myself do motions to burn off energy/regulate emotions. i used to walk around on tiptoe as a kid until my parents sat me down and quite literally went "you know autistic children do that (do you want people to think you're autistic)", and when i got really excited they used to point out that me bouncing was shaking the tv cabinets (it fucking. wasn't. i barely broke 100 pounds until i was 12 i was a tiny kid. also who gives a shit)
so this naturally led to me suppressing all of it REALLY hard, like when i got really excited by the time i was a teenager i would freeze up and basically lock my shoulders/sit on my hands or make fists so i wouldn't move and look weird. i didn't even realize that that wasn't normal or that it made me feel way worse, that's how normal it was for me at that point
and now i'm an adult learning that it's ok to do and my GOD it feels so much better... like i've started doing the bouncing thing again just as more of an idle standing around thing and it genuinely does calm me down/makes me feel happier. a lot of the time engaging w hyperfixations/seeing a picture of a favourite character means hand flaps and rubbing the shaved part of my hair and it's just!! this feels great!! why did i have to stop that! it's so much better and makes going about my day happier and easier, idk. whatever it counts as it's not super neurotypical i guess but idc lol i'm just happy about it
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playingonedchess · 2 months
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characters: lets live together
people on tumblr: this of course means theyre canonically having sex, no what are you talking about i dont do headcanons my blog is all stuff based on canon
#yes i could very well just bloody forget about it and move on but i dont feel like it#it was a post i saw ages ago one of those random things that comes back to irritate you#oh look 3:36 and i still havent started that bloody essay#i mean all im doing is vauging which is perfectly find im not bothering the person who posted it or anything#like i was but im not now cause i made a fake apology then felt bad about nit sticking with it when i got a reply#wtf#i mean i do think im better off not doing that now cause it was sort of rubbish#now if i just completely forgot about all of this and went and got an actual life how much better#it wasnt about this specific thing btw just like general boredom and stuff obviously im not sending hate over something this petty#i mean it actually started with a reply to an anon ask i sent where i made an effort to be polite even though i already found those opinion#really annoying and thr reply was slightly rude so i was ruder back and then sent an even ruder one#then a couple of months later i was bored and for some reason i really dont know decided the best entertainment was sending random asks the#anyway another update its 3:43 and i still havent started that essay#not doing it the first time is why ive got to redo it#i applied for am extension cause i had 2 same day and i couldnt make myselflike i lyed and said mental health issues only dont actually kno#if i really was lying and just lazy or if i actually had mental health issues then during thd extension i got really bad toothache and coul#nt do anything not even sleep and it lasted for almost two days and i did one but i was too lazy and tired i couldnt eveb be bothered to#apply for special consideration even though i wouldve got it cause it meant getting a doctors note and its so much effort abd the waiting#lists are fucking ridiculous and i might not have got it and when i called about the toothache they said fuck off and see a dentist which#you have to pay for and also probably has a waiting list so i was just like fuck off ill just redo it even though it fucks some score or#other up i dont remember what it all means i better not bloody lose any money over this fucking hell#and my batterys only 4% now#i should get an award for how off topic can you get on a tumblr post#also how boring#and how much i repreat stuff
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theood · 3 months
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One of the other things that stopped me from perusing college was that by the end of my schooling I felt so very stupid and that I was lacking core skills and I'd flunk out of college. Which I couldn't necessarily do in highschool
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