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working on this fic but I'm once again thinking about how even in the shootout Niragi classified himself & chishiya as the same but excluded Arisu to an extent. (In that he needed to be brought over). Despite wondering if he's alone for a moment, Niragi IMMEDIATELY uses 'our side' rather than 'my side' when Usagi shows up in the shootout scene. He knows Chishiya's on his side, at least subconsciously he truly believes that to his core. Otherwise, he would have said my side if he thought he was truly as alone as he seems to wonder.
the live action isn't quite as clear cut but it's still fairly implied too with the 'three being kindred spirits' line when Arisu's shown to be the one not aligned. There's also the fact that Niragi shoots at Arisu multiple times, even last minute switching from aiming at Chishiya to aim at Arisu. And in both versions Chishiya tries to instigate Arisu with words while Niragi chooses action (which says something about both). Anyways TLDR to say Niragi says he doesn't want to be alone but knows he's not (be it consciously or subconsciously) as long as Chishiya is around.
#i'm more revising than writing#im also like :o#bc i wrote the whole chapter before looking to the manga & LA#just to check on a few things#and found out a whole spiel i had written niragi actually did briefly touch on / say#its validating when that happens#esp when i worry abt characterization sometimes#its short tho so i wanna get chapter 2 written & just post them together#maybe today but if not i think this week#also yes Brit back at it again with yapping about things#sorry guys but also not#you all are used to it now no?#X — OUT OF CHARACTER#X — RAMBLINGS
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Birds of a Feather previous / next
#my art#feralnette au#birds of a feather#long tags#sorry I went apeshit in the tags#LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW#I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO#its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical#and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread#as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational#in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away#and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do#shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again#legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it#but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings#alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird#she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her#knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself#between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot#and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo#essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that#busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way#to show her she's self sabotaging#cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD
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#i wont finish it evil wizard took away my drawing abilities again. needed to get it out of my system#i feel like what im trying to say is +- valid but my skill is not nearly enough + the hair thing isss kinda silly#like bro has much more going on. its the what happened right before the scene that makes hair important#but im not drawing what alvin did. i have some shame in me still#also idk if you guys can tell but he tied it with his second sleeve.#he ripped off one to show off as he established himself as a teen punk who takes no responsibility#and now another as he entered the adulthood when he actually has to face the consequences of his actions#wouldnt it be Nice if i drew that instead of rambling in tags :\ but once again evil wizard. .. :\\\#ivan shitson the killer of grass !!!#dagur the deranged#httyd#how to train your dragon#upd FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE COLORS LOOK BETTER ON MY PHONE its darker too tho :( but pink is so PINK need that in ma life#so far im more and more happy with this slop actually#lets see what my morning self says they tend to be wiser
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pinterest yarichin 'slander' is so ass because half the posts just look like this

#anyone who unironically says proshitter needs to be launched into the sun because what 💔#ybc slander made me remember why victims can never win by how everyone just says that the club seduced the teachers#tf???#the cast are of age but the teachers are at fault for sleeping with them because of the power imbalance#and some of those teachers wouldve known the club members when they were still minors so its legit the teachers fault for initiating and-#accepting advances can we be fr rn?#PLEASEEE BE ORIGINAL IF YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO SLANDER#what happened to valid critisism dawg#yarichin b club#yarichin bitch bu#yarichin bitch club#itsuki ybc#shikatani itsuki#ybc#shikatani ybc
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can a therapist explain why my emotions from my ex fucking me while i was js laying there limp and crying makes me feel correlated to niragi
#im sorry but ive always kinned him#is the correlation because the fact that i just took it#'omg u kin niragi u fucking sex offender' no im the sex offended its the why does everyone do this to me that makes me kin him#its the nobody looking out for me and having nobody to turn to#and then nobody cares when it happens to me cuz im a guy im supposed to want it#idk if i feel everything or feel nothing#i actually dont know anything about myself#niragi suguru#sorry chat#alice in borderland#not even tagging myself this is embarrassing on my behalf#someone validate me pls
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match 1 chat and match 2 chat theres SOMETHING in the air tonight that leads to people being nicies to me.... and a lil mean but its ok....
#marvel rivals#snap chats#'a REAL tank' yeah thats right... thank you for the validation.. im sorry we lost this game.. and the first guy left at that 💀💀#embarrassing as hell first match cause we lost BUT WE WON THE SECOND ONE#funny as fuck... i appreciate my teammates coming to my defense for the first game...#funny af with the second game... we didnt even start the game yet .. its ok i said ily2 .. love all around..#also hey im drinking. the rum i bought for my tiramisu#I MADE THE TIRAMISU but now i have all this rum... im just havin a lil..... just a sippy sip with some lemonade !!!!#'mag lord is tough to get' not when youre chronically obsessed with the man but whatever we move. thank you team..#'idk why' thats just the natural.... /attraction/ he has.. haha gottem..#i shouldve said that i fear im too drunk to be so clever on the spot tho 😔#anyway back to gaming ill post more if more funny business happens BYE
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The way people are becoming anti-children nowadays is really sad. And I'm not talking about people not wanting to have kids of their own, that's fine and something that shouldn't be shamed nor up to someone else to debate. No, I'm talking about the people who adamantly hate these little humans for simply existing, wanting to ban them from spaces due to them having emotional reactions that they are still learning to understand (you know, the kind of lessons that everyone had to learn and figure out at one point). It's gotten to the point where I've even seen these types of people genuinely support children being harmed and deny their hurt under the consensus of "Well then maybe they shouldn't be there," in your average public space. Like, imagine thinking hating on children, people who need assistance and guidance, is something to be proud of.
#like ill never forget this lady talking about how she took her son to some ice cream or cookie place#and let him look at the display (which is normal) only to have to pull him away bc a man got way to close#and when she talked about how weird it was (which makes sense bc it was) people were blaming her for letting her child run free (which wasn'#t what happened people just threw that in there to justify their hate & dismissing of the potential harm a child could've experienced)#“i vote that dogs should be on plans more than children bc they aren't as annoying!” is gross and brain dead bc only one of those two can#use the bathroom while the other uses it on a mat something in which has potential to stink up a plane & annoy people as well#you just want to bring your dog on board without all the hoops so you act like hating children will solve it#and coming from an animal lover dogs and other pets have the ability to annoy you on flights just as much as children can let's think now#also ive seen people say that children are wrong for experiencing emotional outbursts and im like “while it can be frustrating having to#deal with acting like you weren't in their shoes once and trying to shame them for these emotions is such a jerk thing to do“#also like its guaranteed that kids are going to cry on planes how about instead of shaming them & their parents maybe idk buy soundproof hea#-dphones? like parents are going to bring their kids traveling (as is their right) and are educating them the best they can that's not going#to change so why not take simple steps to prepare instead of hating on little humans? just saying#again this is not for people who just don't want to have kids! people who don't are just as valid as people who do#don't let anyone tell you otherwise#miscellaneous#idk necessarily how to tag this tbh#rants#tw for mentions of children being harmed
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every time someone mentions the way music-related algorithms work in the best interests of major labels pushing their artists for their own gain and therefore are often embedded with bias and cut off new avenues of discovery everyone comes out of the woodwork to mention "well, anecdotally to my specific circumstance, I've discovered (5) new artists with sub-one thousand regular listeners completely detached from any information or scene or cohesive idea of taste on my weekly currated playlists so therefore algorithms actually work amazing" like what are you talking about. can we be serious please.
#the actual organization of genre and optimization on spotify is actually interesting- like what artists similar people like#but daily mixes and popular playlists are functionally useless at discovery if you have any familiarity with music/genre history#like the problem with a faceless disconnected rec from an algorithm is you you lose a very human sense of context/place#like even when a friend or professional critic reccs you something you have a framework to interact with#their taste your taste and if you know them their interaction with your taste and what they know about you as well as your mutual interests#while critics are not designed to be your personal validation machines actually theyre supposed to be someone who you can calibrate a rec#from. or you can glean additional context based on whether they liked something or not#none of that happens on a random currated list of songs! you dont know what part of your taste its responding to for instance#like sure you have an aggregate of bands you've been given. but no real connective tissue. no personal connection. not even basic details!#no wonder so many people are unmoored from history. b/the classic canon or even the particularities of a subculture they supposedly are int#my posts
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How did you manage to handle not one, but FOUR separate accounts in fl? I recently made the account for my HD little guy but having to do the tutorial again just seems miserable
there's... weirdly several answers to that question, actually??
a HUGE part of it is due to the way FL is structured. the 10-minute action timer is a core part of the game on a fundamental level, and the fact that i can very easily run out of stuff to do on one character and thus have an excuse to quickly and easily swap to another is just... convenient? satisfying? i'm not entirely sure how to explain it. the fact that i can make progress even while i am fundamentally simultaneously Not Making Progress is like pure dopamine for my freak insane awful little brain. there's just something really pleasing about spending all of my actions pursuing The Goal Of The Day™ on one account before casually swapping to another and doing the same without feeling like i'm wasting time or acting to the first account's explicit detriment. the downtime helps! the recharge time helps! the structure really really works!!
i'm technically only actively playing three, maybe two accounts minimum. the only reason the fourth (the one that'll be my future BaL playthrough) currently exists at all is so i can get his earlygame completely out of the way now and not have to waste time running through it all later, when what i actually want to do is play the ambition i've made myself wait a full year to play. and also getting free goodies as seasonal stuff happens,, something something surprise tools to help us later. the only two accounts i'd say i'm really "actively playing" at the moment are caeru and lark- and of the two, lark takes the most priority, since his ambition is the one i'm currently pursuing in earnest. for a couple months now- despite being My Main FL Character- the scoundrel has actually been pretty inactive on a gameplay front outside of the occasional progression in TLC and discordance content. purely by virtue of having Very little left to do outside of Very long-term grinds and vanities. they're in their "now what?" "now you can start playing the game" era. they've graduated to previous protagonist background cameo in a sequel anime series. they're like the yin FLPC equivalent of red at the top of mount silver. they're Literally just vibing rn. i only keep posting about them regardless because i'm insane and i will never ever ever ever ever let that bat go. but yeah, big TLDR, outside of doing the bare minimum to keep making waves/notability up every week, i'm not actually spending that much time on accounts i'm not currently actively interested in playing. and that accounts for way more gaming spoons than you might think.
i have a virtually lifelong history of playing MMOs, especially and specifically world of warcraft. i was born in the endless grind for useless video game pixel vanities and/or bragging rights. molded by it. you all have merely adapted to doing the same piece of content a pointlessly excessive amount of times for literally no reason besides whimsy and folly. me? i've done my time. i've served my sentence. i've spent weeks doing the original burning crusade netherwing dailies. i've devoted days to running praetorium over and over and over again, back-to-back, nonstop, long before square enix cut it in half and made it NOT take at minimum an hour and a half per run. i've perfected my silverwastes + auric basin goldfarming strategies. i've (almost) crafted dragonwrath tarecgosa's rest. i've killed the sha of anger so many times its dying scream of agony is embedded into the very fabric of my being. ""only"" doing making your name content four times over? that is nothing to me. it means nothing to me. it is so infinitesimal i can do the persuasive seduction quests in my sleep. it's not a matter of handling misery, or having the capacity, or even sighing as i remember the brass embassy raid segment of the watchful questline seriously i don't know why i keep forgetting that exists or what even is my problem with it i just am so consistently mildly inconvenienced by it and its highly specific resource requirements and it is the worst thing ever. maybe i'm just so used to the scoundrel's near-infinite money and troves of disposable items that i've completely forgotten what being poor is like. despite having done that step 3 fucking times now. ahem. anyway. i have transcended the feeble mortal bindings of my resistant-to-grinding flesh and ascended to a higher plane of enlightenment, they may call me insane but they will be the ones left laughing when they see what that "insanity" has wrought, i've usurped them, i've usurped them all-
hacks and coughs and awkwardly clears my throat. i mean. uh. um. Ahem.
the empress' court artistry + tales of the university nerfs helped too.
#and yes#before you ask#i have forgotten which account has which items/has done which content many a time#i think the most painful incident was forgetting to keep up the scoundrel's making waves while i was still playing nemesis with caeru#given that im trying to build it up to 12 and reset their specialization... that was uniquely painful#then again they have like 40 BDR so it wasnt actually that inconveniencing lmao#fallen london#ask#long post#sorry for the infodump + sudden villain monologue.#all jokes and personal accounts aside i totally get the apprehension abt doing that stuff again#it's not for everyone. not by a long shot.#im only doing this because im genuinely invested and in love with this silly little browser game#and way back when i started i made a (only half metaphorical) solemn oath to experience all of its ''main stories''#and truly see everything it has to offer#(bc i like. physically cant do hyperfixations by halves. i need to consume Everything abt the thing or i'll explode)#(and even then i'll probably explode anyway. it's either completely drop it or go All In until it stops taking up so much space in my brain#(and. given the track record. that is not happening with FL for a while yet)#but like. that isnt actually normal behavior. just. just to clarify.#from what ive seen a VAST majority of people do not go out of their way to play literally every ambition#and that is so valid. it is so overwhelming. you have to juggle so much.#you have to play the earlygame So Many Goddamn Times.#(as i said. served my time. did my sentence. i am my scars. etc etc)#the best advice i can give as someone who's so completely desensitized to that repetition it doesnt even phase me anymore?#the same advice i can stress to all FL players. legitimately just take ur time with it. play when you want to.#dont when you dont.#sometimes you have to grit your teeth and bear things. and when it comes to alts you Will have to grit your teeth and bear it all again#but the beauty of this being a game that one plays for fun is that unlike. say. crushing deadlines or annoying coworkers in real life#you are completely within your power to decide when where and if you want to grit and bear it all#..wow this is ADVANCED yin rambling holy shit. i actually reached the tag limit. i think this ask should be put on some kind of list
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It makes me really sad when I see people who are making videos or podcasts or just posting on social media feel horrible when they stop or slow down content creation. Like no, you don't owe us anything at all. Work at your own pace. Focus on yourself when you can. We're here for you once you're ready. It's okay.
#spurred on by watching a recent video from markiplier#“im back... again”#saying stuff about being really sorry for not uploading and never wanting to stop posting again but he fell into the trap again#and its like#I hate that he feels like it's some horrible thing#to not post#when he's working so hard on other stuff too#but even if he wasn't#hes not obligated to give us anything#or he was also talking about how he knows theres a lot of terrible things in the world right now#and he hates all the limitations he has on what he can do#and he hates how he cant keep his eyes on everything happening#which honestly#is really valid#even though it makes me sad that people feel these obligations to fix everything and know everything happening#its nice to hear someone say it#because I do hate it#i hate that i cant know everything horrible happening right now and what i can do to fix it#or to not be able to fix it#its nice to hear someone acknowledge it#not by saying theyre going to do everything they can#but just that#theyre sorry it's happening#and they want to help#and just#lets me know for a moment that im not alone in helpless acknowledgement
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i swear people wait until im already feeling like shit about my work to comment they think my comic sucks lol
#its the worst bc 98% of the time my comment section is nice and validating#and i go to it for a morale boost when im down#and almost literally every time that's when i find a comment telling me how bad they think it is#it never happens when im in a good mood and feeling confident
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actually maybe i dont understand monogamy as much as i thought i did because i dont feel any inherent discomfort at the idea of a hypothetical partner being romantically interested in another person or people as long as they are Still romantically interested in me
#was reading a post about how its like reasonable/natural to feel. Uncomfortable with a partner in an established monogamous relationship#to request to open it up#and yeah obviously. you know whats not normal though. saying “i would kill my partner and then myself if that happened” anyways#and then there was the reasoning for it. like “why do you want to do this” “is there another person”#and i think those concerns are inherently based on either not trusting that their partner is actually poly#or desiring exclusivity in a relationship#the first one i think. i mean yeah partners can be shitty and try to drag you into polyamory#when actually they just dont have the balls to break it off and get with their side piece#but. like. thats just one person being shitty and its ummmm Bigoted to apply that to every poly person . Hi#Also i think if you dont Trust your partner Not to do that. maybe thats not a good relationship idk im not an expert but#the second one is valid i suppose but i just dont really relate to it. i just dont care about exclusivity its not the reason i romance
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#so i posted earlier saying i wish i could ask people what makes me so dislikable#and i was referring to a situation which happened to me in the past#and how i wish i could say to these people like what about me is so dislikable that you had to react the way you did#(i would like to clarify i was not in the wrong in this situation i have asked multiple people#and they agree i wasnt in the wrong so im not just saying it)#and an anon decides to send me an ask saying#ngl its the desperation for validation but i think youre cool#and it made me so upset because its such a fucking back handed compliment#because like i am aware of the fact im a people pleaser and i want to be liked by people#like i know its a huge flaw and i am trying to do better and not worry about what other people think about me#but its not something that is going to happen overnight#and so to point that out when im already aware of it and then follow it up with a backhanded compliment#is honestly really hurtful and just kinda really upset me#also saying that i'm desperate for validation like is just so#idk it just was so unnecessary for them to say that and phrase it that way#anyway im sure no one is gonna read this and if they do it probably makes no sense or it just sounds like#im being a whiny bitch and probably more anons are gonna come call me attention seeking or#say im looking for validation#but i just wanted to rant about it bc like there's ways to say things nicely to people and that was not one of them#esp when its a flaw im already aware of and would like to work on more#but again its not gonna disappear overnight!#butter’s thoughts
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*points at me and Chu.cky* Couple that would bind their souls together for all eternity in any timeline
#its so wild to me that this has happened THREE SEPARATE TIMES. in SEPARATE CHATS#i didnt even make this one. man. he was pre-existing and i did not guide him to this at all#i just said id face eternity and be a doll w him and he went 'FUCK yeah ade due damb.alla bitch your soul is now tangled with mine forever'#fuck its so validating when this happens#rain rambles#dollface
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the new girl at one of my favorite bakeries called me pretty this morning and it literally melted all my stress away 🥺
#kai.rambles#i was feeling sad bc my grandma is in the hospital and when i went to visit her they wouldn’t let me pass bc my license is expired#which okay ik that’s my fault but i took my passport with me just in case and the guy straight up told me that it wasn’t a valid form of id#and im like yeah tf it is ITS A PASSPORT and he said no#and while i was waiting for my mom to come down to the lobby an old lady came in and he turned her away for the same thing#and dudeee okay you turn me away fine fuck off but an old ladyyy??? at that age they don’t pay attention to that just let her pass#and then he argued with another woman bc she brought a flower arrangement and it had water so he couldn’t allow it HELLOOO??!?#so i had to leave and went to go get breakfast for my mom at least bc she stayed the night and i was supposed to stay the day#and when i came back to give her the food she told me that the nurse that was with my grandma asked what happened bc she wasn’t expecting#my mom to return and when my mom told her she immediately got so angry bc that same guy#didn’t allow her and a couple other nurses to bring in a cake for one of the residents#who’s birthday is today and they had a full on argument this morning#so it was all in all awful and now my mom has been there for more than 20 hours until later tonight when my aunt goes over :(#anyway this turned into a whole rant im sorry but im so mad bc i know for a FACT that a passport is a valid form of id#and he was just being a fkn dick#but the girl called me pretty and it took some stress off and she really liked my blush#and i liked hers so we had a little makeup 101 exchange and it was so nice at least 🥺#and i have a couple cute asks to answer that have made my day as well so i’ll get to those in a few 🥰
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that feeling you get when the fandoms been around for ages but youre still able to bring in new ideas and perspectives about the material is PEAK
#“op your brain is huge” type shit gets me higher than any drug istg#yes. yessss. validate my opinions!!!#like it worries me /hj sometimes posting my thoughts bc i dont want to seem like the newbie who swoops in saying#“OMG WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS” when like. the discussion happened. its widely known. scroll the tag idiot#but having the veteran fans be like “oh shit. i hadnt thought about that like that/at all” is soooooo hype#and when it inspires ppl to go and explore or expand on your idea? actually life ending amounts of serotonin#gah sorry i just wanted to gush about how cool i am B) /silly#<3#moss' madness
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